#dissable

[smartwheelshop1]

[50044w44s]

Hey, i see that you're drowning. Here's some arm floaties, hope they help.

Oh, I see they are really helping huh?

"Why is that person using arm floaties? they're not drowning..."

I see that you're not drowning, you're doing good so I'm gonna take the arm floaties away from you. Wait, why are you drowning again? You were fine one second ago, you must be faking it.

"Can I please have some arm floaties?"

"But you haven't entered the pool yet."

"Yeah but I can't swim, I know that I can't swim, so some arm floaties would really help me not to drown."

"You're asking for arm floaties without even trying to swim, you're just lazy and you want more help than the others have, the others are doing just fine..."

"I don't need to get into the watter to know that I can't swim. You're telling me I can't have arm floaties unless I'm actively drowning? You won't give them to me even though I warned you I will drown?"

This post was never about arm floaties.

[alxor-of-hellsite]

Just because you can stand up, doesn’t mean you should. If standing up right now will make everything worse & what you need to do is rest, then rest.

[damien-devil-art]

[gt-wierdo]

Something I want to see more is giants with disabilities

Like what if your friend has a siezure but they are the size of a building

Or what if the giant is blind obiously they can't get a service dog since its small compaired to them but how would they make sure they don't step on anything??

Or what if a giant needs a cane? A tiny would just use a stick but most giant art i've seen the giant is building size do they just use a whole tree??

[whydidisavethistomyphone]

Under capitalism, if you cannot contribute to the wealth of the few you are a liability that needs to be disposed of. They call this the “cost of living”.

[paolachatters]

"Your poor father is probably rolling in his grave knowing what you've done to his legacy" is the single most triggering sentence uttered in the MCU

[whatshouldwecallchronicillness]

Meeting someone else with the same mobility aid...

[y0urn3ighb0rsc4t]

Hey, I've never posted on here before but I don't know what else to do. I'm trying here and reddit.

I want to ask u guys for advice.

Mainly on the topics of:

Dissability(mainly undiagnosed cptsd or bipolar, neurological and possible ortho in my knees) + ptsd and ~fibromialgia~

Remote jobs

OHP

So I have been working at a restaurant that is very busy as a host, bus, where I bus tables and greet people + get them drinks. It's complicated, but long story short my boss got burned by my ex parents (part of the cause of the ptsd and cptsd) and is understanding of my situation with them. She works us on a skeleton crew all year round because of us being in a small tourist town, where the summers are busy and the wunters are a flood of layoffs due to lack of customers. So she keeps on only what she can during the winter ALL YEAR. which when we have 3-4 waitress/host busses for the restaurant with multiple large rooms it is intense on even the most able bodied and minds.

Basically the trade off is he'll in the summer for job security in the winter.

Which i would totally be in for, except my body and brain don't seem to be down for the ride of 36hr weeks >:[

And I'm worsening, fast. Especially with the secuall assaults related trauma, making it increasingly dangerous for me to drive to and from work, which is almost 30 min away.

I want to quit so bad, I technically already have and said that I'll try to work 2-3 weeks more, mostly out of guilt.

The second main problem is that my ohp, oregon Healthcare could be taken from me if I quit a job without already securing another. Which I have not.

I'm going to keep applying to Amazon, and other large companies and a few small ones for a remote job and search a but on the area to for an office job (which would not be ideal, but still better).

But I'm quitting today, school just let out which means even more than what I already have had and I'm pretty sure that I met my replacement yesterday.

I honestly don't know what to do, I'm legally homeless and couch surfing and have to wait a week or two to even try to get my fafsa approved. (Which I might be able to get a job at the community college, IF I take at least one class)

I want to get a degree like paralegal, but thats after I fix my credit.

Lil vent:

It's so frustrating when it feels like my body and mind are holding me back from who I should've been... I should've been the person who worked hard despite her past and made a good savings and future for herself. I'm trying to get into a therapist and pursue a specialist who can help, but if I loose my health insurance I'm screwed. Gods, this sucks.

But seriously, the heck am I supposed to do ʕಠᴥಠʔ

[svamppp]

The fact that, the only non mood altering/allergic reaction causing treatment that consistently treats my pain is something I do not trust people to do, is evil actually.

