#life in your 20s

[forsapphics]

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[slythdiaries]

13.10.24

Hot chocolate season upcoming☕

And this ambient music is so good I can't. Samarkand 1869. Highlight of my October.

[vryk0laka5]

On being in your early 20s

[letmebite-you]

i have so much to say and no one to listen, i however hear everything. i hear the cries for help of those i love, the crackling sound their hearts make breaking a little more everyday. all i am is a bystander. i can’t stand powerlessness. all i want is to protect you but so many things stand in my way. uncontrollable things; i have to let you feel and witness your pain. because that’s how life goes. i’m just scared and i wish i had someone in my life i could relay on. just for a moment forget about what i have to do knowing all the people i love are here with me and safe. just for a little while, go back to our garden and play innocently in the grass in blissful ignorance. just one last time. please. i promise

[boldblossom]

[dxmxuse]

A few things ive been doing recently that help manage my adhd

Not sure if this will help anyone but i've made a list of things ive been working really hard to do to help manage my adhd and general inability to be a functional adult:

Make reminder posters! Get on canva and create personalized posters to put around your room/house to help remind you to do daily things like take your meds, feed pets, take out trash, etc.

Keep a junk notebook! Anything you think of that cant do immediately write it down. If its important it'll help you remember it, if not it saves you from getting distracted or making impulsive decisions. (This is especially helpful if you tend to get distracted when studying!)

CLEAN AS YOU GO! Whether its taking a cup out of your room every time you leave or washing each dish immediately after use. If you can develop this habit it keeps your space so much cleaner!

Have two laundry bins: one for worn but not dirty things and one for dirty things. It limits what ends up on your floor!

Make use of bins. I have several around my apartment that I use for things that dont have a home. Once those bins are full, I go through them and discard or find a permanent home for them.

Don't study/work at home. Even if it means buying a $5 coffee just so you can sit in a spot and effectively work, its much better than getting so behind on tasks you get overwhelmed.

It takes some work to develop habits and im far from perfect with all of these, but if I can do these things even 3 days a week it makes a huge difference!

[kgdanny02]

🚬💀🦋

Chloe Price from “Life is strange”

(From my instagram)

[lugazelle]

I’m oh so many years late but I just realized that Perry the Platypus’ song said “semiaquatic EGG LAYING mammal of action” and not “Eight Legged mammal”.

the song wasn’t even playing, I was just singing it to myself and realized he doesn’t have 8 legs.

[thatgirlintheboots]

maybe?

art by me

[lunarhode]

my humble 20s wishlist:

to chase coastal nights through sunroofs

to sleep with the balcony door open while my friends are in the garden

to hold eye contact on a porch

to waste a summer window-watching

to run a red light when there's a sixteen-year-old me in the passenger seat

to go insane, absolutely batshit crazy in love

to scream my name when they ask who's scared

to be so mesmerised by the sky i don't hear my bones breaking

to grieve days when cars were faster

to share a bed with the lingering presence of last july

to sit in silence with million things to say

to find purpose in losing my mind and in having hair fall on my face

[stfulara]

Joe Goldberg didn't creep me out as much as Dan Humphrey did.

[slythdiaries]

17.07.24

Big update!!!

Your girl got her first job!

It is honestly a little disorienting in terms of my previous routine which had unwavering hours of focussed studying. The best I'm able to do now is study in bits and pieces.

I'm learning how to exist in this new life☘️

[agj1993]

[souptastical]

tfw you decide to do laundry & write for the rest of the night but end up taking drugs & sending nudes instead

[med-ex]

its the petty things that keep me going

(love u mate but your new bitch sucks)

[urlocalhovel]

do you ever just wanna do a friends-with-benefits thing with a guy you’ve known since primary but can’t bring yourself to do so bc his heart is literally an orchard & you are the embodiment of the song “i told you I was mean” by Elle King…