#npd account

[npd-adds-to-my-sparkle]

At the risk of opening the pandora's box of discourse/chronically online arguments I ask this just once: WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK IS HAPPENING IN THE TRANSGENDER COMMUNITY RIGHT NOW

[sillynarcissist]

being in a romantic relationship while having npd is so hard how tf am I supposed to answer "why do you love me"? The same reasons I like anyone else, I have a very specific list. but saying "you just got lucky because you satisfied a specific need for my brain" isn't something you say when you want to keep a relationship going

[dodgeryy]

Cluster B bitches watching Baby Reindeer:

[enbygunderson]

If you crash a post made by a victim discussing their experiences with narcissistic abuse with walls of text and preface it all with "I have NPD": ...yeah, no shit you do.

Literally no one is saying "all NPD people are abusive", but those who aren't wouldn't be going out of their way looking up certain tags on tumblr just to finger wag and play victim on strangers' tumblr posts.

[npdfavs]

oh btw zionists kill yourself and get off my account i don’t want you here

[doomsdayradio]

something so complicated as someone with npd and possibly aspd is like. sometimes i don't feel bad for hurting you. and i know you don't want to hear that. i know i don't like hearing when the people who have hurt me don't feel bad for it. but just because i don't feel bad doesn't mean i don't know i shouldn't have hurt you and it doesn't mean i won't attempt to make up for it. but honestly i just don't feel bad. and like sometimes i feel like people are more focused on that aspect than the fact i still want to make up for it. you're not going to brute force me into feeling guilt. my brain just doesn't work that way 99% of the time. honestly i'm probably more annoyed you called me out for it or that i got caught than i am guilty. just because i don't feel emotionally guilty doesn't inherently mean i enjoyed hurting you or that i meant to or that i want you to feel hurt. i have to have this contradictory "i care about you even if i don't actually care" conversation with anyone who gets really close to me and it honestly seems like the only people who really understand what i mean by that is other people with npd/aspd or pds in general.

[ocpder]

Narcissism is an illness and disability, it's a personality disorder, meaning a pwNPD suffered severe childhood trauma. Claiming that narcissism is the cause of abuse is making excuses for abusers, narcissistic personality disorder does not cause people to be abusive, abusive people choose to abuse because they are abusive. The symptoms of NPD are not abuse tactics, they are defense mechanisms learned in childhood to shield themselves from and cope with the trauma and abuse they suffered. Beware of anyone saying that victims of childhood abuse are evil because of the way that their trauma presents itself.

[the-npd-culture-is]

i know that @a-sip-of-milo, @quitblamingnarcissism and @forrest--deer supports the other narcissistic culture blog, if that's any help to anon

i have not found any evidence suggesting that on their blog, so take this with a grain of salt. however if you feel like it go block whoever you want, but harassing them (on top of having little to no proof) is unacceptable, don't do that.

im sharing this anon just in case anyone wants to use this information or do their own research./srs

apologies for the tag you three/gen srs

[npd-adds-to-my-sparkle]

Hello my darlings I am a farmer now

Behold my stanky ass chicken who bites my toes if I don't pick her up

[gwensy]

are positive affirmation not good for people with ocd or bpd? genuinely asking because i want to avoid causing you or other people any harm (i hope you feel better soon though, please take care)

NO ITS NOT THAT!! its usually just these extreme types of "if this person isn't doing this then you should leave them" "if this person does this then it means this" type of things that can usually spiral people into overthinking or irrationalizing situations.

[losttimesnail]

having multiple trauma induced or related illnesses is so humbling sometimes. like my child brain was so playdough textured that my mother sucking caused my brain to play Pokemon Gotta Catch Em All with the DSM 5??? feels like a cosmic scam but okay sure.

[ari-shipping-stuff]

damn idk can i 🤔

[jewishbarbies]

My mom, who was married to a narcissist for 25 years and has done extensive research on the condition, listened to part of TTPD the other day and said that she believes Taylor Swift is a narcissist.

She heard the first line of My Boy Only Breaks His Favorite Toy (oh, here we go again/the voices in his head/called the rain to end our days of wild) and said that those are the words narcissists go to first in situations. They’ll blame the other person and try to make them feel bad if the other person somehow get in the way of what they want.

I didn’t disagree with her.

I don’t like actually diagnosing someone, but from everything I’ve ever learned about her and my rudimentary understanding of narcissism, it truly wouldn’t surprise me. it’s probably also a big reason why she wouldn’t wanna go to therapy. although I’ve heard from diagnosed narcissists that some will intentionally go to therapy to learn how to narcissist better, in a sense, and that wouldn’t surprise me of her either.

[impostorsshow]

I would never have thought that playing Disney: Dreamlight Valley would make me ship Merlin and Ursula but here we are they're definitely a divorced couple you cannot change my mind

[unityrain24]

i fucking hate all the false "mental illness diagnosis/therapy" adds that are on pinterest. They are full of fucking misinformation and lies. They all are like "take these small quiz and we'll reveal to you how your traumatized and what disorders you have" and totally are not official and totally rely on fake/debunked/"clickbait" psychology louie the ink blot things or listening to an audio and going "which do you hear first?? based on your answer, you may be traumatically depressed!!" etc and it's all totally fake and it would be as big of a deal if it was only one or two in obscure places but it's like. EVERY OTHER AD ON PINTEREST. and they aren't done in as obviously clickbait way as other clickbait things. I mean it's still obviously clickbait to me, but i feel like a lot of people could fall for it who are older or maybe not online as much. And there are so many they are going to be constantly bombarded with these ads when on pinterest. And it's just so fucked up because now more mental health misinformation & stigma will spread, and also these stupid websites are gonna start telling perfectly/relativly fune people they have some deep dark buried trauma or some shit, and for the people that actually are mentally ill who fall for it, they are going to get possibly dangerous misinformation about how to deal with them/why they have it/etc and be taken advantage of in their vulnerable state. And it ducking makes me so angry. Its even worse than the whole corporate faux wellness trend. this is vile, disgusting, and fucking dangerous.

[ocpder]

Do narc abuse believers even hear themselves?

Why should anyone take narc abuse believers seriously when they go around accusing everyone of being abusers? Y'all need to just fucking stop.