#boundary holding

[positivelypresent]

Some sentences to help you set boundaries!

[lilithism1848]

[thetetrisco]

I think it’s time for another serious post.

If anyone ever told me “welcome to the (emoji) community” I will lose my shit, because I have never liked that community, and I don’t foresee that I ever will. There have been so many victims of harassment, abuse, parasocial behavior, grooming, and more. I don’t want to be associated with such a SICK community.

A majority of the emoji community are traumatized minors who don’t know how to communicate a misunderstanding and try to cancel people over it, or are (respectfully) chronically online and don’t know how the real world works. Adults are to blame too, not just minors!

You don’t walk up to some stranger all buddy buddy and say “YOU’RE MY FRIEND, NOW I LOVE YOU!” And that’s what some of you people do on here, it’s sick, dangerous, and unhealthy. Think about how dangerous that is in real life. It’s just as dangerous on the internet too.

This is the INTERNET. It will not be a safe place.

Mental illness is NOT AN EXCUSE. You are 100% responsible for what you do. “The real world won’t find out!” I promise you they will, and if you make up petty internet drama about someone, I promise you it is going to affect their ability to get a job. Digital footprint is REAL.

I am sick and tired of seeing creators fall victim to such harmful behaviors.

[couldbetee]

Lately I’ve been struggling to find a balance between being the kind person I am while still reinforcing my boundaries…

Some say to just speak up or be assertive but as a retired people pleaser ..it has been tough

When attempting to practice assertiveness it has often felt as though I was putting on a mask over who I was. I literally felt a pit in my stomach and my tongue instantly ties..

Recently I listened to @sheissobougie’s podcast episode on boundary setting & I loved it! Completely changed my perspective on the topic

In the episode she details how questioning disrespect is one of the best ways to reinforce boundaries. Basically acting dumbfounded when anyone tries to play you lmao

I love this approach because it allows me to remain true to myself without “stepping outside my comfort zone” … yelling or doing the most when people over step just isn’t my 1st reaction … nor do I ever want it to be

However… if I need to act like a bitch… bitchy Tee will most definitely make a cameo!

[drachenengel]

[karalanded]

What is a boundary (what isn't a boundary)?

It's infuriating the way people misuse the concept of boundaries to whitewash controlling behavior. Boundaries are about how YOU choose to engage with others and you enforce boundaries through your own actions. If enforcing your boundaries means dictating the behavior of others, then that's not a boundary, it's a demand. You may be able to restate a demand as a boundary by simply changing the phrasing, for example (paraphrased from a question on r/polyamory):

Demand: "One of my partner's boundaries is that I'm not allowed to date other men." Not a boundary because it's about what "I" am allowed to do rather than their choices.

Boundary: "One of their boundaries is that they don't date people who date other men." This is a boundary. It puts the onus on them to choose who they date, rather than on their partner to change.

The first is controlling (you must x), while the second is explicit about the cost of dating other men (not being in a relationship), while still leaving room for both people to decide how to proceed. I retain the choice of whether to date other men and that choice affects whether they want to date me.

[dailiadelc]

[evil-wild-lesbian-wizard]

I know setting boundaries can be so scary, but it is so important. You won’t be good at it the first or second or thirtieth time you do it, but practice makes it better. And somewhere along the line, you start feeling like a bad bitch. You don’t owe anyone anything. Remember you inherently have worth.

[espadalanoche]

Massage and boundage, its something you may need to try ⛓️🖤

[theteensierebel]

i miss home, yet, when i think of going back home, my body freezes, my brain silently screams and my heart cries.

- home is something i can't be at but rather a place i miss from a distance

[rajatkhareentrepreneur]

Aero 41-An agrotech company, raised money to accelerate its expansion plans

Boundary Holding, a European deep-tech investment business, provided a sizeable sum of seed capital to Aero 41, a domestic agricultural technology startup that offers a crop-spraying solution using their drones and proprietary software.

The funds have been used by the Swiss-based agro-tech firm, which provides Unmanned Aerial Vehicles (UAVs) and associated replacement parts for agricultural usage, mostly to farmers and resellers, to investigate the future of farming based on the most cutting-edge technologies.

Rajat Khare Entrepreneur, the founder of Boundary Holding, expected his company’s investment in Aero41 to help spur growth in this increasingly developing sector. Read More:

[thetetrisco]

I do not like making posts like this, I was going to stay quiet, but I’m tired of people continuing to interact with me despite my DNI (link to my stances post).

I AM ANTI-ENDO. PRO-ENDOS ARE NOT TO INTERACT.

Stop interacting with me, I have you BLOCKED.

You support an unhealthy ideation ++ MORE.

“Endogenic / Non-traumagenic” systems are fake. Systems can form only through severe dissociation as a child which is only applicable when faced with traumatic events.

[unsolicitedadvicecatlady]

Setting boundaries in a relationship is not about putting up walls and fences, it's about mutual respect and building strong bonds. Having healthy boundaries is essential for meaningful and authentic collaboration.

What are boundaries, and what are they not?

Example of enforcing a healthy boundary: giving the conversation a 30-minute break if it devolves into name-calling, yelling, or blame-games. This can be done by calmly stating something like "I value our relationship. I care about resolving this issue. I need to give this conversation a little break to re-center myself. I have a boundary about yelling/name-calling/blame-games, so I'm going to walk away and calm down before coming back to this conversation." And walk away. Not an example of enforcing a healthy boundary: Insisting someone else behave the way you want them to. This can look like "I need you to calm down." or "I want you to talk to me respectfully." or "You should/need to (fill in the blank)." or "It's really disrespectful for you to (fill in the blank)."

Boundaries are about controlling our own behavior, not others.

Pro tip: use "I" statements. It's hard to argue with "I think, I feel, I believe" statements, and it gives the other person an opportunity to reflect on their own behaviors.

Remember kids: it takes two to tango. Reflect on your own contributions to the breakdown in dialogue and see the other side's suffering first before making harsh judgements.

[johnwilson88]

A Journey Through Rajat Khare's Life: Entrepreneur, Investor, and Mentor 

Take a captivating journey through the life of Rajat Khare, a renowned entrepreneur, visionary investor, and mentor to countless innovators. From the inception of his entrepreneurial ventures to the creation of Boundary Holding, Rajat Khare has consistently pushed the boundaries of deep tech investment. This video explores his career highlights, the core values driving his success, and his unwavering commitment to nurturing the next generation of leaders. Discover how Rajat Khare continues to shape the future through strategic investments and visionary mentorship.

[danielastor]

Rajat Khare: Pioneering the Future of Tech with Boundary Holding

Renowned for his founding role in Boundary Holding, Rajat Khare stands as a beacon in the realm of technology, particularly in Artificial Intelligence and Deep-tech industries. Armed with a Computer Science degree from IIT Delhi, Khare embarked on his entrepreneurial journey, initially venturing into the education sector. Since its inception in 2016, Boundary Holding has emerged as a cornerstone of successful investments, notably backing startups such as XRVision and Cerbair.

However, Khare’s influence extends beyond his business ventures. With a commitment to philanthropy, he champions the transformative potential of yoga, advocating for holistic well-being on platforms like Facebook. Through his multifaceted approach to success, Rajat Khare epitomizes the fusion of innovation, entrepreneurship, and altruism, shaping the future of technology while nurturing the human spirit.

[spoonful116]

What can you do when someone gossips about you?