#independent retirement living

[ingenia-federation]

Do you want to retire in a beautiful location with like-minded people?

Ingenia Federation Albion and Sunshine offers retirement village houses for sale for active seniors over 55. Our villages offer an age-restricted, pet-friendly environment where you can enjoy your retirement years in style. With a range of on-site amenities and activities, you will never find yourself bored or lonely.

Our Albion retirement villages are the perfect place to call home. With stunning architecture and lush gardens, you will fall in love with our villages as soon as you set foot inside. And with a range of different house styles to choose from, we are sure to have the perfect home for you.

Come and visit us today to find out more about our retirement villages and how you can become a part of our community.

[s0fter-sin]

trans!soap taking his baby and running away from his rich abusive husband

(cw angst, financial abuse, single threat of child abuse, single mention of transphobia)

he's owned soap for years, since he was a teenager; paid for his medication and all his surgeries and tied them so deeply, soap’s lost hope of ever getting away. he gets even worse when soap falls pregnant. he was always controlling; blowing up at him if he spent too long out of the house or did something without telling him. but he becomes utterly possessive during the pregnancy

soap knows it has nothing to do with his safety or the baby's

he knows he sees his baby as an investment; another being he can control and hold over him

he gets worse and worse but there’s nothing soap can do. there's been nothing he can do for a long time. then a few months after the baby is born, soap doesn’t watch his tone closely enough and his husband threatens to drop his baby in punishment for it

soap doesn't think. he doesn't plan

he takes his baby and runs

he sneaks out of the servant's quarters of the sterile mansion he's been forced to live in for almost a decade and walks down the street without a backwards glance; his baby the only thing in his arms. he knows all of his husband's cars have trackers, all of them in his name since he never lets soap drive or go anywhere by himself, so he walks far enough to be out of view of the mansion's cameras and steals one. it doesn't have a car seat and all he can do is clutch his baby to his chest as he drives

he doesn't know where he's going beyond away

he doesn't know what he's going to do; he doesn't have any money, no supplies for his baby, he doesn't even have water for himself so he can reliably breastfeed him. he's terrified his husband will find them; he’s always felt omniscient, always everywhere and seeing everything he did. if he didn’t have eyes somewhere, he paid someone who did and they always dutifully reported back to him

soap just keeps his eyes forward. just keeps driving and driving, lost to the road and numb until the low gas light pops up on the dash and it all hits him at once

he turns into a gas station he can't pay for, in a car he stole, and parks behind it and his baby immediately starts getting fussy

he can't even call him by his name sometimes; too afraid to get attached, too afraid to lose him. as if he doesn’t love him more than life itself

even throughout his pregnancy, as happy as he was to finally have a baby, he didn't know if he could carry to term and that fear just let his husband dig his claws in even deeper; paying for extra scans he could never hope to pay for, favours on top of favours so he would aways owe him and isn’t he such a loving husband? taking soap in when his parents kicked him out for being trans, looking after him for all these years? you can’t even take care of yourself john, you’d still be a woman without me, john, what is this tantrum about john-

soap tugs his shirt up to let his baby feed, drops his head back and cries

he can't stop it; wails loud and uncontrolled, chest heaving with his sobs enough that it sways his baby, occasionally breaking his latch and he can't even do this right-

he can't save him

a light knock sounds on the window and soap flinches, curling over his baby to protect him from his huband's cruel hands

but it's not his husband outside the window

soap blinks tears from his eyes and looks at the large stranger standing beside the car. a neck gaiter covers his mouth and it should be off-putting… but something about him stops the feeling in its tracks. the stranger takes a half-step back and lifts a chilled and sealed water bottle, pressing it towards the window

soap quickly swipes his face clean and rolls down the window. "sorry 'bout that," he apologises with a choked laugh, the careful front he’s built over the years cracked and bleeding

the stranger gives a dismissive but somehow not diminishing shrug. "long day?" he asks

