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Lmao OMFG Martin. He's now confirmed to have been jealous of
- (possibly lesbian?) Cop for daring to have private conversations with Jon
- literal embodiment of death Jon has only metaphorically met in a coma-dream
- lady he talked to for half an hour, once
Truly he is the "you know other people" meme
#i mean he was also catty to georgie but at least that's his ex gf#the magnus archives#martin blackwood#jonmartin#jmart#so so unhinged#i know people mostly love to coo over him bc they have self-esteem issues and social anxiety too#i simo over him for being a jealous petty argumentative passive aggressive bitch with oh so many issues#truly the character of all time#WHEN JON TALKED WITH HELEN HE'S BEEN BARELY NICE TO MARTIN AND ALSO ACCUSED YOU OF MURDER??#are you OK Martin???#i know it ended to working out but please have better taste girl
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I have a theory that if Tim ever fully stopped stalking Dick/breaking into his apartment on a whim/occasionally staring at him with blatant hero worship/generally obsessing and being objectively creepy, Dick would take it as a sign that Tim had finally figured out he was a failure of a human being and now hated him.
#batman#batman comics#batfamily#batfam#dick grayson#tim drake#90s batfam#dick and tim#nightwing#robin#robin iii#stalker tim drake#dick adores having all of his little brother’s attention#he has the worst self-esteem though#all of the arguments they have in canon that can be boiled down to#‘you’re the best robin and i could never compare’#‘no *you’re* the best robin and *i* could never compare’#anyway i love them
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Stopping yourself mid-conflict to change your perspective is allowed! It’s okay and normal to be mid argument with someone and realize you disagree with your own stance. Often I find myself and others caught up in trying to win the argument (not the point of arguments!) or too embarrassed to back down and be wrong. I promise there is so much more pride in going “Stop! I’m wrong. I hear you and I see how I wasn’t in the right and I want to amend my view” than digging your heels in.
#also how to argue productively is a whole post#suggestions#suggestion blog#recovery#positivity#self love#mental health#self care#ed recovery#love#relationships#shame#arguments#growth#conflict#ignorance#learning#self improvement#healing#mental illness
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MDZS AU where Jiang Cheng realizes that Lan Sizhui is the Wen orphan that Wei Wuxian took care off during the Burial Mounds arc, decides that's close enough to qualify him as Nephew, declares that no Nephew of His (much less a surrogate son of Wei Wuxian's) is going to be raised in the Cloud Recedes, and immediately launches into a custody battle with Lan Wangji.
But since neither Jiang Cheng or Lan Wangji can acknowledge that Sizuhi has any connection to Wei Wuxian, both begin steadfastly and stubbornly insisting that he is a Cultivator of peerless potential and skill and he belongs in their sect thank you very much, and would clearly be very unhappy in the other's. This confuses the hell out of the already mystified Cultivation world, who had barely adjusted yet to gossiping about Sizhui being Wangji's illegitimate child by mysterious love affair.
(Eventually the common consensus in the rumor mills is that both JC and LW where in love with Sizhui's mother and both believe themselves to be Sizhui's real father.)
(LW couldn't care less what gossips say, but JC has to bite his tongue till it bleeds to avoid telling anyone the truth in a fit of anger.)
(It was Nie Huaisang who put that rumor out in the first place, partly to troll JC, partly because, in a way, it's a little true.)
