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in case you're wondering what the greatest AMV of all time is, it's this one from 2008.
#video#serial experiments lain#this is related to TWO different things ive posted about today#which is serial experiments lain and gay bar by electric six#and it reminded me of this
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Additional Hausverbot if you claim to be body positive in any form but are "uncomfortable", not by anything anyone said or did, but simply, purely, because the place was full of fat, old or otherwise "ugly" dudes
In 2025, people who don't identify as male in any form who go into gay men's spaces and start pulling the "ew men" schtick get asked to leave. Like why are you even here?
#gay bar experiances#not fandom related#just personal experiences#sorry we didn't clear out the bar of any undesireables just so girls night would be aestheticly pleasing#praying that one day people understand that gay guys are not exclusivly 20 something twinks and an occasional jock#no hate to the twinks either i love you guys#but some of you pro-[blank] or [blank]-positive people just cant handle seeing a gay man whi is not conventionally attractive#“he looks like an incel” hes a nice guy with a reciding hairline and you would know that if you spoke to him
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'Where are the he/him lesbians in media' does greg universe mean nothing to you
#JOKE JOKE THIS IS A JOKE#unless...?#inspired by this current fiasco (my last reblog)#steven universe#greg universe#but fr that guy had some sort of gender crisis at SOME point i guarantee it#theres just something about his vibe#yknow??#hes like a sweet old man that youd find in a bar. Looking kind of lost..#newly divorced you wonder? Maybe finally getting the chance to experiment.. couldnt hurt to lend an ear#and then you talk to him one minute and learn that NO this man(?) has been to So many gay bars#and has met queer people you wouldnt even /imagine/#literally!! because then these 3 bright colored hipster ladies come out and greet him like an old friend and youre like 'oh...'#and then you learn his dead wife was apparently an ex alien princess or something. You dont even know#you would be far less pressed to believe it if the purple one didnt just swallow a martini glass whole#''yknow being a man isnt all that it's cracked up to be kid''#''sometimes you gotta follow your heart.. like me!!''#''and i know i look like any run of the mill boring old man but you know what they say.''#''theres a bit of magic in all of us ey? you just gotta invite it in :)''#and then him and pearl make out sloppy styledhgdhdhGSGHDGDHHDG sorry
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Dean Winchester and Eddie Diaz need to be put in a room together, saying "I'm straight" over and over again so we can judge who sounds more ridiculous.
#a bisexual and a gay walk into a bar#dean is def more ridiculous bc of experience#supernatural#911 abc#dean winchester#eddie diaz#spn#buddie#destiel#spn polls#911 polls
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so have we thought about the possibility of ravi being back means we could actually get buck finally going to a gay bar and possibly get firehose 2.0 aka bisexual whore buck
#I just need buck to experience going to a gay bar so I can live vicariously through him#stoner steph thoughts#evan buckley#ravi panikkar#911#911 abc#911 season 8#911 s8#911 speculation
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Lain at the Gay Bar
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This is just. So perfect
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What I think is like. Honestly the funniest outcome is if chase is completely heterosexual. Like he is just so incredibly straight. Maybe he goes out with one guy who later comes out as a trans woman and like that’s the only time he ever goes out with someone who he wasn’t aware was a woman
#house md#robert chase#like okay listen. chase gets pegged or something for the first time and house makes fun of him for being gay or whatever#and then chase gets to thinking like ‘okay fuck it. lets experiment’#ends up liking some guy he meets and goes out with him and blah blah blah#but they don’t work out or whatever#and chase doesn’t ever really show interest in any other dudes#and then one day he goes out to a bar or something and sees this gorgeous woman and he goes to flirt with her#and she’s like ‘ROBERT ??’#and it turns out. the only man chase ever dated was a woman who hadn’t cracked out of her egg yet.#he is officially deemed the straightest person on the team
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Me!
