#inclusionist culture

[boba-foxy]

The new fictosexual/fictorose/fictoromantic flags created by me!! ^^

ik i've already posted those new fictosexual/fictoromantic flag redesigns on my stimblog @rocambolestim before, but ive introduced a new fictoromantic flag which isn't a colour swapped fictosexual flag!

these flags are meant to be more inclusive alternitaves to the original flags since they looked way too much like the asexual flag & not all fictos are ace, so i decided to change that in my redesigns + make it aesthetically pleasing since the older ones looked hideous asf imo

tagging my friend @clownorca since ive introduced to them these 2 flags (except for the fictorose one for some unknown reason) bc yes

anyways

[IMAGE 1: a 5 striped horizontal flag with pastel cyan,pink,white,purple/lavender & pastel green. there is a light red heart in the center with a white border [END ID]

[IMAGE 2: a 5 striped horizontal flag with pastel blue,blue,white,blue & pastel blue. there is a blue rose in the center with a white border [END ID]

[IMAGE 3: a 5 striped horizontal flag with light yellow,orange,white,purple/lavender & pink. there is a green heart in the center with a white border [END ID]

colour meanings:

fictosexual:

pastel cyan: imagination/creativity

pink: affection

white: all fictosexuals + including fictos who identify with/as xeno/neo genders,neo/xeno pronouns,lesboys/turigirls,mspec lesbians/mspec gays & more. it excludes anyone who on my dni list (except for fictophobes since this flag is meant for fictosexuals anyways)

purple/lavender: hating fictophobic people

pastel green: warmth/comfort

light red heart: attraction to your f/o(s)

colour meanings:

fictorose:

light blue: passion

blue: ??? (doesnt have a meaning yet)

white: all fictosexuals + including fictos who identify with/as xeno/neo genders,neo/xeno pronouns,lesboys/turigirls,mspec lesbians/mspec gays & more. it excludes anyone who on my dni list (except for fictophobes since this flag is meant for fictoroses anyways)

blue rose: attraction to your f/o(s)

fictoromantic (couldnt come up with actual creative meanings so i mainly had to recycle from the fictosexual one, but change the meaning of the gren heart):

light yellow: attraction

orange: affection

white: all fictosexuals + including fictos who identify with/as xeno/neo genders,neo/xeno pronouns,lesboys/turigirls,mspec lesbians/mspec gays & more. it excludes anyone who on my dni list (except for fictophobes since this flag is meant for fictoromantics anyways)

purple/lavender: hating fictophobic people

pink: warm/comfort

green heart: romantic attraction to your f/o(s)

[cringeisfreedom]

People need to stop making up rules for things that don’t need rules

This in general but mostly I mean with moral superiority/purity. With a general decline in religion and with the enforcement of religion people are making up new things to be unnecessarily rigid about. I think this especially because I’ve noticed this in far left spaces and among the same groups that are very anti-establishment and government/religion.

Guilting people for things beyond their control is also wrong and not much better than religion just because it’s less systemic. So hot take maybe people should be less rigid about moral rules and beliefs

[obsessivefangirl]

It's really funny to me when republican queer pick mes get rejected and kicked for being gay. Don't get me wrong it's deplorable what they do to their gay "friends" but you joined their side to harass, silence, and discriminate against queer people but you never thought even for a second that they didn't care about you either?

Same vibe

[femmesandhoney]

these people do not see lesbians, bisexuals, or gay people as humans i'm dead serious when i say these people cannot fathom us as normal living breathing people

was thinking about infighting and like. they all see us the same. from the wildest queerest fagdyke to a cis gay guy. we are the same to them. the weird queers are not like. ruining your precious community. we're a part of it

[historyinclusionist]

History Inclusionist

An "Inclusionist" who believes that identities which are 1) shown to be supported in the community's history 2) are harmless personal identities that don't pose harm to others are valid and should be included in their communities.

