#could i be overreacting? maybe!
Explore tagged Tumblr posts
Text
‘we need to normalize male friendships’ being said in response to jayvik got me thinking.
where were these people when the same thing happened, but with a man and a woman?? when the same thing has happened in media for literal decades, where a man and a woman cant even be near eachother or god forbid FRIENDS without it turning into something. most if not all movies end w the guy getting the girl. they can never be platonic. never.
what if i said the same thing abt timebomb? how would those same people react? if i said that friendships between men nd women need to be normalized?
maybe we should normalize friendships between men nd women first. just a thought !
#arcane#arcane viktor#arcane jayce#jayvik#gay#arcane rant#not to cry wolf but i feel like alot of this has to do w the fact its a gay ship#could i be overreacting? maybe!#but these r just my feelings nd opinions#nd im allowed to have them
96 notes
·
View notes
Text
My next confession is that i deleted tiktok a month ago bc i saw such a bad take about Dragon Age/Veilguard/Solas that i simply deleted the app.
#dragon age the veilguard#it was such an overreaction#but tbh i can stoll remember exactly what was said that made me so mad so maybe it wasnt#my rule was that i could have tiktok back if i ever calmed down about jt#i still havent recovered#if youre wondering#i am in fact still mad
11 notes
·
View notes
Text
I finally finished watching Tower of god (the first season) and I was expecting that I would hate Rachel despite what people were saying about her. I mean like she was in the list of the most hated characters in anime but I don't really see it? Why? Because she pushed Bam ? Not gonna lie that scene gave me goosebumps.
I mean like I get it she betrayed him and she was even lying to him but I was expecting something way more. Like example laugh to his face or I don't know stab him perhaps but she didn't. People be really putting her in the same place as Bitch from The Rising of the Shield hero. The disrespect...I think Rachel is simply great villain to the story
#sometimes anime fans are overreacting way too much#I could see everywhere only the bad comments about her like she is the worst 😡#I don't know... maybe it depends on the age since I can imagine some kids hating her#and I am not trying to say I hate Bam in fact I love him#and now I see the motherfuckers released another season which I thought will never be here... great... another thing to watch#tower of god#rachel
22 notes
·
View notes
Text
anyway fic concept: Kenshi can deal with Johnny while they're fighting, arguing, bickering, etc. but as they become friends Johnny starts flirting with him, as you do with your friends, not seriously (yet) and Kenshi DOES NOT know how to handle with that. Johnny casually comments on how handsome he is or delivers a joking pick up line and Kenshi becomes a stuttering mess. someone should write this and tag me in it.
#mortal kombat#johnny cage#kenshi takahashi#johnshi#or he sees johnny joke flirting with kung lao or maybe another friend of theirs joke flirting and he's like it isnt a big deal#this is definitely not me projecting as per my last post#i just like the concept that kenshi doesnt know how to handle softness#and open affection#and slowly starts learning#also it wouldnt hurt that he could realize his feelings through his overreactions#or he sees johnny and kung lao joke flirting or maybe any of their friends and realizes it isnt a big deal for them#why is it a big deal for him#and thats his oh. oh. moment
117 notes
·
View notes
Text
yesterday i suddenly got so sick at work i barely made it home 🥴
#not me talking about overworking myself just a few days ago omg... my body really said if you don't stop i'll do it for you <3#i should be writing my thesis bc the first chapter is due this sunday but i feel so sick i can barely focus on anything#so i'm thinking about doing nothing today... maybe i'll watch a drama from my bed. haven't done that in a while#but starting tomorrow i need to write 😭 well at least i don't have to worry about going to work#yesterday i told the nurses that i feel like shit but i didn't want them to think i'm overreacting#but then i measured my temperature and it was 38.2° heh. i barely ever get fevers so that was unexpected#they told me to go home immediately but i had no one that could cover for me so i just continued working#and today i don't really feel any better#the only medicine i got is the ibuprofen so i guess i will have to go to a pharmacy. but i don't feel well enough to do it 😭#ughhh everything sucks 😭#k.txt
7 notes
·
View notes
Text
Does anyone else automatically size themselves up with people their age and look for ways that you’re inferior to them? Just me? Ok….
