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tired-twili · 7 months ago

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Venting bcs what is social lifes man

#ok but like i just wanna block some ppl #ppl i know irl #that were my *freinds* in hs #i legit dont want to talk to them ever again #bcs quite honestly idk if what they did to me was shitty or not #cant rlly talk abt it to other ppl i know cus theyre all chummy ya know #thing is i dont want to talk to them #or interact over again #blovking on socials is one thing im not rlly active on mine #but like a couple of them try to text me every now and then #one of the girls im not rlly on bad or good terms w #she apologised for what happened and honestly it rlly meant sm to me #but if i block theres def gonna be questions eventually #i just want them out of my life #i just dont know ugggg #it pisses me off sm now that they trying to act like nothing happened at all #like no i dont want to hang out w u???#ill give them that theyve made an effort but like its too late???#they ignored me for an entire summer btw^#then one of the girls kinda reached out after school started #it didnt help that i was at a mental low last summer #so like i get u dont want to hang w a person whos fighting thier brain but it kinda sucked watching ur closest freinds hang w out u???#idk #idk what normal in freindships tbh

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dukeofthomas · 6 months ago

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I need people to realize how horrible 'stalking/constant surveillance/breaking into each other's homes is how the Batfamily show love' is. Like i really need someone to just acknowledge how horrific saying this bullshit is.

Like even fics where they're shown as happy and healthy and with good ties, you've always got this thing where none of them have privacy or any boundaries with each other. Which is directly antithetical to actually having good relationships. And this invasion via hacking and stalking and breaking into homes is portrayed as a positive, good thing; it's just how they show love and care to each other, after all. But for some reason I just personally don't find stalking, lack of privacy or boundaries, and emotional manipulation funny, endearing, or healthy, and just end up disgusted at the attempt to sweep it all under the rug.

#my dc posting #dc #batman #batfamily #jason todd #barbara gordon #bruce wayne #dick grayson #tim drake #damian wayne #listen i can only take so much of it before i just breakdown okay #apparently controversial opinion but a family where its normal to vreak into each others homes and manipulate each other and stalk and #invade boundaries and autonomy and privacy can NOT be healthy #no matter how much you try to dress it up all cute w 'this is just how they are' 'its how they show their love' its never not gonna be #unhealthy and bad and toxic #like yeah they do do that. they are like that. either acknowledge it or stop trying to justify it #god this actually irks me so much #i try to idk. suspend my disblief but theres only so much i can actuallt fucking take before just #its just. im trying to read happy fluffy fics. but i cant be comforted by a family that normalizes breaking boundaries n invading privacy #and its specifically that the author aleays disregards it. instead of fixing it or making it better they opt to keep it and come up w excuse #s for it #and thats what actually triggers me #'i broke into ur house cus if i asked if i could come over ud say no' is actuallt fucking horrifying stop trying to make it seem loving???#im writing this while having a panic attack dont mind me 👍#but its like. if you can write the batfam w/o bruce hitting his kids or any other horrific thing that they do #then why must you keep the boundary&privacy breaking? why cant anyone even seemingly try to write a batfam #where theyve worked their issues abt this out best they can n have healthy established boundaries w each other??#like if u can write them all hanging out together 24/7 n bruce being s good dad why is this one simple thing the One Thing #nobody even tries to address properly???#'aw dick broke into jason's saehouse bc he wanted to hangout but jason would say no if he asked' aw. maybe dick should learn 'no means no'

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cringefailfagcat · 21 days ago

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gonna crawl into a hole why does no-one want to go to my birthday

#haven't had a bday party for like a decade n yk its my 21st so i wanted to be an adult and try n enjoy my bday rather than #doing the usual ungrateful brat who can't stand people trying to celebrate the fact i exist bc i know they don't actually care that much #n just want to do something to feed their own belief that they're doing well by me #its like my neighbour paying me to walk her 2 cockerpoos twice a week n pretending that made up for how much she was neglecting them #like that was the only time they'd get walked n i dont like dogs so i was doing the bare minimum. stopped after a couple months bc i felt #like i was enabling her to mistreat them more #n my friend who does like dogs did a much better job #fuck #but yeah. its great seeing ur best friend hesitate and start making vague excuses as to why she doesn't want to hang out w u for ur birthday #ignoring the fact she refuses to voluntarily spend any time w me outside of uni work n society obligations #it kinda fucking sucks

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frootaye · 1 year ago

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tng accidental 2000s time travel episode where data simply goes to the mall, finds vaguely gothic clothing, and just hangs out at hot topic with the mall goths until the enterprise finds him

