#aro post

[sapphic-sprite]

I feel like this needs to be said, but some of y’all really need to start learning to mind your own business when it comes to alloaros. especially alloaros who are loveless or don’t perform aromanticism the way you want it to be. being exclusively aromantic isn’t a bad thing and the only reason y’all think it could be is because of amanormativity. sort that out on your own time and stop making aromantic people explain it to you when you are perfectly capable of looking it up. thank you.

[hues-of-purple]

Drew these 🥰

(No reposting. Reblogging is always appreciated though!)

[charlie-lottie]

Demiaroaceflux | Демиароэйсфлюкс

[Created by me ; Can be used]

(Demiaroace + Aroaceflux)

– orientation for those who do not experience romantic and sexual attraction until an emotional connection/attachment is formed with a certain person. But their romantic and sexual attraction will fluctuate from 0% to 100%

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(Демиароэйс + Ароэйсфлюск)

– ориентация для тех, которые не испытывают романтическое и сексуальное влечения до тех пор, пока с определенным человеком не сформируется эмоциональная связь/привязанность. Но их романтическое и сексуальное влечение будет колебаться от 0% до 100%

Mentions / Tags: @radiomogai @acronym-chaos @kiruliom @rwuffles @flutteringwings-coining

[be-in-a-qpr-with]

Be in a qpp with someone who sees your soul

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[scarlicbread27]

maybe i’m weird but i love pretending to have crushes on celebs or characters, i love calling them hot and giggling and kicking my feet even though i feel absolutely no sexual or romantic attraction towards them.

[franknfurterstriangulardinosaur]

aromantic people are not a monolith. some of us date in romantic relationships. some of us date in queer platonic contexts. some of us don’t at all. some of us are allosexual. some of us are asexual. some of us do not label our sexuality with those terms. some of us feel queerplatonic attraction. some of us feel romantic attraction occasionally. some of us don’t feel that. some of us like men. some of us like women. some of us like other options or all. some of us are cishet. some of us are trans fem or masc. some of us are complex. we’re allowed to be different!

[popodumsqueries]

“Being aromantic must be hard.”

“Only in the traditional sense.”

“What do you mean?”

“Um… how do I explain this.  If you lived on an island where everyone had blonde hair, and you were ridiculed for having any other hair colour, then yes, it would suck to live there and have black hair.  But it wouldn’t change your ability to enjoy the sunset there.  Or something like that.  Like, in the system built around loving people romantically, of course it’s hard when you can’t, but in every other sense it’s fine.  I can still eat ice cream and run around and have fun and whatever.”

“I guess so.”

[phosphenemoth]

🖤✨️Let's no romo fuck eachother's brains out. No thoughts. Only fuck.✨️🖤

[nrhodact]

I hope so

but if there’s platonic kissing whats next??!!!!????? sex without romance??????!? romance without sex?????!!!!? friendship?????? friends with benefits????!!! platonic lOVE????? staying out of other people’s business???????? WHO KNOWSS

[aropride]

I... DONT... LIKE... CHANGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [MY TELEKINESIS THROWS EVERYTHING ACROSS THE ROOM] [I SEE MY ITEMS STREWN ABOUT THE ROOM AND GET EVEN MORE UPSET]

[sortingmyideas]

Male character: I'm not attracted to women.

Fandom: Oh, he's gay.

Female character: I'm not attracted to men.

Fandom: Oh, she's a lesbian.

Any character: I'm not attracted to anybody.

Fandom: Well, we don't know that they're ace/aro/aroace. It's open for interpretation. They're not canonically ace/aro/aroace unless they specifically say they are.

Hmmmm. I wonder why we're so frustrated in fandom spaces. I wonder if there's a reason.

[under-the-universe]

sorry to be aromantic but i need more stories w characters who get absolutely no romantic interests, plots, or romantic ending ‼️ gimme ppl w complex interpersonal relationships put into emotional life situations ‼️ but they all get zero bitches ‼️

[jamierthanyou]

as an aroace, im particularly dangerous, because i wont fuck or marry. i only know how to kill.

[mossy-aro]

[nrhodact]

☝️☝️☝️

fictional characters only start expressing aromantic sentiments (eg. "i don't get crushes" "i'm not looking for anyone" "i don't wanna fall in love") when they're about to be proven wrong. it's fucking rude. you can't only use our language when you're about to devalue our experiences and imply we need to be fixed. you owe us actual aro characters. where are they

[infiniteorangethethird]

"aros can still date!!": boring. tired. overused. frequently used to make aros look more palatable and acceptable to amatonormative society.

"alloros can still stay single!!": fresh. new. exciting. hearing it could change many people's lives for the better regardless of romantic orientation