#gender superiority

[j-vin]

Hi Jay,

I've recently replied on some of your posts & I wanted to express that I respect your effort to try to understand the concern on both sides. I imagine that you've gotten a lot of hate which you do not deserve.

If you are interested in learning more about radical feminism I recommend reading books but if you want a blog to look at radically aligned's one has a good faq.

As a radfem, I hope you know that we do not hate you for being trans. We want to help you but we see a different solution to gender dysphoria - one without all the risk and side effects. We want gender gone and the recognition that sex does not tell you about personality.

I know that message may seem contradictory with what you have seen of radfem activity but I encourage you to read theory for yourself.

We see misogyny as sex-based (e.g. abortion bans effect AFABs and not AMABs) and gender as a tool of that oppression. The radical means "to the root" as we aim to examine the root of sexism and change the system.

Best of luck to you.

Hello dear anon,

I'm really thankful to you for your time on reading my posts. And also, I'm really happy that there are people appreciating my views and sending me this type of messages! And yes, I also got hate (mostly from radfems, actually) and I didn't really understand why, but I love that you are empathic enough to think about this, too! <3

Again, I really appreciate that you give your time away to recommand me books and stuff, and I actually really wanna know you (meaning radical feminists in general), but I don't really have time of doing it (also, my English isn't very advanced, as you see, and I know there will be pretty formal and complicated language). But thank you anyway! :)

I made a poll some weeks ago, and the results showed me that most radfems are not hating on us (which was pretty surprising, ngl. After the posts some of them make, I was expecting somethings else, but anyway). I appreciate your willing to help trans people, but trying to convince them that they are cis (their gender identity macthes with their sex) is not the best thing to do to help them. One of the terrible ways a person could change someone's sexuality or gender identity is by s3xual abu5e, which I don't think it's what you want. The best way you could help a trans person isn't by encoureging them to transition. Giving basic respect and mental support would be what we want!

Also, gender isn't based only on personality traits, stereotypes and gender norms. The main effect gender dysphoria gives is discomfort with your body and biological sex. Pretty tought experience to explain in words :) . As a person who suffered i puberty of it, too, I got to say that I didn't feel comfortable with my public identity (meaning how others call or consider me and the proununs they use to reffer to me). But yeah, trans people are different with different experiences, and, as for example a man usually ears masculine clothes, this applies to transmen too!

I understand why "terfs" find gender ideology mysogynistic, but I justed wanted you to know that if being trangender was a choice, the trans community would be way smaller. I appreciate radfems' intention and I really wish gender and sex superiority to stop, but I don't think posting the kind of transphobic things they post would be the solution. But yeah, I'm not gonna tell people what to do or what to post (as long as it's not too offensive). I just think we should be more respectful to eachother and that's it!

I'm sorry for the way too long answer and the bad grammar. Thank you for your time and patience! Have a nice day! <3

[biggest-gaudiest-patronuses]

main take aways from Halloween (1978) rewatch:

michael myers is canonically 21??? this bitch should be at the club

*sees tiddies* ***MURDEROUS RAMPAGE NOISES***

that's it that's the movie

outside of the fact that everyone who has sex is murdered by the narrative, this is a surprisingly chill portrayal of female sexuality? these teen girls are horny and actively enjoying Getting It On with their boytoys. no pushy boyfriends sneaking in through their bedroom windows--these ladies are taking the initiative to sneak out and GET SOME. one of them gets laid and then immediately orders her boyfriend to get her a beer. (yes she gets Slashered soon afterward, but so does the boyfriend so honestly, gender equality.) yes the Final Girl is the only one not having sex, but she's not bullied for that, nor are her friends slut shamed except possibly by being murdered by the narrative

actually the only character who is shown being morally condemned on-screen is michael myers. specifically FOR his violent overreaction to other people's sex lives. (people he is spying on). metaphorically, the villain is American Puritanism sticking its judgy nose into other people's business.

aka Michael Myers Is A Republican

but actually the real villain is the doctor. guy's a judgemental, shaming, pathologizing asshole. and he's been in charge of michael's care since he was SIX YEARS OLD? kid never had a chance. i'd go on a killing spree too

also the parents. where are the parents? it's halloween night and all the teenage girls are home babysitting their younger siblings? come to think of it, michael's first victim was his own older sister, whom he killed while she was babysitting him. teen girls are really shouldering a labour burden here. maybe parentification is the true villain

side note: mike commits his first murder wearing a clown costume...which is never referenced again? his 'iconic' costume is a generic mask and wig and jumpsuit, when we coulda had a Killer Clown Michael Myers??? travesty

i like how the Final Girl and her friend casually smoke weed in her car. yeah she's an honor student and her friend is the sheriff's daughter. yeah they smoke weed. so what it's 1978

