#self conscious

[theycantalk]

approval

[manifestmagnets]

𝗙𝗔𝗞𝗘 𝗶𝘁 𝘁𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗠𝗔𝗞𝗘 𝗶𝘁 !! ✨🧿 ˚ · .˚ ༘🦋⋆｡˚

Manifesting is so easy but some people like to complicate it so much ,i don't even know why. You just need to be delusional and have belief in the UNIVERSE you have to embody what you want. Act as if its already yours or it's true you ;you want a $10k , YOU HAVE $10K !! no doubt on that. And this way the universe has no option but to give you what want because you believe its going to happen for you. 🎀🎀🎀🎀

╰┈➤You want your dream job , you're already working your dream job.

╰┈➤You want your dream car , you're already driving your dream car.

╰┈➤You want your SP to like you back , you guys are already dating.

╰┈➤You want a glow up , what do you mean.. you're the most attractive person in your friend group.

''fake it till you make it ,'' but you've got to believe its already yours. Your mind and body and soul needs to believe its already yours and there is no there option.

this methods will also help you if you want to be confident !!

''delulu is the solulu'' - but it actually is!!

[young-goddessx]

[clara-scintilla]

Preserving

[libraalynn]

[desigirldairies]

Ear care — the most unspoken body care.

- ear care if one of the most neglected and overlooked body care it is as important as your face routine. Each and every, part of your body needs attention and care 🫶, and my desi babies if you really want to slay those jhumkes you really need to take care of your ear. Anyways let's get started.

1. Cleaning : Clean your outer ear gently with a washcloth. Avoid inserting anything into your ear canal, such as cotton swabs or other objects, as this can push wax deeper or even cause damage.

2. Earwax Management : Let your ears naturally clean themselves. Earwax helps protect your ears from dust, dirt, and bacteria. Do not use eard buds DO. NOT. Baby girlies please don't it can cause problems in hearing and affect your eardrum.

If you have excessive earwax buildup that causes discomfort or affects your hearing, consult a doctor for safe removal.

3. Protection: Wear ear protection in noisy environments, such as concerts, construction sites, or when using loud equipment like lawnmowers or power tools. Earplugs or earmuffs can help prevent hearing damage.

4. Avoiding Water : Keep water out of your ears while bathing, swimming, or showering. Use earplugs or a shower cap to protect your ears, especially if you've had ear surgery or have a history of ear infections.

5. Electronic devices : use airpods, earphones or headphone max 3 hours not more than that and always keep the volume at the adequate level in order not to affect your ear and brain.

6. Regular Check-ups : Visit an audiologist or healthcare professional for regular ear check-ups, especially if you experience changes in hearing, ear pain, or other ear-related issues.

7. Healthy Lifestyle : Maintain a healthy lifestyle, as conditions like high blood pressure and diabetes can impact your ear health. Stay hydrated, eat a balanced diet, and manage stress levels.

Taking these simple steps can help keep your ears healthy and functioning well. 🫶

This is my first blog btw please support 😭🎀 .

[lovebvni]

the “secret”

have a solid self concept, then put it to the test over and over again until you find NO flaws.

a self concept, to me, is how you see shifting and the universe as a whole. then proceed to put it to the test.

for example, let’s say you believe manifestation only comes if you sleep from 8:35p-8:36a. put it to the test, try sleeping from 9p-8a. test it, and see if anything changes. if nothing does, you were correct. if you still get the results you desired, adjust your belief to that.

it’s like a science, you have a hypothetical, you test it multiple times, then you have a theory, then a fact.

but you have to find YOUR truth! that’s what i always fucking say, FIND YOUR OWN TRUTH.

NOT MINE, NOT @stilljuststardust , NOT @smellofemale , YOURS.

YOU create your reality, your truth.

just find it and test it until you find no flaws, then stick to those guns.

you will shift. you need to find yourself, though.

please know this is not required to shift. there are people with shitty self concepts that shift, hell, i shifted when i thought shifting was of satan okay? 😭 this is not required, it’s just what i think will help a lot of people.