#star trek #tng #star trek the next generation #data soong #everytime i come on tumblr its for trekposting i feel like this says something about me #i wanted this to be data hanging out w actual goths but hot topic data was a funny image so i went w mall goths #as a small european country resident seeing hot topic in tumblr posts was so dreamy... magical... shocking... revolutionary #you americans brits canadians whatever dont know how good u had it with tv show tshirts and easily obtainable merch!!!#where was i. ah yes star trek

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faaun · 9 months ago

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i think if i painted my ex situationship i'd be cured it's the most shallow but intense connection i've had w anyone i think i am so obsessed w how she looks i want 2 photograph her/paint her forever rant in tags but ive talked abt it b4 so feel free to ignore

#god her personality is so . kind of repulsive its insane i think shes a good friend to her friends but #the way she just openly admitted to treating her exes like they r less than human w the most beautiful smile u have seen in ur life #shes acc tainted tottenham court for me bc i keep thinking of our second date where she wrapped her hands around me from behind waiting for #the train . also yh sorry we were one of those cringe ppl on the escalator sorry sorry never again sorry #shes shorter than me but on the escelators she was taller so she kissed the top of my head gently #w the most beautiful side profile on earth she said she didnt even lead me on. its fine it was never that serious #ill FUCKING KILL YOU #thinking abt when on a date she was like . yh my ex would look lovely pregnant 😊 like bitch. WHAT #also she has central heterochromia so like . super beautiful big green/brown eyes longest eyelashes ever + i dont want to lose you i think #im 80% sure we should just be friends ok my love #i took you to a party on a high-rise and you held my neck when u kissed me on a canary wharf rooftop and now you just told me you want to #fuck pregnant women and that you basically cheated on your ex who then cheated on you but its ok bc shes the love of ur life #????#anyway #sorry i am acc basically almost entirely over her this was triggered by her texting me to meet up a few mins ago #after ghosting me for a while . anywya w/e time to hang out w friends and study

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theladyfae · 3 months ago

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i think human nature/family of blood is a really good two parter in how it manages to show how full of shit ten is 🫶

#look . i LOVE ten . esp whatevers going on w him in s3 he's horrible and i like that #but just !! martha :(#its so incredibly unfair to martha he doesnt unleash his wrath on the Family he chooses to hide instead and okay yeah fair #and sure u can say the tardis chose the setting and time period for them to hide in but like #did that not filter in to his calculations he went through all that turned himself human put his friendship with martha to the test in #the worst way possible. knowing she wouldn't let herself leave him even if he was Abhorrent towards her (and he was) because #of her duty to the universe and beyond and whatever . to blend in and keep the Family off their tails #and she's put in a demeaning position and degraded and even he doesn't seem to care much for her but she still hangs on #and then in the end its like its all for naught. all that pain and suffering martha went through being the only one w her wits about her #he had the capacity to deal w the threat the whole time he had the ability to dole out a horrible punishment he could definitely #have dealt with them a different way than that too .#and instead in his quest to be the bigger person he ends up putting martha through the horrors and then #does the same with the Family anyway ! i dont think he can ever tell her how harshly he dealt with them #surely this isnt an original thought im just thinking Way too much about blue moon by niki #he Does care more about being good than being good to her specifically !! and its so upsetting theyre so volatile i miss them #its more complicated than that sure but at the same time. it sort of isnt .#anyway martha jones my love my life u deserved at least a billion apologies alongside the thanks like god . whats wrong w him #oh and also he wants to move on without properly talking about it . act as if it never happened #like girl be fucking considerate for ONCE she just went through a personal hell for you !!! how insanely lonely she must of been #i dont believe martha ever let him just brush past it w no acknowledgement like yes i think she definitely didnt want to discuss the #accidental confession but i Do think she would sit him down to finally get him to Accept he cant just take her wherever in the past #if he's not ready to look out for her . its a vital conversation i think they need to have otherwise martha would just walk out there #not even love could make her stay through that its been established already she has the strength to try walk away #and also to try and but through his bullshit and demand answers . and here more than ever she deserves his acknowledgement and he Knows it

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om000o · 5 months ago

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i lost my 100 smth combo on dance dance lord hater this is real rhythm game player suffering

