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i hope we get more scenes like the one where fionna slaps simons dumb bitch face i dont mean lkke she should physically attack him more i mean. so far simon has, whether as an unintentional emotional or trauma response or as a fully deliberate choice, been mean or rude or snippy or a little bitch to, i believe, Literally Everyone he has interacted with except finn and marceline, and well i dont think he’s going to. Stop. being this way. just yet. which also means invariably there will be consequences to him being a little bitch. and i love to see both of these things <3
#I MIGHT BE BEINF A LITTLE MEAN TO HIM#ACTUALLY NO IM NOT.#on a character i love it for him that he cant stop taking his issues out on everyone around him <3333333#but on a personal level oh my god dude#learn how to deal with ur feelings#he is a slow motion atomic bomb in the process of destroying himself and everyone around him <3#Don’t worry mr petrikov were going to get you the help you don’t want if we have to DRAG you into it#basilposting#atposting#fionna and cake spoilers
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It's missing my father hours rn so imma just dump a bunch of pictures here and cry
( sorry i don't know the source of anything I just had them on my phone)
(also dont read the tags i just need to let it out lol)
#I just realized I can call him dad easier than my real dad and now I understand why am I so damn attached to him#I always knew he was a parental figure for me#but now I connected the dots#How when u have an absent dad and a d34d mom a guy shows up in ur life#that tells u life advice that both of ur parents failed to do so#and makes u feel safe the first time in ur life#ofc ud become attached#i know for sure its unhealthy how much i love and miss him#he occupies most of my thoughts honestly#But how could i not cling to him so much when he was the only one who gave me hope in life#i try to keep going and even tho he is not here i keep telling myself whatever he taught me. i keep reminding myself he wants us to live an#bloom and be free#and that's what ill try to do#but you know somedays i wish i could just disappear and be wrapped in eternal happiness#its so fucking hard to pull yourself out of the slump man im so fucking tired im so so tired#somedays i wish id have the courage to off myself but i know that deep down i want to live and ive always wanted to live but i have no idea#how to live. i feel like i finally found a purpose and someone i love. but at the same time im always doubting myself and im scared of losi#g this little hope again and i know i should cherish and use it instead but each day i have this anxiety because rn i have nothing else if#lose this i seriously will lose everything atp. but ill still try bc rn its this or death so i should try im just damn tired yes anyways#sorry for being depressing some days just dont work out but thats okay#yes at the same time i want to get out of my head and try to find some friends but i cant deny that im highkey fucked up and i just cant le#go of my past and i still feel like that helpless unloved kid and idk how to form relationships this way. i dont trust myself at all so idk#how to trust others. and i feel like in order to find ppl that would love me i have to overshare abt my whole lifestory bc it still dictate#my life heavily. and since i met this band its better cuz im learning to deal w it and i want to heal from everything but yes at the same t#me who would wqnt to be friends w. someone that has like a year of life experience and 18 years of depression lol#so yes its complicated. bc i have friends but im like the funny friend. the one that is as shallow as puddle and has no problems but honest#y im genuinely sufferint qnd have been sufferinz all my life so i want to come out of my funny friend role. but that wojld mean i have to t#ll the shit i went through to all my friends but tbh it would be so random so ye. i do have a plan though. how it could work. But yes im ti#ed have been tired for 7 years now. But this time around i hope i can successfully get out of this torture cycle lol.#ok sorry this is what happens after puberty guys i could beva research case for a damn mental institute atp xdd
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it's really interesting to me how they wrote and how jarpad played sam's trauma from the cage through the soulless sam arc and the hallucifer arc. like when he's soulless he's very much like dissociated out of body hypersexual kind of trauma response with memory gaps and no real sense of self. when he gets his soul back he does sort of a 180. he's overwhelmed, he's hallucinating, having intense flashbacks, using self harm to ground himself, feeling hyposexual, he can't help but remember. I just find it interesting to see his initial trauma from the cage and how it changes over time, how it changes him
#ive just been learning about trauma and how ive been changed by trauma in ways i didnt realize before#and i find myself similar to a lot of his responses#and it feels sort of validating to me weirdly bc in my head im very prone to be like yeah no that wasnt a big deal#ur making a big deal out of nothing etc etc#just a lot of minimizing#which sam does too#if i had more coherence rn id go more in depth with his trauma responses but im feeling kind of out of it today so this is what ive got#sam winchester#sam and lucifer#hallucifer#soulless sam#spn#trauma tw#ask to tag#mine#sh mention
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okay i feel a little bad for jason, i'm truly putting him through it
#sorry ak jason#but also this is kinda how i expect ak jason to feel and behave#because he has not learned how to deal with emotions in a healthy way nor does he have a good self image!!#imagine yourself being forced to walk around with that scar on ur cheek#reckless choices in this context is him starting fights with a lot of baddies and stuff like that#not seeking out joker because FUCK THAT CLOWN! that was a GOOD CHOICE!!#brujay fic#also this is just a little snippet of the whole thing but i haven't posted the latest chapter yet
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i remember quite a long time ago when i was like 8 and i was at my grandma's house crying about something small and i was so confused why i was so upset about it. my grandma said "well, you might be angry about a lot of things right now, and it's all building up" and i sat there thinking that that was the most idiotic thing i've ever heard. but like. 10 years later and i'm in the exact situation she was describing.
