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Consent = F.R.I.E.S.🍟
Consent! What is it and what does it look like? There are many aspects to giving consent, it's not just about saying "yes", so why not use the acronym 'FRIES' to remind yourself of all the things to consider when giving or asking for consent.
F - Consent is Freely given: you should never pressure, coerce or force someone into saying yes to something, this is not consent. You must respect when someone says no. You should feel confident and happy when you consent to any activity with your partner(s).
R - Consent is reversible: it is okay to consent to something and then change your mind, if you're not comfortable, say so and ask to stop. If your partner changes their mind on something you should respect their choice, and if they are willing, have a conversation about their decision.
I - Consent is informed: you should know what exactly you are consenting to and your partner(s) should too. It's good to discuss specifics beforehand and what you're both comfortable with.
E - Consent is enthusiastic: when someone is giving consent consider their tone and body language. Do they sound happy, upbeat and are they being proactive? Or do they sound hesitant, reluctant or closed-off?
S - Consent is specific: when someone says yes to one activity, it does not mean they consent to other activities. If someone has consented to something in the past, it does not mean that they have consented to doing that activity again in the future, you need renewed consent.
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#everybodys invited#sex education#sex educator#rshe#id in alt text#id included#sex ed for grownups#teaching#self care#consent#safe sex#sex positive art#sex positivity#consent is key#consent matters#consent is important#consent is everything#consent is sexy#sex ed
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Batkids in Metropolis
For context: they have sunglasses on, bc it's Metropolis, and they're fucking Gothamites AND bats so...
Cass: It's so...
Cass: It's so bright here.
Duke: Right? How can anyone live here?
Steph *putting on second pair of sunglasses*: Oh man, it gives me flashbacks.
Tim: Wtf, Steph. Flashbacks to what?
Jason: To death. Duh.
*Steph and Jason high-five*
Dick *just wanted a break from Bruce's bullshit*: Sometimes I hate you so much. Why do everything have to be a death joke to you?
Steph: I don't know what you're talking about...
Steph: I'm dead sirious.
Duke: 1/5, unoriginal.
Steph: Hey!
Damian's home bc he's grounded. He skipped school again. Jason and Tim paughed at him and he's now plotting revenge.
#the first death joke is 4/5#that's what Duke said#cass forgot how bright the world outside of gotham is#steph is classy and sassy#dick just wanted a vacation#steph and jason friendship agenda#damian's plotting their downfall in the background#everybody knows they could take him with#because fuck bruce#but alfred said no ao jason said no so dick said no bc he wanted to have a bonding moment with jay#he's regretting his decisions#as is tim#he wasn't invited#he didn't want to go#he just somehow ended up there#batman#dc comics#jason todd#batfamily#dick grayson#tim drake#stephanie brown#cassandra cain#duke thomas#batfam shenanigans#metropolis#batsiblings#gotham#incorrect quotes#incorrect batfamily quotes
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I just rewatched the rako hardeen arc and it once again hits me how incredibly fucked up that was. Like good lord what were they thinking
And I say this not in a Jedi critical way per se but more in a Jedi flabbergasted way??
Bc clearly at SOME POINT the council had a conversation about what to do about the whole chancellor-assassination-plot thing, and what i want to know is whose pitch was “hey Kenobi what if we hire a bounty hunter to shoot you off a roof in front of your padawan and grandpadawan, then we hold a fake funeral for you (to which we will invite your ex/our political rival, and also not Cody) and then we use the machine from the 1997 Action Thriller Face/Off starring Nick Cage and John Travolta to violently transmutate you into the aforementioned bounty hunter (whom we will have in the meantime arrested) then after a brief stay in Supermax Spaceprison you can infiltrate Count Dooku’s secret team-building saw trap cube (designed by famed criminal mastermind Stabbada Badguyman) in order to save the galaxy. Do you. Do you think you’d be up for that”
And obi-wan, fresh off Zyggeria and about halfway through the worst year of his life is just like
#Afterwards they’re all heading out of the council chamber to go back to war or whatever#And yoda’s talking to obi-wan like “for doing this#thank you. Already bald#master windu is. Have been as funny with him#it would not”#I also firmly believe that they didn’t invite Cody to the funeral bc he would have smelled a rat a MILE away and they all knew it#Not even necessarily in a codywan way like his bullshit senses are just so finely tuned#Anakin also has an absolutely balls to the walls insane time in this arc#He starts spiralling IMMEDIATELY and everybody’s like hm skywalkers not doing so well#rako hardeen#sw tcw#obi wan kenobi#commander cody#the clone wars
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y'all, I'm really sorry for this one, I did not mean for it to be this thirsty, I swear
No see, listen--shut up, listen--I was thinking about Troy and then of course the Odyssey we all missed out on, which naturally led to thinking about the various iconic scenes we could've had, and OBVIOUSLY the siren scene is at the top of that list, and I was playing with how to depict the effect of their song, and I've used this look before with Eugenides with pretty good results, but then I was reflecting on how aside from VFX this scene would take a lot of body acting, and how Sean's so good at conveying pain and that would translate naturally into the seduction of the spell, and huh when I write it out like that I absolutely did intend for it to be this thirsty.
