#none of this is reasonable behavior.
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emboldened by my.... i won’t call it success at making a project bag. because i have not yet put a drawstring into it so it is not even a bag yet
emboldened by my lack of failure at handsewing two 12″ straight seams, i have.... bought two more yards of fabric...............for some reason
#i went to buy more needles and ribbon for the drawstring. for ONE bag. ONE. but now.#i mean i could use a FEW project bags i guess#but i don't need LOTS#and also i DON'T KNOW HOW TO SEW#the place i bought the fabric does intro sewing machine classes and sewing machine rental time but they are booked up on the former for mont#hs. so i guess i'm going to? keep hand-sewing? bags????? i know you're not supposed to do this but apparently i'm. incorrigible#box opener#none of this is reasonable behavior.
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wow, my housemate known for being an asshole is being an asshole again, who could have guessed
#i mean this instance was more just assholeish behavior and less this guy has actual anger issues that might be of concern to other people in#the house#so guess it could have been worse#but like why the fuck do you think that's an okay thing to just say to a person man#so for context (because you know what#yes i am going to give random people on tumblr my housemate drama)#i had just gotten back from the store and he was in the kitchen cooking something he looked at me and i nodded at him then went upstairs to#drop off my bags in my room before going back downstairs to put away the stuff that needed to go in the freezer as well as fill up my water#bottle and grab some food#and just before i'm about to go back upstairs he asks me 'why don't you talk'#and i don't fucking know how to respond to that so i just stand there for a second and he repeats himself and says 'why don't you talk when#you enter a room'#to which i say 'i don't feel the need to' because i've been put on the spot and don't have a better answer#and he replies with 'well that's kind of rude just thought you should know'#and at that point i just leave because i think he's done and also i don't want to talk to him about this because a) i don't actually care#what he thinks is rude and b) why or why i don't talk is none of his fucking buisness#but then as i'm going up the stairs#like fully out of the room at this point#i hear him say 'it's a pretty odd thing to do'#like idk fuck you man you have literally no say in what i do or how i act#you're just some guy who ended up in the same housing as me#and now that i've had a moment to actually think my answer would be because i'm autistic and talking to people i'm not familiar with is har#and also i don't like you#but i don't think i'm going to say either of those things for various reasons#anyway#j rambles
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What watching one piece is like:

#NONE OF THESE KIDS CAN CATCH A FUCKING BREAK#anti monkey d garp#anti yasopp#yasopp#monkey d garp#one piece bellemere#red leg zeff#judge vinsmoke#dr kureha#nico olvia#except tom <3 love you tom from water 7 <333#but franky's birth parents are apart of this shit so not even he's safe#monkey d dragon#shanks isnt even actually responsible for luffy and hes out here doing more for luffy than dragon (but he has a reason) or garp (FUCK HIM)#red haired shanks#but unfortunately he gets docked some points for uta he still had to leave her behind#this is mostly about garp rn FUCK him#op#one piece#anime and manga#anime#manga#i am in enies lobby so no spoilers#im in enies lobby and thats why this is really about garp in particular#it was played for laughs but luffys shift in behavior was horrifying
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Okay this is the *actual* last comment, for real, but I just found out Spider is now smearing me as a convert and accusing me of being involved with drama I was not involved with because he mistakenly attributed my apologies for his public temper tantrum as being about something unrelated.
THIS IS A FALSE ACCUSATION and I do not appreciate having yet another bit of fake malicious intent falsely ascribed to my actions and* attributing a completely unrelated attack to me.
Also, it's very sad and disappointing whenever a Jew gets mad at a convert because something else is going on in the Jew's life and the convert happens to be in the splash zone and the Jew falls over backwards to smear the convert and invalidate her faith.
Just....the childish aggression is making me so, so sad and disappointed, from someone I used to think very highly of, who is now lying about me and publicly smearing me with false accusations based on a conflict he started because he misinterpreted something I said and I went out of my way to give him the benefit of the doubt when trying to clear up the mistake HE MADE that led him to decide bullying and attacking me for three fucking days was appropriate and okay and that I'm the bad guy for saying it's wildly unprofessional to behave like this in public to a former customer face.
Sorry, but facts, reality, linear time and the truth of what I actually said and did are on my side here, and I will not stand for being smeared and attacked and shat all over because I had the gall to try to kindly resolve his uncalled for, unjustified temper tantrum.