"could say that," he gives a shrug of his own and pats his baby's back as he makes a disgruntled noise, unconsciously swaying him

he politely keeps his gaze up on his face. "looks like you could use a break."

soap's breath hitches, anxiously darting his tongue out over his bottom lip. "could say that," he repeats uselessly and takes the water with a quiet “thanks,”; his throat dry and screaming for it after crying so hard

the stranger hums, watching him down the bottle and soap doesn’t notice his eyes drifting to the backseat and footwell of the passenger side. doesn’t notice the slight tension in his fists at what he sees. "how long you been runnin', lad?"

soap freezes, the water settling in his stomach like a stone. he swallows thickly and the bottle falls from his lips

"not long enough."

the stranger just nods, looking idly back down the highway

"you know, this place is connected to a garage,” he starts, nodding back to a building attached to the station without taking his eyes off the road. “lotta people drift through 'ere on road trips; too many to keep track.”

soap frowns slightly, shifting his hold on his baby

“funny thing is, plenty of 'em just abandon their car when they break down. like yours,” he adds and finally turns back to him with a pointed look. “got a whole junkyard of 'em. just rustin' away. be pretty easy to convince me to trade ya one."

soap’s mouth parts in a gasp as he realises just what the stranger’s saying. "how easy?" he whispers

he shrugs and even with his face hidden beneath the gaiter, he doesn’t feel afraid. "i'd say this car'd be a good deal. would blend right in with the rest of ‘em; no one’d ever notice it. what say i take it off your hands?"

soap's breath shudders out of him, his whole body going limp with relief. his baby's eyes fall shut with a satisfied hum and for the first time he can remember, he feels the gentle touch of hope

"i think we can work something out."

🧼💀

ghost owns the service station soap pulled into. he wanted something quiet and isolated after he retired and you can’t get much quieter than a backwoods servo surrounded by forest. he hasn’t had anyone pull in in days so he’s quick to notice soap’s car. he’s also quick to notice soap's subsequent breakdown in one of the cameras. the sight of him crying, desperately clutching a baby like they’re all he has left in the world, is so familiar he felt sick with it

he knows someone running when he sees it

if he didn't check on him, if this lad disappeared one day and the baby along with him, he'd never forgive himself. the lad doesn't even have a baby bag or car seat with him, and the personalised sticker on the back window of a lady and a dog is a dead giveaway that the car is stolen

but the lad is terrified. and when he startled him, he didn't turn. didn’t lift his arms to protect himself. no

he covered his baby

like he was afraid he'd be hurt

that's enough for ghost

🧼💀

i'd wanna set this in the 80's or 90's, just to make it even harder for soap to get away from his husband. he's a trans man with a newborn; he has no one to run to and no resources to help him. his husband's bought and paid for everything for him since he was 17; a few whirlwind weeks of unbelievable dates and extravagant gifts and he was living in his mansion, getting married the day after his 18th birthday. he thought it was love. thought he was being looked after and cared for the way he’s always wanted

he was in pain and alone and naive enough to believe the first person who came along and promised to make it better. nothing's in his name, not his insurance or his meds, he doesn’t have a bank account or savings; other than a birth certificate, nothing even ties him to his baby. his husband could take his world away from him with a snap of his fingers and he made sure soap always knew it

he never had a chance of getting away

but ghost is ex-military

he doesn’t know the lad’s story, doesn’t know the details of what he’s running from. he doesn’t need to know

he decided he was helping him the second he pulled into his service station

[captainjonnitkessler]

Me when I am definitely not in a cult

[strike-another-match]

yall im so happy... ive had my differences with my dad over the years (<- understatement) but my parents are currently living in like, the most inaccesible apartment ever (4 flights of old stairs, no elevator) and he's disabled and it's been breaking my heart to see him leave the house less and less. my mom just told me that they found a ground floor apartment for even cheaper than their current place so they're moving next month!!! i legit thought my dad would die in that apartment locked out from the outside world. it will be a lot easier for me to visit them and our cat too since the place is close to my place and i'm disabled too so the stairs are a huge deterrent, a lot of times i feel really lonely but i can't go visit my mom because physically i can't handle those stairs without needing to rest the rest of the day. i hate that apartment so much i feel like our QOL for me and my dad plummeted after we moved there (bc of money we didn't have a choice. our previous apartment was GREAT but way too expensive and the landlady would mentally torture my mom T_T). anyway!!! it's such random good news i'm so happy!!!!! yay!!!! *does a spin*

[tinyhouseexpedition]

She's Aging in Place in 1-level Tiny House on Foundation & loving it!