#MDZS#mo dao zu shi#the grandmaster of demonic cultivation#the untamed#Jiang Cheng#lan wangji#lan sizhui#wei wuxian#Wangxian#nie huaisang#mdzs shitposting hour#thoughts that come to me in line for take out#in the end they settle on joint custody#half the year in the cloud receces half the year at lotus pier#but not after first re-litigating every point of contention in the 'wei wuxian should have come with ME' argument#poor sizhui is just confused and a little overwhelmed by the whole thing#being assigned nephew by Jiang Cheng is an honor and a horror at the same time#just ask Jin Ling#also he dosen't feel worthy of all this attention#but in a weird reverse self fulfilling prophecy sort of way#with both LW and JC to train him#he does end up one of the best cultivators of his generation#then WWX comes back and complicates things EVEN FURTHER#but somehow LS's joint custody situation is enough to prompt a Jiang Sibling reconciliation#and eventually LW begrudgingly agrees to live a few months out of the year at Lotus Pier#everyone is happy but the family dinners at first at awkwarddddddd
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#this poll brought to you by waking up to the sound of my parents arguing over whether or not my mum slammed a door#(she didnt. it was the wind)#personally. id totally pick ranwan even with (spoilers!!) the txj body-sharing#i have a lot of similar struggles to chu wanning. so i feel like theyd be understanding#and mo ran is like. so unbelievably Parent Material#and they have a dog#also. theyd totally make sure i never overheard their. shall we say. Nightly Activities unlike a solid amount of the other pairings#also also. theyre not *too* pda like i think the main mxtx pairings would be. or too argumentative like moshang & wenzhou#polls#danmei#bingqiu#moshang#svsss#scum villains self saving system#hualian#tgcf#tian guan ci fu#ranwan#2ha#erha he ta de bai mao shizun#wangxian#mdzs#mo dao zu shi#cql#the untamed#wenzhou#tyk#tian ya ke#shan he ling#word of honor
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he likes to keep them on their toes
#solar lunacy#they got into a argument about j opening up and now he reveals random facts about his life#HEHAEHFBH#self insert#i luv solar lunacy#dca#dca fandom
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Luo Binghe: Shang Qinghua!
Shang Qinghua, startled: Eep! I mean, how can I help you Junshang
Luo Binghe: I'm planning a surprise for my husband and I need you to distract him during the afternoon as I prepare it
Shang Qinghua: Say no more! I have a sure fire way to distract Cucumber-Bro for at least a couple of hours
Luo Binghe: See that you do
At the Bamboo House
Shang Qinghua: Cucumber-Bro! I have an important question
Shen Qingqiu: Make it quick, I don't feel like wasting time with you today
Shang Qinghua: Who would win in a fight: A billion lions or all the Pokemon?
Shen Qingqiu: ...
#the argument lasted longer than a couple of hours#lbh never used sqh again bc it was TOO effective#who chose a billion lions#and who chose all the pokemon#honestly this argument probably lasted them a few days#luo binghe#shang qinghua#airplane shooting towards the sky#shen yuan#shen qingqiu#peerless cucumber#bingqiu#mxtx#mxtx svsss#svsss#scum villian self saving system
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'i hate jason grace because he thought he was worthy enough to compete with percy' I'm sorry have y'all SEEN jason. this man defeated a TITAN without weapons and his bare hands to the point the titan wanted to rise from the UNDERWORLD with the help of a GODDESS to seek vengeance over him. I think we can cut him slack for having some well deserved self respect bc I'd brag too wtf
#put some RESPECT on this guy's name. nobody is a more worthy competitor to percy than jason sorry not sorry I won't take arguments.#and has less experience with stuff because camp jupiter rarely had monster attacks so he was basically sheltered yet he was so strong#he saved percy UNDERWATER and defeated a SEA monster despite the whole zeus/poseidon thing. That only makes it difficult for him#and water isn't even his domain#yet y'all will call this 'gary stu behaviour' completely ignoring how op rick made percy. apparently only percy is allowed to be powerful??#he was trained by WOLVES as a 2 year old#before some mf goes 'theres no way jason defeated krios w just hands lol he was just boasting for the sake of it'. krios said it himself 💀#ironically jason was wayy too humble considering the stuff he's done lol he NEVER bragged and neither did percy#fandom when a character who has actually accomplished great stuff has an ounce of self respect and self awareness: 😠🔪🔪#it's not even 'i hate jason bc he's arrogant/powerless/boring' atp#it's just 'im too attached to percy to like any other person who's on his level and can't accept the fact that percy has a powerful rival'#pjo#pjo fandom#percy jackson#pjo series#pjo hoo#jason grace#pjo hoo toa
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Evan “you wouldn't mean to, you wouldn't plan for it, but you’d end up breaking my heart” Buckley meet Tommy “self-fulfilling prophecy” Kinard
#on god tommy we will get you some self worth#i need them to be together again#I’m tired of them being apart😫#I’m tired of this grandpa#anyway#I want to study this argument under a microscope#and compare it to their break up#bucktommy#911 abc#evan buckley#tommy kinard#911#tevan#kinley#oli posts
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"I don't recall agreeing to be a glorified weighted blanket when I decided to come over." Kiyoomi chuckles from his place on your chest, legs tangling with your own, arms curled around your back. You kiss his forehead, your smile mirroring his. "You didn't? I thought it came with being a boyfriend?" "What? Crushing the love of my life with my entire body weight? I think I missed the patch notes for that update." He teases. "Oh, shut it, you loser." You roll your eyes, pulling his head closer to your chest to smother his laughter. "Just cuddle me. Please." "No," He huffs out his dissent, softened around the edges by the motions of your hands in his hair, and all the while his arms tighten around you. "You're asking for a lot after calling me a loser." You feel rather than hear his words as he mutters them into your — his — shirt. "I'm sorry, you big baby." The snort he lets out in response pulls your grin wider. "Whatever shall I do to regain your favor once more?"
