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if you want to experience life more deeply you have to find more beauty. stop training yourself to dismiss, to mock, to assume the worst all the time — when you do this you build walls between yourself and the world. and after a while you stop feeling the warmth of it entirely.
beauty requires openness. it asks you to let things reach you, to soften enough to be moved. it’s not naive to see beauty everywhere—it’s a skill, a form of intelligence, a kind of quiet bravery. because it is so much easier to critique than to create, to detach than to engage, to dismiss than to love.
let yourself be affected. let yourself find things beautiful and let that be enough. life is not asking you to be cool, sitting on the sidelines and nitpicking everything. it’s asking you to see life and experience it fully.
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ʜᴏᴡ ᴛᴏ ɢᴇᴛ ɪɴᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜʀ ꜰᴇᴍɪɴɪɴᴇ ᴇɴᴇʀɢʏ
Embracing your feminine energy involves connecting with qualities such as intuition, creativity, empathy, and receptivity.
Engage in Creative Activities: Paint, dance, write, or craft are creative endeavors that foster self-expression and connect you to your creative essence.
Practice Self-Reflection: Dedicate time to introspection through journaling or meditation. This helps you stay grounded and in tune with your inner self.
Connect with Nature: Spend time outdoors, appreciating the beauty of the natural world. Walking in the park or sitting by a body of water can enhance your sense of peace and receptivity. citeturn0search3
Embrace Stillness and Rest: Allow yourself periods of rest and relaxation. Embracing stillness enables you to receive insights and rejuvenate your mind and body.
Cultivate Receptivity: Practice being open to receiving—whether it's help, compliments, or opportunities. This openness nurtures your feminine energy by balancing the act of giving and receiving.
Nurture Relationships: Invest time in building and maintaining meaningful connections. Engaging in deep, empathetic conversations fosters emotional intimacy and aligns with feminine qualities.
Honor Your Emotions: Acknowledge and embrace your feelings without judgment. Allowing yourself to experience a full range of emotions enhances emotional intelligence and authenticity.
Let them treat you like the princess you are <3


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⎯⎯⎯ The New Me 2k25 project 🌸 ⎯⎯⎯



✮ Incorporating more healthy whole foods as part of your diet - less added sugar/oil, healthy food swaps!!
✮ No food restrictions, just mindfulness and enjoying life through your plate!
✮ Hitting a protein goal daily
✮ Playing a sport weekly!
✮ Working out/running 3-4 times per week, but always remember to take rest days too!!
✮ Drinking 2 liters of water daily
✮ In bed by 10 PM, up at 6:30 AM
✮ Doing AM and PM skincare every day
✮ Getting homework done the day it is assigned
✮ Studying and practicing at least 1 hour a day
✮ Max. 2 hours screen time
✮ Less and less toxic social media in my life (please uninstall the apps that are bad for you.)
✮ Reading at least 50 pages per day
✮ Learning a chosen language every day
✮ Spending time with yourself, taking care of your body and mind and spoiling yourself often. If you don't treat yourself right, then who will?
✮ Taking it easy. You're not working against yourself, but with yourself. I am confident and positive that the physical and mental improvements will appear in no time, and that I am growing into a better person every day. I am glowing up!!