Meet Peggy, a 79-year-old retiree living in a cottage-style tiny house on a foundation with her sweet dog, Buffy. She adores simple, independent living in a home of her own—the first time she's lived all by herself!

Peggy chose The Denali XL by Cornerstone Tiny Homes, a 432 sqft single-level tiny home. She finds that it's the perfect size to suit her health needs.

It sits in a small neighborhood of code-compliant, foundation-based tiny homes in Oviedo, Florida, where everyone owns their own lot.

[bitchesgetriches]

I want very badly to move out of my parents house for all the usual reasons a 25 year old would want to move out of their parents house but there’s also another maybe not so common and honestly kinda shitty reason I want to move out and I want to tell someone about it so I can know if it is shitty or if it’s a valid reason. So my parents are alarmingly financially insecure considering how close to retirement age they are and they aren’t like shy about it. They often mention the fact that they have no savings and still have a mortgage. I don’t like knowing this information. It makes me feel physically unwell and I’m certain that if I move out I would know less about it because none of my siblings are as aware of the situation as I am. But I also feel like I absolutely cannot judge them for this they have done their best. So in short I want to move so I don’t have to hear about my parents dire financial situation anymore because it makes me feel physically unwell even though a large contributor to their situation has been raising me and siblings. Does that make me shitty?

Nope. It does NOT make you a shitty person.

Unless you're paying rent to your parents right now, moving out might not only shield you from the painful details of their financial situation, but it might actually HELP them. If you move out, it'll lessen their household bills.

We feel strongly that adult children living with their parents should contribute to household expenses if they are able. And if they can't contribute financially, they should contribute with labor.

Your parents are in a tough spot. I hope that beyond making you uncomfortable, their money woes have taught you a thing or two about how to navigate the system and set yourself up for security in retirement. Here's more:

You Need to Talk to Your Parents About Their Retirement Plan 

{ MASTERPOST } Everything You Need To Know About Living Independently for the First Time

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[floridaseniorconsulting]

The Evolution of Elderly Care: The Rise of Independent Living Services

As our population ages, the landscape of elderly care has undergone a profound transformation. Traditional notions of retirement living in Florida have expanded to include a diverse array of options, with independent living services emerging as a cornerstone of this evolution. In this article, we'll explore the journey of elderly care, focusing on the rise of independent living services and their significance in empowering seniors to lead fulfilling lives on their own terms.

A Shifting Paradigm: From Elderly Care Homes to Independent Living Services

Elderly care has historically been synonymous with retirement homes or assisted living in Sarasota Florida, where seniors receive varying degrees of support and care. However, as attitudes towards aging have evolved, so too have the options available to older adults. Independent living services represent a departure from the traditional model, offering seniors the opportunity to maintain their autonomy and lifestyle while accessing support services as needed.

The Essence of Independence: Understanding Independent Living Services

At the heart of independent living services is the concept of autonomy and self-determination. Unlike traditional elderly care home, which may provide round-the-clock assistance, independent living communities offer a more hands-off approach, allowing residents to live independently in private apartments or houses. These communities typically provide amenities such as dining options, recreational activities, and transportation services, giving seniors the freedom to tailor their living experience to their preferences.

A Booming Trend: The Appeal of Retirement Living in Florida

Florida has long been synonymous with retirement living in Florida, thanks to its favorable climate, abundance of recreational opportunities, and vibrant senior communities. The state's allure as a retirement destination has only grown in recent years, attracting seniors from across the country seeking a relaxed and sun-soaked lifestyle. Independent living services have flourished in Florida, catering to the diverse needs and preferences of its aging population.