(to reiterate, mike is 21 and should be at the club. im not saying he shouldn't be rampaging, im saying it's sad that he broke out, tasted freedom for the first time in his life, and immediately snuck back into his childhood home to go rampaging. let's have a remake where he goes to a nightclub and has a few beers. maybe some slutty dancing. then rampage)

oh no he's hot

[daisylolezzi]

[spirk-trek]

really love that for the metron design they went with "androgynous angel dressed head to toe in glitter"

[mikasasrippedtoenail]

Calling Lesbians' attraction to vaginas a mere genital "preference" erases the sheer violence behind corrective rape of millions of sapphic women. I do not just "dislike" dick, I am physically incapable of being attracted to it. My allure to the female genitilia is not a choice, it's my biological reality. Dismissal of same-sex attraction as a choice reinforces the homophobic ideology that attractions can be altered and also paves the way for discrimination. One cannot opt out of their sexuality, they are always born with it.

[warandpeas]

Allergies

[brokenpuppyy]

i have a problem

i have always defined myself as a feminist even though i was always aware that i was living my life for male approvation.

long ago i discovered my kink for misogyny, patriarchy and that the only thing that turns me on is being humiliated, abused and being a gender traitor

recently i have been watching a lot of misogynystic stuff here and it has definitely reached my brain.

everytime i see a woman, i picture her naked and abused and i have the urge to call her a stupid slut hungry for cock and i can view her only as a sex object pretending to be something else

i have become what i have always hated

but maybe It was meant this way? i can be happy now?

[giantkillerjack]

Me: hm, I want something to put on the TV as background noise... Huh. Looks like YouTube is recommending something called The Last Unicorn. That's perfect, it's probably some old shitty animation that has aged poorly! I can watch it ironically!

Me, 2 hours later as the credits roll: *crying, cheering, buying the book, composing the songs*

Me, 2 weeks later: So I have compiled all of the quotes from the book that I think could make good tattoos, and also, HOW HAVE I NEVER LEARNED ABOUT HOW THE LAST UNICORN FUCKING SLAPS??? This gay-ass little fairytale fed my soul! Watered my crops! Transed my gender! Can't believe I heard of this story from youtube recommendations, of all places!!

[lunamond]

Love it when a modern "progressive" show makes all the evildoers physically disabled.

Larys has a Clubfoot, Aemond gets his eye cut out, and now Aegon is burnt and missing appendages.

Isn't it convenient that we can immediately tell a person is bad because their body looks different?

And of course, we don't explore any discrimination against these characters because they're horrible, and we shouldn't feel bad for horrible people.

People were mean to Larys because of his Clubfoot? But don't you know he has a gross foot fetish?

Aemond has impaired vision? But his eyepatch looks cool, and he is still a good fighter, so what is he even complaining about?

Aegon has been severely burnt? But he is a rapist and so let's make jokes about his dick burning off, lol.

[creamybunnybullet]

Daddy messing with my head when I say no to anal, because he tried to put it in my little asshole and it hurt me. Daddy having me stroke his lubed, glistening cock, denying my pussy because it already went in my asshole and now it can't go in my pussy. Daddy moaning as he describes how he would abuse my ass, my pussy soaking because I'm denied already and everything sounds good. Even if I just said no because it hurt, the abuse he describes sounds so delicious.

Daddy making me pull up porn of other, better girls, anal sluts who would never say no. Daddy pointing out how much work it's gonna take to break me like them. My brain, fuzzy, clit twitching and throbbing, as I whisper, "let's try again."

Me, ending up on all fours as he pounds my asshole. Him laughing at how easy I am to manipulate. Me agreeing. Him saying he knew making me jealous of those other bitches would work. I'm just a stupid fucking girl after all. I exist to please him, like a good girl. I'm a really good girl. I'll never say no again.

[pinkribbonsblog]

[blorbocedes]

when people try to argue that feminism is unnecessary, western import for bourgeoise women, that the wage gap doesn't exist, that civilisations are built solely by men in construction doing hard labour while the women are at home, show them the impoverished female bricklayers of India, who are 49% of the second largest industry (after agriculture) of 40 million constructors, and get paid less for equal work ($7/day for men, $4/day for women) because of gender discrimination and exploited due to being poor, illiterate, debt trapped, facing gender based setbacks (not being promoted to masonry or carpentry like men) and being unaware of their union rights

this work in general is exploitative, getting paid pennies on the dollar while corporations that build their mega complexes rake in millions, hazardous to health, no safety equipment, regulations, breathing in fine dust and construction pollution for both men and women. but women in particular face gender based discrimination such as getting paid a lower raw wage and lack of opportunities to get promoted from this heavy duty scaffolding work, in fact they often do more work than the men but aren't respected by their male peers. and the idea that only men historically have done hard labour, built civilisations is a false myth that erases the plight of the millions of women in the Global South.