[pratchettquotes]

"And Mrs. Earwig," said Mistress Weatherwax, her voice sinking to a growl, "Mrs. Earwig tells her girls it's about cosmic balances and stars and circles and colors and wands and...and toys, nothing but toys!" She sniffed. "Oh, I daresay that's all very well as decoration, somethin' nice to look at while you're workin', somethin' for show, but the start and finish, the start and finish, is helpin' people when life is on the edge. Even people you don't like. Stars is easy, people is hard."

She stopped talking. It was several seconds before birds began to sing again.

"Anyway, that's what I think," she added in the tones of someone who suspects that she might have gone just a bit further than she meant to.

Terry Pratchett, A Hat Full of Sky

[i-hate-it-here-too]

Iv been feeling kinda crappy lately 😕

[theglowsociety]

10 tips to help brighten your skin ✨

1. Use Vitamin C – Apply a Vitamin C serum to brighten and even out skin tone.

2. Exfoliate Regularly – Gently exfoliate to remove dead skin cells and reveal fresh skin.

3. Stay Hydrated – Drink plenty of water to keep your skin plump and radiant.

4. Apply Sunscreen Daily – Protect your skin from UV damage to prevent dullness.

5. Get Enough Sleep – Aim for 7-9 hours of rest to help your skin regenerate.

6. Incorporate Niacinamide – Use a niacinamide serum to reduce dark spots and improve skin radiance.

7. Use a Hydrating Mask – Apply a hydrating face mask once or twice a week to restore moisture.

8. Massage Your Skin – Use a facial roller or gentle massage to boost circulation and promote glow.

9. Eat Skin-Loving Foods – Include foods rich in antioxidants like berries, nuts, and leafy greens.

10. Avoid Smoking and Alcohol – Minimize these to reduce dullness and improve overall skin health.

[a-mf-bonsai-tree]

idk if y'all saw but

this is gonna be my new pfp until i get over this episode of extreme self consciousness based on why the fuck do i look like that

i'll probably change it later tho :> besides if u wanna see my full face there's a link to a face reveal on my intro. you can check it out idc

[life-deep]

Outpour: about him again

i love you

i love you

but you’re gone

i sent you

i watched you

walk away, so long

i love you

oh and all the dollars i spent

all the sins i repent

all the ways i gave

i just wanted you, so plain

no adornment no refrain

just you and all the pain

but you paid off the composer

loved the pain more than me

[jellywrite]

You say I’m sensitive like it’s only a bad thing

Of course I am sensitive

I am compassionate

I am attuned

I will

Sometimes, I’m concerned I’m speaking a different language to everyone else.

[ivemanifest]

Nurture yourself like a pretty plant you want to see flower 🪷

[libraalynn]

[fandoms--fluff]

Hi requests for flufftober .

Can u do a fluff where the reader is plus size

And is in a relationship with klaus.

Can u make her Indian because being fat is looked down upon in India I am telling you this because I am Indian and I get fat shame d by my own family .

Can u please make her story same as mine where she goes through what I am going through and Klaus comforts her by kissing every inch of her body and leaving hickeys.

He also calls her beautiful.

If u are not ok with writing this or want to cut any part that u are not okay me .

U are free to do it .

Beautiful

Flufftober, October 2nd

Female reader x Klaus Mikaelson

Warnings: mentions of body hate/dysmorphia, mentions of being bullied

A/n: please don't read if you think it will affect your mental health, remember it's important!

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You're sat across from your soon to be husband, Klaus Mikaelson, the one and only original hybrid. You've been across town all day and made reservations for this fancy restaurant just out of New Orleans so no one could interupt you guys.

You guys have just ordered, unknowingly, your arms wrapped around your midsection, sort of acting as a shield so no one can see your stomach rolls. Even in the stunning black midi dress that you've felt confident in all day, you have actions you do unconsciously for being self conscious about your body.

