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how many people still think i'm 4'7 i swear im not a pocket pussy i'll bite ur fuckin shins!!!!!!!

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Idk how to phrase it exactly I feel like there comes a point for all trans women where for a lot of us we essentially have to decide to be in community with other trans women. Like i have been out as a trans woman for years and been around and friends with the few other transfems around me for even longer, but it was almost like the culture of the queer spaces on and offline was structured it was much easier for a lot of us to stay isolated than to unite as a group. Like not just to be friends who know each other but to like form our own culture in these spaces that still feels like a distinct part of the whole.

Like i had to make the conscious decision, far more recently than I'd like, to like prioritize transfems and transfem culture and identity. Making friends with more transfems, seeking out and loving the art we make, reading and talking to each other's ideas on our identity and our oppression as transfems. It was never something that came natural to me or was made easy by the tme dominated spaces. And I'm not joking making that decision is right up there with transitioning as one of the best decisions I've ever made.

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hiiii just out of curiosity (she lied) what did you do to make milk?

i've been taking domperidone! i have info abt it in my "#lactation nation" tag

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Read those tags about how we should get to be courted instead of always taking the lead one too many times and yeah now I think I'm crying a bit too, in my one prior relationship I planned every date and bought all the spontaneous flowers & cookies and all of those things and I really cannot imagine how I would actually feel & react if I were to receive any of that

Anyway I've been awake too long and am going to bed, I hope we can both find love that lets us relax

i hope we can too... and i hope you sleep well, hope hope hope hope hope

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imagine being forced to do all of the courting in your relationships. now imagine having gendered expectations around doing that courting. now imagine having dysphoria that is triggered by those gendered expectations but still being put in a position where if you do not do the courting you will not have a dating life. text that trans gal first.

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pic of my boobs to kick the blog off btw :3 🩷

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telling someone what a good mother they’d make while you’re holding them close and making sure they can feel how hard you are…

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cis women "experience transmisogyny" in the same way I experience racism. like, it's technically true in an intersectionally aware sense, but if a black person is talking about racism then it'd be disgustingly disrespectful for me to "um, actually" their oppression by noting all the numerous ways that white supremacist patriarchy oppresses various marginalized white groups.

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not even in a horny way but stretch marks are so aesthetically pleasing the way they add visual interest to an expanse of skin & form shapes telling a story of the body & how depending on the lighting the same ones can appear deep like little valleys or shiny catching the light like silver or a reddish pinkish blush color I love looking at them

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girl who can't ever fit underwear for very long reporting for duty

💗f*nsly💗

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i have sympathy for transfems who feel that’s it’s necessary to continually try and portray themselves as One Of The Good Ones to their audience of dubiously accepting tme mutuals as i remember being there and the isolation to it but you can only see someone putz around serial transmisogynists for so long

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Hey... is it okay to dm you questions about your milk?

sure! i'm always happy to talk abt my milk

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That's right, you look in my eyes

Straight into my eyes and just say...

💕💕💕

told you i was a boy on the weekends~

i feel really hot in these but i dunno if im masc enough? pls feel free to let me know if i nailed it in the tags!

wanna tip me? my c*shapp is $horimiyas !! (◍•ᴗ•◍)❤

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Let a girl with insane power fantasies ruin your life with mind control!

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as a fat person one of the most important things you can do is to subvert the patronizing "soft warm chumby wumby friend shape so warm and squishysoft comforting 🥰🥰" shit thin people say at us by having dogshit circulation and putting your ice cold hands and feet on people without warning. fuck you

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IF YOU LOVE FAT WOMEN HIT THAT MF REBLOG

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oh boy the mullenweg home healthcare worker lawsuit is not good