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aro culture is hard DNF-ing a book where they described being aromantic as a divine punishment for a character failing their duties as a cupid-on-earth because what the fuck
>:O what the fuck
#aro culture is#aro#aromantic#actually aro#actually aromantic#ask#mod axel#arophobia cw#aromisia cw#amatonormativity
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"love is what makes us human" actually it's 'select all images with boat' but go off I guess
#asexual#aromantic#aspec#acespec#actually asexual#actually aromantic#aro culture is#aromanticism#aroace#Asexual week#ace week#asexual pride
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I can’t stand forced romance in media. You’re telling me this man and woman who’ve barely spoken to each other, have not flirted at all and have barely been together for three scenes are in love??? Like am I just too aroace to see it?? I always feel so surprised
#i���m watching Andor and there’s two characters who have no chemistry but everyone keeps making jokes about how they’re so into each other#aro#aroace#ace#aromantic stuff#asexual stuff#aromantic#asexual#forced romance#aro pride#aro problems#ace problems#aro ace#queer#lgbtq#aro culture is
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got tired of all depressing and hating yourself for being aro vibes on legit any other platform besides tumblr (looking at you tictac app) so wanted to listen to positive aromantic playlists and legit could NOT FIND ANY??????
And the ones that were vaguely positive were made for aroace ppl. Which is great! But im not ace!!! So WHERE'S MY POSITIVE AROALLO REP?!?!?!
Anyways i solved this hyperspecific problem myself and made a POSITIVE AROALLO playlist:
Larger image of the playlist cover i made
#plz i am starved#if anyone has a positive aro playlist SHARE WITH THE CLASS#no hate towards us bonding over our share anger/grief at the world its important and we SHOULD talk about it#but not ALL THE TIME????#it SHOULDNT be THIS HARD to find good vibe songs for us#ive BEEN thru the hating being aromatic stage I GET IT#but jesus christ we can LIGHTEN UP A LITTLE??#aro#aromantic#aro problems#aro culture is#aroallo#aromantism#aromatic positivity#aro pride#aro posting#aroallo pride#lgbtq#arospec#aspec#aro discourse#pride#alloaro
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Aro/ace culture is not noticing the blatantly obvious signs that you are aro/ace all your life and later realising half the shit you thought was your personality is said blatantly obvious signs.
#asexual#ace pride#ace aro#aromantic#aspec pride#aspec community#aegosexual#asexuel#aro culture is#ace culture#pride#queer#queer pride
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i think a lot about the loneliness of being aromantic. because it's something that's so profound, right? you're told your whole life that you need something to make you happy, to make you complete, to give you connection with other people, and when you realize you're aro, that's torn away from you. everything you've been raised to want is no longer something that will fulfill you. you are not built to be happy. and it gets better with time, it does! you restructure your world view, bit by bit, and the sting fades, but... i don't think it ever truly goes away. it's hard to express, because i love being aro, and i'm happy being aro, i wouldn't want to be any other way, but at the same time. there is such a profound heartbreak to knowing that you will never be someone's most important person in a society that values romance. that you'll never get the happy ever after that you were promised as a child. and you know you can be happy. but there's a lifetime of amatonormativity that lives in your brain and tells you that you can't.
#it's like catholicism a little bit. kjsfgh#brain worms#i will make seven thousand more posts about this but this one will suffice to start#i hesitate to talk about it because i don't want to misconstrue my aro experience as being negative!#i enjoy being aro so much!#And Also.#anyway. share thoughts we're here to support each other#amatonormativity#aspec#aromanticism#aromantic#aro#aroace#aro culture is#actually aro#arospec
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Memes based on my own awkward Arospec life, who doesn't love that?
And I promise more of my fantastic wit will be coming to your screens very soon!