Man I hope one of my manuscripts gets picked up soon; being off-deadline is not healthy for me.
#i don't even know how to tag this#delusional odyssey#troy II: everybody's dead except sean bean somehow#get in loser we're going to ithaca#penelope come get your husband he's making our lives complicated#step 1: eris isn't invited to a wedding step 2: ?? step 3: sean bean is tied to a mast begging#odysseus and the sirens
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// cn server spoilers, new tot pv
LUKE IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL MAN EVER IN THE HISTORY OF EVER AAAAAA
#LUKE IN THE FOREGROUND OF THE INVITE SERVING MAIN CHARACTER OF TEARS OF THEMIS VIBES#SORRY IM LATE WORK'S BEEN KILLING ME BUT AUUUGHHH#tears of themis#tot spoilers#THIS IS A LUKE POST BUT KNOW I ALSO GASPED AT EVERYBODY ELSE#ANYWAY ARE WE GETTING MARRIED?? IS THAT WHATS GOIN ON IN THE 2ND CGS?? AA
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HIIII I've been kinda anxious to request something but if it's not tooooo much ... Layton visiting Monte D'or and polycule shenanigans ensues. I don't know how to phrase it, I just know I want to see Layton bombarded with love ....
When I saw this one I cheered. Anyways I have lots of thoughts about them I’ll ramble in the tags
#first off I think Hershel still has an open invitation to the polycule he can come and go as he pleases#after MM and some catching up he finally brought up everything that happened after he left for college#so of course he’s a little reluctant to dedicate himself to a relationship because at this point in time he’s still grieving#but everybody needs a little love now and then#even if it’s just a hug to say it will all be ok#Randall’s told him a million times he always will have a place to stay in monte d’or and he’s always allowed to visit!#I think Layton would try to visit at least twice a month#the ascot household is always happy to have Hershel over for a visit lmaoo#they make a big fuss to make sure they have enough variety of tea to keep him busy his whole visit!
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charles celebrating his older brother’s engagement by wearing cute glasses, a red varsity jacket, and posting a picture of him holding and looking at his baby (leo) like a proud mother… charles core
oh my god this is too much. I don't know if that dog is enough. Alexandra needs to get him pregnant right now
#lurking on Charlesʼs insta to find this pics tells me that#1) Arthur's current gf is close enough to get invited to family dinners but#2) Charlesʼs doesn't follow her on insta. but Ollie does#(so does Ruth Buscombe who seems to follow EVERYBODY'S gf on insta. she has the gossip girl instinct I fear)#elle asks
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one thing that stands out to me about the IVF arc is the way that, for as much as i make fun of her for asking her coworker if she can have his babies, scully asking mulder to be involved in the biggest process of her life (and the most important thing in the rest of her life) is such a healing and reverent experience. like he says “i’m absolutely flattered,” but it’s so much more than that. it’s like…spending your whole life feeling like you should’ve died at age twelve and then being told someone just wants more of you, more and more and more, in everything.