[bad-but-sad-boi]

I dont think I've ever wanted anything more then i wanted a dissabled heartstopper AU:

• charlie gets his right leg amputaded from the knee down when he was 10 so for his and nick's aniverserry nick got him a peg leg and a piret outfit and took him to the beach so he could run in the sand while that one really bad flute cover of that one song from pirets of the carabian plays from nicks phone on full volum

• blind charlie au where nick takes him to a museam and describes all the art to him in an extreamly detailed mannor, he also painted the edge of all the 'hard' furniture and stairs/steps in his apartment in bright neon yellow when they started dating since charlie can see contrast better and all of nick's floors are a purply shade of gray, he did it so charlie wouldnt trip or fall while he was getting used to living with nick and to the layout of the apartment

• adhd charlie × autistic nick where charlie knows nick shows affection with phisical contact and the warmth it give calms him so he gets him a plushie with a heart shaped microwave heat pad so he can sleep better, nick likes bluey so charlie buys him murch and charlie has a deadpool and woolverine hyperfixation so nick took him to watch the movie when it came out

• au where charlie was born with nothing below his right elbow and nick carries him around bc he likes being carried and charlie holds onto him with his legs and left arm like a koala

I NEED THIS!!!

(I forgot this but)

• deaf nick × selectivly mute and shy charlie, need i say more?

[the-flower32]

Coining a personal term (anyone can use, just be sure to credit me if it goes on any wikis or archives)

Dolfusiare! (Doll-fu-s-air)

from: dolor- pain, confusio- confusion, mutare- change

When you've got a changing gender, but you cant tell what gender your feeling due to persisting pain from an illness/disability/disorder/condition. It can be any illness, chronic illness, physical disability, or mental disability.

Even undiagnosed disabilities/illnesses. Or just anything that causes a persistent pain that causes you to struggle to identify your gender in any way. It can even be from menstrual pain if you menstruate.

Color meanings:

Dull dark green- Illnesses of all kinds

Dull red- Pain of all types

Pale blue- Sadness pain can cause

Light grey- Confusion from pain

Deep Purple- Confusion in general

Symbol meaning: bright red for pain, primarily intense pain, and exclamation point for the sudden pains that can happen as well as the feeling of (negative) shock pain can cause, and a lightning bolt for how pain can spike through the body or feel sharp, and i made the intersecting area white so it would stand out.

(I also drew the symbol by hand 😊)

As i said above, this is based of my personal experiences but if it resonates feel free to use it, or even make an alt flag. and if a term like this already exists, consider it a alt flag/name

[50044w44s]

Some time ago I read a phrase right at the end of a tumblr post,

"Autisim is a disability, sometimes it disables me."

And I can't stop thinking about it since. There's some things I will never do, because I'm autistic and my brain's not wired that way.

You know that announcement that goes "you assume I won't *random thing*, so I don't *random thing*"?

Well, I agree with it... partially? I guess? Because some times, there's things that are just out of reach, and if you're all the time assuming that I can do it, then my brain gets exhausted trying to.

I feel bad when I can't. I think I'm useless, stupid, worthless. Because you think I can so I should... right? I don't know how to tell you that I just... Can't. I feel the way disappointing you pushes me, and pushes me, right over the edge.

There has to be a carefully drawn line in between aiming high and push yourself until it hurts.

Sometimes I can't. Not now, I'm sorry. Maybe in the future I'll try again.

Autisim is a disability, sometimes it disables me.

[alxor-of-hellsite]

They want us dead. They want us infighting. NEVER let them get what they want. Love is an act of defiance so keep loving each other. You have to keep living, if for nothing else then for spite. We need each other so don’t you dare fucking die on me.

What we need to do next is build community. It doesn’t matter if you don’t like someone or think they are annoying, they are your family now. It is all of us against the man.

It’s not the time for bullshit arguments. Don’t let them distract you.

LOVE yourself. LOVE each other. LOVE is a weapon & you must use it.

[luzxii]

PRAYInG that villianous doesnt go the ableist route with Flug's character,,, praying that he isnt presented with a facial difference/scarring under his bag that he's framed as "scary" or "disgusting" for like the traditional route of the masked villian trope,, PLEASE PROVE MY FEARS OF FALLInG InTO THAT ABLEIST TROPE WROnG, ALAn

[begaydoslay]

Me to myself: pick yourself up! What would idgie Threadgode do?

Me: give her 11 year old whiskey

Me: give her 11 year old whiskey?