#if you need someone to talk to my dms are open

[the-kick-of-bones-malone]

Can you please say something nice to me my dad is being aggressive and making me cry :( ur my comfort

🫸🤯🫷❤️

Hey kiddo, you're gonna be okay. I'm sorry he's being aggressive toward you right now, and I hope things calm down for you.

You're doing a great job and I'm very proud of you, okay? Make sure to get yourself some water and a snack. Gotta hydrate before you die-drate, y'know?

And remember, if anyone gives you shit, just let them step in it. You don't gotta do anything else, but take a step back and let them walk all in it

[axolotlclown]

We need to remember that Shubble stated that Wilbur would manipulate and gaslight friends and family. With this, we must be patient with streamers that were close to Wilbur. This was likely surprising and shocking for them. They may need time to come to terms with what has happened.

I have been vocal about how important it is for men to be critical about abusive behaviors. However, Wilbur had many close friends—some would even consider him family—and now they may feel they hardly knew him at all.

There is a deep stress felt by viewers. It is difficult to think we have given any amount of time or money to an abuser. Could you imagine a close friend right now? The pain and betrayal must sear. They need time to understand what has happened and come to terms with it. Many of them may not be live in the coming days (weeks even).

That being said, as time passes, criticism may be necessary. Complacency is not an option. Men that are willing to ignore abuse to protect an abuser are just as pathetic as the abusers themselves.

Let's give this situation time to breathe. I ask that we give patience and courtesy to those close to Wilbur at this time. But please do not forget that this happened. There may be a few streamers hoping to lay low and then drop a collab in a few months. Do not let them. This is too important.

[xoxoemynn]

Hello OFMD crew! I love you and I'm happy you're here. 💕

[jinkamuraisqueen]

@karmablacks requested this but i figured some of you guys might want to see it too, that's why i'm posting this here! so here's alan, leo, and ren's casual / pajama fullbody!! ft. kaito.. in his boxer.. (under the cut)

it's actually so fun to play around with their expressions since the range of motions on their face are so many! i personally love to make them blush (by them i mean my husband, jin HAHAHA)

but moving their body parts?? that's pretty hard for me, at least manually (it looks awkward). praying that when i have the time, i can play around some more because currently i'm being beaten by life

[lilac-set]

Reminder: even if trump wins, we’ll be ok. The presidency isnt the only political position that matters, he wont be a dictator, the president doesnt have the power to remove every other part of government that keeps the president’s power in check. Also politics isnt the only thing that matters. Even if we lose some rights (which he cant singlehandedly do) we still have community, we still have activism, we’ll always be ok. We survived one trump presidency, we can survive another. We survived before gay marriage or transitioning were legal, if we have to survive that again we will. Please, no matter what happens, promise to stay alive. Youre valuable, youre important, and youre going to be ok. Its better to be overprepared than underprepared. Im not asking you to lose hope (im doing the opposite of that), im asking you to practice coping ahead, get all your coping skills ready, determine now to stay alive, because i dont want any of you to make any rash decisions later in case we get bad news and emotions are high. Make a safety plan if you need to. Make sure you’re gonna be ok

[kazanskys-mitchell]

hey guys come get some mav angst with a side of slimav!

been feeling kinda out of place and weird the last couple of days and this was a result of that. i proofread it twice so hopefully there’s no mistakes.

i hope you like it :)

isolation

Maverick was never a people person. He liked to be alone, tinkering with some sort of machinery to pass the time. He didn’t make friends easily, people seemed to hear his callsign and look the other way. But he didn’t care.

Or maybe, he cared a little bit.

Growing up, he liked his time alone, but when other people who pretended to befriend him made plans that excluded him, he distanced himself. He didn’t want to be a nuisance, after all. That’s what he saw himself as.

A nuisance. Someone that nobody wanted to be around.

Until he met Goose.

Nick Bradshaw was a character, he was very different from Maverick in a lot of ways, but they also were all too similar. Their personalities worked so well together, and Goose declared himself Maverick’s best friend.

Goose always made sure that Maverick was included in anything they did, whether it be getting drinks with other aviators or hanging out with Carole and Bradley. Goose always made sure that Maverick felt included and welcome, and if he didn’t, they would leave to do their own thing.

The night out at the O Club with Goose was fun, even if Iceman and Slider were being jerks about the MiG and “who’s the best pilot?”

Abused children was what Goose had called them.

Maverick just had to laugh it off.

Top Gun was a little isolating for Maverick. He knew how everyone there felt about him, but he put on a brave face and kept flying like he knew how to do. He knew he was good at it, and it took his mind off everything.

Until Goose died.

The events of that day replayed in Maverick’s head so many times, he lost count. Nothing had ever felt more isolating than losing the one person who made him feel like he wasn’t a burden. Now that Goose wasn’t there to include him, he knew he’d end up alone again.

He thought he wanted that.

After the Layton rescue, he gained a friendship with Iceman and even Slider. He felt less alone when they were around.

They didn’t quite pick up on the fact that Maverick would silently excuse himself if he felt like he wasn’t wanted. It happened many times, the Top Gun class reuniting and getting drinks, and Maverick leaving early because he felt like he annoyed everyone just by being there.

Slider eventually noticed.

He would run after Maverick, asking why he was leaving, to which Maverick would respond “Oh, I’m just tired.”

Slider knew it was a lie.

So he started doing what Goose did. He made sure that Maverick felt included in everything, and it worked. Maverick liked that Slider seemed to care for him.

A year after Goose died, Maverick realized he had feelings for Slider.