#it reminds me of 'sixth extinction' / 'amor fati'#when he quite literally was tied down and couldn't speak#and the way we hear him try to SCREAM when his mother just leaves him there#but his mind is Silent from the moment he hears scully in the hall begging to see him#and he couldn't crack a joke or run out the door#he literally just had to lie there and feel it#feel it on his Skin#her hand holding onto him#her tears falling onto his face#listening to the overwhelming depth of her fear that she is failing him and her devotion and her dedication to finding a way to help him#her Pleas for him to just 'hold on'#'i think that...if you know...if you could just find a way to hold on...i need you to hold on...please...'#everybody go listen to the civil wars' cover of 'talking in your sleep'#i don't think it can be overestimated how much of an impact that had on them and the lightness and healing in s7. that he Had to hear it#and then with the baby thing it's like...he CAN'T deny her that. he HAS to say 'yes'#there's no part of him that's capable of denying her something that she desires this badly. enough to ask for outright#and so he HAS to let himself be wanted and be invited into this unimaginably important and personal thing#let himself be a part of something bigger. be SEEN as someone who is valuable in a way that's bigger#and again he can't run from it and he can't deflect it and he can't hide from it. he has to just accept it#txf.txt#per manum
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✂️saw these fits and it reminded me of a certain group✂️
#the acclaimed#aew#wrestling#max caster#anthony bowens#daddy ass#ive realised way to late how much effort i put into this why did i even color ittt#caster turned out really good in my humble opinion#also still dont know how to color my art sooo#billy gunn#i know Anthony and max arent middle-aged but the clothes fit them okay?!#max looks mentally checked out idk maybe hes thinking about mjf#i think most of the aew wrestlers could have cuter outfits so ill make it a reality!!#inviting everybody to zoom in on casters arm bc i think it looks hot#im sick of pink now the next thing ill draw will NOT be pink#eggon
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Additional popular post complaint is that it makes tumblr feel like an echoing lecture hall instead of a stump I live inside like a porcupine. Everybody new has to introduce themselves and say an icebreaking fact, imo
#everybody i already know is also invited to tell me an icebreaking fact such as#''animal that starts with the same letter as your name''#or ''favorite color''#it's Monday and I'm procrastinating!! human interaction please!!
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[23.12.02] @ pittsburgh penguins
frosty finishes off a shot from yorkie after the buzzer ends the period and resigns himself to his fate
also ref's side hug?!
#morgan frost#philadelphia flyers#flyers#flyers hockey#gif#his fate is getting obliterated!!!!!!!!#his facial expressions and mannerisms just INVITING the penguins in#look#i have thoughts in my head and i mostly kept them inside#but just so you know i have a bottom morgan agenda#everybody wants him#even the penguins want him#i call him boyfriend collector for a reason
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Binder Safety Guide
Binders are wonderful, transformative things! BUT there are a lot of things to consider and prep yourself for if you want to wear a binder safely. So here's a quick guide on the top 10 tips for binder safety.
Your health is paramount and wearing a binder incorrectly can really damage your skin, and lead to breathing problems or back pain etc, so please listen to your body, and if it hurts, stop. Binders aren't for everyone but their are alternative methods to a flatter chest!
For more tips and guidance on binder safety, check out Point of Pride, Spectrum Outfitters, Amor Binders, Mermaids or my previous post, An Intro to Binders!
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#education#sex educator#everybodys invited#self care#health#teaching#body posititivity#binders#binder#chest binding#binding#binder safety#transmasculine#trans masc#non binary#genderfluid#gender identity#id included#id in alt text
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i love crazy contrasting 1p2p in every way(not every way). so i always subconsciously have 2P rusame be friends. unlikely friends etc. in whatever weird school au theyre friends. meri was probably bullied until he started hissing at other kids or something while rus2 was just like huhh okay yeah okay what fine. rus2 found him in a broom closet and it was as awkward as it sounds. in the weird stuckin1Pcoldwar au i have theyre friends also in the torturous existence. 1P rusame is too weird life is too short lets tomodachi✌️
#in comparison 1p rusame would be school insane psychological games social competition nerds MID OFF#2ptalia#i like the jp fanart where 2p ame is pitiful and gloomy. its cute#a little wannabe edgy but spare him he was left in the rain in a cardboard box when he was 2 years old.#i keep imagining a gay school au sorry. im gonna say shit now#rus2 is blunt and kind of. bad at reading signals. accidentally drags him and meri into karaoke with ame(enigmatic popular kid)#meri is like fuck my life... but he has a killer bitch face so people are like uwaa scary... hes brooding...#rus2 is like ah sorry i forgot you never had a normal teen friendship and clung onto (nada) all the time#meri is always coping like these people... dont get it... hes half right#they go to karaoke and ame sings really off key#actually i have a common daydream where ame's elusiveness is really funny to meri#he's like hahahaha what the hell that kids crazy ahahaha. like laughing at a cartoon#and then somehow he keeps being approached by ame (slow trying to step away) hes like noo... i dont actually wanna get close to u at all...#meri and rus2 probably play observers theyre quiet kids who go hmm im nooticing!#observing 1p rusames weirdship that everybody can see but they don't think anyone notices their crazyship#and rus2 is like oh two people talking and interacting alot. theyre friends. its just like a rivalry thing yeah?#while meri is like fuckkk the fucking golden boy is talking to us when ame talks to them rus2 is like#why dont you invite (rusia) to the karaoke arent you two friends#(ame mania face turns around)#okay thats all i got bye
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okay so! it is with great pleasure that i'm announcing that we are celebrating our lovely friend @xoxodori 's birthday this evening starting at 6pm! taiju has so graciously arranged us all vip access to the illustruous and luxurious le phare bleu, owned by none other than @satorwho :) everybody say thank you satoru for having us this evening!
