#your feelings are valid

[catladykt13]

[thepeacefulgarden]

[ed-recovery-affirmations]

Just a semi-regular reminder that you do not have to wait until it is "that bad" in order to start pursuing recovery. You don't have to let it get worse in order to count. If it's happening to you, it counts. You matter and you don't have to put yourself through more suffering and a longer, more arduous recovery process (and more lasting damage!) in order to prove that it was bad enough. If you want to get better now, you do not have to get anybody's permission to do it. Healing can start anytime, anywhere, and you do not have to endure any worse in order to deserve better.

[my-autism-adhd-blog]

New to Autism or Possible Autism Diagnosis?

Mrs. Speechie P

[ae-cha08]

[wordsofwisdomandsoul]

[justmeinadaze]

9 years ago I was hospitalized with suicidal intent.

When I tell people that, they're shocked. "You? But your so cheery. I couldn't imagine." Youd be surprised how many "happy faces" are fighting a battle you are arent aware of.

9 years ago I hit a massive low and I saw no light at the end of my tunnel. I reached out for help and thankfully the people knew what to do.

The more time that passes the more I'm thankful I didn't follow through. There's so much I would have missed and so much life I have yet to experience.

I share this with you because I want you to know you are not alone and if you're ever lost struggling to find the light at the end of your tunnel please reach out for help.

Stay❤

[sketchesinstillness]

“If it matters to you, it’s important.” said ladybug. “All Your feelings are valid.

“Don't let anyone tell you

that whatever is hurting right now is not important.”

Stay close to people to whom you do not have to explain why your pain is important. Stay close to people who validate your feelings and to whom you do not have to explain your pain.

[caidenthewitch]

Failure doesn't mark the end of a path.

Failure doesn't kill your potential.

And most of all..... Failure is not an indicator of your flaws.

If anything, it's a mark of a new beginning. One where you're wiser, smarter, and most of all---- braver.

[loogi-selfships]

♡︎This is for all my selfshippers who are emotional!

Your F/Os understand that you show your feelings very openly and you express yourself more than others, but they will never judge you for it. They will never see you as someone who is "fragile", they understand you have flaws. You are allowed to express yourself to them. They'll listen to you, they'll comfort you, because they care.

♡︎prøshippers dni♡︎

[thepeacefulgarden]

[useless-moss]

It's okay to not call your genetic parents mom or dad. It's okay to call someone who's not genetically your parent mom or dad. It's okay to be petty and refer to the people who caused your birth as incubator or egg donor or sperm donor or something similar.

You are not obligated to call someone your parent when they failed to act like one. You are not obligated to give them respect when they didn't respect you. You are not obligated to give them second changes when they hurt you. You are not obligated to try and keep the bridge intact when they, consciously or not, are setting pyres every two feet.

The people who love you are your family. The people who care for you are your family. And if the people who raised you can't be that, that's okay. There are other people who will. There are other people who will go to the ends of the earth to help you recover and to support you during every step and stumble and every relapse.

You shouldn't have to feel guilt for admitting that someone hurt you. That's not your fault. It never has been, and never will be. It might take time, but things will get better. You are loved, you are wanted, and you deserve to be happy.

[famousflowermagazine]

ok my fellow bakudeku and togaochako shippers just remember no matter what happens we still have the my hero academia fandom and all the amazingly talented content creators no matter what this chapter possibly brings. 

it is okay to be sad / disappointed.

Even feel a little betrayed but please remember with have each other and the amazing fics and fan art that makes this community so amazing.

[ae-cha08]

[midnight-stalker]

Negativity

Negativity: May I have some space?

Positivity: No.

Negativity: Why not?

Positivity: Because you make people feel bad. You cause violence. You are a disease that kills innocents.

Negativity: Im not always bad…sometimes people are going through tough times or bad mindspace and need someone to talk too.

Positivity: Wouldn’t the world be a much better place if we were more positive?

Negativity: Yea, it would be ,but everyone can’t be happy. No one is smiling 24/7. Everyone has different situations and obstacles they’re going through.

Positive: People don’t wanna live stressful lives. They want to relax. To be happy.

Negativity: But-

Positivity: Would you rather live in a world filled with negativity or positivity?

Negativity: …

Positivity: You may not have space.

[justmeinadaze]

If you've ever lost a parent...

Or even someone you just loved with all your heart...

There is no time limit on grief.

I'm not just saying that to remind you but myself. My father has been gone for about 10 1/2 years and my heart is still so fucking heavy. I miss him every day but holiday season is the hardest especially October because horror movies were always our thing. We went to all the premiere of spooky movies together and during the month Spooky Movie Month (my term lol) he would watch them with me.

Today I caught my internal dialogue saying "Jesus it's been 10 years yet you're still trying not to cry while watching Scream. Get it together."

But then I said "No. I'm allowed to feel what I'm feeling."

It truly is bullshit the stigmas we have in society when it comes to this. You get two weeks off to mourn then you're expected to "get back to normal." You are welcome to go to therapy but don't let it interfere with your life and also hope you can pay for that shit.

It's ridiculous.

Someone I thought was going to be in my life for another 40 to 50 years, who I did almost everything with, and who saved me...died suddenly and I was expected to figure out how to live without that person with no help or guidance...

Yet something's wrong with ME because I still sometimes breakdown at a memory?

If anyone knows what I'm talking about and had experienced this first hand I'm so sorry <3. Your feeling are valid and don't let any make you think otherwise.