#gay bar experiances
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paper-mario-wiki · 5 months ago
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in case you're wondering what the greatest AMV of all time is, it's this one from 2008.
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Additional Hausverbot if you claim to be body positive in any form but are "uncomfortable", not by anything anyone said or did, but simply, purely, because the place was full of fat, old or otherwise "ugly" dudes
In 2025, people who don't identify as male in any form who go into gay men's spaces and start pulling the "ew men" schtick get asked to leave. Like why are you even here?
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eshithepetty · 4 months ago
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'Where are the he/him lesbians in media' does greg universe mean nothing to you
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sky-is-the-limit · 3 months ago
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Dean Winchester and Eddie Diaz need to be put in a room together, saying "I'm straight" over and over again so we can judge who sounds more ridiculous.
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mischiefbuckley · 8 days ago
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so have we thought about the possibility of ravi being back means we could actually get buck finally going to a gay bar and possibly get firehose 2.0 aka bisexual whore buck
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mirqmarq428 · 1 year ago
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Lain at the Gay Bar
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This is just. So perfect
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lucaswarmhotchocolate · 3 months ago
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What I think is like. Honestly the funniest outcome is if chase is completely heterosexual. Like he is just so incredibly straight. Maybe he goes out with one guy who later comes out as a trans woman and like that’s the only time he ever goes out with someone who he wasn’t aware was a woman
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vampiredrooling · 2 months ago
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Me!
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geoffrey · 10 months ago
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the seperation of lesbians and gay men is a travesty. "why are there so many historic gay bars and only like a handful of lesbian bars in the whole country" why are being gay and lesbian not the same thing in this context. you dont need to fuck everyone at the bar and it is a problem that needs to be addressed if these spaces arent mutually hospitable. and this applies to most gay/lesbian spaces imo
#its just wrong to assume gay spaces arent for women and if any gay men are reinforcing that it needs to be stopped lol#but a lot of it seems like very gender-biased willing exclusion bc they dont wanna associate with men#which um. grow up to you too#gender segregation is just evil period#other than intimate circumstances if you refuse to hang around people you perceive as x gender#its a problem you need to work on it's not just a right you've earned#now yes of course there are able to be specific cases of bars that are more explicitly lesbian or gay#but assuming if a bar is a ''gay bar'' its just for gay men is a fallacy... do you even go to these places?#''buh buh buh if theres a drag show drag is insulting to women cis and trans'' its not. address your revulsion#i know i come across harsh toned im actually more being flabbergasted that weve got to this point rather than saying hey you in particular#its just so strange to have grew up in the gay climate i did where the only lesbian flag was just lipstick lesbian and the girls didnt like#if you assumed every lesbian fell under it and to just use rainbow#and now people act like gay and lesbian arent synonyms because of gender seperatism. which disproportionally hurts members of the lgbt#community because they are more likely to be gnc lol#also a lot of individual opinions you just see the terf hand guiding.#and i HATE THE TOOTHPASTE FLAG!!#no pink flag for girls so blue flag for boys get the fuck out of my face#i dont want to superficially share my experiences with gay men i need community with gay PEOPLE
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theinfinitedivides · 9 months ago
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folks i'm going to need to you sit down for a sec. sit down. are you seated? ok good
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how the F*CK did i not realize this earlier
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dreamyintersexouppy · 4 months ago
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transmascs stop pretending that transfems are untrustworthy sources for transfeminism challenge impos- fuck i didn't even finish and you already complained about our terminology
#i really hate the expectation to know theory in these shit communities#they're barely communities it feels like on here trans people are unified by strict categorization#constantly infinitely expanding definitions but treating them as immutable and emergent from the core of reality#rather that words used to describe things we experience or the positions we are placed in my transphobic society#we're unified by who is mean to us more than wether or not we actually like each other#and so we must always be ready to litigate our position in these spaces#because they must be Definitionally justified rather than just having a real community where we're treated like human beings#i wish we still had our elders... i wish we weren't so adverse to learning humanly#i wish i could escape the weird black and white fandom thinking but it worms it's way into every community here now#this is why i keep lamenting old t4t spaces#we weren't there to argue theory#we weren't opposed to learning it in fact it was useful and joyful to share with each other#to help describe our experiences and understand where we've been placed in the world#but that's not why we were there#we were there for community to be kind to each other#now it's nothing but a bunch of teenage fandom tme people arguing with fake versions of trans women they invented in their heads#while we just hide in the background wondering if the word community means something different now#or if we're really just so evil to our very cores that we were foolish to think we could have community in the first place#sorry just#needed to vent this shit has been in my head for a while#i wasn't in a place to go to gay bars or trans events when i was first here#i couldn't have local community so finding one here with transfems who loved each other#it was so important to me#and learning that i could cater to that small but kind audience in my sex work is what made me finally love doing it#before then i'd been doing it purely cuz i couldn't get any other job#and before that because i was forced to#there's a lot of trauma wrapped up in my work for me but i healed from it largely because of my sisters i found on here#but i don't know when it went away but it did#and now it feels like we're left in a massive crowd of screaming voices#and i don't recognize any of them anymore
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happy-little-letters · 27 days ago
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Salt winters
Winters up here, prairie queers, are marked by a grit-veneer of road salt. It tracks in on our shoes as we crowd into the apartment to dress, a rime of mud at the door. Parkas over fishnets and chains, you know the drill. We'll see more boots at the gay bar tonight than heels.
Salt is a precious thing, you know? To send a signal from nerve to nerve, the first thing your cells do is open a channel to let sodium pour in, start the cascade -- fire. I'd like to think that's why we're so attuned to it, why the deer of my fieldwork jump fences and chew wires, risk standing roadside to lick it bare off the winter ground.
There is a cage at the bar, south of the dance floor, glowing red-orange. I think of sodium-vapour bulbs. Someone dear to me is dancing hands against the bars. Animal I am, risking roadside, I stand bare in front to watch. Our eyes meet -- fire. My nerves tell me, salt-struck, how I am alive.
What strange joy, to press up against the bars of what contains you, to dance into the orange of headlights harsh with need. They throw their hips. Here I am, bare with desire, laughing in reply.
Soon, they'll melt back into our circle, shoulder brushing mine. I'll taste the salt of their sweat on the air as I find the cage myself, then find their eyes.
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natjennie · 8 months ago
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NOT TWINKY THE KID
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beebascloset · 8 months ago
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Album of my favorite cropped boomer memes from Reddit
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batemanofficial · 8 months ago
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it's time for everybody's favorite pride month tradition: the stupidest fucking discourse you've ever seen in your life about who is and is not capable of understanding the lived experience of gay and trans people
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ranger-kellyn · 3 months ago
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