#mine#personal#also turns out i was just still upset about my cat daisy dying recently at that point so my grandma was right lol. i didn't realize she was#right until later. but i've realized over the years that she has taught me a lot of lessons that still help me a lot today.#she taught me that naming ur emotions can help u process + express them n how to be still and quiet like physically mentally emotionally an#spiritually. like her and i would sit on her living room couch together and for like 10 minutes we wouldn't talk. at all. we would close ou#eyes and take deeps breaths and then after a while go back to what we were doing. i thought this was all very dumb and meaningless when i#was a small child but the lessons i've learned from her have actually helped a LOT over the years when it comes to dealing with negative#emotions and difficult situations. i have some confusing mixed feelings about her (personal family related reasons) but i'm honestly#really thankful for her. i miss her a bit tbh.
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Women in stem thingz ♥️💗💝💗💘💓💖💞💖💕💖💓💘💗💘💞💝💓💘✨✨✨✨: trying all day not to burst into tears at werk and failing at it so you gotta go into the restroom every 5 minutes
#me: what do i do i feel like my work is being talked over and I'm just not respected enough by my male colleagues#my dad who is man in stem: i think ur just being too sensitive#AAAAAAAAAA#i need to change topics#ppl were discussing adding arts into stem to make steam#and no#as both an artist and a stem major i am gatekeeping stem from yall#if you wanted to get 3 years of additional calc shoved down ur through and learn how algebra could be linear you would have done that#back off#did not earn this#also do not have to deal with the stem workforce#you cannot have a fun little title no#does ur day to day put u face to face with tech bros???#no?????????#woman in steam means Nothingggggg#i need a special little category to soothe my pains
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chuck/mj gives friends to lovers to enemies to strangers (lmao) and idk how to feel abt it. like oh this dude you've known and loved for decades suddenly hates you because you made a comment about the people he surrounds himself with on air? you haven't spoken in 10 years even though you once considered yourselves inseparable? you were fierce rivals at the height of your careers and now it's radio silent between the both of you? and you hate that it's dead static because you miss the talks and the good days? inch resting
like yeah the story makes mj sound like a massive diva and all but like. the Narrative
theyre perfect for each other 🥰
#TBH#they kind of deserve each other LMAO#and charles misses it :(#THIS IS SO INTERESTING id love to hear more of ur thoughts on them bcs!!! real!!#chuck always speaks his mind!! even if it may be unwelcome sometimes#mj needs that but mj hates that LMAO he loves yesmen and charles is Not a yesman..#mj likes showing ppl up.. chuck likes learning new things#eventually chucks learns enough to make mj feel like hes the one getting showed up and all a sudden#it's not so fun anymore#i think abt mj looking thru chucks salary (lmao??) over a deal he wasnt even involved with#he just made a similar/same one before charles#so he calls him up and tells chuck the value of stock that he learned from his nike deal cus mj looves stock#and charles went with it even tho he had no idea why until now (which he always sings his value over)#they were both so proud of it LMAO chuck being amazed with mjs genius creativity n mj givin unique tips o the trade#but that was a while ago... and now chuck is telling mj how to handle his business#that does Not fly with mj...#i love friends to lovers to enemies to strangers LMAO vintage ball loves to parade their masculinity then have friendship coldwars over#mean girl issues. it's hilarious. TY for this info!!! this is so! YES!! like!! someone needs to look into it! keep asking!!!#i need them to make up!!! mj can be a diva and charles can be dumb but they can BOTH be demanding#they could be so powercouple it's almost upsetting#ted asks#VERY inch resting!! we need to keep tabs on them !!
