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Why wait for someone else to gift you something that already matches your glow? Buying yourself jewelry is more than a purchase—it’s an act of self-love. It’s choosing to honor your own story, your successes, and the moments you’ve worked so hard to create.

That necklace you’ve been eyeing? It’s a reminder of your strength. That bracelet? A subtle nod to your endless grace. Jewelry isn’t just about the sparkle; it’s about what it represents—you, unapologetically putting yourself first. So go ahead, treat yourself. You’ve earned it.

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Why Supporting Black-Owned Businesses in February (and Beyond) Matters

February is Black History Month—a time to honor Black culture, resilience, and achievements. But while most people recognize this designated time of celebration, it doesn’t dismiss the fact that we are Black 365 days a year. Our history and heritage don’t begin on February 1st and end on February 29th. We are the living, breathing manifestations of our ancestors’ dreams, and every day is an opportunity to uplift, support, and build upon the legacy they fought for. One of the most powerful ways to do that? Investing in Black-owned businesses.

Shopping Black-owned isn’t just about economics—it’s about empowerment, equity, and making a direct impact on our communities. When we prioritize Black businesses, we create generational wealth, amplify Black voices, and ensure that our culture thrives in every industry. Here’s why it matters:

1. Circulating Wealth in the Black Community

Did you know that the average dollar circulates in the Black community for only six hours before leaving? Compared to other communities, where money is reinvested locally for days or even weeks, this statistic highlights a major economic gap. When we intentionally support Black-owned businesses, we ensure that our money stays within our community, fostering job creation, homeownership, and financial stability. This isn’t just about individual success—it’s about uplifting entire neighborhoods.

2. Closing the Racial Wealth Gap

For centuries, systemic barriers—such as redlining, discrimination in banking, and limited access to business funding—have prevented Black entrepreneurs from building the same level of generational wealth as others. By choosing to shop Black-owned, we actively work to close this gap, ensuring that Black business owners have the resources they need to thrive and pass down wealth to future generations.

3. Honoring Our Ancestors’ Legacy Through Economic Power

Our ancestors fought for freedom, equality, and the right to build prosperous lives for future generations. Owning and supporting Black businesses is one of the strongest ways to honor their sacrifices. Imagine what they could have built if they had access to the opportunities we do now. When we invest in Black businesses, we are fulfilling their vision of self-sufficiency, success, and economic independence.

4. Strengthening Local Communities

Many Black-owned businesses are deeply rooted in their communities. They hire locally, mentor young entrepreneurs, and provide essential services to underserved areas. When we support these businesses, we don’t just help one entrepreneur—we help entire families, neighborhoods, and cities flourish.

5. Encouraging Sustainable Business Growth

The Black business community is filled with innovative, groundbreaking entrepreneurs who bring fresh perspectives to every industry. But without consistent support, these businesses often struggle to survive. When we make shopping Black-owned a long-term habit—not just a trend in February—we create sustainable demand, allowing these businesses to expand, create more jobs, and increase their impact.

6. Diversifying the Marketplace

Representation in business matters. When Black entrepreneurs thrive, they introduce products and services that cater to our culture, needs, and experiences—things often overlooked by mainstream corporations. Supporting Black-owned brands ensures that our voices are heard, our creativity is valued, and our influence is undeniable in every market.

7. Making a Statement with Our Dollars

Every dollar we spend is a vote for the kind of world we want to live in. Choosing Black-owned businesses is a way to demonstrate solidarity, support economic justice, and create real change in how wealth is distributed. Our spending power is massive—trillions of dollars strong—so let’s use it with intention.

How to Support Black-Owned Businesses Beyond February

• Shop Intentionally – Research Black-owned brands, businesses, and services in your area and online.

• Spread the Word – A simple shoutout or recommendation on social media can bring a Black business new customers.

• Invest Beyond the Holidays – Make it a lifestyle, not just a seasonal act. Support Black businesses year-round.

• Leave Reviews & Feedback – Positive reviews help small businesses gain credibility and attract more customers.

