#like i get the whole issue of addiction

[polterhaze]

Jimmy and Curly from mouthwashing are unironically such important comfort characters to me as crazy as it sounds. Their human portrayal does insane things to my brain as someone struggling with severe mental health issues and trauma.

I see different ugly/scary parts of myself in both of them. Stuff from my intrusive thoughts that scares me, the way system fails mentally ill, and such. So yeah, these two and their narrative regarding mental health and accountability matters a lot to me.

Also some of you are ableist as fuck in the ways you talk about Jimmy lmao. We can absolutely talk about his wrongs and the evil he has done without punching down people that hallucinate, are delusional or suffer from personality disorders.

EDIT: adding my tags because I am deathly afraid of being misunderstood

[dittolicous]

I mean, like I said in the comments, my issue just stems from the contradictory statements of living for Miri or making the most of her time, yet not giving up the very thing that may have led to her cancer (or at the very least, makes it worse). You can't have it both ways. I won't deny quitting is absolutely hard but she has no excuse anymore. Yeah, she's 10000% safer than Kazuki and Rei and Miri truly loves her, but to give up on quitting is kinda unacceptable. It's an expensive habit that will only make her health and Miri's health worse. And it's not like it's going to get any easier to do while raising a toddler and handling cancer.

I def agree lighting up without asking is incredibly rude. I don’t know if I want to really judge her harshly for it since we don't know what Kyu told her and let's not forget how harshly Kazuki judged her way back before (over many things that women truly get no societal support in, such as abuse, addiction, mental health, and reproductive rights).

Really, she came off on this whole thing extremely strong, declaring she was taking Miri back right away instead of acknowledging she made a mistake but that she was glad for the good they've done in caring for her daughter. Or even just asking to talk to them. I feel like if she hadn't come out guns ablazing, Kazuki would have been much more sympathetic to her plight. She might just be a bit rough around the edges like the guys were in the start so. Understandable.

But, back to my point, I just think of all the habits to break, it's highly questionable that smoking wasn't the first one and that she ho so far as to do it in front of the guys she's pleading to about wanting to do better.

This is exactly like my last post about her, re: Actions v. Thoughts. She had the desire to hit Miri, but never gave it or let it actually hurt Miri. She was strong in that case. Not great, but given the situation, she was actually trying. This time, she's saying she want's to live for Miri... while lighting up a cancer stick.

I won't demonize her, there's definitely a story beneath her surface and I 100% believe she loves Miri despite everything. And this could all be a hint that there's something more going on behind the scenes, but I would not place Misaki on any side other than Good. She clearly did something right for Miri to be Miri.

I just *personally* hate that loving her child while dying isn't enough to stop smoking. Pet peeve, if ya will xD

actually my one grievance against misaki after ep 10:

YOU HAVE THROAT CANCER WHY TF ARE YOU STILL SMOKING????!!!!?!?!!!!!!

[edge-oftheworld]

when I was in high school there was a tendency whenever there was an attractive boy to simply fan over him. in a way that talked over everything he might say for himself and created a narrative that completely ignored, the fact in some cases, that he was really struggling—or if he was struggling, to pin all the blame on the girl he’s dating and completely ignore the thousands of other factors (no it can’t be mental illness or unaccommodated disability or systemic abuse or exploitation and if he is in an abusive relationship we won’t ever consider the factors that put him at risk for that)

and I’m not saying this fandom is like that. I get the need for privacy around some things and how in public conversations sometimes it’s a lot more respectful to stick to the positives (everyone who does that, I admire you) or even the struggles that are talked about publicly, show respect by not reading too far into them. there’s a time and place for that. but sometimes I feel like our only options are shitty and ableist gossip or totally ignoring the systemic and structural issues we know exist in something like the music industry until someone dies and then we’re looking for someone to blame. friends, there is a point where the respectful thing is to listen to what someone says and come together to make things better. and you can learn how to have that conversation respectfully. please do

[little-flame-prince]

Ohhh my gods. Oh my gods. Oh my gods. Of fucking course. Very funny.

[pilonciillo]

[razzle-zazzle]

Fighting the first movie tooth and nail trying to figure out how it all goes down.