#🌺 ❝ 𝙖𝙙𝙢𝙞𝙧𝙚 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙤𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪 ❞ ; audri#and yes EVERYONE is invited#I WANT TO SEE EVERYBODY THERE!#AND MAKE SURE YOU SAY HELLO TO THE BIRTHDAY GIRL!#if not we will have an issue. you don't want that.#:)#doors open at 6pm!
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no bc deadass the rescue bots are straight up mean as hell. like, they arent evil or immoral they’re just rude. to the point where they’re meaner than the decepticons ok like megatron kept avoiding actually gettind rid of starscream despite the constant murder attempts but heatwave was willing to get rid of two of the other bots (blades after he abandoned a rescue bc of an avalanche and blurr bc blurr). heatwave is more ruthless than megatron which is so damn funny. blades keeps insulting people for no good reason (sometimes it makes sense but like quickshadow’s accent and how she talks made him so upset). chase is harder to see but he’s willing to do anything to follow the rules and he tends to repeatedly bring up other people’s issues (i dont think i have to explain but like example is little white lies. that whole episode). boulder is very sweet most of the time but the instant heatwave gets in on it he does too. multiple times in the show this has happened (off the top of my head when blades got the scoop claw hw and boulder were laughing at him and when hw made fun of blades boulder laughed, also heatwave was saying blurr was super annoying and boulder agreed).
to be clear this is a good thing. i wanna see more complex characters who are still fundamentally good people!! you can be callous, have low empathy, be egotistical, get angry, make fun of ur friends and still make good choices and still help people. you at your worst and you at your best are still both you, but your worst being bad doesn’t mean your best isn’t good. especially because morality wise the rescue bots are the best people. i mean, they aren’t war criminals (or regular criminals), they don’t physically harm others, they don’t put others at risk (at least not intentionally), and they literally had to pretend to be actual machines while risking their lives every day. these people who treated them as essentially slaves were who they had to protect. and they did it, over and over again, without hesitation. and i think they deserve to be a bit rude for that, and because their meanness comes from caring. if they didn’t care they wouldn’t bother to speak up and be heard, even if it’s in a disrespectful way. but they do.
anyways idk rescue bots brainrot and the concept of a fundamentally good society have been eating away at me.
#they love everybody so much that they snap so often#heatwave cares about his team. when he says someone needs to go its a big deal#because he cares about that member but he also cares about the rest of his team#one wrong move and they’re dead. it’s life or death every day#he doesnt want to invite the day where death will be the winner#blades getting so pissed and confused by quickshadow’s accent and speech was so damn funny tho#i too am confused and pissed by the british#boulder being the nicest kindest most gentle bot immediately going away when heatwave decides to be petty is always delightful#“hmm this person is doing something funny/wrong/objectively dumb but everyone makes mista— oh? heatwave is making fun of them? count me in!#homosexual behaviour#heatwave makes people worse <3#chase bringing up the oldest shit to make a dig at someone is so silly#you make one mistake and years later he’s still bringing it up#looking at my tags as i write them and hw’s are so serious and everyone else’s are like “lmao silly little guy says silly little things”#rescue bots#tfrb#tfrb heatwave#tfrb boulder#tfrb blades#tfrb chase#transformers rescue bots#transformers
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behold: my second least favorite string of words in the entirety of Tears of the Kingdom.
(it's a little less transparent why this time so I'll explain my thoughts under the cut)
So why do I not like this?
In so many words: because if you remove it, the scene still works, but you lose the moral certainty of what is going on.
This single sentence does so much legwork for the entire game (the kind I dislike), to the point where I'm about 60% sure it's the product of a rework that realized how ambiguous Rauru's position was as the Good Rightful King and needed to nervously reassure the players that Ganondorf Is and Always Was the Invader, Actually.