#the reasons why I think like this are…complicated#honestly a lot to do with the#adhd struggle bus#surprise surprise the neurodevelopmental condition has overarching and very specific effects on my life and how I interact with the world#of course disclaimer that this weird thing I have is not inherent to adhd#but maybe is a way of thinking I developed in part due to it#this is a me thing if anyone else relates to this fine but you don’t have to#I think thi oversharing series is a way for me to microdose journaling#I try to get into journaling but I have way too many thoughts#it’s all or nothing either I write nothing or I spend 3 hours documenting everything thought I had that week#I think a lot of this has to do with my persistent issues with time management#and I’ve tried to hide this struggle in a lot of ways because ngl it’s embarrassing#to the point where I held myself back from doing certain things I wanted to do because ‘hmm could you handle it though you’re already#struggling to manage in school with the bare minimum. maybe you just suck’#and this is probably because I went to a college prep school so yeah#there were 14 year olds taking multivariable calculus and people with various talents#to say that I was intimidated would be an understatement. it’s strange because while in middle school my self esteem was decent it dropped#in high school like how stock prices dropped in the beginning of Covid#even though I was like an ok kid I somehow convinced myself that I was dumb and inept#all because I struggled with one area in my life#honestly I’m not sure if I can paint a clear picture of this time. for one#memories are complex. but I do remember feeling that way and needing a lot of support to be hyped up#fuck#I’m now remembering how my aunt used to be that person. she was my cheerleader growing up and practically raised me in childhood#she passed away from cancer right when I turned 15#shit I’m crying now#during this time in my life I needed a lot of reassurance since I took any small failure as a sign from the universe that I was indeed inept#it was her and my middle school friend who used to rant to me about dragon ball and pewdiepie that hyped me up#my parents were a mixed bag. unfortunately they too sorta overreacted to things like getting a B in math. they used to make me feel like#uchiha-gaeshi overshares
7 notes
·
View notes
Text
Starting to almost wish I could just go do this fucking presentation today solely bc I’m getting mad and tired of the anxiety, how is it physically possible to be this anxious for so many days straight. There has to be a limit how long u can be on the verge of an anxiety attack like ????
#it’s stupid#cant sleep cant eat over ’’ppl are paying attention to me for 20minutes or so’’#i hate this so so much#bc like I KNOW it’s overreacting and unreasonable and it never is as bad as I think but knowing that won’t do shit for the anxiety#like it will he here until I’m back home tmrw after having presented it#at least it’s only like a day of this anymore but I don’t have the energy for this for even one more goddamn minute#literally what could happen in that presentation that would be worse than feeling like this??#the realistic worst case possible is that I lose my train of thought or have a ’’brain doesnt work’’ moment and have to take like 20secs to#gather myself and like maybe if someone asks a question I don’t have an answer to#but like I won’t die or anything#even if it’d be awkward (it will be awkward) that’s legit nothing#I’m ’’just some guy’’ to the ppl and after leaving the building they’ll never think abt my stupid ass presentation again#so wHY cant I fucking chill#april 2024#2024
28 notes
·
View notes
Text
Got off the bus hella early bc this lady kept staring at me intensely and it made me feel really uneasy
#personal#Its weird bc like#Women amd esp other woc are usually the people I feel safest around#But she literally moved seats so I was across from her instead of behind her#And sat across the seat so she could stare directly at me#And Like initially I tried to brush it off as me being weird#But I could feel her staring at me literally the whole time#And started smiling in this really particular way while staring at me#It only dropped if she glanced away or if i looked over at her#And at some point she like#Leaned To the side awkwardly#So I couldn’t see her face#But i could still feel her watching me#And she didnt move from that position until I got off the bus#Idk maybe I’m overreacting here#But it made me so uncomfortable like it didn’t feel right
10 notes
·
View notes
Text
. not snz
on healing and on fear (tags)