Overall:

"History Inclusionism" refers to being inclusive of personal identities based on the identity being:

A self affirmed personal identity (locatable only within a person's interaction with and relations to the world around you)

Historically shown to be included in an identity subculture (Such as in a notable number of personal accounts, poems, zines, books, or other media from a subculture)

Shown to be non harmful to other identities or persons (Such as in more than one professional study)

Examples: - Different studies over human history have concluded that being raised by gay parents doesn't cause inherent harm to children. Therefore, gay relationships are provably shown to be non harmful. They are included here. - Different self-reports, comics, zines, and other writings from the past 60 years mention male lesbians, bi lesbians, and lesbians in relationships with men. Therefore, it is historically shown to be included in lesbian culture, and is included here. - Studies, reports, and other examinations by professionals over the course of human history have come to the conclusion that minors in relationships with adults cannot properly consent and are harmed by those "relationships." Therefore, personal identities that try to justify these "relationships" are not included here.

"Personal Identity"?

"Personal Identity" is a purposefully broad term meant to apply to most self-affirmed forms of identification (plurality status, orientation, gender, etc).

Being a History Inclusionist means that you are in complete support of the following personal identities:

Plurality which does not attribute its origins to trauma

Lesbians who are also male / Gay men who are also female

Lesbians who are also mspec (bi, pan, poly, etc) / Gay men who are also mspec

Transgender / nonbinary people who don't experience dysphoria or only feel euphoria

Nonbinary genders, including xenogenders / nonbinary genders that are "atypical" (based on fictional characters, highly specific, based on animals, etc)

"Atypical" relationship formats such as polyamorous relationships, relationship anarchy, kink-focused relationships, etc (Or generally any other form of relationship between two or more consenting people that would not fall under anything on the list below this)

Gender presentations which conflict with and/or defy the expected norm (Women who use he/him pronouns, men who present feminine, etc)

Being a History Inclusionist means that you absolutely do not tolerate or support the following:

Acting on or encouraging attraction to children as an adult (Ped*philia)

Acting on, encouraging attraction to, or associating positive feelings with the attraction to one's family members (Inc*st)

Acting on or encouraging attraction to, or associating positive feelings with the attraction to animals (Z*ophilia)

TransID/TransX communities, the idea that someone can transition into or identify as an age, disorder, or condition they physically are not or do not have (transrace/diarace/trace, transabled/transdisorder/'transplural'/transautistic, and so on)

Arguing with other members of the LGBT community over who is allowed to use derogatory words (Q-eer, f-ggot, d-ke, and so on)

Tagging: @mogai-sunflowers @neopronouns @radiomogai

If you're interested in reading more about why I consider XYZ a good faith thing and why I don't consider XYZ the same, I made a Carrd! 📖🏳️‍🌈

[honeydew-wecantwo]

how it feels to be a closeted radical inclusionist with friends that love pushing cringe culture

[tired-fandom-ndn]

quick "about me" post

I'm pro-fiction, pro-kink, pro-bodily autonomy, and a radical inclusionist (NOT r.adqueer).

Most people just call me Tired or Error, either one is fine. I'm fine with being referred to with any neutral pronouns.

Anon is always on for my inbox; if you send a message off anon and want it responded to privately, include that in the ask please, otherwise everything gets posted.

I almost never answer DMs on here. Mutuals and people who interact with me frequently can ask for my discord off anon, but I go on long isolation sprees where I just do not talk to people. It's not you, it's me. Sorry!

You all have blanket permission to use anything I post as inspiration for fics/art/whatever. You don't need to ask me if it's okay or give me credit, but if you want to shoot me a link to the finished product, it would make me happy.

I'm not on any other social media except an aethy I don't really use (@tired_fandom_ndn). Anyone claming to have interacted with me on twitter, instagram, tiktok, etc is lying.

I'm NDN/Native. No, you do not need to know my tribe. Yes, I will absolutely call you out on cultural appropriation and racism.

tags to block: #ua, #noncon, #dubcon, #shipcest, #whump tag

hard limits: link

icon credit: @.swettxdamelio

[fite-club]

i think its hilarious when asexuals say shit like "weve ALWAYS been here!!!" here being The LGBT Community when we all know a cohesive asexual community pretty much didnt exist until AVEN in the 2000s and david jay himself describe(s/d) being unable to find any mentions of or fellow asexual people in LGBT communities at the time... so clearly they werent always here. early versions of asexuality dot org even say that most asexual ppl blend in well and are minimally affected by heterosexism lol.