• Attend Black Business Markets & Events – Show up, engage, and contribute to the growth of Black entrepreneurs.

• Mentor & Support Aspiring Black Entrepreneurs – Share resources, offer guidance, and help build the next generation of Black business leaders.

It’s a Movement, Not a Moment

February is a powerful reminder to celebrate Black excellence, but our commitment to supporting each other shouldn’t stop when the month ends. We are Black every day, and we carry the dreams of our ancestors in everything we do. Shopping Black-owned is just one of many ways to live out their legacy and build a future where Black success isn’t the exception—it’s the standard. Let’s make supporting Black businesses not just an annual tradition, but a lifelong commitment to community, growth, and generational wealth.

[theglowsociety]

Stop focusing on all of the external circumstances and bullshit.

Start focusing on all of the factors that are in your control and make an intentional effort to control these things every single day.

The food you eat.

The water you drink.

The workouts you do.

The information you consume.

The people you surround yourself with.

The attitude you show up with.

The decisions you make.

The effort you put in.

These are the most important factors that influence the life you have.

If you fail to exercise control in these areas...

You can't act surprised when your life feels like a constant whirlwind of chaos, frustration, and uncertainty.

Want your life to improve significantly?

Double down on the elements that are in your control.

Fuck the rest.

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How to Create a Self-Care Space that Actually Works

Choose Your Spot: Find a place in your home that gives you peace. It could be a quiet corner of your living room, an empty desk, or even a nook by your window. The key is to choose a spot that allows you to disconnect from the outside world and truly focus on your well-being.

Clear the Clutter: When you’re creating a space for self-care, the first step is decluttering. A cluttered space equals a cluttered mind. If there are things in your space that no longer serve you, get rid of them. Only keep items that enhance your mood and bring you comfort—this could be a cozy blanket, a calming candle, or a few plants. Think of it as “cleaning out the mental junk.”

Sensory Setup: Think about the senses: sight, sound, smell, and touch. The right setup will engage all of them and elevate your self-care routine. Add soft lighting, calming scents like lavender or sandalwood, and sound—whether it’s a gentle playlist or nature sounds. You’re setting the stage for relaxation. Include textures you love, like plush pillows, a soft rug, or a favorite chair.

Make It Your Ritual: Once you’ve created the space, make it part of your daily routine. Whether you’re using this space to meditate, read, journal, or simply sit in silence, commit to spending time there each day. The idea isn’t to just visit when you’re stressed; this should become a regular part of your life. Consider blocking off time in your calendar, just as you would a meeting. When you schedule your self-care, you’re making yourself a priority.

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Green flags in a relationship or friendship are the positive signs that indicate healthy, supportive, and trusting connections. They’re the traits and behaviors that make you feel valued, respected, and understood. Here are some key green flags to look for:

1. Open Communication: Healthy relationships are built on honest, open dialogue. Whether it’s sharing feelings, discussing issues, or celebrating successes, communication is clear and respectful. There’s no fear of being judged or misunderstood.

2. Mutual Respect: In a great relationship or friendship, both parties respect each other’s boundaries, opinions, and differences. You’re both treated as equals, with no one feeling diminished or controlled.

3. Supportive Encouragement: You lift each other up, celebrate each other’s victories, and encourage each other during challenges. There’s a genuine desire for each other’s success and well-being.

4. Trust and Reliability: Trust is fundamental. You can rely on each other to keep promises, be there during tough times, and maintain confidentiality. You feel safe being vulnerable and open without fear of betrayal.

5. Emotional Availability: Both of you are willing to share and listen to emotions, creating a deeper connection. You’re there for each other when needed and show empathy towards each other’s experiences.

6. Independence and Space: A healthy relationship allows space for both individuals to grow and pursue their personal goals. There’s a balance between spending time together and respecting each other’s independence.

7. Shared Values: Having common values and goals helps create harmony and alignment in the relationship. While differences are natural, shared core beliefs create a stronger bond.

