#abro mlm

[arlosworld91]

Imagine this:

You wake up next to a man, and you’re happy.

[bigayasuka]

Part 2 to this post

Omni gay || omni lesbian

Poly gay || poly lesbian

Abro gay || abro lesbian

[sometrasno]

Bunch of screaming trasnos! These are transparent vinyl stickers, so people can get their own little queer fae yelling at them from wherever they want :] You can use them as icons if you want as well, I just ask for visible credit somewhere on your blog!

[polygamousfistingchaos]

My take on the m-spec gay flags/m-spec gay flag redesigns

m-spec | bi | pan | poly | omni | abro

free to use by anyone, even those who fit my dni. reblogs appreciated

main flag stripe meanings:

[sapphic-sundry]

I HAD A THOUGHT

so I'm abrosexual.

today I was feeling bisexual for the first time IN AGES. like you don't understand how rare that is for me. I messaged this to my friend, who was busy at the time.

then, I had to go out into the real world to do an errand. sad, I know.

when I got home, I messaged my friend again. "home safe. feeling less bisexual by the minute."

my friend then answered back, saying "what does that even mean?"

and I was like, oh my gosh, people won't understand what that means. BUT THEN I HAD A THOUGHT. A METAPHOR THOUGHT.

this is how people usually explain abrosexual:

it's similar to being bisexual, in that it's fluid. but sometimes you can be pan, or ace, or only attracted to one gender, etc. it's like genderfluid but for sexuality.

which is a good explanation! it is! but I thought of a better one.

imagine you've been cursed. (by an evil wizard or fae trickster or old god, whichever you prefer. the origin of the curse is not the point.) (i am not at all saying being abrosexual is a curse, this is just a metaphor to explain it.)

imagine that the curse is that your tastebuds are ever-changing. y'know how like when you get older, you enjoy new things, or maybe hate things you used to love? imagine that's what's happening to your tastebuds, on a daily basis.

you crave different things. sometimes you crave ice cream, or vegetables, or both, or nothing at all.

it's infuriating, because you can't control it.

imagine you have a favorite food. one from before the curse, something you've loved since you were young. let's say it's Reese's peanut butter cups.

HOWEVER. this spell has ruined your tastebuds. for a while now, you've only been craving peanut butter. you stare longingly at chocolate, for you love it. but when you try to eat it, it just doesn't taste right. the joy isn't there. in the past, it has been the opposite. you crave chocolate, but not peanut butter. or even sometimes, you crave nothing at all.

but one shining morning, you wake up craving both. it's a euphoric moment. you say to yourself, I'm going to have a peanut butter cup today. I'm going to enjoy it so much.

but before you can, you get busy. have stuff to do. before you know it, when you're finally done, you think about that peanut butter cup again. you head to a vending machine. then, as you punch in the numbers, you realize something. your craving is dwindling. your stomach drops. you know if you don't hurry, it won't taste good. it will simply be bland. you put the food to your mouth, and - it's too late. you've stopped enjoying chocolate the way you could have. you die inside, a little.

in this metaphor, craving chocolate is attraction to women. craving peanut butter is attraction to men. craving reese's is attraction to both (feeling bisexual.) craving nothing is attraction to no one (feeling asexual.)

this is a horrible metaphor as it equates being asexual/aromantic to not having taste, which is simply untrue. aspec ppl have great taste! they can still have attraction in many ways, and can enjoy things like food, fashion, dragons, and unicorns.

BUT I think it gets the point across.

being abrosexual is like craving different things in an unpredictable way. sometimes it can be really frustrating, and complicated, and downright confusing. a lot of internalized phobia and imposter syndrome is involved.

for me, I consider myself Sapphic, as I love women very much. they're incredible. however, I don't always feel attraction to them the way I'd like to. usually, I find myself drawn more to men, even though I could never really see myself dating one (that isn't fictional.)

so yeah, for anyone wondering, I hope this helps.

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[fairyb0ii]

A. (crush) moved to Venice. I don't know what to do. Should I tell him I love him? Or just stay quiet and be his friend?

[yourfavismspechomohet]

Korekiyo Shinguji from Dangonrompa is an Abro Gay!

[flag-mashups]

Bi Gay + Ply Gay + Abro Gay =

(Please read pinned post before interacting! <3)

Bi Gay - Someone who is Bi and Gay in some way

Ply Gay - Someone who is Ply and Gay in some way

Abro Gay - Someone who is Abro and Gay in some way

[yosh-iro]

mfw i paint my nails and pick a different colour than the one i planned cuz i felt like it would look better and it actually does: !!!!!!!!

