#consent matters
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everybodysinvited · 8 months ago
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Consent = F.R.I.E.S.🍟
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Consent! What is it and what does it look like? There are many aspects to giving consent, it's not just about saying "yes", so why not use the acronym 'FRIES' to remind yourself of all the things to consider when giving or asking for consent.
F - Consent is Freely given: you should never pressure, coerce or force someone into saying yes to something, this is not consent. You must respect when someone says no. You should feel confident and happy when you consent to any activity with your partner(s).
R - Consent is reversible: it is okay to consent to something and then change your mind, if you're not comfortable, say so and ask to stop. If your partner changes their mind on something you should respect their choice, and if they are willing, have a conversation about their decision.
I - Consent is informed: you should know what exactly you are consenting to and your partner(s) should too. It's good to discuss specifics beforehand and what you're both comfortable with.
E - Consent is enthusiastic: when someone is giving consent consider their tone and body language. Do they sound happy, upbeat and are they being proactive? Or do they sound hesitant, reluctant or closed-off?
S - Consent is specific: when someone says yes to one activity, it does not mean they consent to other activities. If someone has consented to something in the past, it does not mean that they have consented to doing that activity again in the future, you need renewed consent.
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littlekittykatxxxx · 5 months ago
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NO MEANS NO!!!!!!
to the guy in my dms, when I say to stop what you’re doing because I didn’t like the things you were saying and it made me uncomfortable I expect you to stop. Yet you continued to carry on and completely ignore my request.
I’m a person at the end of the day and what you were saying was just hurtful and not even remotely close to any of the kinks we were discussing.
Fuck you!
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aahanna · 10 months ago
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NO means 'NO'
MAYBE means 'NO'
I DON'T KNOW means 'NO'
SILENCE means 'NO'
ONLY" YES" MEANS"YES"
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qu1etdays · 4 months ago
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This is the stupidity that ruins the community.
Thirsty ass hypno rapists.
I know I have my fair share of people that don’t fuck with me for whatever the reason. Could be genuine dislike, jealousy, or all of the above. But consent matters no matter what.
It’s honestly comical at this point. Some of y’all, like these two dumb asses, really think that hypnosis works like this. And that’s because for a few, it does. There are some very susceptible subjects out here who run into the wrong tist who fails to educate them about the dangers of hypnosis and how serious you should take the responsibility of performing hypnosis.
…And then there’s the people I work with.
They see you.
They get this all the time.
I tag them in my post so they can see when they go up. I used to tag them so they could hopefully meet some cool people in the community and branch out. I don’t have any horror stories yet so far, but I do have screenshots of this dumb ass activity over the years.
I do train them to watch themselves.
I let them know the accounts that do this.
I let them know what to watch out for because I know all people like this are gonna do is delete and make new accounts when shit gets too hot for them.
Pass this around. Have em do it again. Lol.
Thank you for reading.
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my1aliasnsfw · 5 months ago
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I just finished the annotation (and proofread)!
"I Got You, Love" is a spicy why choose romance between three best friends.
Cover art by @pinkpiggy93
Published by @rivercitysirenpress (on Instagram)
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traumatizedjaguar · 2 years ago
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Please never assume consent. Touching people without asking is so fucking disrespectful.
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aro-culture-is · 2 years ago
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Aro culture is randomly having flashbacks to the time period when a lot of people were on your neck for 'changing' someone's personality and mood by "breaking their heart". Even though you told this person countless times that you weren't interested and they didn't budge.
Why can't some people just take no for an answer?
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demonsascent · 8 months ago
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on todays episode of how NOT to slide into someone’s DMs…
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radicallyourlocalfeminist · 3 months ago
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Dont you think, that if men cared so much about false rape allegations. That they would try to be a lot more careful around women? Not staring at them, Only asking for sex once instead of begging,making her feel guilty for rejecting him or nagging her until she unwillingly gives in? Stopping whenever she wants to matter how close, to orgasm he is? But they don't. Fear of a false rape allegation is just a reaction of guilt and fear of being caught. Moids have no heart.
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simplesteve · 6 months ago
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I believe that consent needs to be freely given so if you see me in public, this is my consent for you to flash me and then ask me to use your holes to breed you.
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qu1etdays · 11 months ago
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Keep trying. Keep making those burner accounts trying to see how this hypnosis shit works with zero returns. Keep changing your username. Keep making those dummy email accounts. Keep talking to me under a different account while messaging the entire model list of subjects. Keep posing like you’re somebody else each time. There are those who are legit trying to learn and don’t know where to start, and then there’s people that make mistakes with talking to people. Learn by this example, you will continue to be frustrated doing shit like this. Anonymous frustration, lol.
Keep talking to me under a different account while messaging the entire model list of subjects. I know there’s many who follow me who only use me as a directory. Nevermind the fact that I’m making contact with these models. I’m chatting with them and getting to know them etc. I don’t mind it because at the end of the day these models CONSENT to being tagged, and I could just easily not tag them and y’all would just have to do the searches yourselves or just enjoy what you see while making zero contact.
Eventually, stop trying and take an interest in the craft. It’s pretty fun! You can go jack off to porn for free, you really don’t have to try your hand by violating consent.
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my1aliasnsfw · 6 months ago
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Cover art by @pinkpiggy93
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Less than a month until release!!!
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mandana-the-service-pup · 2 years ago
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It’s summer and I still use my bed heater for pain relief. Mandana has started using her “no” button when I ask if she wants to cuddle and then she goes to find a cooler place to settle. I laugh but I also miss our midday cuddles 🥲
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thedashproject · 8 months ago
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swirlsandtwirls · 1 year ago
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Okay, so this is a less sexy post but I just want to mention something that is very important to me personally in the kink community:
“No” is a valid answer.
I am VERY into CNC play but even that required the first “C” to make it Consensual. If you have boundaries and things you don’t/won’t consent to, “no” is a valid answer.
It is also a complete sentence. If the answer is “no” and you don’t want to go into why, that is okay. That is your choice.
I know, I know, this post isn’t sexy but as I like to say, consent is sexy to me. It’s most fun when everyone is having fun. Your boundaries matter and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise (unless you have consented to being gaslit, then by all means, let them tell you otherwise, lol).
For the record, this is not being written because someone is pushing my boundaries in this moment. It just came up in conversation and I wanted to talk a little bit about it.
Here’s a spiral as a reward if you made it to the end of my little rant:
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Consent Matters: 🏳️‍⚧️ Pride Edition 🏳️‍🌈
🏳️‍⚧️ Please reblog if you see this because more people gotta hear this!! 🏳️‍🌈
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