The Benefits of Independent Living Services

The rise of independent living services reflects a broader shift towards person-centered care, where the individual needs and preferences of seniors take center stage. By choosing independent living, seniors gain access to a supportive environment that promotes wellness, social engagement, and personal growth. Some key benefits of independent living services include:

Maintaining Independence: Seniors retain control over their daily routines and lifestyle choices, preserving their sense of autonomy and dignity.

Social Connection: Independent living communities foster a sense of camaraderie and belonging, providing opportunities for residents to socialize, participate in activities, and form meaningful relationships.

Access to Amenities and Services: From fitness centers and swimming pools to on-site dining and transportation services, independent living communities offer a range of amenities designed to enhance residents' quality of life.

Peace of Mind: Family members and loved ones benefit from the peace of mind knowing that their aging relatives are safe, supported, and surrounded by caring professionals.

Flexibility and Choice: Independent living services are highly customizable, allowing residents to tailor their experience based on their individual needs and preferences.

Navigating the Transition: Choosing the Right Independent Living Community

Selecting an independent living community is a significant decision that requires careful consideration. Factors to consider include location, amenities, cost, and levels of care provided. Prospective residents and their families should tour multiple communities, ask questions, and assess the overall atmosphere and culture of each facility before making a decision. Additionally, it's essential to inquire about the availability of support services and healthcare options, should they be needed in the future.

Conclusion: Embracing the Future of Elderly Care

The rise of independent living services marks a paradigm shift in how we approach elderly care, emphasizing empowerment, choice, and quality of life. As the aging population continues to grow, so too will the demand for innovative and person-centered solutions that honor the diverse needs and preferences of seniors. By embracing independent living, older adults can thrive in environments that nurture independence, foster social connection, and promote overall well-being. As we look to the future, let us continue to champion the evolution of elderly care, ensuring that every senior has the opportunity to age with dignity, grace, and vitality.

[my-financials]

The FIRE Movement: A Comprehensive Guide to Financial Independence and Early Retirement

Introduction In recent years, a revolutionary concept has emerged in the realm of personal finance, captivating the imagination of young adults worldwide. Known as the FIRE movement, which stands for Financial Independence, Retire Early, this philosophy offers more than just financial advice—it proposes a radical shift in lifestyle. This in-depth guide explores the intricacies of the FIRE…

[dollar-and-sense]

Building a Solid Financial Foundation: Budgeting, Saving, and Emergency Funds

The importance of budgeting for financial stability Creating and sticking to a personal budget is essential for achieving financial stability. A budget helps individuals track their income and expenses, identify areas for saving and cutting costs, and ultimately achieve their financial goals [1]. By creating a budget, individuals can gain a better understanding of their financial situation and…

[beachesgetpeaches]

but there is something to be extracted here on how something that IS (almost) true ("poor people are happier with less", which inevitably supplies that you "dont need money to buy happiness")... can be so twisted in logic so that it is taken away from what it truly signifies in this sad wretched world

(yeah I am feeling weird this morning and I am going to go on a rant)

poor people, or people who in general have less. families that at their very best live pay-check to pay-check... they have more "real world" problems compared to the comfy upper classes. they live with daily, monthly, yearly stress of how can I make my finances handle this next burden. and they struggle and they find ways to make do.

kids get hand me down books or clothes. parents sacrifice their desire for something sweet so the kids can get smth... idk there are likely multiple examples.

but imo the people in such situation have an understanding of money which differs so much from the rich (not even filthy rich) materialistic point of view. i feel like when you don't have as much, or sometimes don't have enough you learn that money is just a means to an end.

or well... money is not something you covet for yourself. thats the first thing. you learn that you need it, and then you want it to fix the injustice you observe or smth. which is why i have this sense that people who grew up with very little and now have a good wage... are more likely to donate a proper amount if they can?

and then on the other hand, when you grow up poor, it idk it teaches some good intrinsic values that are far more important in the world. like how important and good it is to be oriented towards people, how important a community is, how we (the people) can support each other in so many ways.

and my goal is not to romanticise growing up poor and not having anything, but when they say that poor people are happier with less this is what they forget? because the initial knee-jerk assumption is that poor people are happier with less bcs they don't have much anyway.

i think that they just have a much more correct outlook on the true value of people and material items.