#aromantic#aro positivity#aromantism#arospec#aro culture is#aro memes#platonic#friends#advice#actually aro#aroace positivity#aroace#humor#genius#acesexual#ace pride#asexual#acespec
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aro culture is being a hopeless romantic pre-realization but figuring out you’ll never feel that so you suddenly feel like the sadness will never end
aro culture is grieving that which never could be
also i'm gonna tag @aro-culture-is
#aromantic#aro#official aro post#official aromantic post#mod cale#ask#anonymous#queuepid was wrong#aro culture is
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I love being aromantic. It’s so nice to not live with the expectations of a romantic relationship. It’s nice to be my own person and be able to experience them freely. It’s nice for no one to have to be superior to anyone in my mind- to not have a hierarchy. It’s nice to have friendship. It’s nice to go out with your friends and do all those things that are supposed to be romantic but as a platonic intent. I love being aromantic. I love being the colour green. I love the flag. I love tearing down amatonormativity and social values. I love the culture. I love the tiny aromantic hints I’ve had my entire life. I love aromantic music. I love taking the romance out of love songs. I love not just viewing life as a time to fulfill romance. I love having all these hidden aromantic symbols. I love queer platonic relationships. I love other aromantic people. I love talking about being aromantic. I love being aromantic- I love being myself.
#aromantic#aromantic pride#aromantic positivity#aro culture is#aro spec#aro#aro positivity#aro post#amatonormativity#queer#queerplatonic#aroallo
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Live footage of me looking up fics on ao3
#aro culture is#aro#aromantic#alterous attraction#is that the right tag#maybe#aro memes#aromantic memes#ao3#fanfiction#fanfics#fanfiction memes
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aromantic culture is me forgetting which day valentine’s day is
#i literally have a boyfriend that would’ve been very bad for me LOL#aromantic#aro#arospec#aro culture is#aromantic culture#valentines day
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aro culture is telling someone you're aromantic, and then being shocked when you to follow it up with an explaination and the person cuts you off saying they know what it means. and you're shocked but it's a good shocked because nobody ever knows what it means
congrats!
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furiously googling “flowers with no romance meaning” because a. I love flower language and b. I love being aro and found exactly what I was looking for!!
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[id: A screenshot of a flower website stating: “Alstroemeria. Also called Peruvian lily, alstroemeria symbolizes the strong bond between two people that transcends romantic love. Send this elegant flower to a special friend to celebrate the strength and devotion of your friendship. Alstroemerias are tuberous perennials native to the cold, mountainous regions of South America. They are popular as cut flowers and also in the garden. Their delicate flowers come in many colors, and they bloom every summer and fall.” Above the text is a circular photo of the aforementioned orange and yellow flowers. Half of the petals on the flowers are speckled with dark brown lines. The flowers’ dark green leaves are long and thin.]
#aro#aromanticism#aromantic#aromance#aroace#aspec#aspec community#aspec stuff#aspec culture#aro pride#flower language#language of flowers#victorian flower language#aro culture is#aromantism#aroflux#cupioromantic#recipromantic#greyromantic#grey aroace#greyaro#angled aroace#oriented aromantic asexual#oriented aroace#tertiary attraction#lovequeer#lovequeer aro
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I’m begging, just ONCE can we have the boy and girl childhood best friend be genuinely happy for the other when one of them finds a significant other?? I’m so sick of these jealousy arcs and romantic crises that always involve being indecisive about who to choose like GOD just have a boy and girl be friends unquestioningly PLEASE.
#aromantic#aro culture is#childhood best friend#love triangle#writing tropes#tv tropes#love interest#jealousy#writing thoughts#writing ideas#thoughts#rant#boys and girls can be friends damnit
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; autistic arospec culture is not understanding the whole " I'd do this but my romantic partner doesn't want me to " or " I love this but my romantic partner doesn't so idk !! "
#aro#aromantic#arospec#autism#autistic#neurodivergent#neurodiverse#actually autistic#autistic aromantic#Idk this came to me in a vision#I need to know if other autistic arospecs feel this way#ppl who are js autistic or js arospec are welcome ofc#and aroacespec that's cool too#But specifically autistic arospecs.#text post#aro culture is#culture is
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just saw a girl who cried over pasta.
that’s aro/ace culture.
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