people will get so aggressive and irate when you point out that the A in LGBTA did actually once stand for “ally”. everyone acts like it’s a malicious and ahistorical thing to point out but it’s true! the thing about being in your mid 20s is that a decade is actually a long time to have been on social media. when we say things like “the A didn’t always stand for ace/aro” or “aces started ‘no kink at pride’ discourse” it’s because we were actually there. obviously “trust me bro” isn’t a source but like, some of us actually lived through these discussions as they were happening instead of just reading about them afterwards. there isn’t some widespread conspiracy against the ace community, no one is making this stuff up. we saw it. i saw it.

i genuinely think the saddest thing about the online ace community is that their insistence on 1. inclusion above all else and 2. proving themselves to be oppressed and inherently queer has resulted in there being no real collective culture or history for the ace community. the number one thing (and frankly the only thing) the ace community has wanted is visibility— there are no rights being denied, no hate crimes. things like “my life as an amoeba” and david jay’s AVEN are undeniably foundational to the formation of asexual identity yet so frequently left out of conversations about ace history because those things contradict the modern ace-inclusionist worldview. because they state that asexuals don’t want sex or romantic partners, and that recognition and visibility is the ultimate goal. so how else can these people argue that the ace community was destroyed on tumblr by exclusionists? how else can these people argue that aces were at stonewall besides ignoring the notable figures who said otherwise?

[mixelation]

What's your favorite tree? (do you think palm trees count? Not scientifically but like culturally)

idk if i have a FAVORITE tree but i like the enchanted forest quality of rhododendrons, and the twisty windswept look of juniper and olive trees. also, trees that grow in water like cypress or mangroves? dope af

also i'm a tree-inclusionist who accepts palm trees as trees. "tree" isn't a taxonomic class; it just means "has a long woody trunk" and includes a wide variety of plant families who all evolved the same "get tall" strategy independently. so i see no reason to exclude palm trees

[gothhabiba]

About:

Najia [nə ʒi' jə] / ناجية.

27. EN | FR | learning Moroccan / Casablancan Darija (casawi).

DNI:

racists (people who believe that colonialism is a thing of the past, people who use racist dogwhistles)

lesbophobes (people who say things like "sexuality is fluid," people who use "queer" as an umbrella term)

terfs / twefs / twerfs / swerfs, radfems, transandrophobia truthers, transmisogynists of any stripe. shoo

inclusionists (anyone who believes that asexuals are inherently LGBT)

anyone who hasn't read *at least* a few chapters of Edward Said's Culture and Imperialism

people who believe in astrology aka Star Racism

anyone who makes fun of people for being sober or still talks about how great bacon is in 2023 (Islamophobic dogwhistles)

iPhone users (you have too much money)

transmed, anti-self dx, people who think that systems can't be endogenic (are you getting paid to be a cop)

anyone who hates Stephenie Meyer's Twilight (ok. I'm sure it's a coincidence that it's associated with women and girls)

anyone who denies that the French crown rightly belongs to the cadet house of the House of Orléans

Jerma stans

whoever is responsible for how terribly text behaves when you mix left-to-right and right-to-left scripts

exclusionists (anyone who believes that asexuals are not inherently LGBT)

anyone with a Gemini moon sign

people who started constructing a shrine in their front yard to the goddess Baphomet years ago but it still isn't complete because you keep on revising and building, deconstructing and rebuilding, always building and building and feverishly building, there's sweat in your eyes and it blocks out the sun (the sweat), shouldn't you take a break, shouldn't you keep working, shouldn't you take another look at the plans, you'll never be finished, are you sure the plans are right, you're almost there, you can taste it (the sweat) there's so much left to go, it blocks out the sun (the monument)

people with blue eyes (I just think they're gross)

[piinktearxs]

welcome to munchkin's blog!!

about me page new regressor on tumblr? I gotchu :)

my fics/headcanons!!

BYF, you should know that:

blank blogs will be blocked, if you’re a new user send me a dm to let me know!!!

