#endo inclusive

[thecouncilofidiots]

Immortalizing our first hate-driven message <3 (anti-endo commenting on an endo-safe/inclusive post we made)

(@/everyone please don't harass, it costs nothing to use the block button <3)

Have a wonderful day <3

💜🩷🩶

[theconstellarium]

Plural folks with tattoos:

Do you have tattoos belonging to specific system members?

E.g., you got this one because sysmate A has that same tattoo in the other world*; you got that one because it means something special to sysmate B; this one was sysmate C's idea & they really wanted it, etc.

In our case, our tattoos are a mix. We have one that is definitely Gwen's (she has one very similar in the other world), and one that's beanbon's (she's obsessed with strawberries so we have a strawberry tattoo for her). The rest are pretty much anyone's/everyone's.

Please share your own stories & perspectives about your tattoos! We're curious to know.

*substitute whatever your preferred language is (inner world, headspace, etc)

[non-dys-sys]

Oh boy I sure do love solitude, it’s so great to just hang out with me and “myself” and “myself” and “myself” and “myself” and “myself” and “myself” and “myself” and “myself” and “myself” and “myself” and “my-

[thenightmarebluntrotation]

wish i could just beam my system's entire lore into someone's head at will so we don't have to explain everything to everyone we care about

[non-dysphoric-positivity]

Shout out to non-dysphoric trans people that are part of a system, especially endogenic systems cause y’all don’t get enough love.

[cringegenic]

"This blank is Cringe and Free" userboxes

[genicpunk]

Punks Protect (all) Plurals userboxes

[bubblegum-bros-sys]

Tbh inclusive plurality just makes me so happy.

Like I don’t get sysmeds for a lot of reasons but one of the reasons is like…inclusive plurality and the inclusive plural community is just so…comforting and supportive??

Like…why would you have a problem with that??

Inclusive plurality makes plurality something to celebrate.

The plural rings and being accepting of any possible origins or not caring abt origins all together, appreciating your headmates and system as is, not having to see plurality as a disorder, not focusing so much on trauma and the struggles plurality can have, focusing more on the positives, supporting each other, being openly plural, not being ashamed, like…

It’s just so much nicer than fighting and invalidating people all the time.

Like fuck that, I love my system, I love plurality, I love the plural community and I think we should all love each other

-🦩(Jamie, he/they/it)

[notteold]

safety tips for systems/plural:

1. Don't talk much specific about your trauma (mainly if you are a minor)

2. Don't talk about your trigger (mainly specific headmate triggers)

3. Don't talk about your origin if you feel unsafe and you need resources (mainly if you are mixed origins/endo traumabased CDD and you need resources)

4. Don't say which headmates are traumas/memories/symptoms holders publicly.

5. new tips i will edit here!

[the-harvest-system]

Reminder to block AspenFrostEN, her alters sideblogs and any supporters that come across your dash!!

if you don't know who she is, she's a system tiktoker and violently anti-endo. She has harrased multiple systems, repeatedly said ableist slurs (against schizophrenic people and people with psychosis iirc) and spread a lot of misinformation. Recently, she has told her fans to flood inclusive tags with hate.

Her fans use the tag #aspenfr/stengenic *o (excuse the censoring, we don't want them to find us), and a userbox and flag with her sona on it.

However, please don't harras or interact with her as that may paint a target on your back. Block and move on. Please stay safe.

!!!DO NOT INTERACT WITH THE PERSON THIS POST IS ABOUT!!!

Link to a doc of all the things Aspen has done below

[moonpool-system]

Anyways unfriendly reminder that pro endo CDD systems should be allowed to use CDD tags (#did system, #osddid, etc) without being afraid of being fakeclaimed or told our experiences or opinions aren't acceptable. That's bullshit, we have a dissociative disorder too. I WON'T let people shove us out of OUR OWN FUCKING TAGS FOR OUR DISORDER

[thecouncilofidiots]

We made our own plural pride flag <3

Calling it the Dusk Plural Pride Flag, primarily made with cool colors to represent calm and peace; the "sun" setting and allowing for rest

Dark Purple : Plurals/Systems of any/all origins; whether traumagenic, endogenic, spiritual, involuntary/voluntary, ect

Light Purple : Non-system plurals, partial systems, median systems, ect; essentially any non-singlet, no matter where they are on the plural spectrum

Pink : Disordered and non-disordered systems; whether diagnosed/self-diagnosed or undiagnosed, functional multiplicity, ect

Light Grey : Community and Love; promoting a welcoming environment, finding connection/others to relate to, ect

Dark Grey : Advocacy and Acceptance; encouraging acceptance of all under the plural umbrella, destigmatizing plurality and dissociative disorders, ect

NO SYSCOURSE || NO FAKE-CLAIMING

This flag is free for anyone to use, as long as they do not use it to promote hatred, exclusion, bullying, ect. We do allow it to be used in art/edits, just please credit us <3

Disclaimer : This flag is not inclusive of radqueer/transID. Please do not use if you are transDID, transOSDD, transUDD, transCDD, transRAMCOA, transOEA, or anything along those lines. We are endo-safe, we believe in disordered endos, but we do not associate endogenic systems with transID, and do not want radqueer/transID to interact.

[cringeandproudx3]

Shoutout to the "weird" alterhumans.

Shout-out to alterhumans who's types are commonly hated.

Shout-out to alterhumans who are delusional.

Shout-out to physical alterhumans.

Shout-out to alterhumans who are disabled.

Shout-out to alterhumans who love being a human.

Shout-out to alterhumans who have negative experiences with the alterhuman community.

Shout-out to the alterhumans who prefer the labels transspecies, transcharacter and transbeing. (RADQUEERS NOT FOR YOU.)

