#im blocking every personal who likes this

[newheroesofthemultiverse]

hey

hit that like for a random starter

[mamawasatesttube]

i have to speak my truth. i think timkon clone baby aus fucking suck

[oceanwithouthermoon]

with love as a veteran saiki k fan, a lot of the behavior ur describing in ur recent joke is just very characteristic of this particular fandom, hence why i’ve distanced myself from it. everyone in the fanbase is miserable and insane and playing weird fan politics and toxic and it seems to be a culture that unfortunately is self perpetuatingly drawing in more and more people like that.

yea this is kinda why ive been using the block button so much more liberally lately 😖 i dont agree that its just this fandom but it's definitely a thing that's pretty exclusive to smaller fandoms because it just gets so.... cliquey. ive seen it happen with ship communities for rare pairs because theres so little people in them that everyone takes everything personally and thinks its about specifically them 😭

[the-sun-is-also-a-star]

seeing a tiktok about how the person who made the video blocks every marauders cosplayer because they get second hand embarrassment from the cosplays : oh! myabe its just because the marauders tiktok community is really shit?

me opening the comments :

me : oh

[rainbowtvz]

*grits teeth*

i do not want to discourse here or anywhere anymore but it does kind of affect me as a transmasc bi person when i see shit that indirectly misgenders me and implies that bisexuality is an icky no good word and identity and you have to be bi and gay and bi and lesbian and bi and straight at the same time or support them or you're an evil stinky stinky terf like... hello where am, i

[epicfirestormer]

[mydream-synopsis]

very close to having a full on rant on my twt in japanese because i am SO done with the state of merch trading rn i genuinely Cannot trade for togame unless i fulfil silly little requirements that ppl have started to make for popular characters

[altschmerzes]

getting real tired of people who are shitting on “found family” more generally as a narrative concept and specifically named familial dynamics in fan interpretation of characters in particular because it all seems to be getting painted with a really wide and really homogenous brush. “we need to take found family away from people because they think it all has to be In Nuclear Family Terms and do you know friendship exists and you don’t have to call these characters siblings to legitimize their relationship while making it clear you Don’t Ship Them Ew Gross and THEN you sneer at people who Do ship them” cool cool that is a lot of really intense characterization and assigning of motive to other people en bloc!

like sure there’s some meaningful critique to be found in a broad trend to label every single relationship directly and specifically with terms that have very specific contexts and roles but im waiting to be told when anyone IS by the standards of people making and reblogging these very sweepingly generalized posts allowed to call a relationship parental or whatever. is that Ever allowed. who is handing out the permits. sometimes a specific term for a relationship isn’t actually about wanting an excuse to sneer about your ship (and frankly there’s a lot of projection going on there imo from people who are actively sneering about other people’s interpretation of a relationship!) and it’s because there are very specific contexts and details about a dynamic that makes exploring it from the lens of siblings or whatever very rich and compelling and interesting because words mean things and assuming everyone is just being reductive and demanding conformity to a nuclear family is, ironically, really reductive.

so like. cool it. stop being really fucking mean about people having an interpretation of a dynamic you personally don’t like or makes you feel a little weird or uncomfy because you ship them.

[monards]

the block button is so important but dear lord does it take so much control to use it.

[nomairuins]

that feeling when something is brought up and you remember having an insanely bad spiral abt that thing in your past but youre rly trying not to give into scrupulousity terrors so youre sitting there like Its okay its okay its okay its okay .

[ask-lock-shock-and-barrel]

Does your latest post mean I have yo wait until the next part of the story is out. Why are you taking a break. I really want to see what happens next.

((As stated in the next-previous post's tags, this blog is in solidarity with the global strikes this week.

You can wait.))

[quarterqueens]

meronia fauxcest discourse is so fascinating to me as a former member of the spn fandom. like what do you mean they’re problematic because they have vague implications of brotherhood.

[blkkizzat]

yoooooo do you know what happened to callm3senpaii ?!?!?!???? i was a huge fan of their banger works and when i try to find them now their account is deactivated I am devastated 😭

chiiileee 😭 long story short they got mad they traded away gojo on mudae, blocked everyone and deleted their blog.

i wish i was lyin'.

[hearteyesdiaz]

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[unopenablebox]

blocking lace is. so difficult [ETA: this is about knitting. thanks cham for reminding me that blocking is an ambiguous word lmao. anyway here's the. passive-aggressive parenthetical from the original post.]

(if we are strangers please don't reply to this post by explaining blocking methods or technique to me, or with encouragement. i am aware of many tips. i read the blogs. but sometimes you are doing a thing for the first time and you do it with knowing compromises and a clear-eyed understanding of one's own limited resources and experience. and i want to complain about it here, in my own blog, despite that, without people who don't know things about me showing up with assumptions that they are simply intrinsically more knowledgeable than me bc if i was as good as them i wouldn't express any frustration ever.

if we're buddies it's cool because i invited you here to hear me complain. the vibes are different)

[tired-twili]

Venting bcs what is social lifes man