#had an amazing experience at the gay bar the other night#I want to love myself#vampiredrooling#my mustache is not that full don’t tell anyone#vampire
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the seperation of lesbians and gay men is a travesty. "why are there so many historic gay bars and only like a handful of lesbian bars in the whole country" why are being gay and lesbian not the same thing in this context. you dont need to fuck everyone at the bar and it is a problem that needs to be addressed if these spaces arent mutually hospitable. and this applies to most gay/lesbian spaces imo
#its just wrong to assume gay spaces arent for women and if any gay men are reinforcing that it needs to be stopped lol#but a lot of it seems like very gender-biased willing exclusion bc they dont wanna associate with men#which um. grow up to you too#gender segregation is just evil period#other than intimate circumstances if you refuse to hang around people you perceive as x gender#its a problem you need to work on it's not just a right you've earned#now yes of course there are able to be specific cases of bars that are more explicitly lesbian or gay#but assuming if a bar is a ''gay bar'' its just for gay men is a fallacy... do you even go to these places?#''buh buh buh if theres a drag show drag is insulting to women cis and trans'' its not. address your revulsion#i know i come across harsh toned im actually more being flabbergasted that weve got to this point rather than saying hey you in particular#its just so strange to have grew up in the gay climate i did where the only lesbian flag was just lipstick lesbian and the girls didnt like#if you assumed every lesbian fell under it and to just use rainbow#and now people act like gay and lesbian arent synonyms because of gender seperatism. which disproportionally hurts members of the lgbt#community because they are more likely to be gnc lol#also a lot of individual opinions you just see the terf hand guiding.#and i HATE THE TOOTHPASTE FLAG!!#no pink flag for girls so blue flag for boys get the fuck out of my face#i dont want to superficially share my experiences with gay men i need community with gay PEOPLE
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folks i'm going to need to you sit down for a sec. sit down. are you seated? ok good
how the F*CK did i not realize this earlier
#film: kal ho naa ho#film: jawan#kal ho naa ho#khnh#jawan#shah rukh khan#srk#bollywood#local gay watches Bollywood.txt#opened up ITTTD for Reasons (*cough* fic *cough*) saw this frame and f*cking yelled. yelled i tell you what the f*ck#also looking back Aman should not have been doing all that at the disco. that man should not be at the club he needs to be getting#a heart transplant pls 😭😭😭😭#then again. then again. har pal yahaan ji bar jiyo fr fr let the man have experiences sksksksk
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transmascs stop pretending that transfems are untrustworthy sources for transfeminism challenge impos- fuck i didn't even finish and you already complained about our terminology
#i really hate the expectation to know theory in these shit communities#they're barely communities it feels like on here trans people are unified by strict categorization#constantly infinitely expanding definitions but treating them as immutable and emergent from the core of reality#rather that words used to describe things we experience or the positions we are placed in my transphobic society#we're unified by who is mean to us more than wether or not we actually like each other#and so we must always be ready to litigate our position in these spaces#because they must be Definitionally justified rather than just having a real community where we're treated like human beings#i wish we still had our elders... i wish we weren't so adverse to learning humanly#i wish i could escape the weird black and white fandom thinking but it worms it's way into every community here now#this is why i keep lamenting old t4t spaces#we weren't there to argue theory#we weren't opposed to learning it in fact it was useful and joyful to share with each other#to help describe our experiences and understand where we've been placed in the world#but that's not why we were there#we were there for community to be kind to each other#now it's nothing but a bunch of teenage fandom tme people arguing with fake versions of trans women they invented in their heads#while we just hide in the background wondering if the word community means something different now#or if we're really just so evil to our very cores that we were foolish to think we could have community in the first place#sorry just#needed to vent this shit has been in my head for a while#i wasn't in a place to go to gay bars or trans events when i was first here#i couldn't have local community so finding one here with transfems who loved each other#it was so important to me#and learning that i could cater to that small but kind audience in my sex work is what made me finally love doing it#before then i'd been doing it purely cuz i couldn't get any other job#and before that because i was forced to#there's a lot of trauma wrapped up in my work for me but i healed from it largely because of my sisters i found on here#but i don't know when it went away but it did#and now it feels like we're left in a massive crowd of screaming voices#and i don't recognize any of them anymore
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Salt winters
Winters up here, prairie queers, are marked by a grit-veneer of road salt. It tracks in on our shoes as we crowd into the apartment to dress, a rime of mud at the door. Parkas over fishnets and chains, you know the drill. We'll see more boots at the gay bar tonight than heels.