I am also not sorry that I left a side note in the tags that it was also unacceptable for HIM to drag his daughter into a stupid internet slapfight based on his own reading comprehension failure. Because it was and is unacceptable, and she needs to hear that message from someone.
End of story. Keep digging that hole as long as you like, Spider. It's not helping your case and is continuing to make you look progressively worse and more unreasonable, and the only person you have to blame is yourself.
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#don't buy from nerdykeppie#all receipts are under this tag#if you're so offended because my reporting on the things you say and do makes you look bad maybe the problem is you#this whole thing was completely needless#and yet he is continuing to DARVO me because he's pissed that his usual method of smugly lashing out at people over their poor reading#comprehension doesn't work when it's him who failed to comprehend what I wrote in the first place#also REAL FUCKING INCHRESTING that he's lying about me being involved in the jewvestigation of him so he responds by......jewvestigating me#lol#lashon hara. maybe he should study it sometime.#and maybe he'll learn warning others about poor behavior from a business so they don't waste their money there is not lashon hara#but honestly I doubt it because he's never going to let go of his desperate complex about always being the smartest raddest dude in the roo#it looks pathetic and I think he realizes that or he wouldn't have had such a dramatic extended meltdown over the things *he* said to *me*#I also still find it funny that he has conveniently forgotten to address the whole “hey bud your timeline doesn't add up” part#and I think that's because he knows if he were to address the proof that he didn't remember it correctly he would be forced to admit that h#threw a massive shitfit at someone for no reason because his memory got mixed up#so so funny that he can't come up with an answer for that#almost like! he knows he fucked up bigtime and is scrambling to make himself the victim!#also funny that “worrying about someone who was dragged into a fight by a bully” got twisted into sneakily scheming to turn her against him#I'm not a scheming plotter I'm worried because the behavior you showed your child in public was wildly inappropriate TO HER.#it's sad! It's fucking sad and embarrassing and hypocritical and immature and SAD!#but the pretend me other people are attacking because they made shit up is none of my business#if he wants to keep writing fanfic about me he can go right ahead#because again#the more he talks the worse he looks#the more he digs this hole the deeper he gets mired in his own muck#and it's not my job to bend over backwards to keep him from experiencing the natural consequences of his actions.#I really should learn the lesson that people who are snide assholes in one situation are usually snide assholes across the board#really the worst part is knowing I defended him when he threw tantrums like this before#that's what I regret and feel guilty about: that I backed up his shitty behavior and gave it legitimacuy#that was wrong of me and I'm sorry for every time I jumped in as one of his flying monkeys
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thinking about this girl i barely know who started drama with me for no reason a couple months ago and tried to turn all our mutual friends against me and now she’s mad at another friend for no reason and is being super shady to her and this friend told me “it’s like what happened with you all over again” … yeah funny how that works
#like this is what we call a pattern of behavior folks#on one hand it’s very validating to see everyone realizing that this girl is the problem#but on the other hand it’s frustrating that they didn’t see it in the first place bc for a minute there almost all of them sided with her#and yet now they’re all telling me the whole situation was stupid from the beginning and they never understood what her issue was with me#and i’ve been trying to just stay out of the petty drama but they all talk shit about her constantly?#none of them seem to genuinely like her (understandably) so why did they all go along with her when she stirred shit up with me yk#and multiple people who aren’t in this group but have been around us and seen the dynamics have approached me about this girl#saying it seems like she seeks out reasons to dislike people (namely me) and wants to create problems etc etc#and idk it’s just interesting that all these people have been saying the same things all along#and now the people IN the group are finally starting to say it too like yeah we’ve known this#anyway. idk how to conclude this i’m just making observations#i have not participated in the shit talking bc i don’t want to give her an actual reason to have issues with me but i keep witnessing it#so i just hope she doesn’t get it in her head that now IM turning them against HER bc i’m fully not doing anything#they’re just finally catching on to what has been very obvious to me and other outside perspectives from the beginning#lj.txt
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sometimes you just gotta do the job yourself if you want it done right

#yes I did edit that wiki section that boxes him as a mental infant#my tolerance has been fucking nonexistent for months now#cal.txt#spn#jack kline#fandom wiki#like I don’t know how to make it more clear to you guys he operates on robot logic !!! he’s new and young but he is a functioning person!!#and all of his ‘childlike behavior’ is just him being more notably autistic but none of you will admit that#the only reason I didn’t launch into a tirade about his ending is because#it would take too long and also I’m getting better at self restraint
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Going through a straight up comical amount of irritating situations to get the stupid 4* guaranteed ticket from the welcome to sekai campaign. It Will Be Mine.