8. Fun and Laughter: A positive relationship has moments of joy, playfulness, and laughter. You enjoy each other’s company, have fun together, and share lighthearted moments.

9. Constructive Conflict Resolution: Disagreements happen, but a green flag is how you handle them. Healthy relationships focus on resolving conflicts respectfully, listening to each other, and finding compromise rather than blaming or escalating issues.

10. Non-toxic Positivity: Both parties bring a positive energy to the table, without toxic positivity or forcing happiness. It’s about embracing the ups and downs together and offering real, supportive encouragement.

Recognizing these green flags can help you nurture healthy, thriving relationships or friendships where both individuals feel valued, supported, and empowered.

[theglowsociety]

Every great life that you have admired has one thing in common:

It was built.

A decision was made.

Effort was applied.

Grit was applied.

Discipline was applied.

Hard times were pushed through and overcome.

It's not just you that has to do these things.

It's everyone.

You.

Me.

Everyone.

Nobody "falls into" a great life because of chance or circumstance.

That is the single biggest misunderstanding that people have because it makes people believe they don't have to fight for it because it's chance.

It's not chance.

Nothing exceptional comes without you fighting for every inch of it.

Anyone who suggests different doesn't have a life you would want for yourself.

Guaranteed.

[theglowsociety]

Never use a couple of small wins as a justification to let your foot off the gas.

This is what gets most people fucking killed.

Stay focused.

Stay hungry.

Keep executing.

Anyone can win once or twice.

Very few people can win consistently over the course of their life.

Over-celebrating and getting complacent after a few wins will keep you from achieving anything of true significance in the future.

Understand that your wins are the product of the actions you've taken in the past to materialize them.

Which means if you want to keep winning...

You have to continue to take action to produce your future wins.

Just because you're winning today doesn't mean you'll be winning tomorrow.

Remember that.

[theglowsociety]

If you live in Canada, there are free museum & art gallery days in Toronto and it is a wonderful experience to take the time to admire the curations on your own

free museum trips are wasted on unappreciative middle schoolers. let me go

[theglowsociety]

How often do you admire you?

Not through selfies or filters, but by looking in the mirror and appreciating the journey you’ve taken. Celebrate your scars, your laugh lines, and every moment that’s shaped your unique beauty.

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Becoming a Female Entrepreneur: Stepping Into Leadership

Starting your own business isn’t just about creating income—it’s about creating impact, independence, and legacy. But the journey requires grit, resilience, and unwavering belief in yourself.

First, identify your passion. What problems can you solve, and who needs your expertise? Next, learn the basics of business: budgeting, marketing, and networking. There are countless free resources online to help you get started.

Surround yourself with mentors and a supportive community of women entrepreneurs who can guide and inspire you. Remember, the road won’t always be smooth, but every challenge is an opportunity to grow. When you succeed, you’re not just breaking barriers—you’re paving the way for other women to do the same. Are you ready to claim your space as a leader?

[theglowsociety]

All high-performing individuals are humble in preparation and confident in execution.

But since the preparation is the part that nobody sees...

Losers confuse this authentic confidence with cockiness and arrogance.

The reality is ... These people just haven't built the same confidence and comfort in their ability to execute which has distorted their understanding of what it means to be truly confident.

If you want to compete against the best of the best and win...

You need to believe in yourself and your ability to execute at a high level.

If you don't...

You'll get fucking destroyed by those who do.

This internal dialogue is required to reach high levels of performance and achievement.

At the same time...

You can't allow your confidence to give you a false estimation of your current skill set and abilities.

You have to stay humble by embracing the process of continually learning and improving.

The more reps you take...

The more skills you learn...

...and the more effective you become...

The more confident you'll be when it's time to execute.

So be confident in your execution...

But remember that your confidence will come from the countless hours you've put in outside of game time to become highly skilled and effective.

Once you fully adopt this mindset and put it into practice...

You will completely dominate anyone in your path who does not.