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Everyone always complains about flat hair or flat bangs but no one wants to tease their hair anymore
#like its fine to tease ur hair a little bit#i think its much nicer than using texture powder that makes ur hair feel like new starched jeans#and yes i understand it can tangle#but you just have to learn how to deal w tangles properly and easily#and thats a skill u should have#so that anything u do to ur hair u can fix#at least style wise
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Ok alleged Loki s2 spoilers
So apparently the TVA Loki ends up in at the end of S1 isn't like a different TVA but the same TVA but in the past which means there was a point in time where Kang was ruling as himself before putting up the Time Keepers disguise and I'm just
FASCINATED as to why he decided to do that
Like did he reach a point where he realized even Kang being a known quantity was enough to risk another multiversal war???
Does that also mean he wiped the memories of the entire staff or did he like.
Wipe the staff.
#loki spoilers#this is like rumored / leaked so it might be BS but it Feels Right so I'm like. hhhhh.#the more I learn about kang the more I'm like 'whats your DEAL'#anyway hi I'm iconing like a mad man hows ur night going
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i always wish i could’ve followed through w alexia and adonis’s stories because they r so heartfelt and meaningful to me and maybe one day i will actually be able to tell them but for now they’ll sit and simmer in my brain
#i just. have so many feelings about them !!!#rhys and theo too like they’re all So important to me#like UGH they’re gonna grow !!! and overcome !!!#alexia and her fear of abandonment and adonis deals with Heavy themes of grief and loss and learning to live with that and accept it !!!#and rhyss struggles w perfectionism and addiction#and theos relationship w his mom and how it’s okay to cut ppl out of ur life if they’re bad for u even If they’re your family#just. sorry. i’m having so many thoughts abt them tonight#like i said ideally one day i can properly tell their stories because they’re very near and dear to me that’s all#dl#chatter
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Here's another nice explanation.
people misunderstand what ‘gifted kid’ actually means but it’s ok it’s fine it’s cool it’s good
#this.#and something personal#i didn't know how to review and practice until i totally screwed up. and i Still have a hard time learning how to learn#and ppl Still telling me like 'but ur the smartest kid in our fam! don't waste it!' like well. ok. tyvm but. wow that's hell lot of pressur#what's the meaning of this. i don't feel like that. and neither do I ever know how or want to deal with this#and i Knew for a fact that i wasn't That gifted. i'm just an early book nerd who is socially inept#and schools tended to reward my kind of traits until a certain stage (ha)#but was that any better? that just another rabbit hole i'd better not be in#...sigh
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you parents constantly telling u the shit that you've been trying to unlearn surely is smth
#my mum is very “tough it out” its all in your head meditate and never experience and emotional reaction this way. make rules for yourselfetc#shes the bhuddist equivalent of a bible quotes spewing christian basically. n its cool i know how to control my emotions and shit now but#thats my problem lmaooo. it took me counseling to learn how to feel emotions and im still not nailing it most times#also i used to be so strict about rules i made for myself like “u have to brish ur teeth before bed” that i would stay up until 4am not doi#anything because i was too tired to get up and go brush them until i passed out from exhaustion#unlearning that was very good for me right#mothers undiagnosed adhd most likely lmao and is just constantly teachibg me all the coping skills she developed#and its so fun cuz she just always tells me stuff she struggled with and im like mother youve been telling me this since i was born i GOT I#funnily enough i use all the meditation and bhuddist shit when talking to her specifically#every conversation is me going ok.. deep breath. think from her perspective. calmly explain and address. its not personal. getting agitated#would resolve nothing#and thats fascinating cuz when i moved out i was like oh you people dont receive the training of a bhuddist monk by age 5??