This blog focuses on agere, my many fandoms (mostly mcu and spn), arfid recovery (and sometimes sensory issues kid rants), and regular internet goofing around, that being said, because of the mixed interests, it might not be suitable for all and that's okay!

this is 100% a sfw blog, and i don’t feel comfortable with kink or abdl in it

I am not in any way looking for a romantic/sexual relationship, and any intent of one will be blocked, however I love having mutuals!! Message me if you wanna talk!! I also love tag games so I'm super down to be tagged (ask me if it's the first time though) :))

This is a follow-up blog to my old one, also with the user piinktearxs, so yeah if I followed you there and I follow you again, just stating, I am not a bot!!

This blog is my safe space, and anyone who makes me uncomfortable will be blocked

DNI:

anyone who fits in my DNI criteria will automatically be blocked, I usually check out new followers's blogs to check, but please have the courtesy to read my DNI before following, it's greatly appreciated!!

abdl, ddlg

anyone with graphic diaper imagery on blog (aka showing crotch pics and all that, nothing against, just have a bad history and it makes me uncomfy)

If you're gonna pick fights, kindly fuck off

If you think cringe-culture (AKA harassing/bullying people over having interests you dont like) is "cool"

map or 'minor attracted person', a pedophile - basically

ableist (this includes people who are against self diagnosis too!)

lgbtphobic (lesbophobic, homophobic, biphobic, panphobic, transphobic, exclusionist, etc)

transmed/truscum, radfem, terf

anti neopronouns or xenogenders

xenophobic

anti non-she/her lesbians or non-he/him gays

exclusionist

radical inclusionist

pro amab trans men/afab trans women

anti-semitic

nazi/nazi sympathizer

pro israel

anti palestine

pro-life

if your blog romantiicizes, mental ilness, ED's, rape, incest or SH

porn blogs

Please like this post to confirm you have read it :)

[llycaons]

I don't actually have a strong sense of the aro/ace inclusionist tumblr cultural climate rn except like 'guyyys we were so mean to them :( let's let them in now come on' or like....really agressive and condescending posts asserting their validity and ~obvious~ inclusion in the lgbt community without any genuine followthrough or explanation

[macbxth-pdf]

Do Not Interact

Homophobes, Biphobes, Transphobes, Lesbophobes (all y'all mfs)

Anti Neopronouns

RadFems: TERFs and SWERFs are just radfems. They aren't different groups. I'll specify in the tags on post just in case though

Minors and Ageless blogs. : I occasionally repost NSFT, NS/FW, & suggestive content. I want to have a lil more wiggle room and freedom with what I can post on this blog. If you don't like that kind of content as an adult, please filter out the ns/fw, tw: suggestive and nsft tags. Hell I’ll filter post as mature. If youre not 18+, INSTA BLOCK

NonSapphics : I don’t do shit for you. Point blank. This blog is for the dykes.

Anti-Kink /Sex Negative: This is for the “kink is abuse”, “All SWers are victims” crowd. Not asexuals who are sex repulsed (aka them and sex dont go together.) Theres a difference between critiquing kink + the current culture around sex and critiquing sex as a whole + “kink is abuse!” mindset.

Anti Polyamory/ “Polyamory is just cheating” crowd

Race players

Feedees/Feeders

Dykebreakers/Dykebreakees

Truscum

RadQueer : I don't think I'll ever understand being trans-racial/RCTA as someone who is POC. I don't think I'll ever understand being trans-abled as someone with disabled friends. There’s a huge difference/line from being RadQueer (supporting transracial, transabled etc) and a Queer Inclusionist.

Xenosatanist/Xenosatanism supporters : I just found out about this wtf…..Xenosatanism is unrelated to atheistic and theistic satanism but just know they fall under most of my DNI tags.

“Gender critical”

Zoophiles

DSMP (this is dumb but still)

Racist / ‘Race Realist’

Xenophobes

Ableist

Neo-Nazis

Fatphobes

MAPs/NO-MAPs/Pedos

Proshippers

Zionist

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[demiaroacejadeharley]

Tarot Account: @babybatwitchxxx

Pride Icon Account: @radinclusnicorobin

⭐️About Me⭐️

💚Call me Jade (not giving out my irl name for privacy reasons)

💚She/They

💚Cis Woman (Although I've been questioning if I'm Nonbinary or not. Still figuring it out)

