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copypastus · 11 months ago

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So that hofas bonus Ember chapter huh.

I wish Tamlin and Nesta built a casual friendship.

It's such a missed opportunity! They were both assigned penance eternal by the IC over their relationships with Feyre with no road to redemption. In acosf they were both on a shame spiral. You'd think this would be a like calls to like moment! Opportunity to recognise that just coz Rhys's friends hate you doesn't make you a bad person!

#my art #acotar #acotar fanart #tamlin #nesta archeron #neslin #hofas spoilers #but like very mild #Instead Nesta gets a 'growth moment' of joining the Tamlin hate train and I can't have nice things. >_>#and while i'm on the tamlin and nesta meeting #what was that retcon of tamlin asking nesta if she'd take feyre's place when he first came to grab her??#that wouldn't break the curse at all why would he trade??#anyway cassian is the worst mate and nesta should move out #how is him being the most angry at her for doing the right thing a pattern now??#how is them threatening to kill her a recurring thing??#someone save her from the night court i am begging

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thechy-fychannel · 5 months ago

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y'all ever think abt how it was julie having the affair and it is even said multiple times that she was the one who left him, yet wilson was still the one who left their home and moved in with house. like. he couldn't bear to stay in their home alone. he immediately ran to house and stayed on his couch for weeks. suffered through his pranks and his laziness and his manipulation. telling him he wants him gone while sabotaging his attempts to leave. and he only left once he got a girlfriend again.

#chyanne speaks #house md #hilson #hate crimes md #gregory house #james wilson #i think his inability to be alone is such an interesting quality of his that isnt touched on enough #like yes we all haha at his long string of unsuccessful relationships but we dont talk abt it all stemming from his inability to be alone #his first wife leaves him and then he remarried quickly #he cheats on the second wife and remarries quickly #the third wife cheats on him and leaves him and he immediately moves in with house #and then starts dating a patient and immediately moves in with her #but!!! then he moves into the hotel and is alone for like almost a year! and honestly he NEEDED IT #bc GROWTH happened in that year and he meets someone who doesn't fit his M.O. who breaks away from the mold #although he does immediately move in with her too but still. amber was different. she was the step in the right direction #and then she dies.#and then wilson throws himself into the left field. everything needs to change. he's spent so long fearing being alone.#so he tries to leave so he is completely and totally alone without house to fall back on #but house needs him. he needs him too much. they need each other too much.#and he falls back to house again. and he's content that way. he's always the most content when he's with house. always feels the least alone #and then sam comes back into his life and ruins e v e r y t h i n g #he falls right back onto those old patterns. kicks house out and moves her in. and then what happens??? of course??? she leaves him. again.#and then he's alone again and it hurts. he gets a cat that we only hear about twice and then never gets brought up again #but wilson has his kitty. he has house. he's not alone. he can be content.#and then house fucks everything up. he goes to prison. wilson is alone again.#im honestly SHOCKED that wilson didnt remarry in that year they were apart but he was rly trying to change!#he was working on himself and trying to make changed he thought would be good for him #and then house comes back. and house won't LET wilson be alone. he wont leave him alone.#and it's exactly what wilson has been yearning for since the day he drove that car into cuddys house #and in the end. as long as he had house that was all that mattered. as long as he had house he wasn't alone.

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hairymaletf · 3 months ago

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#chest hair #hairy #hair growth #transformation #bearification #hairy tf #hairy chest #boynextdoor #daddification #male pattern baldness

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freyatarotreadings8 · 1 year ago

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I have heard many men say that they want an "intelligent woman" in their life. I would encourage them to think well.

Girls and intelligent women make their own decisions, have their own desires and set boundaries. You will never be the center of her life because she revolves around them. An intelligent woman will not allow you to manipulate or blackmail her. She is responsible for her actions.

Intelligent girls doubt, analyze, debate, displease, progress. These women had a life before you appeared in their lives, and will continue to have it even when you leave their lives. Such women report, do not ask permission. They are not looking for a leader to follow, a father who solved their life, or a child to save themselves by guiding them. They do not want to follow you, nor are they willing to show the right way to others.

Intelligent girls know that living without violence is a right, not a luxury or a privilege. They express nervousness, sadness, pleasure and fear in the same way, because they know that fear does not make them look weak, nor does nervousness make them look "masculine". These two emotions, but also the others, all together, make it look humane and that's enough.

An intelligent woman is free because she has fought for her freedom. But she is not a victim, she is a survivor. Do not try to limit her, because she will know how to escape. An intelligent woman knows that her value does not lie in the physical aspect. Think twice before judging her age, height, weight or sexual behavior because this is emotional violence and she understands it.

So before you say you want an "intelligent woman" in your life, ask yourself if you are really ready to be a part of her life.