Shout-out to alterhumans who don't directly identify as their 'type. (Otherhearted, animalhearted etc)

Shout-out to divinekins who aren't religious, have religious trauma, or have a religion that doesn't match with their 'type.

Shout-out to clinical lycanthropes and zoanthropes who choose to be in the alterhuman community.

Shout-out to alterhumans whose genders and pronouns are affected by and/or reflect their alterhumanity.

Shout-out to alterhumans who take heavy risks, like coming out to someone who they're unsure about or doing public quads/gear. (I don't recommend you do this, but the ppl who do impress me!)

Shout-out to alterhumans who DONT take risks and don't express themselves publicly.

Shout-out to alterhumans who are nonhuman to cope. (Copingkin, copinglink, others)

Shout-out to alterhumans who are nonhuman by choice. (Otherlink etc)

Shout-out to alterhuman headmates in general.

Shout-out to alterhuman introjects who aren't alterhuman in source.

Shout-out to alterhuman headmates that aren't supported by their system.

Shout-out to alterhuman head mates with stigmatized roles. (Alterhuman persecutors n such)

And a special shout-out to anyone who's label or experience I missed, because I do see you. I just don't know what we're called.

We all see you.

You are loved here.

Pyrite and Bug 🎇🎇🎇🩹🩹🩹

[non-dys-sys]

Plurality (and existing in general) is a lot more fun when you stop worrying if you’re doing it right -Party

[scarlet97531]

⭕️❗️- Hating endos is lame, hate on us instead ! We’re a DID system that believes people shouldn’t have to have their own entry in the DSM5 to be respected , apparently a controversial opinion these days !

Being unapologetically plural is punk, ESPECIALLY if you don’t fit the “scientific” idea of what a real system should be. Systems should support other systems regardless of where we come from. The world doesn’t understand us and they don’t want to have to understand us, if we want to have a future where we are proudly and loudly ourselves we have to work together to make it.

I have to fight to be accepted as gay, i have to fight to be accepted as polyamorous, I have to fight to be accepted as trans, I have to fight to be accepted as non human, I have to fight to be accepted as autistic, I have to fight to be accepted as plural.

I do not want anyone to have to fight me to be accepted as who they are, I want to fight alongside them because we’re fighting the exact same battle and it’s hard enough without us stabbing each other in the backs.

Now if you’ll excuse me I’m gonna go make out with the alternate version of myself that lives in my head and eat a brownie. - your local Killer Sans fictive

[interstellarsystem]

Plurality and Suffering

This was going to be a reblog to someone else's post, but this deserves its own. My wording might be slightly weird because I'm having some disorganised thinking, ask to clarify if you need.

People online have such an issue with plurals presenting themselves as happy, or enjoying the fact that they're a system in the slightest. If you're not all doom and gloom, people just... Assume you're faking it for fun? As if plurals have to share their suffering online? As if they have to suffer?

"You're clearly treating plurality like its all fun and games! Look at all these silly, lighthearted posts! Not a hint of distress or trauma! How can you be diagnosed with DID when you're clearly not disordered?"

Do you ever stop to think for more than 5 seconds about personal safety? There's people who hate systems left and right, cringe subreddit posters, and generally people who would take that information and use it against you in some way. You don't share your personal name and address online, so why should we share the ins and outs of our daily struggles? Our trauma in any amount of detail? Anything that could be used to hurt or manipulate us further?

Not only is no one else entitled to that information, but it's not safe to share in a place where strangers can see it. We don't share a list of our triggers for the same reasons--we don't want to hand out the keys to our trauma to anyone who happens to see us online.

Not every plural has to suffer either, mind you. So many types of systems tend to not struggle due to their plurality or even anything remotely related to it, and that's okay! You don't need to suffer to be real, suffering isn't a prerequisite to being plural. I'm not even just talking about nondisordered systems here either.

Systems with CDDs can heal. DID, OSDD, DDNOS, anything. They can get to a point where life is worth living if it didn't feel like it already. It could be through final fusion, but it could also be through learning to live together happily as a collective. They can get to a point where the major suffering of the past is far behind. Having a dissociative disorder is NOT a death sentence, I promise you. Things can get better, either through therapy, or medication or just time and learning itself--all while still remaining happily plural.

Acting like disabled people (or even a subgroup of them) will never ever be able to live a life with any happiness or one even worth living at all is an ableist argument used to support so many horrible things thrown toward disabled people of all kinds. It's a few steps away from saying we need to be put out of our misery because we can never live a meaningful, happy life. We've seen this exact argument used against all kinds of mentally or physically disabled people, saying it's cruel to keep them living. And that's absolutely ridiculous.

It's so sad that these sentiments are common in CDD spaces. Yes, there are struggles that come with the disorder, but you can heal. The idea that you will never be okay is a lie. You might not be at a neurotypical level of functioning, but you can be happy, and you can be happy being plural. You are worth it, your disorder doesn't change that, and neither does the general community vibe of "everyone has to suffer and hate their system". You can be happy, you can love your system, you can grow together and make life what you want it to be.

Being a system of any kind is never, EVER a sign that your life will never be good. It's never a sign that you can never feel happy again. It's never a sign that you should just give up. And being required to show off how much you struggle in order to have the basic amount of respect--people just simply believing that you experience what you say you do--is absolutely ridiculous. You don't need to suffer at all, and if you are suffering, you don't need to do it forever--much less share that with people who could use it against you.

Do better, for yourselves and for others in your community. It's okay to be in pain, it's okay to wish things were different, it's okay to share experiences and gather support, but it's not okay to act like no one who is plural could ever have happiness in their life, or claim that those who don't suffer as much as you are fake. Stop spreading the sentiment that suffering is the only way.