He pinches you lightly for your dramatics; your exaggerated posh tone startling into a yelp. "Pancakes would be nice." A sharp inhale punctuates his words as you tug his hair harshly in retaliation, before smoothing it out in apology. "Only if we can go out and have ice cream after." "And of course, I'm paying since you'll conveniently 'forget' your wallet, huh?"
"That was one time!" He chuckles at your outburst. Turning his head just enough to leave a kiss on your collarbone, he halts your tirade before the words even have the chance to form in your throat. "Of course, baby." Then, he places one last placating kiss under your chin before both of you succumb to the coziness of the atmosphere.
#sakusa kiyoomi#i always think about silly lil arguments while cuddling in bed when i think of kiyoomi#sakusa x reader#sakusa fluff#haikyuu fic#sakusa fic#haikyuu fluff#san's blobs#sakusa x gn!reader#sakusa x you#sakusa x self insert#haikyuu x y/n#sakusa x y/n
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Good Morning, World.
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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#jiang yanli#jiang cheng#'Good Morning World' because to wwx the jiang household is what grounds him. It is his burrow and blanket.#The familiar soup and banter is his home. The familiar arguments and tension are also his home.#Notice how quickly he throws LWJ to the side once he has JC back in reach! 'He was so boring; I wish *you* were there!'#WWX is very quick to constantly remind himself that he fits within a very specific power structure and role.#He pushes boundaries but almost always only the boundaries that he knows he can push against.#Sitting here now and realizing that if WWX did take life more seriously and act more diligent he would totally usurp JC.#Because the contrast with Them (tm) is wwx is the one that gets in trouble and JC is the one that sticks to the rules.#That responsible appearance especially in contrast is the thin line that holds JC's self-esteem together.#And lets be fully honest. From JC's perspective the last week was also extremely intense and stressful.#It truly was a feat to travel so far so fast despite also being exhausted. Never knowing if it is all in vain.#JC said with his actions 'I would move mountains for you and dig through stone with my bare hands if it meant reaching you.'#and WWX said '[read]'#It's about wwx chronically asking 'why would someone care for me? I'm always tool to be used' than accepting that people love him.
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woah...
cooper do a grab
#idk i just think for this kind of robot having a handle add so much to them#literally made for grabbing#for others tho not so much. especially those that looks too much like human#like kayo or d2 exo for example#why am i having an argument about adding handle to robots i don't need to explain anything it's just good when it's good#also cyberpunk robot don't have handle me sad#speaking of which i should probably get some for my v#i feel i can make some wholesome comic ideas out of that#anyways self deprecating art ramble below#i somehow also failed at flat coloring idk what to do anymore#sob#whatever#should've just drawn simple comics#titanfall 2#jack cooper#spectre#my art
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Halt and Catch Fire — 4.10 Ten of Swords
#halt and catch fire#cameron howe#donna emerson#haley clark#hacf#hacfedit#tvgif#tvedit#gif#edits#i still can't believe gordon went through a whole thing and multiple arguments with joe and then DIED right after he found out#while these two figured it out immediately#self recognition through the other 😌
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#he loves his pathetic wife#you really cannot win arguments when you are debating with god#you know#moshang#mobei jun#shang quinghua#svsss#scum villian self saving system#shin's preening abyss
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i know that uhura’s role in tos was written to be like a radioman (the guy in wwii movies who carries the phone on his back sometimes) meaning that the “communications officer” role evolved from radioman to linguist in the time since tos aired. but that makes uhura in tos really interesting with a retrospective read of her character, applying things novels and later iterations of her have fleshed out, because she doesn’t do any visible linguistic work in any tos episode. she does security and navigation and piloting and engineering which sort of makes her seem like a valuably flexible sort of many-skilled officer.