#I’m resuming this tomorrow it’s been hours now I’m just mad#I’m home because my parents are moving to a different state and I needed to pack whatever was left#and for some reason we just keep old devices when we’re done with them#so I borrow an adapter to allow me to connect my ancient unworking iPad mini to my laptop#factory reset it. i have to reset an old email to access the old Apple id to fully reset it.#it won’t connect to the wifi so I have to reset the settings. i find out it’s too old to run pjsk.#i find an old phone that should work. i reset it as well. I’m able to download pjsk & it takes 20 minutes.#pjsk crashes everytime I try to open it. i attempt to run bluestacks on my computer. bluestacks doesn’t have 64 bit for mac yet.#i get a free trial of parallels and download windows onto my laptop. this takes 40 minutes.#i try to download and run bluestacks on that. m1 macs apparently can’t run bluestacks 64 bit through parallels.#i go find the final old phone that I had forgotten about. it takes forever to charge because the charging port is fucked up. i reset it as#well. it can’t connect to wifi. i try a hotspot on my current phone. service is too awful. i try to do wifi sharing from my laptop.#you have to be connected to the router via a cable for that to work.#at this point it has been like 3 hours. I’m giving up because I’ve been down this route before#when I attempted to run 32 bit steam games on m1 mac#(wine64 doesn’t exist for m1 macs yet -> attempt to run boot camp -> boot camp isn’t a thing anymore on Apple silicon -> attempt to run#several different programs that allow me to run windows on a mac. none of them work. ->#look into linux & give up. -> attempt to implement the unfinished/unbottled wine64 code thru terminal. ->#fuck up and delete some important file & have to fix that (misery inducing) -> keep trying. i think I downloaded a Mac coding program at#some point? i realize I have zero coding knowledge and this is a mistake. -> give up and purchase crossover. game doesn’t even work. ->#3 months later update to the latest OS so I can have enough storage to play psychonauts 2. find out the $60 crossover#purchase was a bad idea because ‘heehee crossover doesn’t work on that buy the new version’ (fuck crossover).#my toxic trait is my belief that I can figure out anything via google and sheer stubbornness. usually this is true. occasionally there are#exceptions to this rule. most of them are because owning Apple products is a mistake.#i think if I reset the router tomorrow I can solve this problem but I can also just go elsewhere with better service or wait until I’m home#now it’s a matter of pride. and also free 4*/I have nothing better to do because I’m stuck here until Tuesday.#<- this is all normal behavior by the way. who doesn’t spend 8 hours ramming their head against a problem every once and a while. enrichment#mine#oh I forgot. i also looked into cloning the app but that would cost money for something that might not even work.#‘just log out and make an alt’ and risk losing my account? I’m stupid enough to overwrite it on accident.