#becoming that girl#soft life#that girl aesthetic#it girl aesthetic#self improvement#self development#self care#pink pilates princess#pilates princess#green juice girl#healthy girl#healthylifestyle#healthyliving#healthy food#healthy eating#health and wellness#health & fitness#wellnessjourney#wellness girl#dream girl journey#dream girl#girlblogging#glow up#clean girl aesthetic#clean eating#clean girl#cleancore#pink aesthetic#becoming her#beauty
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#desiredivine#becoming that girl#it girl#that girl#dream girl#dream life#soft life#self care#self love#self development#girl blogger#self improvement#soft girl aesthetic#green juice girl#becoming her#it girl aesthetic
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HIGH CLASS BABE
#black femininity#feminine#high maintenance#femininity moodboard#black women in luxury#hypergamy#hypergamous#level up#self development#moodboard#self care#black women in leisure#black girl luxury#high value woman#bougie#levelling up#black women in femininity#black girls in luxury#moodboard aesthetic#black girl moodboard#luxury moodboard#hypergamous woman#hypergamous lifestyle#classy black women#soft life#dream girl#dream body#dream girl journey#spoiled girlfriend#spoiled gf
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#q/a#leveling up#that girl#level up#self care#level up journey#personal development#femininity#hypergamy#leveling up journey#healthy lifestyle#luxury living#luxury#soft girl#girl blogger#girl blogging#girl blog#it girl#girl thoughts#vanilla girl#dream girl#rich life#rich girl#glow up journey#glow up tips#glow up#leveling up tips#level up tips#femininity tips
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#self care#self love#healthy girl#green tea girl#wonyoungism#that girl#it girl#wellness girl#health and wellness#green juice girl#pink pilates princess#level up#glow up#best self#self development#healthy eating#healthy living#lucky girl syndrome#healthy lifestyle#soft girl#vanilla girl#dream girl#clean girl#matcha girl#glow growth girlboss#pinterest girl
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April : your chance to rise even higher.
April is the month to prove to yourself how strong, capable, and unstoppable you are. Every day is a new opportunity to learn, grow, and move closer to your goals.


#bloomdiary#becoming that girl#glow up#wonyoungism#wonyoung#dream life#it girl#creator of my reality#divine feminine#it girl affirmations#love affirmations#that girl#girl blogging#girl blogger#soft pink#self growth#self improvement#confidence#i attract#study blog#clean girl#self love#self development#self confidence#skincare#self healing#healing#mental health#happy new year
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Stop letting other people tell you who you are.
#personal improvement#personal growth#personal development#successquotes#successtips#self love#self care#hypergamy#svdaily#wealthy lifestyle#text post#black tumblr#healing#recovery#soft life#soft black women#black femininity#soft girl
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when everything is confusing, and then u see a familiar face
#vanishing skyward the experience#love and deepspace#love and deepspace fanart#lads zayne#lads fanart#love and deepspace zayne#lads#fanart#lads mc#love and deepspace mc#when everyone seems deceitful u can always believe in zayne#tbh i have been having so much fun with how funny conversation with rafayel is#and i am in awe with how soft recent xavier 5 star cards are; even tho i didn't manage to pull all of them#the birthday; the traditional clothing; the piano#man the developer really loves xavier#with how different zayne eng voice now; i kinda lost my feelings for him#but i started to swap him to his chinese voice; i can finally listen to how soft his voice can be; and i feel for him again#he can be dull sometimes but he always feels like home#tho i can't tell if i feel like he is dull bcs of his changing voice or literally the scenario#bcs i love to savour his old voice so slowly; it is just so calming; all the domestic things feel heavenly with him#i see that actually the recent Stacked Pulses 4 star card is voiced by his old eng va; and other 4 star card like Doomsday is also him#the staff does keep him; somewhat ; ~ ;#but i wish he would just consistently voiced every event; every 5 stars cards; and every main story event
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#black femininity#black luxury#soft life#luxury#luxury lifestyle#luxury woman#hypergamy#feminine#feminine energy#divine feminine#rich life#rich aesthetic#level up#level up journey#levelling up#glow up#dream girl journey#dream girl#it girl#self care#self development#self love#self improvement#moodboard#aesthetic#that girl
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life becomes a lot more pleasurable when you realise there are seasons for hard work and there are seasons for rest. that you ought to push yourself a little sometimes, to stretch you beyond your limits, but that you’re also allowed to come back home to yourself, to reflect and recharge. it’s never all or nothing. push and pull, push and pull. it can be gentle and calm and satisfying, you just have to let it be so.
#personal excellence#it girl#it girl energy#that girl#becoming that girl#self improvement#self worth#self care#glow up#level up#self development#lucky girl syndrome#high value mindset#vanilla girl#glow up journey#girl diary#dream girl#soft life
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ʜᴏᴡ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ ᴄᴏɴꜰɪᴅᴇɴᴛ ᴘᴛ. 𝟤
1. Upgrade Your Self-Talk
Be Your Own Hype Person – Talk to yourself like you would a friend.
Challenge Negative Thoughts – Ask: Is this really true, or just fear talking?
Use Affirmations – Say things like "I am capable," "I deserve success."
2. Look & Feel Your Best
Dress for Success – Wear clothes that make you feel good.
Grooming Matters – A fresh haircut, skincare, or just standing tall makes a difference.
Exercise & Stay Healthy – Movement boosts energy and self-esteem.
3. Step Into the Spotlight
Speak Up More – In conversations, meetings, or even small social settings.
Take on Challenges – Volunteer for tasks that push you a little.
Learn to Handle Criticism – Take feedback as a way to improve, not as an attack.
4. Master a Skill
Be Really Good at Something – Whether it’s a hobby, work skill, or sport, excelling in one area boosts confidence in others.
Keep Learning – Confidence grows when you feel capable.
5. Visualize Success
Imagine Yourself Winning – Before an event, picture yourself doing great.
Use Positive Memories – Recall past successes to remind yourself of what you're capable of.
6. Keep Showing Up
Confidence Comes with Experience – The more you do, the better you feel.
Don’t Fear Failure – Every confident person has failed a lot. They just kept going.
Stay Patient & Consistent – Change takes time, but small steps lead to huge progress.
Drink water now <3