He didn’t know what to do about it. He didn’t know who he could tell, and he was sure that Slider wouldn’t feel the same.

He felt more comfortable about it after Wolfman had one too many drinks and confessed to Maverick that he and Hollywood had been together for a while. Wolfman didn’t seem to remember that he had told Maverick, but Maverick remembered it for a long time.

Eventually, Maverick figured his shit out and confessed to Slider.

He was sure he’d be rejected, like he had been many times in the past, but Slider surprised him by asking Maverick on a date.

The rest was history.

Slider eventually took Maverick to his hometown to meet his family. They seemed pretty accepting of Maverick, but he still felt isolated from them. They didn’t include him in conversations, and hardly acknowledged him when he tried to join the conversation.

It took Slider a while to notice it was happening. Maverick figured that he was trying to spending time with his family, and that little ol’ Maverick was just a burden that he dragged along.

Slider found Maverick on the front porch, staring out into the road at nothing in particular.

“Mav?”

“Hey. Sorry, I figured you wanted more time alone with your family.”

“I brought you here to spend time with you.”

“I feel like I’m intruding.”

Slider had heard enough. He spent an hour on the porch with Maverick, the smaller man tangled in his arms, and told Maverick just how much he was loved.

They went inside eventually, after Slider’s mom had questioned where they went. Slider made sure from that point on that Maverick was included in their conversations, all while keeping a strong arm wrapped around his waist and pressing small kisses to the top of Maverick’s head whenever he had the opportunity.

To Slider, Maverick was everything he ever wanted and more, and Maverick no longer felt alone.

[sugarcoatednightshade]

Letting all my followers know that I love them, and it would hurt me if you disappeared. I know some people will be logging off during the next week or two for mental health reasons, but I’m so worried about the people who won’t log back in.

Anyway, reminder to put your own health first. Take your meds, drink water, and go outside! Even if you’re just sitting on the porch/steps, spending any amount of time outside is important.

Talk to people. Talk to your friends, talk to your family if you’re on good terms with them, talk to the checkout person at the grocery store. Dm your mutuals on tumblr, even the ones you’ve never spoken to once.

Also don’t forget to feed yourself. Literally anything is better than nothing, so don’t feel guilty about whatever foods feel safe right now.

Please, everyone. Stay safe, and stay alive.

[logan-w]

hope this isn’t triggering (too badly-)

TW SH:

Idk if this helps but I need really big help I can’t find stuffn to keep me from relapsing

Try wearing a long sleeve garment, keep away from items that could be used against you in your relapse, if it gets really bad and you can't keep it away then try a loose rubberband instead of something sharp. Try music and TV shows, be with someone you know you're safe/comfortable with, find your pets if you have any, try reading, try running cold water over it, or mindfulness

You're gonna be okay, I know it's hard right now, but I swear to you, Anon, it gets better, okay? There is a light at the end of the tunnel. It's just gonna be a journey, and it will be worth it if you keep moving. Please don't hesitate to reach out if you're struggling, okay? You are not weak for asking for help. I'm proud of you for reaching out here over asks, which takes a shit ton of courage to do. I don't know what you're going through or what you've gone through before, but I hope things get better for you. It just takes one step at a time, but you'll make it through. I'm sure of it <3

You are not alone, and you have support if you want it. I'm proud of you, pookie. Keep fighting, the sun can't hide forever

[kisakis-boyfriend]

My usg report came back. I have cyst in one of the ovaries, my fucking ovaries are bulky, there's a stone in my gall bladder.

Idk why I'm saying it in here. Guess I just needed to tell it to someone. Know that there's someone listening on the other end. Sorry

Please don't apologize, there's nothing wrong with wanting some kind of connection after receiving that kind of news. :(

I'm so so sorry to hear that. I cannot imagine how terrible you must feel right now. Especially in your situation right now, you deserve a lot of grace and rest. Please be gentle with yourself as you power through this. I hope you're able to get whatever treatment or surgery you need with no issues, and I hope you feel better as soon as possible ❤️

[calamitydaze]

long tag ramble below u have been warned

[xhfics]

Don't know if I have any Directioners as my followers but if I do; please take care of yourself 🫶🏻

[quinloki]

Hi Quin! How's it going? I'm better now, had some health problems with my mum's that hopefully are getting better, i wanted to thank you and tell you that your works helped me to not think all the times on bad futures and scary what ifs so thank you ❤️

Awwww <3

I'm sorry you were going through some hard times my friend. I'm glad I was able to support you too! Sometimes we just need to put our mind on a different track, and honestly the kind of stuff I write as the proper - we'll say, intensity - to help facilitate that.

I hope your mom's health improves, and I hope if you need a distraction to help you get through things that you find it easily - even if it's not my stories. 🥰

[kg2hub]

kindergala? more like: lou singlehandedly revives the kindergarten tumblr rp community part 2 electric boogaloo /lh /silly

[temunitu]

anything pertaining to the clips we’re getting of Tales of the TMNT will be tagged as tottmnt spoilers (just in case people wanna go in blind)

anything within the episodes will be tagged with the episode title, and i’ll queue them up to post 2 weeks after the episode/s are available

this has been a tagging psa

[billygoat26]

Y’all is therapy literally just-

Therapist: The world is shit, everything is shit, you’re shit, you don’t deserve anything, the walls are closing in. That’s how you feel?

You: Exactly!

Therapist: Wrong. Now go home, you’ve been cured.

[oathkeeperoxas]

why is messaging an artist for a commission the most humbling experience on planet earth