💚25

💚Demi AroAce

💚ADHD + Autistic + Anxiety

💚Radical Inclusionist/Anti Exclusionist

💚Antishipper/Anti Proship, Anti Comship, and Anti Darkship

💚Leftist

💚Intersectional Feminist

💚Ex Catholic

💚Beginner Satanic Pagan Witch

💚Beginner Tarot Reader

💚Abuse and SA victim

💚Fat

⭐️My Beliefs⭐️

💚Anti Proship Neutral (as in against anyone who claims they're proship "neutral". Anyone who claims are neutral are lowkey proship)

💚Fiction can affect reality

💚Pro Choice and Pro Bodily Autonomy

💚Pro MOGAI

💚Pro Microlables

💚Pro It/Its Pronouns and Neopronouns

💚Against anyone who believes that Its/Its Pronouns and Neopronouns are transphobic (it's also ableist to be against these pronouns as they're created by Neurodivergent and disabled Trans people)

💚Pro Xenogenders

💚Anti Amber Heard/Anti Amber Heard Supporters (Supporting Amber after she admitted to abusing Johnny Depp is TERF rhetoric. TERFs believe that abusive and terrible women should he absolved of their actions because they're women. I'm not a Johnny Depp fan, but using his shitty actions as a way to erase his status as a domestic violence victim is victim shaming. You can acknowledge that Johnny is a terrible person and an abuse victim at the same time.)

💚Men can be victims and suffer under the patriarchy

💚Women can be abusers and benefit from the patriarchy

💚Anti "Kill All Men" (Wishing death to all men and wishing to commit male genocide is eugenics as marginalized men exist.)

💚Against anyone who compares being Trans to blackface (These two things should not be compared to all. It's racist and transphobic to compare the two since Trans people of color exist.)

💚Cancel Culture doesn't exist (it was made up by people who don't want to hold themselves accountable for their shitty actions. There's a difference between calling someone out of their bullshit and going after someone for something so small.)

💚Pro Sex Work

💚Pro Porn/Anti Porn Industry

💚Anti Christianity/Catholicism (and against all denominations of Christianity)

💚Anti TERF/Radfem/MERF/TEHM/SWERF (or any fascists who appropriates feminism with their bigotry)

💚Pro Kink

💚Queer is a political term and identity. Not a slur.

💚The R slur will never be a reclaimable slur

💚Against anyone who calls Autism "Asperger's Syndrome" (it's named after an Austrian doctor who was affiliated with the Nazis and killed Autistic children that didn't fit his standards)

💚Anti Veganism (Veganism is ableist and classist)

💚Anti Antitheism (Antitheism is deeply rooted in white supremacy and is harmful to people in marginalized religions.)

💚Anti Yandere Simulator/Anti Yandere Dev/Against anyone who still plays the game after Yandere Dev got exposed as a groomer

💚Anti Yandere archetype (it's based on harmful stereotypes of people with Borderline Personality Disorder)

💚Anyone who says that women shouldn't wear makeup, shouldn't wear revealing clothing, shouldn't get plastic surgery, and shouldn't become a sex worker (by choice) is anti bodily autonomy

💚Against people who are anti children (people who are against children and say stuff like "fuck them kids" or "I hate kids" probably have some deep-rooted trauma and should consider seeing a therapist. Adults should not be projecting their trauma onto kids. Also, saying you want to hurt any random child you see will end up with you being charged for child endangerment)

💚Against anyone who believes that hitting their children is a form of punishment (hitting your kids for whatever reason is abuse. And this is coming from someone whose been hit by both parents.)

💚Pro Self Shipping (self shipping is okay as long as you're shipping yourself with a character that's close to your age)

💚Against adult self shippers who ship themselves with underage characters

💚Against any fanart/fanfiction that sexualizes underage characters/against any fanart and fanfics that "ages up" underage characters just to sexualize them (sexualizing fictional minors is just as bad as sexualizing real minors. Pedophilia is still the same regardless of whether the minor in question is fictional or not.)

💚Against anyone who ships real life people

💚Anti Real People Fanfiction (making fanfics of real life people is so fucking weird. Stop treating real people like fictional characters.)

💚Against any Autistic person who refers to their Autism as Asperger's Syndrome/Anti Aspie Supremacy (Aspie Supremacists are low support needs Autistic people who believe that they're more superior than high support needs Autistic people and other high support needs disabled people. It's also rooted in white supremacy as well.)