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#clean girl#pink pilates princess#self development#glow up#soft life#do it for yourself#that girl#self improvement#it girl#becoming that girl#self confidence#confidence#selflove#love yourself#selfworth#authenticity
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It takes 1 month to form a habit
2 months until you to feel it
3 months until you see the results
4 months until everybody sees it
Stop putting it off and start now!
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#divine feminine#black girl luxury#soft black girls#nyc it girl#self development#soft life#feminine energy#level up#girly blog#it girl
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It's never too late to re-invent yourself.



What does reinventing yourself mean?
Reinventing simply means identifying patterns, values, or activities that no longer serve you and changing them for better options. It can involve external characteristics, like job, hobbies, appearance, relationships, and location. True reinvention also happens inside, in how you think and behave. It will be different for everybody, which is what makes it so powerful.
Reasons to reinvent yourself
There are many reasons why you might find yourself craving self-reinvention. Ultimately, it’s a sign that you are seeking change in some area of your life. Here are some possible reasons why it could be time for you to start reinventing yourself.
You’re stuck in a rut. Being stuck means you feel like you’ve stagnated in some way. This feeling of languish could be because of a static relationship, tiresome job, or lack of general inspiration.
You’re seeking fulfillment out of life. Wanting to reinvent yourself could come from your desire for personal fulfillment and deeper meaning and purpose in your activities and how you spend your time. This need for self-improvement tends to happen when we acknowledge how much time we’ve wasted on things that don’t bring us joy or meaning.
You need a change. There doesn’t always have to be an exact reason why you crave self-reinvention. It could be that it is simply time for a seasonal shift to occur in your life. From a new haircut to breaking up with your toxic partner, change is a natural thing to desire.
5 steps for reinventing yourself
1. Start with self-understanding and self-awareness
One of the first steps you can take towards reinventing yourself is self-awareness. This means actively assessing your situation and what you would like to achieve. Contemplate your current position in life and what brought you to where you are now. Think about what you’d like to achieve in the next five years and where you would like to be in the future.
2. Define your core values
One really useful practice is defining your core values. It will be much easier to make positive changes if you know exactly what they look like and why you want them. Use these core values to create a personal vision statement that will orient you toward how you want to reinvent yourself.
3. Ask yourself what you want to change
Everybody wants something that they do not have. But chasing after what you don’t have is only worth it if you’ve deeply considered what it is you really want and why. Take a moment to yourself and ponder what is missing from your life. Where/who do you want to be, and what constructive changes can you make?
4.Be honest with yourself
Being honest with yourself can force you to deal with some hard truths that are uncomfortable to acknowledge. This makes it all the more important. Lying to yourself will only hold you back from personal development.
5. Surround yourself with the right people
The type of people that you surround yourself with has the power to either lift you up or bring you down. Make sure that the people around you are kind, honest, and want what is best for you in life. They will encourage you to do the right thing and keep you grounded.
Reinventing yourself means discovering yourself
Reinventing yourself doesn’t necessarily have to be a complete overhaul of who you are as a person. It should be about recognizing your values and living your life as your authentic self.
Whether your goals involve a new career, moving to the countryside, or finally learning to love yourself, self-reinvention is a quintessential part of life. It is also a lifelong journey.
Until next time.
Chichi ❤️
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