[gray-ace-space]

oh hey it me! i've been using omnigay/omnique which is similar, but i think it was coined with mainly genderfluid people in mind. also have seen people use gaybian to describe this

♡ Bigender Split Attraction ♡

Bigender Split Attraction, or Bisplit, can be described as being Bigender and Bisexual, but feeling like a gay man in the masculine aspects of yourself, and a gay woman in the feminine aspects of yourself. The user may fluctuate between the two labels as their presentation fluctuates, and/or feel that the masculine gay identity and feminine lesbian identity are two important parts that make up their identity as a bigender bisexual.

As an example, someone who is Bisplit may feel that a relationship with a guy is distinctly gay, but a relationship with a girl would feel like a distinctly lesbian relationship.

One who identifies with this may also use the labels Abrosexual and/or Homoflexible.

{ Coined for our headmate Adrienne because we haven't been able to find any other terms to express this specific feeling !! PLEASE send in an ask if you have one you think might help us understand ourselves a bit better !!! :D }

[polygamousfistingchaos]

M-spec Uranic flags

m-spec | bi | pan | poly | omni | abro

[dhddmods]

After creating our "I support equality always" design and "Gender and sex are spectrums" design, we are on a roll!

Again, everyone is free to use this design on shirts, stickers, pins, whatever they'd like, as long as they are using it for inclusive purposes! Just don't claim it as your own, please.

The transparent version:

A second version with a background, for easier viewing:

From left to right on the top row, there's:

-Non-binary/genderqueer x women (using the trixic flag & maedic flag) -NB/GQ x men (using the toric flag & adonic flag) -NB/GQ x NB/GQ (using the enbian flag) -WLW (using the sapphic flag) -MLM (using the achillean flag) -WLM/MLM (using the duaric flag)

On the left in the middle segment, there's:

-Objectum (with the red picket fence objectum symbol, using the objectum flag) -Auto-spec (with the heart & circle arrow symbol, using the auto-spec flag)

In the very middle, theres the a-spec compass, using the aspec flag

On right in the middle segment, theres

-The monogamy rings -The ethical non-monogamy heart, using the polyamory colors

On the bottom row, from left to right, theres

-The bi- symbol, using the bi flag -The poly-/ply- symbol, using the poly/ply flag -The pan- symbol, using the pan flag -The omni- symbol, using the omni flag -The abro- symbol, using the abro flag

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[better-next-luck-time]

@gray-ace-space

I feel the need to explain some things. I originally came up with the idea to make the gay lesbian alliance flag because I know a married couple who are a gay man and a lesbian woman (that’s what the flag was originally gonna be for, gay men that marry lesbians but that’s a little too specific and I realized there’s no GLA flag) I looked it up and both flag vaguely resemble flags that already exist, orange and blue aro-ace, pink and green abro sexual. For those of you that don’t know what abro sexual means it’s when your sexuality changes frequently (I’m not good at explaining so I’ll include a screen shot)

Now I thought this was fitting with my original intention, because the couple I know love each other very much but are not sexually attracted to each other, so I figured it’s kind of like a variation on the Abro flag without being an exact copy(like how different Demi flags and aro ace flags share similarities) I also like that flag because it emulates cosmo and Wanda who in my head are a married gay man and lesbian woman who love each other very much. But I am neither gay or lesbian so I thought I’d get the second opinion of the internet.

Flag proposal gay men that marry lesbian women/ gay lesbian alliance flag

[jasper-coins]

Corvian

[PT: corvian. End PT.]

[Image ID 1: a flag with 7 equal horizontal stripes. From top to bottom, the colours go; blue, teal, light green, white, pale yellow, orange, and red. End ID.]

[Image ID 2: a flag with 7 equal horizontal stripes. From top to bottom, the colours go; dark blue, medium blue, blue, white desaturated purple, desaturated medium purple, and desaturated dark purple. End ID.]

[Image ID 3: a flag with 7 equal horizontal stripes. From top to bottom, the colours go; blue, teal, light green, white, blue-purple, blueish medium purple, and dark purple. End ID.]

When someone is "gay in every way/gay in every direction". Corvian is an inherently mspec identity. Someone who is corvian may:

View all their attraction as gay or queer regardless of gender.

Be abro or have fluid or fluctuating attraction/sexuality.

Have a static/non-fluctuating attraction.

Identify with other mspec labels alongside corvian.

Be wlw, mlm, nln, ala, and xelxe, etc. (e.g., multigender people).

Identify as a lesbian, veldian, cenelian, nixian, xenian, varian, etc., as a combo of them, or them all at the same time.

Have specifically veldian attraction towards men, lesbian attraction towards women, cenelian attraction towards nonbinary people, nixian attraction towards genderless people, xenian attraction towards xenogender people, varian attraction towards multigender people, etc.

Be omnique, llenxflux, or genderfluid and change between orientation labels.

Etc.

Named after the constellation, Corvus and corvids, because corvids like to collect things, and I feel that represents this label perfectly.

No specific colour meanings, I did try to take inspiration from the colour of crows and ravens when making the flags though.

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