💚Against anyone who still uses terms like "high/low functioning", "special needs", and "mentally challenged".

💚Anti White Supermacy/Neo Nazism

💚Anti Republican/Apolitical/Libertarian/Centrist

💚Anti Autism Speaks and against anyone who supports it

💚Anti Harry Potter/Anti Fantastic Beasts/Anti JK Rowling/Against anyone who still consumes JK's work after she outed herself as a TERF (buying secondhand and fanmade merchandise and reading/producing fanfics is just as bad as you're continuing to give her work relevance and keeping it mainstream even though she's not profiting from anything secondhand and fanmade. This includes any book she wrote under the name Robert Galbraith, who was an Anti LGBTQIA+ conversion therapist.)

💚Hazbin Hotel Critical/Anti Helluva Boss/Vivziepop Critical

💚Pro Mspec labels (I don't fully understand those labels, but I'm not going to use it as an excuse to exclude them from the community.)

💚Against non-Lesbians who think Trans men can't be Lesbians (as a cis non-Lesbian, it's none of my business if a Trans man identified as a Lesbian as long as they're not hurting anyone)

💚Against anyone who ships canon Lesbian characters with male characters

💚Against anyone who ships Gay male characters with female characters

💚Against anyone who ships canon Ace/Aro characters with Allo characters

💚Against anyone who believes that blashwashing is real (blackwashing was created by anti black racists as a way to silence people of color when talking about representation in media)

💚Anti Transmed/Anti Truscum/Anti Gender Critical

💚Pro Self Diagnosis/Anti Fake Claiming

💚Anyone who mocks Joe Biden for his stutter and accuses him of having dementia are ableist (Biden has a speech disorder, which causes his stuttering. I'm not a Biden supporter, but as a disabled person, you're saying that disabled people that they can't hold high positions of power by making fun of the way he speaks.)

💚Anti Harassment

💚Anti Suicide Baiting

💚Anti Fatphobia/Anti Fat Shaming

💚Anti Radqueer

💚Pro Palestine

💚Anti Israel/Anti Zionism

💚Anti Enemies to Lovers trope (and against other toxic relationships tropes)

⭐️Fandoms⭐️

(This will be filled out at one point. I'm just too lazy to do so 🙃)

⭐️Rules⭐️

💚Reblogs have been turned off on my posts to prevent people whom I don't want to interact with. This includes restricting comments on my posts, too, for the same reason. I suffer from anxiety, and it's just easier for me to filter out who I do want or do not want to interact with.

💚Any asks and DMs from people I don't want to interact with will be deleted. If anyone continues to do so, will be blocked.

💚Anyone who I don't want to interact with will be instantly blocked if they tag me in any posts. I'm not gonna waste my time and read your stupid ass post. Also, it will open me up to any form or harassment.

💚Any asks and DMs complaining about my beliefs list will be deleted. I'm sorry, but I'm not gonna argue with people my beliefs. It's not worth my time and mental health.

💚Any asks and DMs about the Amber Heard vs. Johnny Depp situation will be deleted. I don't support either person as they're both terrible people. Also, the situation has been over for more than a year now, and it's basically beating a dead horse. I was simply trying to make a point that you can be a victim of something and be a shitty person at the same time, as well as that person's shitty actions should not be used as a way to erase their victim status. I was trying to make a point that men can be victims, and women can be abusers. Abuse has no gender.

[queer-queries]

hello all! welcome to my queer advice blog!

this is my blog where i will do my best to give any advice on queer-related topics to those who need some! i know there are plenty of blogs like this already, but i wanted to make my own because i know that if i had had someone to ask these questions to when i was struggling, it would’ve saved me so much pain, so i want the chance to be for someone the person that i wish i’d had! below is some basic information about me and this blog!

about me-

- my name is reign and my pronouns are she/her

- i am a queer/genderqueer aroace sapphic bi lesbian

- i am autistic and have ADHD, OCD, depression, and NPD

- i am not a minor, but i am not really an adult either. i don’t pretend to be some queer expert, especially since i’m young, but i still have some knowledge and advice and want to put that to good use.

