#querr

[the-cheese-slut]

ATTENTION QUEER PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!

we need to take Halloween.

it needs to be ours.

idk how, but we will find a way.

Halloween will belong to the gays by this October.

taging everyone to spread the word:

@cryptidwithaninternetconnection @gingerbreadeel24 @nimonastan @pickupstyx @reggie-the-inferi

[like-meme]

[ventsofmyhellishlife]

soooo, i've been trying to understand myself better lately and i came to the realization that most of my life experiences relate to asexual experiences a lot and i don't know how to feel about it

i may be asexual, and that's fine, i suppose.

now, if my bf will find that fine, idk lol who careeeeeees XD (i am terrified of the answer and the consequences of it haha)

[florents22]

[floradanika25]

I just realised i havent told this story before

Forst of all im gay ( or bi or ace biro whatever you get the point )

Lets say i mostly figured this out and was kind off ready to tell my best friends

Then im out with them walking around in costumes on halloween

Then one of them (A) says she has something to us

SHE SAYS SHE THINKS SHE IS BI

I didnt resally expect it, and internally panic before saying ME TOO

or third friend just said ha i figured

Then a year and a half later she sends us a meme coming out to us as also liking both

WE HAVE BEEN FRIENDS SINCE SCHOOL START

EVERYONE ELSE IN THAT SCHOOL WAS GODDAMN HOMOPHOBIC

WE LEFT SCHOOL BEFORE BUT STAYED FRIENDS

AND TURNED OUT TO ALL BE GAY

We really do attract each other :D

[fruityracoons]

it teaches you so much about yourself, regardless of result. you can't get output without input, and hrt can be heavily rewarding and helpful <3

for whoever needs to hear this:

starting HRT doesn't have to be a huge momentous all-or-nothing decision. you can just try it like you would an antidepressant you've been informed of the risks of.

there won't be any immediate irreversible changes overnight. you can always stop, change your dose, change your delivery system, decide it's not the right time. you can even microdose if you want to.

you don't have to tell anyone. you don't have to announce it if you don't want to.

stop waiting for a perfect time in your life because it won't come.

stop waiting to reach a mythical level of certainty that never comes to anyone, for anything.

you've been thinking about it long enough. if you have the opportunity, just give it a shot. you're worth the courage it takes to make a change in your life.

[spookberry]

Their dynamic swaps everytime they transform,,, the dynamic being "overprotective mean girl and her girlfailure sidekick"

(The sword pointing one is dramatic but its actually a very silly scene)

[aqui-esta-todo]

Contigo me hubieran gustado los hijos, la casa y la boda.

Pasear a los perros después de las 6 y prepararte el desayuno.

Contigo me hubiera gustado el cuento de hadas y la película porno.

También tu cuarto con la consola Playstation y mi estudio lleno de libros.

Contigo me hubiera gustado ir al fin del mundo para amanecer en tu cuerpo.

Ponerme las botas, subir la montaña, cruzar el río, caminar hasta que nos dolieran los pies y besarte hasta quedarnos dormidos.

Pero aquí estoy, escribiendo estas líneas, muriendo por no tenerte y tú allá, haciendo con alguien más todo lo que yo deseé para nosotros.

Porque yo escribo poesía y tú la vives mi amor, muy a mi pesar, muy a tu fortuna.

-Mercedes Reyes Arteaga

[paeyowo]

Zukka brain worms are BACK husbands ❤️

[stiffyck]

If I ever write a fanfic I'm gonna queerbait the readers into thinking it's about a romantic ship but then they're gonna get blasted by the fact that the main character is aromantic and they've been bamboozled into reading a slow burn fic about an aro character and no actual resolved romantic tension because there was no romantic tension it was all just platonic tension-

[homoqueerjewhobbit]

Be honest, if you had never heard of Seinfeld, and your friend told you they knew someone named "Cosmo Kramer," you would not be picturing a cis person.

[coniangray]

help???

i smell sth queer going on (all in proper ages ofc)

[marcys-garbage-bunker00]

iwas very uncomfortable during Chapter 13 of Jojolands but because, as someone who's been on such type of situations (though not in the same particular way Dragona was) it felt, in a odd way, like someone understood what the experience was and wanted to put it out in paper for others to have a aight into qhat a lot of people are forced to endure for no other crime than existing in a particular way

I think this is the "absurd" Dragona refers to, she didn't do anything wrong (using She because i feel certain now that she's a trans woman after this chapter), she just wanted to live her life in peace, yet was othered and antagonized and hurt for no fault of her own, the worst she did was accidentally hit someone with a volleyball, but it's heavily implied by her talk with Jodio that this has been going on for a good while now.