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i went to go look at my yard and saw like three mourning doves and a metric buttload of sparrows out there which was pretty fuckin awesme. i went onto the porch to watch them better but there was a sparrow sitting on the power lines right there who saw me and started making an alarm call so the other birds got nervous and started dispersing. i went back inside and just looked out through a crack in the door instead. ONE sparrow flew right up next to me and i watched her eat seeds by sticking her beak between the boards of the porch in a very silly and adorable fashion. i think they should make some sort of talking to birds so i can explain to them that i literally just want to look at them and wont eat them
#idk if im like. making assumptions but it seems reasonable#none of these birds were striped sparrows but ive read that they sometimes forage in interspecies groups and will frequently have lookouts#that supervise the rest of the group and will make an alarm call if a predator is near#it seems like it wouldnt be implausible behavior to attribute to other sparrows
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Asian Population Studies is an insane episode. I don’t like it when anyone else says this but I get to say it. Jeff Winger is a pile of garbage & Annie deserves so much more 😭
#this is not an anti Jeff/annie post. I love them. Jeff just. infuriated me at times#the levels of his manipulation & controlling behavior in this episode followed by the perfect opportunity for him to do the right thing#& show Annie he cares like. the Perfecr opportunity is there & he sabotages it on purpose#he’s continuously so cruel to her 😭😭😭#none of which is a reason not to ship something. it’s a compelling dynamic & moral arbiters in the tags can suck my dick#I don’t usually add so many disclaimers to reaction posts but it feels necessary based on how people act on here lmao#.anyway#community rewatch
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I wish for all people who intentionally buy and breed wolfdogs to be torn to shreds eternally by a pack of wolves when they die and go to hell
#seriously we have spent thousands of years selectively breeding dogs to serve as our companions#why would you undo all of that to create a genuinely worse animal#wolfdogs are antisocial destructive expensive reactive and potentially dangerous#shelters and rescues cant take them because they require so much extra time and care and dont get along with other dogs#they can have any sort of medical or behavioral issues#they simultaneously require the care and affection that a dog needs and the space and isolation from humans that a wolf needs#and there is no purpose to breeding them.#none#the only reason people create wolfdogs is so they can feel like jon snow. thats it#its selfish and narcissistic and unfair to the animal#sorry im upset rn lmao#just saw a video on tiktok of someone bringing his 94% wolfdog into a tractor supply without a muzzle or harness
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a few days ago i had the epiphany of like, okay, i’m not kidding anybody here and the only people disagreeing with me are figments of past people who float around in my head. i have BPD. and it would take a major fucking overhaul of my entire life and the way that i have operated for seventeen years to say any different. so instead of me saying BPD with fifteen asterisks specifying i am not technically sure and this is medically recognized but not professionally diagnosed etc etc let me just say i have it.
and then now i’m like oh God but what if i don’t have it
#nightmare.personal#like at this point i think the only thing that would convince me is to have a professional say it#but my therapist literally will not diagnose me (for several reasons which are all incredibly valid) and i am not seeing another person#like i am lucky enough that i have a therapist that i can scream at for a session and then the next time talk about my last date or whatever#i don't want to have this label put on me because that's going to fuck up so much about my life#but i am literally never going to be able to get rid of that doubt that's telling me nobody thinks you have BPD you're lying to yourself#and it's like! that's not unreasonable for people to think! i know that i'm 17 and that's young for a diagnosis!#and maybe i'm biased because people have told me to look into BPD because of my behaviors since i was 13#but i've watched testimonial videos and spent hours in forums and talked to people diagnosed with BPD and read articles about it#and i've studied the symptoms like the back of my fucking hand and i've tracked my behaviors and i've done EVERYTHING#and i've considered EVERY other option i've considered: autism ptsd bipolar adhd. to name a few#and NONE of them explained this the ONLY thing that makes sense is bpd#not even other personality disorders explain it it's just this one#and i know people think that you shouldn't seek labels but. i have been looking for a community for so long#and now i think i have one. but i still feel like i don't actually have it#and that everyone thinks i'm lying but just isn't saying anything yet
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one of these days i will eventually write an essay on the culture of mischaracterization through oversimplification within fandom but! i am too! lazy! to do so!!!
but the thesis statement, i think, for why this happens is because humans are inherently less inclined towards impartiality and will pick sides whenever possible. fans are not content to have a character just be a collection of fictional choices that have either harmed or helped or otherwise other characters within the same story, there needs to be a moral alignment. which! no!!
sometimes assigning a character to a specific "good" or "bad" label actively cheapens the narrative and inhibits you from looking deeper into their watsonian intricacies!!! please just let morally grey characters be morally grey!!!!!
hey so we put your morally grey character in a fandom. yeah half the fanbase makes them into a perfect angel who did nothing wrong and the other half depicts them as a cartoonishly evil villain who hurts people for fun. no we dont know how to explain that people can do bad things for good reasons or good things for bad reasons. sorry man
#my posts#ish#i would say im not gonna tell people to stop doing that bc it's none of my business but this kind of behavior i think centrally stems from#humans just sorta being idiots and not understanding real life moral complexity as well?? and i think letting people continue to not learn#that others can. say. do bad things for good reasons or have good intentions but a completely different impact or be an asshole sometimes#without needing to die may or may not harm people in the long run#and that concludes another round of “cassian thinks about things way too much”
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BAH HAH, YES
AU where the Justice League are all friends in their civilian identities and openly do stuff together as such. How are these seemingly completely random people connected? Like how on earth does billionaire Bruce Wayne know a combat pilot? Or a forensic scientist from Central City? Or a reporter from Metropolis? And why are there people of all ages in this friend group (along with the guardians of the minors, obviously)?
