#lgbt post

[holyblanchett]

I used to pray for times like this

[sapphic-sprite]

I feel like this needs to be said, but some of y’all really need to start learning to mind your own business when it comes to alloaros. especially alloaros who are loveless or don’t perform aromanticism the way you want it to be. being exclusively aromantic isn’t a bad thing and the only reason y’all think it could be is because of amanormativity. sort that out on your own time and stop making aromantic people explain it to you when you are perfectly capable of looking it up. thank you.

[justsomeautistcthings]

Reblog with your bingo!

@autistichumannn @artisthedgehog @venusplanetoflove2 @s0lit4ir3

[32beesinatrenchcoat]

I was doom scrolling through Instagram (yeah I know) when I came across this ad

[I.D. -A screenshot of an Instagram ad for Fable. The ad uses a circle graph in the aromantic flag colors. The sentence "Your favorite genre Romance out of 5" is in the middle of the circle with romance in green. -End I.D.]

I would have picked any other color scheme for this. Literally any other. Like I know these people didn't do any research but still.

[frostralia]

Take pride in who you are. There is so much to love about yourself ❤️ 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

[underthevveather]

I think bisexuality is so beautiful and interesting because not every bi person has the same experience, yet they're all still completely valid and still bisexual.

For example, preferences. Some bi people might prefer masc-aligned people or fem-aligned people. Some bi people might have a gender preference, while others might only care about expression. And then other bi people won't even have a preference at all. All of these are valid and still bisexual.

Then there's dating history. Some bi people have only ever dated the same gender or opposite gender, while others have experience with dating multiple genders. And as we all know, dating history doesn't determine sexuality, so these are all valid and still bisexual.

There's also when someone realizes that they're bisexual. For some people, they've known or had an inkling about it for as long as they can remember. Others don't realize it until they're teenagers, or until they enter adulthood or way later in life. But regardless, I'm happy for anyone who realizes they're bisexual because they're all amazing.

So please remember that if you identify as bisexual, you're completely valid in experiencing your sexuality in any way that you do!

[im-just-a-ghost5]

I AM HAVING FEELINGS ABOUT DAN AND PHIL AND I NEED TO EXPRESS THEM TO SOMEONE OR ELSE I WILL GO INSANE SO TUMBLR IT IS.

(TL,DR: @danielhowell and @amazingphil have grown so much as people and they're so happy and I'm EMOTIONAL about it)

I have been watching Dan and Phil for YEARS, well over a decade at this point. I'm now 19, so you can imagine how attached I am to these silly little men. Everything I have been through, they have been a screen away. Bullied? Dan and Phil. Major traumatic events? Dan and Phil. Struggling with my identity and subsequently coming out? Dan and Phil. Being open and honest about my mental health issues? Dan and Phil. Possibly autistic and trying to find courage to get tested? DAN AND PHIL.

I have quite literally grown up with these men, I saw them through pinofs, channels, radio shows, tours, apartments, books, DVDs, merch, mental health campaigns, comedy shows and coming out- and let me just say, I have NEVER seen them so HAPPY. Sure, there were some very good times and I will always love them but now it's a WHOLE different vibe. They are so happy and comfortable and free, and it's just so amazing- they're laughing, smiling and you can just SEE this light around them.

Over the years, I have watched these two lonely and awkward guys on the internet find each other and be friends and create this whole world. They have created so many wonderful things, both together and separately, and I just couldn't be more proud. And it gives me so much HOPE. Like, I'm not exactly the coolest person and like only one person outside of my family talks to me on a semi-regular basis, but these two guys are dorky and sweet and they FOUND each other despite the odds and have a HOME together.

No matter what their relationship is like, whether it be platonic or romantic or WHATEVER, they are soulmates. And I wholeheartedly believe that they are the prime example of "life gets better".

The newest baking video literally made me cry. Like, years ago, Dan would panic at the thought of putting on make-up and being openly queer, let alone dressing up as a sexy nun. And Phil would've never even THOUGHT about dropping an F-Bomb or feeling confident in his appearance, whilst making the gayest jokes possible. And that video alone just PROVES how happy they are now. They're being silly and flirty and being more physical with each other because they feel like they CAN now. In their own home and their kitchen (that they designed THEMSELVES), dressed up for Halloween and allowing themselves to be who they really are without giving a shit. And it's beautiful.

Dan and Phil have grown so much and you can tell how happy it makes them. And that gives me hope for my own future. And I don't know where I'd be without them. <33333

[just-positive-thingys]

Over on my Instagram I've been running a highlight where I put words of supports for trans people by anon people

I thought I'd share some of them here

Feel free to add your own messages below

[sleepy-bunny-boo]

guys, I am talking to a cute girl and I think she likes me.

a cute girl likes me.

...punch me in the face, I think I'm dreaming because A CUTE GIRL LIKES ME

[flamboril252]

Me explaining my sexuality in some days: So... how do I explain it... I can feel sexual or romantic attraction to both men and women, but I don't want to have any of that with anyone. Like when I read or see something with romance or sex, I feel something, but I don't want to be there. This is called aego aroace and is part of the aromantic and asexual spectrum, I also feel bisexual. It's quite complicated, let me explain more....

Me explaining my sexuality in other days: I'm gay.

[apeekinsidemydarkmind]

I never miss a day!

[sapphic-sprite]

how to make whatever you’re writing or drawing better:

- add lesbians

you’re welcome!

[justsomeautistcthings]

I’m a girlflux lesbian who is also on the asespec

[mariposainthemoonlight]

As an apothisexual all I want to see on my tumblr feed is cute pictures of different aesthetics, incorrect quotes with my fav characters/shows, cute/interesting short/mini fics about characters I like/ship, lgbt pride posts, animals, art and anything to do with music.

To the people that make these posts, please make more ily.

[32beesinatrenchcoat]

I'm... I'm just really tired. Tired of hateful bigots getting everything they want. Tired of fighting, of having to defend my existence at every turn. Tired of living like this. I've never had a girlfriend or been to pride. My conservative religious family doesn't even know yet. Even if I do all of those things tomorrow, what does it change? I'll still be living in a country designed to break me while anyone could harass me. I can't even say that voting would've helped cause the people who made these decisions weren't voted by us. They didn't even care if that's not what we wanted. So much for democracy. My goal was to finish undergrad, live in other states, and then settle down by the coast. But what's the point anymore? I don't want to keep living like this, and I don't know how much I can give before I break.

Fuck man, what else is there to say

[frostralia]

Nobody else gets to tell you who you are, but you! You are who you are, not who somebody else says you are. Please remember that, okay?

🩷 Frost