I firmly believe that, the "breaking of her heart" Dragona talks of was her will to live, and it made my heart stop to beat when, as i read, i realized that, had Jodio not intervened, Dragona might have turned suicidal, or st lesst apathetic to being alive, and i think that might be one of the reasons Jodio becomes so protective of her.

But Jodio was there, he stood up to one of the only three people he assumedly genuinely cares for, he showed Dragona how much he does care and love her, and that was what she needed to just miss the hand of darkness gripping her into worse.

I understand the criticism some have given this chapter but... from my personal perspective, as a queer woman, this was like a hard pill to swallow that Araki thought was necesary for people to start considering given the state of Trans safety and rights right now all over the world, let alone general rights of any memeber of the LGBTQ+ community, people of color and more.

From my perspective, i felt validated in my suffering, and had in a weird way, confirmation that what happened to me was real, and it was as horrible as i remember it, and it wasnt me just making a mountain of a molehill.

[nympho-scene-boy]

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[man-squared]

Some people are not ready to engage with the fact that transphobes only see trans people as bad men or bad women. We all are either predatory men (and not just trans women are seen as this) or silly and weak and hateful women (yes, trans women too).

Since transphobes don't know about the "different" types of trans people and do not care, they do not make distinctions. When it comes specifically to the trans bathroom debate, any gender/sex nonconforming person (which for transphobes and intersexists is possibly anyone who doesn't fall within feminine cis woman and masculine cis man) in the women's restroom is a man and any gender/sex nonconforming person in the men's restroom is a woman. In the men's restroom, gender/sex nonconformity can lead to similar/the same consequences as being gender/sex nonconforming in the women's restroom. "Women" in the men's restroom can be seen as weak and delusional, so they are easy targets for any type of harassment or assault (sexual, physical, or emotional/mental*). "Men" in the women's restroom can be seen as delusional and strong, so they are also targets for any type of harassment or assault. All these assaults can largely be expected to be received from large and violent cisgender men.

We largely see accounts of trans women (or trans/intersex people who were assigned male at birth and use the women's restroom) being accused of being men and trans men (or trans/intersex people who were assigned female at birth and use the men's restroom) being accused of being women, but the "opposite" does happen. We can't deny it, and even if we do, it doesn't stop those instances from happening. It is not a positive or affirmative thing to happen to you. Trans men seen as men in women's restrooms get hurt. Trans women seen as women in men's restrooms get hurt. Trans people seen as either in either restroom get hurt. Intersex people in either restroom get hurt.

Any trans and/or intersex ans/or gender nonconforming person feel free to add your experiences with either being seen as men or women by transphobes. I do not really account for trans ally transphobia (including transphobia from other trans people) in this because it is usually and largely more complicated, but if you would like to add to that discussion on this post, feel free.

*Harassment can vary and include being told you aren't your gender and shouldn't be in the restroom. It is not a lesser form of transphobia/harassment. It just hurts differently and can hurt less or more for each individual it happens to. All harassment and transphobia are bad. If you disagree, marginalized spaces aren't a safe space for you to air your opinions about it. Marginalized people deserve to have space to discuss all forms of harm they receive. Also, if a marginalized person shares one type of harm they receive, it does not mean they receive no other harm or that harm was not impactful to them. You are not owed every instance of harm someone receives, OBVIOUSLY.

(Feel free to send me asks about how I worded this. Hate will be deleted, though.)

[kevotsuka]

Entonces. Hay ships que odio.

Todo el mundo tiene ships que no le gustan, es el curso natural de la vida. No hay que perder tiempo mirando cuando SABES que no te van a gustar. Silenciar, bloquear y seguir.

Pero a veces se me cruzan y la cantidad de RABIA que me da el solo verlos es como

Ugh

Me gustaría no odiarlos, me estoy perdiendo increíbles fanfics de +350k de palabras por mi disgusto, pero no se puede evitar. Uno no controla esas cosas