#invalidates their feelings

[rapidhighway]

like, I feel like I'm being a bit inconsiderate??? But also I just do not have the patience... It's been going on for so freaking long and I just cannot stand it and I would like to have my own feelings about it considered ughhh come onnnn

[rafeandonlyrafe]

well 🧍‍♀️ as a reminder this blog is NOT a safe space for trump supporters but it IS a safe place for women, queers, trans ppl, people of color, undocumented people, and any marginalized group.

[ocean-breeze-pier]

I really despise how gendered stuff is and how it comes back to bite you in the ass as a trans person. And I don’t mean in the typical “feminine afab” “masculine amab” way that’s imposed on us based on our agab. Yes of course this sucks but I mean it in a different way. I hate that being a binary trans person means binary assumptions are placed on me. As a trans guy it’s assumed I want facial hair when I don’t. It’s assumed I want short hair when I don’t. It’s assumed I will have “male interests” (whatever the fuck that means) and I don’t. Which of course is where Those™️ types of trans people will appear and accuse me of not really being trans.

It’s annoying that I don’t get the privilege of being gnc because I’m a trans guy that doesn’t pass which is used against me. There are medical and personal and financial reasons I’m not taking hormones and some people seem to think I need to compensate by conforming to masculinity. I hate that I’m being forced into a box just like I was when I used to think I was cis. Part of this is why I didn’t realize I was a trans guy for awhile. I thought I had to be nonbinary bc I didn’t deserve to identify as a trans guy since I didn’t look like one. And people push that rhetoric and it’s so harmful. It literally delayed me realizing who I truly am.

Just let trans people exist however they want. I don’t want to have to alter everything about me to be seen as a man. I want to be seen as a man right now because I am one.

[mixmangosmangoverse]

If you ever needed to know the extent of how the I/P conflict is fandomized, there is a popular post going around with a Sailor moon sticker saying Free Palestine and all the comments are talking about how it's their aesthetic and they totally need to buy it

Because this doesn't matter to them, it's just the cool hip and trendy thing

[tillandbed-travelingvlog]

bill and ted go to pluto

bill and ted are on pluto!

[my-autism-adhd-blog]

#hot take if your autism doesn't need to be accommodated or treated at all...is that really autism

Yes. Yes it is. Stop trying to invalidate others disorders. It doesn’t matter if they don’t need accommodations or not. They’re still autistic.

Not gonna say this blogs name because I’m sure some of you can guess.

[lunabug2004]

Btw Will is the only one who's actively proven to Mike that he cares for him by actually listening to his worries without judging him or blowing them off. Just btw.

[kithmet]

see, i really love when buddie fight. i love it because within fighting (and especially because their dynamic relies heavily on the unspoken) there's this element of, "oh, finally they're communicating, even if it's fighting! they're saying these things out loud! progression is being made!" and it's not pretty, but life isn't always pretty. i love the messiness of a satisfying fight, where both are dealing with their own shit and misstepping how they're handling a situation, or throwing words around carelessly, or projecting onto each other. people who love each other as much as they do don't go into an argument that intense without knowing that in the end, things will be okay again. buck even said this in s4: "it's easy to lash out on the person that you know is always going to forgive you." i think subconsciously they know that sure, they might fight, but they will always be okay.

that being said. yeah, i love when they fight, but i do often hate how people talk about it. there's always this strange element of viewers trying to choose sides, which completely misses the point the show is trying to make whenever it depicts raw emotions and how those complicated feelings can intersect in relationships to spark conflict, conflict where nuance does exist. and this happens time and time again on the show and the aftermath—people are always so forgiving towards one of them, and less forgiving towards the other. yes, when times are tough, buck gets self-centred and unable to see past his own hurt, and yes, eddie hates seeing that gets mean about it. we've seen this during the lawsuit! we've seen it before eddie left for texas! and we're seeing it again now after bobby died. this is a consistent character trait for both of them, it's a thread that has remained true in their relationship and will probably continue to remain true because it's somewhere where they don't mesh well. it's juicy! but i don't think one of them is more or less right for feeling the way they do. the point is that they feel what they feel, and they get past it always despite clashing. and ultimately the whole concept of "choosing sides" when two characters clash is rooted in projection or relatability (or protection) of one character, which honestly lacks empathy and understanding of the fight itself, both character's motivations, and their relationship dynamics. the writers don't want you to choose sides. they want you to understand that sometimes situations are complicated and as humans, we butt heads but still love each other no matter what. it's really not a hard concept to grasp. and yet... we as a fandom go in circles about this topic every single time they fight.

[xeemaee]

Back on my Kabru-was-raised-catholic bs because his whole “am I secretly a monster thing” just screams of catholic guilt to me and I’m gonna project onto him

[ellifromspace]

these are the murderbot artworks Tommy Arnold did for the Subterranean Press omnibus editions of the series, and a photo of Kevin R. Free, who narrates the murderbot audiobooks. when fans complain about the casting for the tv show, there is a very real basis for it in these past official/canonical aspects of the book series

[khaoala]

oh no, p'jojo said kantbison are a lovers to enemies story. kantbison are doomed.

firstkhao characters whenever they have the slight attempt of animosity between the two of them:

[burrythebusy]

Seeing some people (comments, posts, general discussion) talk about Hirano’s love like it is inherently lesser, not as strong and "incompatible" with Kagiura’s tells me all I need to know about yall bc regardless of what you thought before (questionably), there's no way you read chapter 29 and came to this conclusion

[my-autism-adhd-blog]

Everyone is NOT A Little Bit Autistic

The Autistic Teacher

[markerofthemidnight]

The Stick to the Script ending is actually really interesting when you remember the only reason why pAInter was a threat to you in the first place is because Sebastian told them to be

So in the end, Sebastian tries to kill you for something that’s actually his fault more than anyone else’s

[bixels]

I'm not getting into The Giving Tree discourse...

[shurisneakers]

notice how when yelena was taking shots at everyone, she didn't say shit about bucky. perfect recognises perfect 😌