it was probably both enterprise with hoshi and the 2009 movie that really cemented the idea of “communications officer means linguist or at the very least polyglot” instead of it just being an uhura-quirk. uhura in the 2009 movie does a lot of engineering/operating work of comm equipment and is implied to speak a lot of languages on top of be able to interpret subspace “noise,” so to speak (like, there’s no way it’s radio. it can’t be radio. star trek takes place across distances of lightyears—when they say “signal,” i’m assuming it’s not radio). and of course strange new worlds has run with the linguistics angle and made it even more explicit that yes she studies linguistics, linguistics is a core part of starfleet academic infrastructure, to the point where whole episode plots are written around the act of translation.
the retrospective addition of this expertise to uhura makes what she is in tos a character even more focused on leadership and, idk, becoming something like a captain, because she doesn’t seem all that specialized. she’s more of a kirk-like character, or janeway or sisko, characters that have a specialized skill but have set it aside mostly to pursue some sort of command. obviously this wasn’t the intention of her character. writers of uhura have mostly just stumbled on the idea of her as a polyglot (according to wikipedia, first introduced in the novel uhura’s song, so) and been like “neat idea! makes sense! explorers need to learn languages!” and kept doubling down on that idea until we get to an origin-story uhura in snw that (wildly) speaks 37 languages, for whatever definition of speak or language, i guess.
what all this overthinking on my part has generated is this idea of uhura very much like a futuristic-captain aubrey or a captain sisko not nailed down to one station, hanging off the shrouds of a solar-sail ship’s rigging, looking beyond, in the most romantic and idealized version of an explorer. i think a lot of people read/write female characters as being more down-to-earth than the whimsical leader-on-the-sea or more nurturing than than the hardened captain-of-a-ship, partly why janeway and burnham are so wonderful to me. but it’s fun to imagine tos uhura being the exploring-captain archetype, amongst the political structures of the 60s. like the additions to her character over the years have solidified that romantic adventurer portrait of her in tos, when the idea of her in command would be the least welcome.
and the fact that she was shown to be excited about a solar sailing ship in snw, like sisko was in ds9 for that one episode, i think emphasizes this read of her—and that her character-journey in snw is going to be how she goes from bookish linguist to “hanging-on-a-shroud-on-a-sunsail-ship” looking out to “sea”.
#i also think this all somewhat contributes to star trek’s efforts towards decolonizing the concept of exploration#to the extent that any star trek writer has thought of it.#in combo with sisko sun-sailing while proving a colonized people were more advanced in tech than assumed#and michael burnham slowly self-actualizing and figuring out who she is outside of the culture she was raised in while becoming captain#and now uhura in snw changing in some way how we view this very old character. updating her role in ways that affect how she’s read in tos#i don’t think there’s a deliberate concern with “decolonizing the ideas of science and exploration”#but i also think the efforts to diversify the star trek property inevitably lead to some aesthetic and poetic argument to that end#however small that end might be in a larger scheme#but in an intertextual sort of way: nichols was hired by nasa to recruit women and people of color into the space program#so you know. it’s all Significant#star trek#uhura#tos#aos#strange new worlds#snw#ds9#sisko#nyota uhura
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i can’t wait for the hells, if they all survive this campaign, to just never stop bringing this up ever but in completely unrelated circumstances. just. oh ashton wants to go to lunch at a different spot? remember that time you ate the essence of a second primordial shard and forced us to watch you all die? you don’t get an opinion we’re going to taco bell
#cr#cr3#cr spoilers#ashton greymoore#the hells have an instawin argument button now#and it’s going to be the funniest shit i’ve ever seen#ashton is never going to be allowed to comment on anyone’s self destruction ever again
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