#(typed this up at 3am and scheduling for later) no one needs to read this 🙏#today i went back to the site where i got injured back in may to partake in a sport which i haven't touched at all since the injury#and i think what struck me was the realization that#i don't know if i'll ever be able to stop being scared again :')#for a time climbing was very special to me...#it was one of the only ways i could feel myself improving so tangibly when improvement is usually so difficult to track#i liked seeing myself get better at something 😭 i liked going with friends and puzzling over the same problems... i liked having something#to look forward to after work. and perhaps having something to look forward to sounds simple... but for me it meant so much :')#for the first couple months after the injury i couldn't wait to get back into it#and then one day i woke up and i was just afraid#the fear feels so much more tangible now that i know i am not overreacting... it's awful knowing that in a way i was right to be afraid#i always knew there were risks associated; i have always been cautious#but i had just been starting to learn to be braver 😭#and fuck... today i stood there and looked at the wall and thought. how can i ever not be afraid again?#how can i go back to how things were before? when i loved this? when i could tell myself that - despite the fear - it was meaningful to try#i wanted to come away with the takeaway that i could take things slowly and get back into climbing - maybe precisely because#i remember so keenly how i loved it - but how could it ever be the same?#😭 i know this is just part of growing up but#in some ways i am tired of growing up... :') in some ways i just want that joy as it was then#delete later probably#i suppose i haven't lost anything but typing this made me sob for something i couldn't quite name
12 notes
·
View notes
Text
fuck it i'm getting lunch at a bar
#this is ridiculous#one of the roommates decided to clean the kitchen at 1pm and she's still not done and somehow i'm overreacting if i got mad#like???? you could have 1) asked if i needed the kitchen before bringing out the bleach 2) know that MAYBE at lunchtime people need to cook?#SHE'S 35
10 notes
·
View notes
Text
🎤 thoughts: is it normal for friends to kind of ~disappear after getting together with someone and is it normal to feel sad about it
#ive been wondering this for a while bc one of my super close friends has been dating this girl for like 4 months atp#and since then i think our communication has gone down by a lot ajsbsf#for context this guy is rlly good friends with me and my bf!! he and my bf go waay back since they were 5 😭#and he and i trauma bonded in hs LOL which is why we're so close#he's at the level of like. he could be my maid of honour in my wedding 😭 like i would put him there along w my bsf#bc next to my bf i think they're the next 2 people who know me best 😭 but my bf also wants him as a groomsman 😭#and i think ive honestly witnessed him at the lowest points of his life hsbfsdf#there was one time we came from a night out with friends and when he dropped me home he had to park outside my house for a bit#bc he was having a full on breakdown and didn't want to go home yet 😭#i think ive witnessed him at many stages of his life basically sdfbsjdf#and i mean im not rlly taking it personally that he isnt talking to us as much cos i respect the whole new relationship phase#i also wouldnt want to cause problems or make his girl see me as a threat or smth 😭 so taking a step back a bit was a given#but my bf is fr getting sad abt it and honestly i am too a lil bit 😭 cos where is our friend 😭#i talked so much again#anyway what are some thoughts on this im curious#maybe im also just overreacting
10 notes
·
View notes
Text
So I had my suspicions in previous chapters, but this panel confirms it: it appears that despite Taiyo being part of the family now, the Yozakuras are going out of their way to keep their Blooming powers a secret from him. I can only imagine that this is Kyoichiro's doing, although the fact that Mutsumi hasn't overridden it probably means that she reluctantly agrees with whatever reasoning he gave her. The fact that they haven't shown him their true abilities or mentioned their supernatural powers in passing is already pretty strange, but now Nanao is actively hiding the Blooming abilities by calling it a "trade secret." Why keep it a secret? Why not tell him right now?
On that note, it's interesting how the Yozakuras' attributes have thus far only been referred to with vague terms like "talents" or "special abilities," with even Asuka talking about Mutsumi's "powers" without specifying what those "powers" are. Obviously from an out-of-universe perspective, this is just to create a surprise twist for the audience.