"poor people are happier with less" and "money won't buy happiness" is literally classist propaganda. stop buying into it and start making molotov cocktails

[harborterrace]

Why Harbor Terrace Stands Out as San Pedro’s Top Assisted Living Community

When searching for the perfect assisted living community, one question always arises: What makes one community stand out from the rest? Harbor Terrace, located in the heart of San Pedro, offers more than just a place to live, it’s a place to thrive. But what exactly sets Harbor Terrace apart? Let’s explore.

1. A Prime Location with Scenic Surroundings

Harbor Terrace is strategically nestled in San Pedro, offering breathtaking views of the Pacific Ocean and access to vibrant community amenities.

Close to Nature: Residents enjoy serene walks with panoramic ocean views, making every day feel like a getaway.

Convenient Accessibility: Located near local attractions, medical facilities, and family-friendly parks, Harbor Terrace ensures convenience and comfort.

The charm of San Pedro adds to Harbor Terrace’s allure, creating a tranquil yet engaging environment for residents.

2. Modern Amenities for Comfortable Living

At Harbor Terrace, luxury meets functionality. The community is thoughtfully designed to provide both comfort and convenience.

Spacious Living Quarters: Residents can choose from a variety of floor plans tailored to individual preferences.

State-of-the-Art Facilities: From fitness centers to community dining areas, every detail is crafted for modern living.

Innovative Technology: Features like emergency call systems ensure safety while promoting independence.

“We believe our residents deserve not just a home, but a lifestyle,” shares a Harbor Terrace representative.

3. Personalized Care That Feels Like Family

What truly makes Harbor Terrace shine is its dedicated team of caregivers.

Tailored Assistance: Whether a resident needs help with daily tasks or advanced memory care, personalized plans ensure every need is met.

Compassionate Staff: With a focus on empathy and respect, the team builds genuine connections with residents.

Holistic Well-being: Beyond physical health, the community nurtures mental and emotional wellness through various programs.

Residents often comment on the warm, family-like atmosphere created by the staff’s unwavering commitment.

4. Enriching Activities to Keep Life Exciting

Harbor Terrace emphasizes that life doesn’t stop—it evolves.

Daily Events and Social Programs: From art classes to group excursions, there’s always something happening.

Fitness and Wellness Opportunities: Yoga, walking clubs, and personalized fitness plans keep residents active.

Cultural and Recreational Activities: Music nights, book clubs, and holiday celebrations add a vibrant touch to everyday life.

These activities not only engage residents but also build a sense of community and purpose.

5. A Culinary Experience to Savor

Good food is essential for good living, and Harbor Terrace takes this to heart.

Chef-Prepared Meals: Nutritional and delicious options cater to diverse dietary needs.

Restaurant-Style Dining: Residents enjoy meals in a welcoming and elegant setting.

Customized Menus: Personal preferences and cultural tastes are incorporated to make dining a delightful experience.

As one resident puts it, “Every meal feels like dining at a five-star restaurant.”

6. A Community Built on Trust and Transparency

Families choose Harbor Terrace because it fosters peace of mind.

Clear Communication: Regular updates and open dialogue with families build trust.

Proactive Approach: The team anticipates needs and addresses concerns promptly.

Resident-Centered Policies: From flexible visitation hours to tailored care plans, every aspect prioritizes the residents’ well-being.

Conclusion: Why Harbor Terrace Is the Ideal Choice

So, why does Harbor Terrace stand out as San Pedro’s top assisted living community? It’s a harmonious blend of scenic beauty, innovative amenities, and heartfelt care. More importantly, it’s a place where residents don’t just live—they flourish.

