#demi asexual

[snowed-leopard]

MANNCO PRIDE PT 2: SEXUALITY!

part two to my only slightly too late pride month project... aheh

Gender | Sexuality | Other | Some Xenogenders | Robotkin

(as asks come in and I get additional requests more links to extra may be added) ((Other includes both rainbow flag variations and some flags like the bear flag and questioning flag. ))

QnA is in the Gender post! go check there for how I want people to ask for a flag I may have missed on. I'm very sorry if I did btw, I promise it was not intentional, you're still valid I'm just a dumbass.

[is-the-character-aroacespec]

Is he demisexual and demiromantic?

🖤 🩶 💜💚 🤍 🖤

Reasoning: The only person he has that sort of interest in is his childhood friend that he's known his whole life. He literally never seems to experience romantic or sexual attraction except for when she's involved.

[lujart]

OISUGA 🧃🌱📷

Art Trade for my friend Sugamari 🤍

[guettaes]

I apologize for not showing my drawings.

I am writing this because... I feel that you miss my drawings. and everything. it's not because I'm giving up drawing Leon and Chreon that I want to do call of duty drawings. what you think is not true. I don't want to give up drawing Chreon and Leon and other things. right now... I have a lot of stress, depression... and trauma. I feel like it's eating me up. a lot of trouble came this year. the food, the accompaniments and many other things that I could say have become much more expensive.

the past can do anything about it.

I will be honest with you now my followers...

I have social phobia and panic attacks and I think I have ADHD. and I feel that in Hungary, they don't want to deal with this. that's really how they do it.

and how. Is it good or bad for you that your parents don't believe, or do they believe, but don't want to accept that you are like that? I have that, unfortunately, and the fact that you are Pride. I dared to say that I am Demi Asexual. to which my father replied "you are not like that! you are often in the world of imagination!" this is very, very bad for me.

I'm writing what I'm telling you now. while I cry.

life in Hungary can be so shitty. I'm sure there's almost a similar situation in the world, that's for sure.

that's all I can say.

[ask-sada-and-turo]

Sada: Can’t be obsessed with time and be cis

(( Mun talk here these are just my hcs I don’t force my writing of the profs on anyone

Link to Pokemon community server

[ltownerillustrates]

Me IRL...

[gray-ace-space]

a while back i posted screenshots of a conversation with a demi friend who afaik is otherwise cishet and extremely not on tumblr. i guess he's just gonna be a recurring character on this blog.

here is me (badly) explaining the deal with unicorns and dragons to him, and a message he had for acespecs in response.

make armadillo ace a thing. do it for him.

[scretladyspider]

demisexuality can be so hard to explain because it’s misconstrued as you just wanting to trust the other person before you have sex with them. and I get why the misconception happens. But demisexuality differs in that there isn’t sexual attraction at all before that bond forms.

I think what people have difficulty with is the idea that there are people out there who aren’t experiencing sexual attraction at all until a certain point, if ever, because we’re taught that sex, libido, and sexual attraction are all the same, both in and out of queer spaces.

And when you’re learning about asexuality and demisexuality, you may learn that people have romantic and aesthetic attraction separately from sexual attraction, and that sexual and romantic attraction aren’t necessarily intertwined, and that may challenge your worldview on sex.

But “I trust you enough to have sex with you” isn’t the same as “I’m not sexually attracted to anyone but you, and the reason I’m sexually attracted to you now after we’ve established this close bond is literally because of the bond of trust we’ve been able to form”.

It’s easy to see how those can get conflated. On the surface, if you’re unfamiliar with asexuality, they may sound the same. But it’s important to acknowledge the difference between “no sex until I trust you” and “no sexual attraction unless I trust you and maybe not even then”.

Demisexuality is housed under the asexuality spectrum. It’s part of the gray area between being allosexual and asexual. It’s part of why the definition for asexuality includes “little to no sexual attraction”. It’s a mostly asexual experience with an asterisk.

While being demisexual may have impacts on a persons sexual activity, even demisexuals have a varied relationship to the act of participating in sex. Libido and sexual attraction are not always intertwined either, which can make telling the difference tricky.

I think of sexual attraction as libido that has a compass. Since I rarely ever experience sexual attraction, but do have libido, it’s noticeable for me when that libido actually has a direction to go, rather than being a floating, nebulous, independent thing.

Remember, not everyone is demisexual. There’s a difference between waiting to have sex and not having sexual attraction at all until a certain point. This also inherently ties demisexuality to romantic attraction and relationships, and not all demisexuals are alloromantic.

But if you read what demisexuality is and think “everyone is like that” or “that’s just being a woman”, you either 1) are demisexual 2) don’t understand what it is or 3) both. And it’s okay to not know. Just as long as you’re willing to try to learn.

[simbistardis]

Happy ace week to my Black asexuals, Black demis, Black greys, ace studs, ace stems, ace femmes/fish and everyone else in between

[universillyquiet]

do I want a romantic relationship or do I want someone to promise to stay by my side and then not only take that promise seriously but also keep it

[redbeardace]

It's Ace Week!

[is-the-character-aroacespec]

Is he demisexual?

🖤 🩶 💜 🤍 🖤

Reasoning: He's just got that vibe

[the-cheese-slut]

ATTENTION QUEER PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!

we need to take Halloween.

it needs to be ours.

idk how, but we will find a way.

Halloween will belong to the gays by this October.

taging everyone to spread the word:

@cryptidwithaninternetconnection @gingerbreadeel24 @nimonastan @pickupstyx @reggie-the-inferi

[lgbtqtext]

Requested by vixenthecrow

[desperatecheesecubes]

Growing up asexual is actually so funny because all of a sudden people all around are like ‘oh my god what if I don’t know how to kiss??? I have to practice!’ And start doing unhinged things and the whole time you’re like

[gray-ace-space]

here's the thing about me and smut. i don't read about my favs fucking every night before i go to sleep because it gets me off. i do it because it's soothing. no matter how shitty things are, i can go to this little bubble where everything is safe and perfect. i don't know when it became a foundational coping mechanism for me, but it is now.