From an in-universe, perspective, though? It makes it seem like the Yozakuras are actively hiding a huge part of the family from Taiyo, and after all the talk about Taiyo officially joining the Yozakuras and being accepted into the family, it feels uncomfortably like gatekeeping—as if they've decided that he's part of the family, but not really. Like he isn't enough of a family member yet to trust him with it. And when it immediately follows a chapter that emphasized new beginnings and acceptance, having a moment that highlights the blatant secrecy kind of leaves a bad taste in my mouth :/
#maybe i'm overreacting a little bit#i mean taiyo has only been with the family for a few months so they might just feel it's too early to get into it#and to be completely fair here it's possible that nanao is just hedging around the topic bc they're in enemy territory#i can't remember how well-known the yozakuras blooming abilities are to the underworld at large. maybe it really is a trade secret#so nanao could just trying to avoid giving out classified information in front of security cameras or recording devices#but it still feels weird that they're actively hiding something so integral to the family from him#idk maybe this will be explained later#it just struck me how secretive they're being about it#like you have to tell him eventually!! what's the use of being coy about it!!#mission yozakura family#taiyo asano#nanao yozakura#sage rambles
3 notes
·
View notes
Text
this latest wtnv feels like they got halfway through writing it before realizing there weren't any more episodes in the season and had to wrap it up in a hurry
#like 'uh oh whoops better resolve this stuff'#babe did you consider maybe letting it end on a cliffhanger so it could be wrapped up in a satisfying and thematically relevant way?#wtnv#welcome to night vale#i did in fact see all the posts about how disappointing it was and thought people; might just be overreacting#but no#that did suck ass
10 notes
·
View notes
Text
This is my last complaint over Amy Lea's The Catch because I can't do this anymore. She wrote a whole series about fictional influencers (I've only read this one), only to bash the entire industry. Girl, be so serious right now. You could have literally written about a workaholic in the fashion industry or anything else. The commentary on beauty standards/social media does have a place in fiction, but there's something so pretentious about her depiction of that feels so lazy and generic. Listen, i think we do need to be critical of how we use these platforms... but this book isn't it. Also, fuck this book and the message it has on people who choose to not end up in a relationship.
Also, fishing is not hot.
#ok maybe i am overreacting lol#but this book is a ripoff of other media#and like i think i could of ignored it but it's giving me a vibe and evan is a pos#the family walked in on them after they had sex and i felt gross#random#i cant believe this book is having me of all people who has two sm accounts to defend influencers. i hate it thanks#myra's reading adventures
3 notes
·
View notes
Text
”STOP it doesnt matter if this doesn’t fit your theme REBLOG blah blah”
yea well actually
I REALLY DO NOT CARE PLEASE STOP GUILT TRIPPING ME I AM OVERLY EMOTIONAL ITS ANNOYING AND UPSETTING
#Like yeah i WAS going to reblog it and now you’ve gone ahead and upset me because now i feel obligated to reblog it so i DONT want to do it#This is me talking into the void bee tee double you#I am SICK of these posts btw i do not give a fuck it could be the most life saving thing ever and one simple “please reblog” is okay#But when its more than that it’s just PLEASE stop dont say im a bad person or that it doesn’t matter if it doesnt fit my blog its MY blog#I will reblog what i want why are you judging me#maybe im overreacting#But ive seen like 6 different ones over the past week i do not like it
23 notes
·
View notes
Text
in a way it doesn't really matter if he doesn't miss me back, ive changed him as much as he's changed me. if not more.
#maybe he'll look at one of his favorite books and always associate it with how i got him to read it#maybe he'll look at art we looked at together and think of the things we talked about#maybe he'll think of my art.#but how many times can i say i miss him before we all get sick of it#i'm treating this a little like the end of our friendship. i don't know if i'm right to.#i don't want to overreact. but i also know that it's a possibility.#if he comes back in a month. two months. i'll have a lot to tell him.#if he doesn't....... well. i'm going to cry about it at some point#but he's not going to tell me.#if he doesn't come back i. i'll really miss him. i'll really miss our friendship.#i'll really miss everything that could have happened.#but. i. i don't know what to say really.#i'll keep going? of course i will#but there's so much to miss about him and about our friendship.#so much i don't tell anyone else. for whatever reason.#i miss him... however many times i say it it's still not enough#because i constantly miss him#he's been such a constant part of my life for long enough that even a week without him is like.#like missing something vital#i'm being so dramatic but that's genuinely what it's like#he's really special to me.#and i....i wish i could have told him how special he is to me#persimmon's rambles
3 notes
·
View notes