— Gabriel Garcia Marquez

#Gabriel Garcia Marquez #intelligent woman #life quotes #book quotes #beautiful quote #romantic relationships #self improvement #personal growth #self love #healingjourney #healthy patterns #gabriel garcía #wise words #life lessons #it girl

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emloafs · 5 months ago

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so when are we gonna talk about how the costuming for the teens in cobra kai is actually heinous

#IT MAKES NO SENSE #THERES NO CONSISTENCY #like AT ALL #you'd think the characters would have consistent style but eli is just consistently awful!!!!!#same with miguel!!!!!#i could go on a whole rant about tory and sam's outfits #like i know tory has done a lot of growth #but why is her sense of style completely gone #like her edgy sort of looks #her s6 first day of school outfit was like a white denim jacket i said who is this #don't get me started on demetri #the clashing and the patterns it's all awful #graphic tees are v him it's good it's fine but GOD #while we're at it why are we clipping his backpack across his chest #what were we trying to say with that #i just feel like costuming can really enhance characterization and storytelling when done well #and it's so bad that it distracts me honest to god #okay rant over!!!!#cobra kai #ck #cobra kai season 6 #ranting

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histhoughtslately · 6 months ago

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kristo-flowers · 6 months ago

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something growing in the marsh

#nature #photogrpahy #nature details #wetland #growth #marsh #marshland #patterns in nature #a game of tones #50 shades of green #original photographers #photographers on tumblr #photography #lensblr #original photography #pws

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selfhealingmoments · 2 years ago

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one-upgirl · 7 months ago

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Here’s a full body design of my part 4 kakyoin. I’ve already drawn him before but i wanted to make reference piece for any future pieces. I’m very proud with his design and you will most likely see more of 4yoin.

#I figured I’d but the subtle details of his design #the white boots are a reference to hierophant green and the jacket buckles are meant to mimic hierophants tentacles #the jacket felt a little bare so I added a cherry blossom pattern towards the bottom of the jacket #the stripes towards the bottom of the fame is a reference to the staff of the hierophant card #increased his cherry count on his earrings to 4 #i felt it a way to show his growth in a way #also the pin on top left is speedwagon foundation logo #also he would be the type to do the anime glasses push #jojos bizarre adventure #jjba #jjba kakyoin #noriaki kakyoin #kakyoin #part 4 kakyoin #4yoin #art #my art #digital art

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inabigworld · 9 months ago

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heal. your mom may never apologize to you because she’s conditioned herself to believe she did right by you.

heal. your father may never apologize to you, because he can only see what he’s done right.

heal. your family members may never apologize to you, because toxicity is what they were raised on.

heal for you. heal for the ones to come after you. right now, focus on healing for you. because you owe it to yourself.

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enrapture · 7 months ago

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Protecting my peace and learning to move on. Accepting the things I cannot control and taking it all as lessons. You can’t force people to change, you can’t force people to understand you, you can’t force it to work if the other side isn’t willing to put in the effort because they want to. You can’t force friendships, relationships, people to treat you right. You can’t force anyone or anything. Accepting things as they come and as they go.

If they wanted to, they would.

#also learning to be okay alone and working through some trauma alone #as I’ve noticed it effects everything in my life #I’m to blame for certain things and acknowledging that fact and trying to be better is growth #I’m not the best person by any means but I do wanna be a better one #I’m tired of my trauma that was caused by others to affect me and anyone I come close to #I’ve realized a lot of patterns and that I shouldn’t have to do things to get people to like me #to love me and to want to be around me that’s not healthy or good for me nor is it good for the other people involved #because at the end of the day if someone wants to be around you they would do so #if someone wants to talk to you hit you up be around be a good person to you etc they would do so and if they don’t then they don’t #and accepting that and learning that has been a bit difficult for me life in general has been #I’ve gone through so much in the past few years it’s absolutely exhausting and depending a lot instead of being independent #I have a lot to work on within myself as does everyone #and to the person that (knows I’m directing at him) I’m sorry and I hope we can communicate healthily sometime soon about it all #there’s a lot that needs to be said that wasn’t addressed and I’m sorry for my part #I’m learning and growing and dedicated to positive change I hope one day you see this and understand

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hairymaletf · 3 months ago

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#before and after #hairy wrestler #boy to man #chest hair transformation #chest hair #hair growth #transformation #hairy #hairy tf #bearification #boynextdoor #male pattern baldness #hairy chest #daddification

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stagefoureddiediaz · 9 months ago

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Have we talked about the fact that there is an episode of Buffy called bewitched bothered and bewildered that has an underlying themes that may potetially be similar to buck bothered and bewildered??

Especially considering Xander does something dumb and stupid when he gets dumped (getting a spell cast so that Cordelia will get back together with him so he can be the one to dump her)

Xander had up until that episode been somewhat stuck in a loop - the kind of character that hadn’t really had much development up to this point beyond having what I would term as an outdated concept of women and how he should treat them and especially attractive women. The whole thing is the start of the massive character growth arc we see xander go on for the rest of the show - which is kind of similar to Bucks in many ways - belonging, maturity, the search for respect, and his continued search for love.

#this is totally incoherent - I’m struggling with burn out so my brain doesn’t want to articulate this fully #but hopefully my fellow buffy fans will be able to jump in and expand this #because I am 👀👀👀 about the potential parallels #one could argue buck hs already gone through many of Xanders growth patterns (which he has) but the fact that this is the episode that acts #as xanders catalyst and it would appear the be bucks catalyst too is just making me a little feral #especially with the willow/tara parallels we already have for buck and Eddie #911 spoilers #911 abc #I promise I’m not crazy #evan buckley #911/buffy parallels

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just-somedude · 1 year ago

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#personal growth is torture #I noticed a pattern and realized how badly it needs to change #now I have to learn a whole new way of going about the world #(I'm excited about it)

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aworldofpattern · 8 months ago

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