#sex positive art

[everybodysinvited]

Consent = F.R.I.E.S.🍟

Consent! What is it and what does it look like? There are many aspects to giving consent, it's not just about saying "yes", so why not use the acronym 'FRIES' to remind yourself of all the things to consider when giving or asking for consent.

F - Consent is Freely given: you should never pressure, coerce or force someone into saying yes to something, this is not consent. You must respect when someone says no. You should feel confident and happy when you consent to any activity with your partner(s).

R - Consent is reversible: it is okay to consent to something and then change your mind, if you're not comfortable, say so and ask to stop. If your partner changes their mind on something you should respect their choice, and if they are willing, have a conversation about their decision.

I - Consent is informed: you should know what exactly you are consenting to and your partner(s) should too. It's good to discuss specifics beforehand and what you're both comfortable with.

E - Consent is enthusiastic: when someone is giving consent consider their tone and body language. Do they sound happy, upbeat and are they being proactive? Or do they sound hesitant, reluctant or closed-off?

S - Consent is specific: when someone says yes to one activity, it does not mean they consent to other activities. If someone has consented to something in the past, it does not mean that they have consented to doing that activity again in the future, you need renewed consent.

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[bloggingboutburgers]

It's Mother's Day in France today, so I figured I'd share another conversation with my mom that made my day recently

[lgbtqtext]

[olisix823]

Happy Disabled Pride month!

[freakykyla]

Wanna know why am freaky🤤

.....slide in my DM let's have some fun......😉

You could ask for my menu..☺️

[humbuns]

late night visits

[everybodysinvited]

Happy pride everyone! I hope you all have a wonderful and safe time and whether you can celebrate or not, you're amazing! 🏳‍🌈💗

Pride is a protest and education is and integral tool to fighting injustice and bigotry and that's why I make these resources. We need LGBTQ+ inclusive sex-ed resources because everyone deserves comprehensive and supportive RSE. And we need progressive resources, because when we learn, we grow, we understand and we accept. There are so many incredible resources, organisations and individuals out there also advocating, creating and teaching LGBTQ+ inclusive sex-ed all year round, they're my heroes 💖

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[sex-variant]

[Image ID: A digital illustration of a white-tailed doe with antlers, it is standing in front of a yellow background and both the deer and the foreground of grass are monochromatically purple. The picture is watermarked @/sex-variant. /end ID]

This suggestion comes from @ipso-faculty, I will try to draw zer maned lioness suggestion at some point as well! 💛💜

[bloggingboutburgers]

Self-affirmation, uh, finds a way

[lgbtqtext]

[liberaljane]

❤️ When CHEEX approached me with the idea to create some smex positive geese, I was SO down.

❤️ Platforms like CHEEX (my personal fav) are redefining the industry and creating safe spaces with spicy content that is ethically produced alongside educational resources. CHEEX is safe, aesthetically pleasing and even features tutorials and masterclasses on the topic of $ecsual wellness (and more!). I love how platforms like CHEEX invite us to be open about $ecs—it helps build healthy relationships, boosts self-awareness, and breaks down stigmas. 💕 Paying for CHEEX also means supporting ethical, inclusive, and beautifully produced 🌶️ content that prioritizes consent and representation. 💖

❤️ Try CHEEX for yourself - go to the link in my bio 🔗or to g e t c h e e x . c o m and use my code LIBERALJANE to get 7 days of unlimited access to the whole platform*!

The code works when you select the yearly plan as a new user, but you can cancel or switch to the monthly plan anytime during the 7 days. After that, the CHEEX subscription costs less than a movie ticket a month with their yearly plan, which is amazing!

[hyena-matas]

[sex-variant]

I like dandelions. They’re not really a widespread accepted intersex symbol like orchids but dandelions feel like me a lot of the time, they’re trying to live and people try to tear them up but they’ll always return. Plus they’re yellow and pretty

[Image ID: A digital illustration of a yellow dandelion from above. A purple ring runs through the petals, making it resemble the Morgan Carpenter intersex pride flag. It is watermarked @/sex-variant. /end ID]

@theforesteldritch I hope you don't mind the @, I wanted to be sure you see the piece based off your suggestion!

[bloggingboutburgers]

Not teaching anything to anyone here but y'know gotta rub in the sheer irony of how backwards bigot thinking is

[lgbtqtext]