#advocate for your friends

[rafeandonlyrafe]

well 🧍‍♀️ as a reminder this blog is NOT a safe space for trump supporters but it IS a safe place for women, queers, trans ppl, people of color, undocumented people, and any marginalized group.

[themostefficientwaywithwater]

i think one of the reasons i am so fond of nemona, carmine and kieran is because they are the characters most misinterpreted by the fandom and need someone to defend them like that one meme of the samurai and the cat. no, jared, 19, nemona is not an obsesive yandere that just thinks of battles, she's just a girl alone in a crowd of people that only see her either as a nuisance or a privileged rich girl, when all she wants is a friend as passionate as her to share her special interest. no, jared, 19, carmine is not abusive towards kieran, she's an overprotective sister that thinks his brother is too timid to defend himself, and is willing to make enemies of anyone, including her own brother, just to secure his safety and happiness. no, jared, 19, kieran is not a possessive incel (yikes???) who abuses everyone and his pokémon, he's a kid with confidence issues that's being pressured in a highly competitive environment and who has just lost the "symbol" he thought would mark his worth to a rando that's better at him in every possible way and who has betrayed his trust. this isn't me pulling at straws is what the characters say, in the game, to you, if you, jared, 19, made the smallest of efforts to learn how to fucking read-

[moregraceful]

multiple habs watersports prompts in 1u

[anonymocha]

I genuinely cannot feel strongly for men so if I react less interested / completely disinterested when I see a guy I can’t project into it’s not me trying to make my lesbian statement I GENUINELY just *cannot* care.

[chryblossomjjk]

[hyohaehyuk]

Jacob – Couples Therapy podcast (Hosts: Naomi Ekperigin and Andy Beckerman)

Bring a friend to a date?

Did he mean it like a throuple/threesome or did he meant "date a friend instead of starting again with your ex"?! 🤨 The hosts kinda sucked on this one. They didn't even let him explain himself 😒 I can't believe it didn't cross any of their minds to ask if he meant it like in a open relationship/polyamorous relationship way or another thing 🤦‍♀️

Anyway, I don’t even think jacob himself realised yet what he have going on with his bestie Sam.

And then right after, naomi says “i think we kinda know, so it’s fine” just unprovoked and him not saying anything… lol everybody got u and ur little workplace friend business

source: lovesjar

Also around 1:26:04 (i think is even for the same question/advice from the video above):

[lutravurr]

everyone who says cluster b instead of personality disorders to refer to base pd symptoms and clearly doesnt give a shit about pw hpd or aspd die in a fire forever ok

[silly-lil-scribbles]

why are cops so fucking useless like if youre going to be terrible you could at least also try to be even remotely helpful sometimes

[lucidowl]

Casual reminder from an adoptee who's been loved by and cared for by adoptive parents since birth:

If they aren't willing to act like family to you, they're not family to you.

I think a lot of people forget that. You, likely biospawn (not adopted), still have a choice- lots of choices, actually- in the matter, and no one has an immutable right to stay in your life. If the relationship is not equal, you have no obligation to continue to serve them well. Though everyone deserves love and care, it does not have to come from you.

The goal is to have folks who want- not just tolerate having to, but WANT- to give you love and care that is fulfilling to you and who see your own love and care towards them as fulfilling. Both of these; never one without the other. And there are a whole lot of different ways that can happen, but it does happen.

[elizabethrobertajones]

this is a Bad party comp. G'raha is wholly encouraged by Y'shtola to stand in six overlapping AOEs and Urianger will just watch and say "alas"

[plumbewb]

am i not allowed to talk about myself on my blog? you sound silly af, just thought people should know who they are interacting with since you wanna label people a bigot over nothing? simply stating the stuff i’ve advocated for 💕

“tell all these losers off these next couple days” this is what i mean yall are childish and stuck with a high school mentality. to want to continue dragging this for what??? cause i said my peace and that made you upset? truly please grow tf up lmao

[daftpatience]

ur heds post made me go search for the criteria and im getting really scared.... my ankles click all the time (besides the other criteria) but my docs always like oh its bc ur lazy and fat like hmmmm.. maybe not!

FOR REAL my doc says that too. it can be really hard to get diagnosed with anything related to joint pain etc when fat because doctors love blaming the first thing they see and then not ever doing any tests or straiught up ignoring test results

[mainfaggot]

how do you cut someone off

[snekdood]

giving men a space in feminism doesnt mean letting them step on your toes. if you feel like your toes are being stepped on, you need to say something and tell that person to stop instead of try to get them fucking exiled essentially.

[adderallanomaly]

tonight has been absolute hell im going to fucking bed

[thealternatemind]

42,000 people. 42,000 people with full lives and memories and family and a culture that is being erased. 42,000 people. My mind can’t even comprehend that number. Innocents. Infants. That’s a larger number than people who live in my city.

42,000 people are dead. Israel is committing genocide. This is an ethnic cleansing. It’s not only been going on for a year but for A HUNDRED years.

Read “The Ethnic Cleansing of Palestine” by Ilan Pappe, an Israeli historian. Learn the history. Educate yourself.

Call your representatives. Advocate for a ceasefire. Free Palestine. 🇵🇸🇵🇸