CONTACT US:

Address: 435 West 8th Street, San Pedro, CA 90731

Phone number: (310) 547-0090

Email: laura@harborterraceretirement.com

Website: https://harborterraceretirement.com/

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[ingenia-federation]

Are you looking for a retirement village that offers an active lifestyle?

Ingenia Federation Werribee retirement villages offer residents an active and social lifestyle, with plenty of opportunities to get involved in a range of activities and clubs. Our villages are also pet-friendly, so you can continue to enjoy life with your furry friend by your side.

We believe that retirement should be a time to relax and enjoy life, not spend all your time maintaining a large home. That's why our retirement villages are designed for active seniors who want to live life to the fullest. With plenty of social activities and spacious homes surrounded by beautiful gardens, Werribee retirement villages are the perfect place to call home.

Contact us today for more information about our retirement villages or book a tour to see them for yourself!

[olavillage]

At Our Lady of Angels Village, a senior living community in Joliet, Illinois, we embrace the vision of the Sisters of St. Francis of Mary Immaculate, fostering a faith-based environment centered on respect, compassion, and independence. Our intimate community of 28 maintenance-free ranch cottages offers a peaceful and comfortable setting where seniors can live independently. Rooted in a 150-year legacy of service, our community welcomes men and women of all faiths. Experience a fulfilling life in our senior living community in Joliet, where faith, care, and a supportive environment are at the heart of everything we do.

[hungrytravellers]

That Was 2024

Well, our travelling for 2024 is done and dusted and we eagerly await our first adventure of the new year. We think it’s fair to say that although 2024 was another splendid year of travel, not everything went according to plan. What with having to return home when Michaela’s Dad passed away, hiking ability being blighted by hip/groin trouble, becoming unexpectedly Africa’d out and heading to…

[ljchristmasapar]

Low Income Apartments for Seniors — L.J. Christmas

L.J. Christmas Apartments is a great place for seniors aged 60 and above who want affordable and safe housing. We are located near Lougheed Mall in Coquitlam, close to public transport, grocery stores, banks, medical clinics, restaurants, and recreation centers.

Our apartments were built in 1971, thanks to the Burquitlam Lions Club and Mayor L.J. (Jimmy) Christmas. For over 50 years, we’ve been providing seniors with a comfortable and affordable place to live. Our volunteer Board of Directors ensures the building is always well-maintained and ready for the future.

Why Choose L.J. Christmas Apartments?

Affordable and Safe: Our apartments are designed for seniors with limited incomes. You can live here without worrying about renoviction.

Hassle-Free Living: Rent includes heat, hot water, electricity, and basic cable, so you can budget easily.

Well-Maintained Building: We regularly update and renovate our apartments to keep them modern and comfortable.

Convenient Location: Everything you need, from grocery stores to medical clinics, is nearby.

Our Apartments

We offer different types of apartments to meet your needs:

Studio Apartments: Perfect for seniors who want a cozy and affordable space.

One-Bedroom Apartments: Currently not available.

Bachelor Apartments: These are under construction and will be available soon.

Each apartment is:

Bright, with large windows for natural light.

Spacious, with plenty of closet space.

Affordable, with rent that covers heat, hot water, electricity, and basic cable.

A Caring Community for Seniors

At L.J. Christmas Apartments, we’re more than just a building—we’re a community. Our Board of Directors works hard to make sure seniors feel safe, comfortable, and happy living here.

Schedule a Tour Today!

Ready to find your new home? Contact us to book a tour and see why L.J. Christmas Apartments is the right place for you.

[rv-on-fire]

Starting Anew

Hello there! It’s been awhile since we have posted a blog. It’s been even longer since we posted a blog that wasn’t a financial update of some sort. Over eleven months as a matter of fact. In that blog we wrote about buying our property in Texas and being excited to start building our home. Little did we know at the time we were in for a wild ride. As we started our home building journey it…