#its so (wander) over (yonder)#its funnt how its called dance dance lord hater even tho most of the game u dance against emperor awesome #we NEED more mid woy flash games this isnt enough #dance dance lord hater is my fav #global wandering is second place just cuz the watchdogs hanging out at the waterpark planet was kinda cute #likw ure basically going against the hater empire but then the soldiers of said empire r the ones playing at ur little waterpark after u wi #i couldnt beat the helping hands so i decided i dont like it 👎#disney xd villains unite..... where do i even start #WHY WERE THE WATCHDOGS YELLOW #super watchdogs #who gave them the chaos emeralds #peepers n hater would go after the chaos emeralds to gain power n then accidentally channel their power at all 5075 watchdogs conveniently #standing idly by #somehow #i felt so bad beating them up 0/10 game for watchdog violence #technically dance dance lord hater also has watchdog violence but its not interactive sylvia just pops up every 10 combos n knocks them ove #we need a commander peepers dating sim or smth i think itll fit in w the woy flash games quite nicely #yk ive always wanted to make a flash game #hm #pbj

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spacelesscowboy · 3 months ago

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truthfully while i enjoy billford and fiddauthor i think they’re much more fun as like. lightning in a bottle moments. weird built up tension that neither side acknowledges. but It’s There.

and 30 years later ford is shooting up in bed wide eyed and sweating going. oh my god i was in love w them. while both bill and fiddleford moved on LONG before ford even realized what was happening.

#emyrs.txt #gravity falls #like. in my mind them (billford or fiddauthor) actually happening at any point takes the fun outta it #there’s a post i saw a few days ago that was like. ‘whatever bill and ford did could not be recognizable as sex to us but it was essentially #sex’ and that’s sort of the vibe i feel w both ships.#like. they weren’t together and neither side acknowledged feelings. but…#it was the kind of relationship you look back on and go. oh my god that was us having gay sex.#you understand.#also this is just my opinion idc if u think this. etc etc. but i don’t find billford/fiddauthor end game to be very interesting at all #like. i just think they’re too volatile. billford wouldn’t be fair to ford/the pines family & fiddauthor wouldn’t be fair to fiddleford.#u know.#like obviously as one shots or jokes i think it’s funny & sometimes u want something silly and light hearted but narratively? dont like ‘em.#the only person ford slightly resolves his issues w is stan. so i think them hanging out having fun and going on adventures is much more #satisfying than ford repairing and forming a romantic relationship w bill or fidds #anyway this is why i’ve been rb so many fiddstan stuff lately. i just think they’re more interesting as a couple than fiddauthor. LMFAO #also bc i want stan to have Nice Things and fidds to have someone in his corner. they could fix each other. (<- guy making things up)#LMFAO #anyway. been thinking too much about the stan twins. sorry.

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dandyshucks · 3 months ago

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hey gang, is it not common knowledge that using the word "lynch" in any of its forms is like... really racist. specifically anti-Black. i genuinely have no idea how common this knowledge is but uhhh if you didn't know, now you do i guess

#goddamn. i just woke up. why am i seeing ppl use the word so casually hello??#it was in some wild hate-adjacent ask that someone I dont even follow received djdkdl #i was just looking at their blog to see if i wanted to follow and then got smacked in the face w some anon using the word #just use hanged pleaseeee u do not need to add the racist element to it.....#and nobody was pointing out the racism so erm... maybe nobody knows? i would like ppl to know though. 🧍#dandy.cmd

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itsalwaysdark · 4 months ago

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halpp im playing this game and ig theres like 2 gamemodes. and in the original one you r always a man but im playing the other newer one (which is harder mainlybc the wiki is entirely focused around the other one skull) and im a woman (bc u get to make yr own character). and one small thang that ig they didnt fully think abt is that i got my husband pregnant

#WE DID IT ! MEDIEVAL POLISH MPREG !#its a fun game tho i think its still early access? medieval dynasty if anyone was interested #it semiscratches my itch for a like. town builder where you also know the individual residents and can talk to them and like watch them gro #over time and have families andALso you get to build the town #the social stuff isnt that robust rly but yk. i gets it #in my dream world there exists a very very boring game where each resident has like a defined personality and you can like.have unique #interactions w them. and also you can make a town #but thats probably impossible bc i dont want it 2 be like. Characters per se #well like. how do explain #id be fine if it was characters but id want them to like. age and eventually die and like. in my minds eye this thing goes for ages like.#maybe it passes on to an heir or maybe. oooo itd be fun if u were just like. an immortal thang who jsut decided to hang out in this village #or wtvr. but ya. but itd be like. yk...#in my ideal world you could also be a little matchmaker and influence their decisions but obv thatd be a bit of an issue 4 like. youd have #to have a lott of flexibility and stuff. itd be difficult. so.#basically idt itll ever be made but itis like my dream

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wetslug · 6 months ago

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ive got a friend whos kind of rude and degrading to me and everytime we hang out i get some level of annoyed but i seem to be unable to track patterns and realize what i put myself into. maybe cuz i have so few friends