#my parents were a mixed bag. unfortunately they too sorta overreacted to things like getting a B in math. they used to make me feel like
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Does anyone else automatically size themselves up with people their age and look for ways that youāre inferior to them? Just me? Okā¦.
#the reasons why I think like this areā¦complicated#honestly a lot to do with the#adhd struggle bus#surprise surprise the neurodevelopmental condition has overarching and very specific effects on my life and how I interact with the world#of course disclaimer that this weird thing I have is not inherent to adhd#but maybe is a way of thinking I developed in part due to it#this is a me thing if anyone else relates to this fine but you donāt have to#I think thi oversharing series is a way for me to microdose journaling#I try to get into journaling but I have way too many thoughts#itās all or nothing either I write nothing or I spend 3 hours documenting everything thought I had that week#I think a lot of this has to do with my persistent issues with time management#and Iāve tried to hide this struggle in a lot of ways because ngl itās embarrassing#to the point where I held myself back from doing certain things I wanted to do because āhmm could you handle it though youāre already#struggling to manage in school with the bare minimum. maybe you just suckā#and this is probably because I went to a college prep school so yeah#there were 14 year olds taking multivariable calculus and people with various talents#to say that I was intimidated would be an understatement. itās strange because while in middle school my self esteem was decent it dropped#in high school like how stock prices dropped in the beginning of Covid#even though I was like an ok kid I somehow convinced myself that I was dumb and inept#all because I struggled with one area in my life#honestly Iām not sure if I can paint a clear picture of this time. for one#memories are complex. but I do remember feeling that way and needing a lot of support to be hyped up#fuck#Iām now remembering how my aunt used to be that person. she was my cheerleader growing up and practically raised me in childhood#she passed away from cancer right when I turned 15#shit Iām crying now#during this time in my life I needed a lot of reassurance since I took any small failure as a sign from the universe that I was indeed inept#it was her and my middle school friend who used to rant to me about dragon ball and pewdiepie that hyped me up#my parents were a mixed bag. unfortunately they too sorta overreacted to things like getting a B in math. they used to make me feel like#uchiha-gaeshi overshares
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