[theglowsociety]

30 Low to No-Cost Business Startup Ideas to Invest in This Year

Starting a business doesn’t have to break the bank. Here are 30 ideas to get you started:

1. Virtual assistant

2. Social media management

3. Freelance writing

4. Blogging or vlogging

5. Coaching or consulting

6. Event planning

7. Dropshipping

8. Print-on-demand products

9. Handmade crafts

10. Pet sitting or dog walking

11. Online tutoring

12. Personal training

13. Meal prep services

14. Resume writing

15. E-book publishing

16. Cleaning services

17. Personal shopping

18. Photography

19. Makeup artistry

20. Podcasting

21. Subscription boxes

22. Content creation

23. Home organization

24. Affiliate marketing

25. Language translation

26. Babysitting

27. Fitness boot camps

28. Voiceover work

29. Gardening services

30. Eco-friendly products

Every idea is an opportunity waiting for you to take it. What will you choose to pursue this year?

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31 Affirmations for Ambitious Women: February Edition

1. I am capable of achieving anything I set my mind to.

2. My dreams are valid, and I have the power to make them real.

3. Every small step I take brings me closer to my goals.

4. I am worthy of success, abundance, and recognition.

5. I honor my ambition and trust my journey.

6. I have the courage to take risks and embrace new challenges.

7. My voice matters, and I will use it to inspire and lead.

8. I am constantly learning, growing, and evolving.

9. Success is my birthright, and I claim it with confidence.

10. I am resilient, and obstacles only make me stronger.

11. I attract opportunities that align with my purpose.

12. I celebrate every win, no matter how small.

13. I am my own biggest cheerleader and advocate.

14. I trust my intuition to guide me toward success.

15. I release self-doubt and step into my power.

16. I am deserving of rest, balance, and joy in my journey.

17. I inspire others by living authentically and fearlessly.

18. My hard work and dedication are paving the way for my dreams.

19. I am unapologetically ambitious and proud of it.

20. I can achieve great things while staying true to myself.

21. I choose to see challenges as opportunities for growth.

22. I am a magnet for success, prosperity, and fulfillment.

23. I am grateful for how far I’ve come and excited for what’s ahead.

24. I have the power to create the life I’ve always dreamed of.

25. I am surrounded by people who uplift and support my ambitions.

26. I am a trailblazer, creating paths for myself and others.

27. I release comparison and focus on my unique journey.

28. I deserve to take up space, dream big, and shine brightly.

29. I celebrate the bold, ambitious woman I am becoming.

30. I am unstoppable, and nothing can hold me back.

31. I am rewriting the rules and creating a life that fulfills me.

Celebrate every day of February knowing your ambition is worth honoring!

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Becoming More Than a Museum of Yourself

It’s easy to fall into the trap of curating your life as if you’re a museum of past accomplishments, experiences, and identities. You collect memories like artifacts, displaying them proudly while subconsciously freezing yourself in time. But life isn’t meant to be a still exhibit—it’s a living, breathing experience that demands movement, growth, and renewal.

You are more than what you’ve done or where you’ve been. You are also who you’re becoming. The world doesn’t need you to preserve yourself in perfection—it needs you to show up, messy and evolving, fully alive in this moment. To do that, you must remember to breathe. Not just physically, but intentionally.

Breathe in possibility, courage, and the unknown. Let yourself be open to change, to ideas you’ve never considered, to opportunities you can’t yet see. Breathe out fear, stagnation, and the weight of needing to “be” a certain way. Life isn’t about being complete—it’s about being in motion.

When you stop living as a museum of yourself, you stop clinging to what no longer serves you. You give yourself permission to reinvent, rediscover, and reimagine who you are. You let the winds of the present fill your sails instead of being anchored by the past.

You’re not here to be admired like a relic behind glass. You’re here to breathe, to move, to evolve. So step out of the museum. Feel the pulse of life. Become more, again and again.

Natalie Díaz, from "American Arithmetic", Postcolonial Love Poem

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