#and if the anxiety is valid or not

[itsnotmyfaultsomepeoplecantread]

My experience with doctors in a nutshell:

"it's anxiety"

"it's anxiety"

"it's depression AND anxiety

"it's manic-depression"

"it's depression with anxiety"

"it's OCD"

"it's anxiety"

"it might be ADHD?"

"you have weird brain waves"

"it's anxiety"

"it's anxiety"

"it's anxiety"

"it's adhd"

"it's anxiety + adhd"

"it's anxiety + adhd"

"it's autism?"

"it's such bad anxiety that we can't even tell you what it is"

"it's anxiety"

"it's anxiety"

"you have an unknown number medical issues that will definitely get worse, need a bunch of surgeries, definitely have ADHD, and are on the autism spectrum"

You can't find tools and problem-solve if you don't even know what the problem is.

[aimasup]

silly scribbles

he had to think a while on that one

[turns-out-its-adhd]

NEURODIVERSE-SQUAD, ASSEMBLE!

[creativity-deficient]

South Park fans! How many things do you have in common with your favorite character(s)? I’m curious!!

[solpadeinedelusions]

i am so back

[akindplace]

telling my anxious brain that when i face my fears it’s usually a lot less worse than i imagined, and it tells me “sounds fake, bestie, let’s not do it”. and I’m not even mad at it because i know my brain only wants to protect me by avoiding things that might be dangerous, but it’s still frustrating. facing whatever makes me anxious is something i’m proud of and it does get a little easier with time to do stuff even tho i’m scared, but i’m still scared and it’s tiring. so if you did something today even tho you were anxious i just wanna say i’m proud of you even if it was something “small” because anxiety distorts simple stuff into really threatening things and i hope you can get some rest and give yourself a little treat in recognition of your efforts even if other people don’t know what you go through internally to get things done

[dollypopup]

hm. idk, maybe the reason Luke Newton isn't announcing new projects or posting any Bridgerton content is because some of you demons treated him like hot trash instead of a creative that you wanted more work from and he decided fuck it, this isn't worth the stress. you know, like a lot of creatives who get mistreated do?

like this is a man who went from couch surfing in a friend's house and bartending to make ends meet, deciding that the Bridgerton audition was the last one he'd do before he quit, to suddenly being recognized on the street because that last audition propelled him to star in a global show where fans who have zero media comprehension blamed him for his character's actions and literally stalked him at any hotel he happens to stay at. he went from being a dude doing musical theatre and shopping at thrift stores and recording random songs with friends and posting silly memes on Twitter to being harassed on his only social media page and his friends insulted and his partners bullied by his supposed 'fans' and anything he posts being so microanalyzed that he can't do a damn thing without someone coming out the woodwork screaming about how he's the WORST and won't he think of the FANS!?

like damn he can't have a girlfriend without being harassed, he can't travel without being harassed, he can't like or not like social media posts without being harassed, he can't post a fucking MEME without being harassed, he can't take a vacation or cut his hair or hold someone's hand or just live his life without being blamed for some bullshit or another. but yeah, okay, 'when will Luke Newton come back?' as if it isn't your fault he's AWOL now

[ibringthepoptothecinema]

I wish I had someone to text every time Dan and Phil do something.

Like it drives me insane not having anyone to freak out with

[crybaby-bkg]

have u ever considered gojo trying to tease you about how into it you get whenever you suck him off, but how flustered he gets when you admit yeah, I like it more than I thought i would, mainly because it’s you, because you’re so pretty to look up at, you always treats me so well when I’m on my knees for you. now you’ve killed him, especially with the way you’ve been touching yourself all the while running your tongue up at that one vein on his shaft. dead. gone and buried.