(no matter that it leaves the gerudos in this awkward in-between state of both invaders and victims, while never dwelling in the specifics of their history and their own agency in the entire thing; brushed off as a sin they have to expiate through loyalty to the winners of that particular strife, but without explicitely blaming them either to avoid the implications of what that would have looked like)
If you remove it, not only do you lose a pretty clunky line that detracts from Ganondorf's intimidating presence (who is he even speaking to? who needs to hear this right now?) that honestly speaks for itself when it comes to his experience with warfare, but also you lose any tension and any mystery regarding why he is attacking in the first place.
You also... kind of rob Ganondorf's motivations of their meaning. "Hyrule will bow down before me" leads to asking... why? What does he want? What does he see in those lands? And what little we get with Rauru and then Link during the final fight begs more questions; why do you prefer hardship to peace? Why do you value strength? What leads you to want to rule a land devoid of survivors, become a king without a kingdom? I don't think we ever get satisfactory answers. If you remove this sentence, on the other hand... Subtextually, it becomes pretty clear that his motivations is that he felt threatened by Rauru's power, which is ripe with subtext and questions about whether this is a legitimate reaction, whether his "no survivor" stance is due to a feeling of betrayal when his own people turned against him post the Demon King shenanigans... I'm not saying it would fix the entire game's writing, far from it, but it would already do *so much more*.
(genuinely, I think he could have stayed completely silent during the Molduga Assault, speaking only in the Show of Fealty before going completely nuts after Sonia's murder, and it would have worked MUCH better in terms of characterization but anyway anyway
EDIT: ALSO!!! that way he wouldn't speak hylian to fellow gerudos, which is weird inherently)
Without this line, the core of the tension between the gerudos and Hyrule comes front in his conversation with Rauru; it allows the cause of his hostility to be Rauru's invitations, that he would have taken as a threat, and would have still made him warlike and domineering without making him cartoonishly flat, because, once again, Rauru is not acting in a particularly more legitimate way when Zelda arrives in Ancient Hyrule; and it would have been... fair to point that out. And make for better characterization for Rauru, and Sonia, and Mineru, and everybody. But the priority was for Hyrule to be pictured as unquestionably holy; always legitimate, always truthful, always beautiful, always just.
Also, and this is more of a nitpick but: why would Ganondorf want Hyrule, specifically, to bow down before him also? Was he at war with the rest of the disparate tribes before, and just carried on his ambitions to the very very newly-founded kingdom as they allied under a new banner? (though it seems to be implies the lands were crawling under monsters in a generic sense, and not Ganondorf's attacks in particular) Why would he even consider Hyrule a legitimate entity worth taking over then, if it is so new, born from the will of a powerful rival, founded by what is basically a stranger to these lands? Why would he covet something so young instead of destroying it and just calling the lands Gerudo Lands II or Grooseland or something?
I don't think any of that was even accounted for, because, beyond everything else: to me, this sentence is so clearly and painfully crammed in here to shield Hyrule from any potential blame and immediately characterize Ganondorf as Bad without having to remove any of the causes that could lead one to side-eye Rauru's little pet project as equally questionable.
Beyond the clumsiness, it is cowardly --and, I think, a little damning.
#totk#totk critical#when will my brain return from the imprisoning war...#ganondorf#gerudos#rauru#tl:dr it is cowardly and reveals that nintendo knew about the Implications to some degree#sometimes less is more#really in that case less would have been so much more#it is literally ganondorf's first chronological line#yeah sure it tells you everything about the guy but#it's also such a bold commitment to flatness and self-righteousness that... yeah#and before I hear any “at least Rauru wasn't using force” I mean as far as we know though?#the constructs attack anyone deemed an “invader” on sight one of the things rauru does is to apologize for this#(I reread Rauru's initial dialogue in the Sky Islands and it would have been SO GOOD if any ambiguity would have been allowed)#(like the thing about Constructs mindlessly pursuing their useless tasks forever disquieting him...)#(yeah buddy so true that could uhhh almost be a metaphor for something else regarding purpose and lineage or something wow)#and even if he didn't use force directly the power dynamics and repeated invitations are still undeniably questionnable#like my guy why do you want everybody to kneel down to you what's up with that do we unpack this or#at least ganondorf was like.... born and raised a king (not that it excuses anything but he inherited pre-existing traditions)#so did zelda#she was born in an imperfect system and did whatever she could about it#rauru *crowned himself*#he *made* the system
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