I am not winning 😞

[maxdurden]

i got that kind of mentally ill swag where everyone in my life knows that i need to be medicated except my therapist ✌️💕🌎

[dewgongs]

ughh why do i have to have njghtmares about them

[martyrbat]

in the newest edition of skinny bitch audacity (fatphobia):

comparing weight gain to... being a meth addict. and that you can look at someone and be qualified to say theyre degrading their health if they arent a small enough size for you to be attracted to them/be 'acceptable'

[IF YOU SHAME ADDICTS ON THIS POST YOURE GETTING BLOCKED. IF YOU SHAME FAT PEOPLE ON THIS POST YOURE GETTING BLOCKED. I WILL NOT WARN YOU TWICE.]

[lavenite]

and i know its said a lot but im soooo serious when i say trans women who are musicians are so fucking good. go listen to pigeon pits three albums in a row and experiencing her journey in discovering herself and the evolutions of her relationship then come back to me

[turbo-virgins]

What’s your OC’s Literary Archetype?

tagged by @purplehairsecretlair and @fourlittleseedlings to take this uquiz

I’ve seen lots of tags going around for this one lately, so if you have an oc and haven’t done it yet, this is your sign 🙏🏻 (and feel free to tag me if you do 🥰)

Delilah Rookwood | Far Cry 5

Orphan

you’ve been hurt a lot before, haven’t you? you feel like you don’t belong where you are, no matter how hard you try. you crave human connection, to find people that feel ostracized the way you do.

[imthatwannabeauthor]

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[chiropterx]

What does your heart look like?

Broken, missing pieces that once were there

Your heart has been torn before, chipped and maybe even shattered. Some pieces will never be recovered, and you are shaped by the loss. But it can still be shaped into something tangible, something good, even with its flaws and imperfections. You don’t have to do all the work of rebuilding by yourself. Allow other hands to leave their fingerprints on the new heart you create from the remnants.

Tagged by;; @arkhamcalamity Tagging;; Whoever wants to do it??

[exbeaut]

ok yes loving daisy jones so far bc i did just re read the book today so i’m back in it but my one qualm so far is that daisy is not unhinged like?? i don’t mind what minor plot/story changes they have made so far in fact i like it bc the book is completely told by multiple unreliable narrators that’s the whole point esp with the “plot twist” billy’s version (and daisys to less of an extent but still close to it bc she cared about camilla so she wouldn’t want to hurt julia) of things can’t be believed at all lmaooo so i don’t mind the changes i feel it’s a good way to frame it more real or whatever but my issue is why is Daisy so like put together??? she was insane and off her shit from age fourteen but so far three eps in she’s so ?? composed?? even in daisys unreliable pov of the book she knows she was an addict and a disaster and billy too on the first tour but in the show it’s so toned down maybe for viewer rating sakes? like maybe they can’t show heroin on prime shows idk lmaooo

[winglssdemon]

Look for hidden veggies recipes. There's multiple vegan cheese recipes that are completely made out of vegetables and it still tastes like cheese. Branch out of US food recipes as well(if youre in the US), a lot of other countries do a lot better with making both fruits and esp vegetables taste better. Soups, dumplings, veggie burgers, pasta made out of veggies, and using dips and sauces are a good way as well. If you need veg to be easier to chop up, you can buy pre chopped, use a food processor, or get a manual vegetable chopper. Ninja blender is fantastic for making soups and pureeing vegetables.

i mean this in the gentlest way possible: you need to eat vegetables. you need to become comfortable with doing so. i do not care if you are a picky eater because of autism (hi, i used to be this person!), you need to find at least some vegetables you can eat. find a different way to prepare them. chances are you would like a vegetable you hate if you prepared it in a stew or roasted it with seasoning or included it as an ingredient in a recipe. just. please start eating better. potatoes and corn are not sufficient vegetables for a healthy diet.

[jesterbots]

could you imagine being a man, a sis gender man, who is really into sounding other men. It's just the only way for you to get off really. But one day you meet a man that you really like, and you just connect with him on a whole other level. And you guys finally get to the point where not only are you in the bedroom with each other, but you're starting to get more open with each other too. About all the things like. The only issue is, is that this man is transgender. He does not have a penis he has never pursued any sort of bottom surgery. So he still has the whole set, the labia menorah menorah the majora Little China adequate Torres. And he also has a urethra. Now he's willing to indulge in your special weird little thing. You're sounding. And you guys finally get to the bedroom and you have your little sounding pole or whatever it is they use. But you realize some thing very quickly. Do you know where the clitorises you know where the clitoris is, but where… Is the urethra? Riddle me this Batman

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