#i had a roomate who i didnt get along with sadly who was the complete opposite and had learned to communicate via shouting and confrontatio#like thats literally how she communicated n i had such a hard time saying anything to her cuz id learnt to just go meditate till feeling go#away before talking to someone#like i never saw my parents shout at each other or argue in my life. they usually retired themselves from the situation#when i explained this shit to someone they were like “lucky u my parents fought all the time” my brother in christ youre not hearing me#you can be unhealthy in different ways.#my conclusion now is my mums a cool person just totally clueless on how to raise a child#like i remember feeling very unheard and bad about her becayse literally every sentence out of her mouth is a life lesson#and even if u catch her in a genuine social interaction with u she quickly corrects herself and brings the life wisdom back in#and even if she agrees with you shell go in a ten minute tangent because she wanted to talk about bhuddha when literally there was no point#fuck as a kid with adhd i remember it being torture#now i learnt how to deal with it better but good christ#and yeah just had to tell this to someone because i have the patience of a saint and its not being recognised#like even my cousin is always like you know how ur mom is cuz being lectured 24/7 is exhausting#and fr everytime i talk to her i have to be like “ok. now remind her subtly that you are a human being”#lmaoo#readme.txt
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i need to fuck smth up so bad rn omg
#i just overwhelmed myself for the morning#thinking thinking thinking#arguing in my head#now i need to release#want to redacted but#ugh#gotta cope healthily or whatever#gotta learn emotional regulation#why do i hv to regulate my emotions myself when self destructive behaviours can do it so easily for me#idk like yh sure it does feel better to wait it out#let the moment pass be mature show emotional intelligence etc etc#but also do you know how difficult it is to deal with strong emotions#when it always feels like it's physically like weighing on u#like why are emotions physical ur not real ur in my head#stop touching me stop rubbing the inside of my skin#stop gnawing at my chest#just stop#having a pool wld fix me#i'd just jump in hold my breath sink to the bottom and sit there until i cant anymore#then i'd let the air out n float back to the top#and i'd feel better#jump in fully clothed ofc#god i miss the pool i miss swimming#actually im pretty sure i can trace my mental decline to when i stopped swimming classes#so also fuck the government for closing the public easily accesibly pools#omg fuck this stupid baka life indeed#everyone wants u to be mentally sound#or at least to act like it#but no one cares to put anything in place to make tht possible#cloud nonsense
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just learnt that the German translation of Peace Walker has Kaz and BB use the formal you for each other which- is the biggest "no homo" choice I've seen in a while in German translations and genuinely makes ... no sense.
#2010 release date really shining through here#even funnier bc in mgsv / ground zeroes they very much use the informal you with each other#which is fucking hilarious in context#bb learns kaz made a deal with cipher behind his back and promptly offers him the informal you#if anything it would be the other way around but ok dear translators!!#theyre not even that formal with each other in the original japanese ffs whats ur problem#wanna underline this genuinely bothers me not (only) from a fangirl shipping point or whatever but bc it genuinely ... doesnt feel right#from a translation standpoint#peace walker puts so much emphasis on how inseparable and close bb and kaz are#this is so stupid
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Most things an average social visit shoe would track in have nothing on the legendary puke of my late dog, my carpet has already been stained and tested in ways that dedicated shoeless coddling would never spare it from anyway, and i hate being shoeless, and my pets love to leave nasty surprises, like yea if youre Leaving Visible Muck behind maybe take em off but if its just like....idk. wipe ur feet on the mat in the garage and keep ur shoes on cos the dog is drooling in the kitchen and i dont want u having wet socks. god knows whats on the floor, not me.
do think its weird to conflate floor dirtiness with like...covid? if we learned anything from covid, its that you should be wearing a mask, and probably not be having large parties, especially indoors. I dont think shoes have a lot to do with covid specifically.