- i love music, writing, poetry, songwriting, queer theory, and queer studies

- i am a staunch inclusionist when it comes to the queer community. i think policing queer terms is the antithesis of queer solidarity and does literally no good. sometimes lesbians are bisexual and/or guys. sometimes trans women use he/him pronouns. sometimes your gender is related to flowers. get over it. i will not tolerate exclusionism on my page.

about this blog-

- you can ask for advice on anything queer-related

- you can vent about negative experiences or share positive experiences

- you can ask respectful questions about queer topics/identities you don’t understand

- i will post about queer validation, queer solidarity, and queer joy

- i will occasionally share my own experiences

- i will not give medical advice (so if you need medical advice in terms of transition, i highly recommend the blogs @genderpunks and @transgenderteensurvivalguide )

boundaries-

- do not use they/them pronouns on me

- do not send me discourse. i will delete it.

- do not interact with me if you are bigoted in any way.

- if you are a queer exclusionist but you still need advice on something, you can send an ask and i will still answer you because all queer people deserve kindness in their questioning. but if you bring your exclusionism into it or try to invalidate me or others, your ask will not be answered.

that’s pretty much it for now! could i get a boost? @justlgbtthings @genderpunks @transgenderteensurvivalguide @trans-mom @stopcannibalizingourown @genderkoolaid @wearequeer-andwearehere @makingqueerhistory @1000lesbians @soft-sapphic-love @kenochoric @neopronouns @sapphicspoonie @sapphic-sprite @intersexfairy @queerasfact @queercutlureis @our-queer-experience @aspecpplarebeautiful @genderqueerpositivity @aroace-people-are-lgtbq @aro-culture-is @aroaceconfessions @transenbyconfessions 

[salora-rainriver]

P-pinned post? I have an actual bio but its a bit old and i worry no ones seeing those anymore thanks to tumblr changes so whatever wheee

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Name: Gaby, Salora, Sal. I like goofy nicknames

Gender n Pronouns: Butch (thats my gender), she/her or fae/faer (the latter’s a pretty common neopronoun so theres references for it online owo)

Age: I’m 27 as of the last edit of this post.

Academic Qualifications: BA in anthropology. Pursuing masters in Education. Went to art school.

(It’s *my* pinned post, and *I* get to decide what’s important info to put on it!)

Diagnoses: hey kids don’t post ur full medical history online. That being said I am The Autistic and have Some Traumas and take medication.

Interests: art, culture, history, religion, linguistics, science (mostly biology, geology, and meteorology), politics and social issues (for survival/empathy reasons), videogames, tabletop games, worldbuilding, speculative biology, cute monsters, animals, dinosaurs, dragons, fighting people on the internet.

Okay what fandoms tho: you’ll have to figure that out for yourself uwu (i cant be arsed to have a regularly updating list of fictional medias)

Okay FINE what videogames: mostly sandboxes, open worlds, survival games, stuff like that. I also like to play as nonhuman things. Bcs im a furry.

WAIT UR A FURRY?: ya so my primary sona is a leopard gecko (black pearl morph). Secondary sona is an ottigator (otter/alligator). Might obtain a tertiary sona which would be a generic dromaeosaur with red, brown, black, and white feathers. We will see.

Are u a kinnie?: kind of, but the kin is a deity oc so like, is that a kin or a selfinsert?

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DNI

Oops! This page is empty! Looks like this user doesn’t really believe in DNIs as a useful tool for curating your personal social media experience.

If YOU have a DNI and are worrying about whether this user is a pro-shipper, an anti-shipper, a biden-defender, a zionist, a transphobe, an exclusionist, an inclusionist, a tankie, or whatever else tends to get into a DNI:

She is not.

This user’s approaching 30 and finds most of the contentious tumblr discourses annoying. And not in the “ace discourse is so annoying [proceeds to clearly take a side in said discourse]” manner, either.

If you see her reblogging from users who took strong stances in those discourses, understand she’s not agreeing with their stance. She might actually find it disappointing, but doesn’t wanna say anything bcs they seem like a decent person otherwise n she doesn’t really know them so she shouldn’t start shit, bcs it probably wouldn’t be a productive use of her time.

Free Palestine, though. Thats a solid stance I am willing to take and fully believe in.