[maypersonne]

Shang Qinghua really does think that he is unlovable huh

He really thinks that he is of no value to anyone if he isn't making himself useful he will be disposed off and that will be it

He genuinely believes no would ever want him so he manipulate and posture as a lesser so to be seen as a necessary annoyance rather than the pest he believes himself to be

He hates all the work he has to do but he prefers exhaustion to the paranoia and anxiety that eat him up when he isn't showcasing his value

He is in a constant battle just to be acceptable rather than loved so he can just be in the presence of those who are dear to him

Like damn like father like son I can see where binghe got all his issues like airplane bro stop unloading it all on your OCs look you gave the poor dear anxiety

[thepeacefulgarden]

[tending-the-hearth]

thinking about echo reuniting with the bad batch on pabu after getting a frantic message from hunter that just says "she's home"

and he throws himself and rex into their ship and gets to pabu as fast as he can, flying on instinct and completely in shock the entire way there. and part of him is terrified, terrified that hunter saying she's home but she's... gone.

then they land on pabu, and echo looks out and can see hunter and wrecker, both with less tension in their shoulders, and at hunter's side, looking positively radiant, tears covering her cheeks, is omega, safe, healthy, alive.

and next to wrecker is crosshair, looking slightly worse for wear, but with that same cocky look on his face, the slight smirk, and the stupid toothpick in his mouth.

rex is already telling echo to leave, and echo just runs off the ship, and omega meets him in the middle, and he scoops her up and holds her as tightly as he possibly can. and he opens his eyes and looks over her shoulder, and holds out an arm to crosshair, who's hesitant for all of five seconds before joining the hug, and echo just hugs his two siblings as close to his chest as he can, relishing in the fact that it isn't a dream, that they're actually back home.

because it's the first time in echo's life that he's been separated from his siblings, his batch, and they've returned to him alive.

[magpiesbones]

Hey you know what’s actually just like. SO fucked up?

BECAUSE ALL PUBLIC MAGIC IS DONE DISCREETLY— AND THAT IT IS CANON THAT WITCHES ARE TRAINED TO DRAW WITHOUT LOOKING AT THEIR HANDS— GOING BLIND WOULD NOT MAKE SOMEONE UNABLE TO CAST.

All it would do is make you unable to cast unfamiliar spells or analyze spells you didn’t draw, which while Pretty Big still:

if qifrey got a white cane he would be able to essentially continue functioning like a sighted witch but witch society is SO goddamn ableist not only would this Never occur to him but he would get Judged about it.

[champignonoftheforest]

This is just your daily reminder that your lived experience is valid. No one else gets to speak on if you’ve had it rough or not. No one else gets to tell you that everything you’ve suffered through was for attention. No one gets to tell you that you should’ve just tried harder or been better. No one gets to tell you that someone else having it harder invalidates your own struggle. Your pain is valid. Your struggle is valid. You are valid.

[solpadeinedelusions]

I GOT INTO AN ENGINEERING PROGRAM FOR HIGH SCHOOL GIRLS OMG I'M OFFICIALLY A WOMAN IN STEM‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

(translation: hello! I am pleased to inform you that you have qualified..)

the next line obviously reveals the program which i would like to keep private as it is rather personal information

[akindplace]

You don’t have to be perfect all the time to be worthy of love - you don’t have to earn it in a way that contradicts your own humanity. I’m sorry someone made you feel that way, like you can never accomplish anything unless you are perfect in every way, that you must alway have your guard up and walk on eggshells to please everyone around you so they would deem you worthy of success, of respect, of love, of companionship.

When those basic needs are neglected, you start to believe you haven’t done enough to earn them, and you fall into a spiral trying to please someone who can’t be pleased. But I’m here to tell you that you don’t have to earn these things in the first place, that being imperfect doesn’t make you an unacceptable and inadequate person, it doesn’t make you unlovable. The person who treated you this way was never deserving of your own love, of your desperate attempts to please them. It’s on them, not on you.

The expectations they put on you were so unreachable for any human being, and you were deemed to fail, but not because you were always a failure. They were always so demanding that no one, not even themselves, could reach the desired level of perfection and pleasing behavior they asked of you. It was absolutely unfair for them to do so. And most of all, none of this was your fault. It’s not your behavior that was unacceptable - it was theirs.

You’re not unlovable. And even if their voice echoes through your head a lot repeating those awful things they made you believe about your own worth, I hope you can try to contradict them. You are finding your own voice now, one that tells you that you’re still worthy of love because you’re a human being, just like everyone else, and every person deserves respect and kindness. And slowly, hopefully, we can shift that belief in our inadequacy into one that is kinder and more confident in who we are, because even with all our flaws, we’re not unworthy of love.