fascinated/horrified by this set of tweets…
#reblog#ftr this is about My House i am a Shoe Household#if i visit someone and they ask me to remove shoes i will oblige!! but you do have to ask sorry#god and like yea we vacuum and shit but 3 cats and a dog theres only so much we can do. youre gonna step on a piece of cat litter im sorry#the fur on the floor is incessant even w vacuuming#when ppl get huffy about hard floors i really give a bit of a sideeye sorry like carpet is one thing but the hard floor? really?#not to be a rude dismissve nasty bitch but its job is literally Floor. thats its whole deal. why am i gonna coddle it like its like....bed#??#not to mention! my stupid weak baby feet cannot handle shoelessness#shit hurts me. ill put up with it when visiting ppl who want shoes off in their house but god not in my own fucking home#@@@@@dad. either stop trying to coddle the floor or next time dont get a floor that needs this fucking coddling#i do agree w twitter op that its a bit silly to throw a large party and try to enforce shoelessness. like you can do that if u want but#especially if ur in the usa thats gonna be an uphill battle i think. maybe have that party elsewhere or like outside#im really not sure what shoes in house has to do with fucking? covid? if we learned anything from covid#its like. maybe dont be having large indoor parties. and wear a fucking mask. i dont think someone wearing their shoes in ur house is gonna#give u covid. i feel like most ppl who want the shoes off tho arent necessarily worried about like germs it seems to be usually about like#actual physical dirt/muck/grime/dust visible to the naked eye. which imo happens anyway no matter what especially w pets#but if thats how yall wanna live then go off. just ask me to take my shoes off if u have me over cos its not my default#and if you dont ask me theyre just going to stay on#im just not going to think about it#i do think its REALLY weird in like a Public Place tho?? sorry#like i used to go to a chiropractor and in the winter theyd make you take your shoes off?#i get that the winter muck is gross but it was Really Weird imo#someones house ok ig it i guess like you Live here. public/commercial building? weird
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hotties habits⋆.ೃ࿔*:・🍰💕
this is a post about habits that i've adopted that u can also adopt to elevate ur mind, body, confidence and spirit…💬🎀
SERVE COMPLIMENTS ;
start getting comfortable with complimenting yourself often, so much so to the point where compliments from others isn’t that big of a deal because YOU compliment u so much. this builds self esteem and self image. knowing that u don’t have to rely on the compliments of others only means that ur more confident.
and not only giving urself compliments but also complimenting others is an amazing way to boost self esteem and confidence while doing the same for someone else.
CULTIVATE CREATIVITY ;
something that has helped to elevate not only my mind but my femininity has been cultivating my creativity. i started to do this through my blog and through my pinterest account.
like thinking of new content to make and learning how i express myself has been so amazing for not only my confidence but for my creativity and i feel so much more feminine when im creating. starting my blog has helped me with self expression, helped me to learn new things and meet new people, and ultimately share and document my growth etc.
STAYING IN MY GIRLY BUBBLE ;
i dont like to over consume media and especially media that gives of negative energy or just toxicity. such as those balloon popping romance videos like im NOT with that. being more careful and conscious of what i choose to consume has helped my health so i just usually stay on my pinterest and a few other social media apps but just, keep urself protected and be careful of what u watch.
WEARING LOTS OF PINK ;
lastly, this is totally personal and its simply because its my favorite color and i look SO pretty in it. its just such a feminine color and its the best color (i dont make the rules). but in all seriousness having a specific element about my fashion that im consistent with is helpful for lots of reasons.
for example 99% of the things that i own are pink including my school supplies. i go to a school where we wear uniforms but i always make sure to accessories and highlight PINK. therefore everyone associates me with the color pink and things that are girly.
you can take this and do whatever u want with it. it doesnt have to be a color, it can be a specific style of dress or something that u like to wear often just have something distinct about you thats your SIGNATURE.
#honeytonedhottie⭐️#it girl#becoming that girl#self care#self concept#that girl#it girl energy#dream girl tips#dream girl#dream life#self improvement#habits#hottie habits#hyper femininity#hyper feminine#girly#girl blogging#princess#princess lifestyle#self love#advice#pink#confidence#confidence tips#blogging
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