#your feelings are valid

[thepeacefulgarden]

[ed-recovery-affirmations]

Just a semi-regular reminder that you do not have to wait until it is "that bad" in order to start pursuing recovery. You don't have to let it get worse in order to count. If it's happening to you, it counts. You matter and you don't have to put yourself through more suffering and a longer, more arduous recovery process (and more lasting damage!) in order to prove that it was bad enough. If you want to get better now, you do not have to get anybody's permission to do it. Healing can start anytime, anywhere, and you do not have to endure any worse in order to deserve better.

[my-autism-adhd-blog]

New to Autism or Possible Autism Diagnosis?

Mrs. Speechie P

[ae-cha08]

[dragonfire42]

Can I also just say kudos for all the mods moderating Good Omens discussions today

[wordsofwisdomandsoul]

[sketchesinstillness]

“If it matters to you, it’s important.” said ladybug. “All Your feelings are valid.

“Don't let anyone tell you

that whatever is hurting right now is not important.”

Stay close to people to whom you do not have to explain why your pain is important. Stay close to people who validate your feelings and to whom you do not have to explain your pain.

[justmeinadaze]

If you've ever lost a parent...

Or even someone you just loved with all your heart...

There is no time limit on grief.

I'm not just saying that to remind you but myself. My father has been gone for about 10 1/2 years and my heart is still so fucking heavy. I miss him every day but holiday season is the hardest especially October because horror movies were always our thing. We went to all the premiere of spooky movies together and during the month Spooky Movie Month (my term lol) he would watch them with me.

Today I caught my internal dialogue saying "Jesus it's been 10 years yet you're still trying not to cry while watching Scream. Get it together."

But then I said "No. I'm allowed to feel what I'm feeling."

It truly is bullshit the stigmas we have in society when it comes to this. You get two weeks off to mourn then you're expected to "get back to normal." You are welcome to go to therapy but don't let it interfere with your life and also hope you can pay for that shit.

It's ridiculous.

Someone I thought was going to be in my life for another 40 to 50 years, who I did almost everything with, and who saved me...died suddenly and I was expected to figure out how to live without that person with no help or guidance...

Yet something's wrong with ME because I still sometimes breakdown at a memory?

If anyone knows what I'm talking about and had experienced this first hand I'm so sorry <3. Your feeling are valid and don't let any make you think otherwise.

[loogi-selfships]

♡︎This is for all my selfshippers who are emotional!

Your F/Os understand that you show your feelings very openly and you express yourself more than others, but they will never judge you for it. They will never see you as someone who is "fragile", they understand you have flaws. You are allowed to express yourself to them. They'll listen to you, they'll comfort you, because they care.

♡︎prøshippers dni♡︎

[midnight-stalker]

Negativity

Negativity: May I have some space?

Positivity: No.

Negativity: Why not?

Positivity: Because you make people feel bad. You cause violence. You are a disease that kills innocents.

Negativity: Im not always bad…sometimes people are going through tough times or bad mindspace and need someone to talk too.

Positivity: Wouldn’t the world be a much better place if we were more positive?

Negativity: Yea, it would be ,but everyone can’t be happy. No one is smiling 24/7. Everyone has different situations and obstacles they’re going through.

Positive: People don’t wanna live stressful lives. They want to relax. To be happy.

Negativity: But-

Positivity: Would you rather live in a world filled with negativity or positivity?

Negativity: …

Positivity: You may not have space.

[thepeacefulgarden]

[yourlovelyspace]

And they're also really important to me 💝

[ae-cha08]

[f1nneas]

Just because something could’ve been worse doesn’t make it not bad !!

[icedteaffee]

It’s my party and I’ll cry if I want to!

Happy 26th Birthday to yours truly 💖

[boo-bonita]

I think it's good to sit back for a moment and reflect. I'm relatively new to this fandom and the whole Undertale au world but I think I can still say something about it.

We still don't know what's going to happen, and don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to belittle how many of you feel about the recent news. I'm very disheartened myself. But it's also worrying how hostile a part of this community can become towards its most prominent creators, and for the most absurd reasons.It's always a huge shame to see the projects you love not come to fruition, but it's much worse when the authors lose enthusiasm for doing it because of harassment.

And what happens if what everyone is fearing really happens? Well, I think this shouldn't be seen as the absolute end but as a turning point in the community that serves as food for thought for all of us; creators and consumers. And it's a absolute shame, i know, but there is a person who is being pushed to the limit right now and they deserve a recess.

The amount of talent this fandom haves is huge, i know that's not an issue here, i know that's not the issue here, many of you have been enjoying this project from years and is painful that maybe it could just vanish away for a big injustice.

But it will be okay.

And i am wishing Jakei the best too.