Salt is a precious thing, you know? To send a signal from nerve to nerve, the first thing your cells do is open a channel to let sodium pour in, start the cascade -- fire. I'd like to think that's why we're so attuned to it, why the deer of my fieldwork jump fences and chew wires, risk standing roadside to lick it bare off the winter ground.
There is a cage at the bar, south of the dance floor, glowing red-orange. I think of sodium-vapour bulbs. Someone dear to me is dancing hands against the bars. Animal I am, risking roadside, I stand bare in front to watch. Our eyes meet -- fire. My nerves tell me, salt-struck, how I am alive.
What strange joy, to press up against the bars of what contains you, to dance into the orange of headlights harsh with need. They throw their hips. Here I am, bare with desire, laughing in reply.
Soon, they'll melt back into our circle, shoulder brushing mine. I'll taste the salt of their sweat on the air as I find the cage myself, then find their eyes.
#sapphic#writing#wlw#queer#creative writing#biology#I mean I guess it's biology#it's at least an accurate allusion to cellular action potentials#flash writing#prose#anyways god help me I'm down bad for this lesbian#and I had An Experience at the local gay bar with them#that wasn't exactly nonsexual#but fuck if I know how to flirt On Purpose#what if they thought that's just what platonic dance buddies do?#two bros chilling in the hot tub separated by their local gay bar dance cage because they're not gay etc etc#to misquote the lovely Vine
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NOT TWINKY THE KID
#nrb your queer humor is so important to me#'i experience the first gay moment of my life'#'i forget how to speak english'#i love you twinky the kid#laurie was so funny for that. tilly's SCREECH#that might be the funniest thing ive ever heard#no rolls barred#nrb plays coc#call of cthulhu#the weird the mad and the ugly
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Album of my favorite cropped boomer memes from Reddit
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it's time for everybody's favorite pride month tradition: the stupidest fucking discourse you've ever seen in your life about who is and is not capable of understanding the lived experience of gay and trans people
#speak friend and enter#i have things to say but my desire to not be the subject of a callout post supersedes my desire to say them.#but do we not think that saying 'it's terf rhetoric to say that cishet men can't understand the lesbian experience' is a little uncharitabl#like do we not recall the cubbyhole incident of last year. where a straight woman brought her bf into a lesbian bar#where she essentially acted as a tourist into lesbian culture and her boyfriend was a total arse to people in there#all this to say: do i think cishet parents should be able to support their gay/trans children at pride? absolutely!#but do i think Kayleigh and Branden of the Trustfund-Dutcheastindia clan of Westchester NY should be able to#say they're 'fagging it up with the queers' because they didn't flinch when a lesbian walked past them at pride without a little judgement?#who's to say. but you can infer
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#almost came unglued in my cubicle bc I got a bunch of queer instagram reels#and specifically these ‘what it’s like as a lesbian dating someone whose only dated men’#and it’s just like…oh I really Haven’t ever been in a fulfilling relationship with anyone huh#and then there were videos explaining hand positions and exercises to help with cramping and stamina and I’m just…#I just feel like the biggest loser#which is so stupid bc I would never even think to judge anyone else who is like me and has no experience#but gOD I FEEL LIKE A LOSER#ugh FUCK I’m so tired of feeling like an absolute outsider to the queer community#I’m so tired of feeling like I’m wasting time and missing out and like I’m going nowhere#but I can’t fucking navigate dating apps I can’t talk to women at the bar#had to delete the one app I was using bc I refused to pay $30 just to be able to filter for monogamous#I would run out of swipes on poly and causal only people#and then shit like ‘oh but THESE people didn’t meet until their 40s/50s/60s/etc!!’#and it’s just like!!!!! I DONT WANT TO WAIT THAT LONG!!!!!#i would like gay sex before menopause absolutely wrecks my body!!!!#bc if watching what it did to my own mother is any foreshadowing it’s going to thoroughly wreck me!!!!!#and that’s getting closer and closer every fucking day!!!!!!#AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA#negative
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