“Uh the internet?”
They all make a discord server and keep up conversations going in there about their everyday, mundane lives, without a single mention of super heroing anywhere. They encourage each other and vent to one another about overbearing bosses or the fact their kid dumped an entire gallon of milk on the floor this morning and do you know how long that took to clean up?? It got under the OVEN.
They stream movies together every once in a while, or hop on steam together to play whatever latest fad game Barry or Billy or whoever is begging everyone to try. Not everyone participates every time, and a few people almost never log in and talk, but they plan out trips together and just generally use the server to connect themselves to each other. Ostensively, it started when a few of them all met each other in an online game and it spread to friends of friends as they continued to invite cool folks they thought fit well into the friend group.
Obviously, in reality they all met because they’re Super Heroes, but this is the cover. It also gives them excuses to get together for Thanksgiving or go camping together, publicly as themselves.
#justice league#I’m in a discord server like this lmao#it started as a small group of people wanting to say ALL the cuss words while playing the game together#drunk and on voice call#and none of the servers in existence allowed that sort of behavior#and then lockdown happened and it morphed into weekly together sessions playing all sorts of things or watching movies#and now we do trips together multiple times a year#where anywhere from 3 - 20 people get together IRL and do stuff#even though we are literally spread out all across the country#with a random Canadian included for some reason#and now we have so many people who have never played the original game#but they’re here because someone in the group liked them and invited them#and bam: perfect cover for the Justice League to be actual friends openly#fic idea#dc#story#addition +
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kiara carrera is a girl with undiagnosed adhd. TO ME
#it’s the poor impulse control + the feeling of never living up to people’s expectations or fitting in#+ sensation-seeking risk-taking behavior#it seems like she’s not doing badly in school but it also doesn’t seem like she’s very engaged either lol#none of her ideas of her future include more school or a desk job#she seems very bored within the confines of ‘normal’ life#anyway i’m projecting but also i’m right#i see people call her the ‘reasonable one’ — you’re out of your mind if you think she’s the ‘reasonable one’ lol lmao even#also i know some of it is situational but she literally CAN’T play by her parents’ rules when they let her stay with them again#i think she lasts ONE night before she’s sneaking out again#part of it is her loyalty to her friends but i also think she just cannot help herself#if she knows something is happening then she is going to be there no matter what
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gryffindor!gojo who’s confident but not daft. he gets a sense that you don’t particularly like him and that just can’t do.
he becomes observant of your behavior and your actions. you laugh freely when your with your friends, a smile in your face as you all joke around the table. you seem to get along with your potions partner, even if they’re a slytherin, and sometimes when he passes by the second story girl laboratories he hears you talking to myrtle, which is truly a saint activity.
but for some reason, he never gets any of this attention.
whenever he tries to talk to you during the defense against the dark arts lessons you loudly shush him and tell him to leave you alone. when he tries to gauge how much you enjoy quidditch you send him a glare. you never seem to smile when he’s around, that frown growing between your brows.
and it’s strange, really. gojo is used to people just being fine with him, better than fine actually. like for example, one night in the common rooms, he went up to you to ask something measly.
“did you understand a word of what snape was saying?” he asked with a teasing smile, something surely you could agree on.
you seems to be alone, working on an essay, being left by your friends as they went to sleep. when you saw him come near you, you had to control yourself from groaning.
“yes.” you mutter, continuing to work.
“merlin,” he said with an awkward chuckle, glad none of his friends were around to see the ever boisterous gojo satoru stammer, “you must have great-”
“i’m trying to get this done by tonight,” you look up momentarily and he would have been able to reciprocate your hatred if only he didn’t find his throat getting dry whenever you looked at him, “please leave.”
so gojo leaves. and this seems to be a routine. but he knows that deep down it’s not just him pestering you that the issue. because sometimes, when he doesn’t mean to, he catches your stare from across the dining hall table. and he sees the way you were tediously picking his features apart, just as he does to you.
and he doesn’t miss the way you quickly avert your stare away. nor does he miss the way you bring your cold fingers to your cheeks to cool them down.
gojo smiles. he has a plan.
#gojo x reader#gojo x you#satoru x reader#gojo fluff#gojo drabble#jjk x reader#jjk x you#jjk drabble
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