[daisylolezzi]

a lesbian finally gives in to the pestering of a guy she works with, who's endlessly horny and promises to pay her fairly just to fuck her once. she agrees. who doesnt want a bit of extra cash.

she tells herself it doesnt feel good as his cock reaches deeper than her girlfriend's fingers ever have or could, that it doesnt make her heart flutter feeling how tightly he holds onto her hips and how desperately he ruts into her cunt and how needily but quietly he moans and grunts into her ear and neck, that her legs arent shaking and her pussy isnt clenching from being pounded so viciously like his life depends on his ability to cum inside her as quickly as possible...

no, of course she isn't enjoying it. she's just breathing harder and her heart is racing faster because she's worried they might get caught in the storage room. she's just whimpering a little because it hurts when he digs his fingers into her sides. shes just shuddering because its uncomfortable when he reaches around to grope her tips or kiss her neck wetly, lap at her skin like a beast in heat.

no, it doesn't make her dizzy with bliss feeling him empty his balls deep inside her room. this is just for the money. that's what she tells herself when she goes to the storage room every day at the same time, waiting for him to arrive and fuck her til her cervix is bruised by his cock, when every attempt to have sex with her girlfriend leaves her frustrated and unfilfulled, when she has to secretly buy a dildo and make herself cum by thinking of her colleague and his cock so deep inside her, pounding again and again and again...

"yes... this is just for the money..."

[muffinlance]

I was rereading fellow prisoner li and I had an idea

Canon divergence au where instead of anyone doing feminism at the north pole aang accidentally panics and says trans rights

Aka instead of giving them any time to regroup and plan, aang's mouth moves faster than his brain and when they say "girls learn healing boys learn combat" aang says "what about me?" and leans hard into the "avatar incarnation of all those who came before, polygender because I contain multitudes" thing. you can't sexism me I have all the sexes, they're ghosts who give me god powers when I'm stressed out

I am now deeply in love with "AU where Aang goes 'Avatar State, yip yip!' and turns into Yangchen every time Pakku tries to drag him away from the healing huts".

[mikasasrippedtoenail]

Profanity and Misogyny

"Motherfucker", "cunt" , "bitch", "Whore" etc. are words that are so commonly used in colloquial language that one almost forgets the nuance attached to them. In almost every language there exist a myriad of swear words that refer to the degradation of the female vagina. A woman's sex is seen as her badge of shame and if she has control over her it then she has become astray from the path of the virtue.

"To insult a man, you insult his woman". I remember awkwardly shuffling in my seat, getting very uncomfortable when male peers would call each other "motherfucker" or "cunts" so casually. A woman much older than them was reduced to her sex, a tool to insult their friends. My sex- the organ that I was born with- was a sign of weakness. If you are meek or a coward you are a "pussy". In my language, I could never find the word equivalent of vagina, for it was too sexualised to use in society. Before I was even old enough to understand the workings of my body, a organ that I had been born with was left redundant to its function to please a man-villified by porn.

"Fuck" is seen as an insult because men consider sex a defiling act that takes away the dignity of the woman. Another misogynistic implication is the term "deflowering"; having sex takes away her innocence. After sex, the woman is not a human to them but a "cunt". The sexual paraphernalia of a woman is associated with purity. There is such a huge emphasis that is put on the concept of virginity, because it brings control to the patriarchal society over a woman's autonomy.

The sexual liberation of 70s was brought as a rebellion to these norms- young women were groomed into thinking that sex is empowering. Hookup culture also emerged as an aftereffect of the sexual liberation. The politics of a woman's sex is argued all day while the male penis remains as a neutral organ despite having been a tool to oppress women.

Sex is a completely neutral act of pleasure that is neither degrading nor empowering. However, this statement would only exist in a vacuum. Men use sex as a form of violence upon women-rape is a political tool. For women to take back control of their sexual autonomy, they must acknowledge the politics of sex-or lack thereof. Selectively choosing whom you are having sex with is the first step.

I implore everyone to stop using degrading profanities that have misogynistic connotations. When others around me --especially men-- use these swear words, I ask them why their insults always involve a woman to be degraded and humiliated. Not acting as an accompalice to patriarchy, not keeping quiet against the patriarchal violence and spreading word against misogyny is the best silent mutiny.

[braindeadbulimicfuckslut2]

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