Basically most of your life, people have either commented on your weight or looked at you with that look, you got that look through your teens the most. Especially considering you didn't look the same as everyone else, and that's good, you're your own person, until it comes to weight. Then apparently you're not good enough and looked down upon by other teens, adults, and even your own family.

You had a phone call with your mother the night before while Klaus was in the shower. Said phone call almost brought you to tears. At the start, you were having a good conversation with your mom, until she brought up how she went to the mall with her friends the other day. She spoke about how she saw the perfect wedding dress that you would love by all the photos of inspo you've shown her since your and Klaus' engagement. But then she said, 'if only you were tinier like your cousins, then maybe you could try and squeeze into the biggest size of the dress'. She went on and in about how the biggest size wasn't even big enough for you to even try to try on.

That hasn't been the worst conversation with your Mom in a longshot, but it still hurt. It hurt even more, knowing it was your own mother saying those things. Yes, you may not look the same as everyone else, but you've been trying to love your body just the way it is. But things like that obviously doesn't help your feelings or self esteem.

You feel something lay against your hand, snapping out if your thoughts, you looked up at Klaus, seeing his hand placed on top of yours. His thumb is softly rubbing up and down to side of your hand.

"Love? Are you alright? You spaced off for a moment there" Klaus softly smiles.

"Oh, um yeah, just thinkin. Nothing to worry about" you give a tight lip smile.

Klaus nods, keeping in his head about your stranger-than-normal attitude, but it's not a bad thing, it's just concerning to him.

You guys get home from the restaurant around 10pm, everyone's either out or has fallen asleep super early.

You're standing in front of the mirror in your guys' room. You haven't changed out of your dress yet, instead staring at every part of your body that you're insecure about. There hasn't been any way to stop you from doing this. You would try, but then end up close to tears or crying in front of a mirror. The worst times this has happened has been in a changing room at stores.

That's what you thought, before Klaus steps back into the room.

He pauses his movements, seeing you frowning in front of the mirror, sucking your stomach in as much as you can. You look over to him, eyes widening. Klaus just caught you doing one of the only things you never wanted him to know that you do.

"Klaus, this is not what you think this is, I'm just..." you start, not knowing what to say, you trail off.

Klaus walks over to you and cups your face in his hands. "Love, you can tell me the truth, you always can" he tells you, having a senaking suspicion of what's going on, but wants you tell him on your terms.

He leads you over to the bed, sitting down with his hand resting on your thigh. You take a couple deep breathes, "I'm too big. I wish I was skinny, I've wished that since the first time someone ever brought up how I look different than everyone else. I've hated my body for over a decade, my mom was probably the worst thing about it. She would always tell me how I was fat without thinking twice. And she never understood and still doesn't how that makes someone feel, especially a teenage girl who's already miserable everytime she has to take foot in a high school where everyone says even worse things some how" you rant to your fiance, tears streaming down your face. "I hate my body so much" you whisper.

Klaus immediately pulls you in to his arms. He kisses the top of your head multiple times. "I'm so sorry you've had to go through this, and still do?" You nod your head. "You are perfect how you are. You should never compare yourself to others or listen to what others say you should look like." Klaus lists off.

"I love you so much, you're so perfect, and gorgeous the way you are. You should never think different" Klaus pulls away, looking at you with emotion in his eyes.

"R-really? I love you too. N-no one has ever said that. I've grown up hating myself" you whimper.

"Everything I said is true, and you should never hate yourself, being who you are now is everything to me" he slowly lays you down onto your back.

"And I will make sure you know this every day" he murmurs as he trails his lips all over your face and down your neck. He presses kisses all down your exposed collarbone and chest.

He keeps going all the way down, kissing your fabric covered stomach and waist, and hips. He goes down to your ankles, until kissing the top of your feet gently.

"You love, are so beautiful" he whispers into your ear. You cuddle into his suit covered chest with a slight smile on your face.

"You're the one person I feel safest with. Thank you so much. I love you Klaus" you look up at him. "I will always be here for you, I love you too, beautiful" he kisses your forehead and holds your hand.