#self diagnosed osdd

[abunchoffolkswhosharealife]

Just switched with Sans who was in the middle of straight up drinking damn ketchup.

How the fricking fuck can you stand that stuff. It's discusting

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i'll take that as a 'condiment' ;)

haha, don't know who wrote this but i think it's funny so i'm posting

(probly lena tbh)

but hey, this is a great example of how alters can have different preferences for things.

i'm the only one who likes to drink ketchup straight down, and it drives the others crazy cuz they hate the aftertaste.

breaks my heart

anyways, just remember that it's okay if you don't like the same things as the other folks in your head.

everyone's allowed to have preferences, especially within systems.

so remember that your taste buds are valid people :)

- sans (he/him)

[autisticlee]

"just be yourself" has always been one of my most hated things to hear from someone. it may sound simple and easy to you, but when you grew up never able formed a single solid personality (because you grew up autistic or for some other reason) and/or have always felt more like 20 different personalities in a trench coat who fight over who is supposed to be in charge, that "simple" advice is so much less simple.....it can even seem impossible.

[chronicsymptomsyndrome]

Why is “selfish” a bad word?? If you don’t ever put yourself first you will die?? I don’t mean to sound facetious or hyperbolic but I feel very strongly about this. Be selfish. Be your own biggest supporter. Love and care for yourself in a way that nobody else ever would. Why wouldn’t you?? You’re the only one that has to live your whole life as you. You’re the only one that has no escape from your own company. Be selfish.

If the only reason you help others is because it feels good to be helpful, or because you want to be perceived as a good person, or because you like when people are indebted to you, that’s not bad that’s just human. Be selfish. Good for you for looking out for yourself. Bonus points if you’re able help other in the process, regardless of your motivation for doing so.

(Inspired by this post)

[persmo]

Self diagnosed systems, this is for you

Remember that you can always be wrong about being a system, damn even profesional diagnosis can get wrong sometimes, and that's ok!

Just because you're self diagnosed doesn't mean you're not valid, but remember not to stick only to this possibility, is ok to be wrong about being a system and that doesn't make you a bad person at all

But please, be aware you can be wrong, and if you do, don't be harsh on yourself neither assure you're a system even if you know you're not now

Mistakes can happen, acknowledge them, move on and don't be bad with yourself, I assure you no one will hate you if they're really a good person, cause life is about mistakes and learning

[sysboxes]

[Text: This system is self diagnosed because they have been ignored by healthcare professionals]

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[selfdxculture]

self diagnosed system culture is "hey why'd you change your little thing from osdd 1a to did to udd"

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[2outta3aintbad]

“You can’t self diagnose thats disrespectful to people actually suffering from that” okay but have you considered dying a slow miserable death

[cassiopeacollective]

Therapist, trying to help us with socializing; You have a great personality

Us, in our mind; WHICH ONE?

[abunchoffolkswhosharealife]

I'm so tired of hate.

it's always "HATE this," or "HATE that"

And i hate it when people can't just be nice for once.

Would it really be so hard to say something nice?

Can you really not keep your mouth shut and derogatory remarks to yourself?

I'm just. . . so tired of it.

I want people to be nice.

Like, I hate the whole endo thing right now.

It's either "FUCK anti endos!" or "FUCK pro endos!"

and even when you decide to try and move past it, people ALWAYS BRING IT UP AGAIN.

if you don't support endos, they hate you like the devil. But if you support or even be neutral, all of the traumagenics hate you too.

What did I do wrong?

What did I do?

I'm just so tired of it!

I'M JUST A KID!

I'VE ALREADY BEEN THROUGH ENOUGH FUCKING SHIT!

STOP BEING SO CRUEL!!!!

THIS COMMUNITY KNOWS BETTER THAN ANYONE WHAT IT'S LIKE TO FEEL ANIMOSITY DIRECTED AT YOU!!!!!!!

SO WHY THE HELL DO WE KEEP DOING IT???!!!!!

STOP IT!!!!!!!!!

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.....

I just want it to stop.

Please.

Just stop.

stop being mean.

please.

please.

please.

We're so sorry. We completely agree with you. This world is a cruel existence, and at times it feels like the pain will never end.

But we promise you, it does.

The pain will stop one day.

You don't have to believe us when we say that. We know how hard it can be to believe that.

But we promise it's true.

This world will always have cruelty. That is not something anyone on earth can change.

But despite the cold darkness this existence posesses. . .

. . . there is light. And there is good.

And when you find it, never let go, okay? It will be okay.

If we could reach through this screen and hug you, we would give you the biggest hug EVER!

We love you. It'll be okay. Maybe not in this moment, but one day, it will be.

We promise.

Jay/Melody/+ others

[moonfallsyst3m]

To all other systems, I'm curious. Does anyone else ever feel like things are too big? Like currently, my hands and phone feel they're like 1.5 times bigger than they should be. Anyone have similar experiences?

[the-fictive-haven]

Hey, yo, actually mentally ill Tumblr;

Does anyone else do things like sit down and stand up again or lay down in bed and sit up etc repeatedly? Cos I. Like. Every time I lay down in bed I have to get up again, adjust pillow, adjust clothes, lay hair across pillow in a specific way, aaand then do it all again because "it doesn't feel right" and I've been doing this for minutes on end h e l p

I'm just trying to relax like brain please 😭

Addition: I'm still writing this post after like 15 minutes bc I keep getting distracted by something's wrong what the hell

[chronicsymptomsyndrome]

Never expected this many notes and all the tags are breaking my heart so I want to say something—

I’m so sorry if you were not taken seriously in your youth. I’m so sorry if you were denied the care and treatment you needed.

Please give yourself so much credit for surviving that.

I hope you heal from it all. I hope you get your needs met.

[sc00bid00bi]

friendly reminder that you're not forced to interact with ppl on here. or any other platform.. blocking is an option. i literally block like 15 ppl a day js bc their content makes me uncomfy / i dont agree w them on stuff.. is that easy !! i promise blocking ppl is okay you don't have to deal w seeing content you dont like or interact w people you dont like. you have free will

/nm /na /info

[justletmereadmycomics]

anybody have any advice for alters trying to figure out their own name? Host is gone right now and I haven’t really been here before.

-Unnamed

[the-lake-system]

we are firmly going with being a self suspecting system until February when we can get a psych eval and are either given a different diagnosis or told we're correct -sterling