#consent matters Tumblr posts

[everybodysinvited]

Consent = F.R.I.E.S.🍟

Consent! What is it and what does it look like? There are many aspects to giving consent, it's not just about saying "yes", so why not use the acronym 'FRIES' to remind yourself of all the things to consider when giving or asking for consent.

F - Consent is Freely given: you should never pressure, coerce or force someone into saying yes to something, this is not consent. You must respect when someone says no. You should feel confident and happy when you consent to any activity with your partner(s).

R - Consent is reversible: it is okay to consent to something and then change your mind, if you're not comfortable, say so and ask to stop. If your partner changes their mind on something you should respect their choice, and if they are willing, have a conversation about their decision.

I - Consent is informed: you should know what exactly you are consenting to and your partner(s) should too. It's good to discuss specifics beforehand and what you're both comfortable with.

E - Consent is enthusiastic: when someone is giving consent consider their tone and body language. Do they sound happy, upbeat and are they being proactive? Or do they sound hesitant, reluctant or closed-off?

S - Consent is specific: when someone says yes to one activity, it does not mean they consent to other activities. If someone has consented to something in the past, it does not mean that they have consented to doing that activity again in the future, you need renewed consent.

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[littlekittykatxxxx]

NO MEANS NO!!!!!!

to the guy in my dms, when I say to stop what you’re doing because I didn’t like the things you were saying and it made me uncomfortable I expect you to stop. Yet you continued to carry on and completely ignore my request.

I’m a person at the end of the day and what you were saying was just hurtful and not even remotely close to any of the kinks we were discussing.

Fuck you!

[aahanna]

NO means 'NO'

MAYBE means 'NO'

I DON'T KNOW means 'NO'

SILENCE means 'NO'

ONLY" YES" MEANS"YES"

[qu1etdays]

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This is the stupidity that ruins the community.

Thirsty ass hypno rapists.

I know I have my fair share of people that don’t fuck with me for whatever the reason. Could be genuine dislike, jealousy, or all of the above. But consent matters no matter what.

It’s honestly comical at this point. Some of y’all, like these two dumb asses, really think that hypnosis works like this. And that’s because for a few, it does. There are some very susceptible subjects out here who run into the wrong tist who fails to educate them about the dangers of hypnosis and how serious you should take the responsibility of performing hypnosis.

…And then there’s the people I work with.

They see you.

They get this all the time.

I tag them in my post so they can see when they go up. I used to tag them so they could hopefully meet some cool people in the community and branch out. I don’t have any horror stories yet so far, but I do have screenshots of this dumb ass activity over the years.

I do train them to watch themselves.

I let them know the accounts that do this.

I let them know what to watch out for because I know all people like this are gonna do is delete and make new accounts when shit gets too hot for them.

Pass this around. Have em do it again. Lol.

Thank you for reading.

[subjects99]

don't be a troll

[i-am-trans-gwender]

Some people have said that it doesn't make sense that in Helluva Boss Asmodeus the sin of lust believes in consent. But while he may detest non sexual love in public the fact that in private he romantically loves Fizzarolli shows that it's more of a title rather than being inherent to his existence. Also if two or more people consent then there's ultimately more lust happening.

[my1aliasnsfw]

I just finished the annotation (and proofread)!

"I Got You, Love" is a spicy why choose romance between three best friends.

Cover art by @pinkpiggy93

Published by @rivercitysirenpress (on Instagram)

Find it here for pre-order: https://books2read.com/w/mg8B2K

[traumatizedjaguar]

Please never assume consent. Touching people without asking is so fucking disrespectful.

[aro-culture-is]

Aro culture is randomly having flashbacks to the time period when a lot of people were on your neck for 'changing' someone's personality and mood by "breaking their heart". Even though you told this person countless times that you weren't interested and they didn't budge.

Why can't some people just take no for an answer?

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[simplesteve]

I believe that consent needs to be freely given so if you see me in public, this is my consent for you to flash me and then ask me to use your holes to breed you.

[qu1etdays]

Keep trying. Keep making those burner accounts trying to see how this hypnosis shit works with zero returns. Keep changing your username. Keep making those dummy email accounts. Keep talking to me under a different account while messaging the entire model list of subjects. Keep posing like you’re somebody else each time. There are those who are legit trying to learn and don’t know where to start, and then there’s people that make mistakes with talking to people. Learn by this example, you will continue to be frustrated doing shit like this. Anonymous frustration, lol.

Keep talking to me under a different account while messaging the entire model list of subjects. I know there’s many who follow me who only use me as a directory. Nevermind the fact that I’m making contact with these models. I’m chatting with them and getting to know them etc. I don’t mind it because at the end of the day these models CONSENT to being tagged, and I could just easily not tag them and y’all would just have to do the searches yourselves or just enjoy what you see while making zero contact.

Eventually, stop trying and take an interest in the craft. It’s pretty fun! You can go jack off to porn for free, you really don’t have to try your hand by violating consent.

[amirhasfun]

I hate living in a world where I have to fucking say this, but either sex education or morals are absolutely fucked in this world.

TW: SA

DO NOT PAY/ASK YOUR FRIENDS TO GET YOUR BOYFRIEND DRUNK AND TEST HIS LOYALTY

THAT IS

ASSAULT

DRUNK PEOPLE CANNOT CONSENT

[i-am-trans-gwender]

Why didn't Lucifer put all of his angelic power into his cock and fuck Adam in front of everyone?

(Don't take this seriously it's just a shit post. Also Adam and Lucifer both consent in this scenario)

[demonsascent]

on todays episode of how NOT to slide into someone’s DMs…

[my1aliasnsfw]

Are you interested in getting an ARC for my spicy Why Choose Romance?

Today's your lucky day, because I just so happen to have the link for it! Here you go: https://forms.gle/7LcLZoGXjxQHJzQTA

Cover art by @pinkpiggy93

There's also a link to my Facebook Street Team at the bottom, if that's something you'd be interested in.

Less than a month until release!!!

[ismiztli]

(I brough this post from my twt acc)

A lesson for some people:

If there is no a enthusiastic Yes then there is no consent. Consent can be withdrawn at any time.

No: No. Maybe: No. Silence: No. Yes but then they changed to a No: No. Maybe but then they changed to a No: No. Yes but then they changed to a Maybe: No. Maybe later: No. No today: No. Person is intoxicated: No. Person is asleep: No.

Stop: Stop. Safe word: Stop. Wait: Stop. Slow down: Stop. Hold on: Stop. It hurt: Stop. Crying: Stop.

They ignore you: Stop/No. Pushing you away: Stop/No. Turning away: Stop/No. Going silent: Stop/No. Not engaging: Stop/No. Stopping engaging: Stop/No.

Yes but only because you wouldn’t leave them alone: No. I don't know: No.

I possible more that I'm missing.

Also watch this: Tea and Consent.