#m spec mono

[polygamousfistingchaos]

My take on the m-spec gay flags/m-spec gay flag redesigns

m-spec | bi | pan | poly | omni | abro

free to use by anyone, even those who fit my dni. reblogs appreciated

main flag stripe meanings:

[pet-shop-of-horror-fan]

[This is not a discourse post, exclusionist DNI.]

Orientation is as real as gender. Yes, what people feel is real but how it is labeled is not, it’s just something humans made up.

The only exception is if you are using your sexuality to misgender people. (I.E. being a lesbian who likes trans men but not cis men because you see trans men as women or being a gay man who only likes men but also includes some non-binary people, not because some of them are men, but because you don’t think their genders really count.)

Everything else is fine.

It does not matter if it’s a common or uncommon label, or if it is the common historical meaning, or the common modern one, or neither, or if you use it in a way people do not expect you to.

Use one term, use some terms, use many terms, use different terms depending on the context.

It’s all fine.

Gender is fake, orientation is fake, sex is a social construct. Just be kind to yourself and others.

[unknownmothergoose]

lesbian + girlincident (link) - for lesbians that are girls only incidentally

[ID left: A 5 stripe flag with irregular, spikey stripes in purple, orange, salmon, peach, and blue. ID mid: Bugsy from Pokemon over a 5 stripe flag with irregular, spikey stripes in purple, orange, salmon, peach, and blue. ID right: a 5 stripe flag in the colours purple, orange, salmon, peach, and blue. END ID]

please credit me if using. i do not allow reposts to pinterest, archives, or wikis.

[glitchedstars]

honestly I don't think we'll ever have a DNI Like sure we'll have a DNI on specific posts - but for our whole blog? no way Like if I coin a term, who am I to say that some people aren't allowed to use it? That would just be rude of me! But I make a post specifically about how m-spec monos are amazing or endo positivity (edit: or anything else that's relevant to mention here that we forgot)? I don't want exclusionists touching that post So yeah- not quite sure where I was going with this but uh yeah that kinda I suppose!

[pet-shop-of-horror-fan]

I have yet to see someone upset by the term momosexual who was not some kind of exclusionist.

Monosexual isn't a bad word your just a crybaby and you sound like the cis people who don't wanna be called cis

[theflaggerrrr]

things like m - spec mono , genres that are difficult to understand etc , as some people call these bad faith id !

dw , its nothing bad

" Bad Faith "

A term for people who consider their queer identity to be in "bad faith", in a reclaiming way. This includes being mspec-mono, a lesboy/turigirl/etc., being agender/non-binary and binary-aligned, and much more.

[ID: A transparent image that says "Willy holds no DNI, but is not afraid to block." with a picture of the account's mascot (mentioned in the introduction) upside down.]

[007isproendo]

Pinned intro

Hey. We are a former anti-endo that became pro-endo. We are still learning about m-spec mono and contradictory labels. Feel free to correct us if we say any bullshits. We are anti radqueers and anti-pro/com/darkshipper/fic.

We are a C-DID system, but we do not feel like we are that disordered ourselves. We are traumaendo, with a lot more of traumagenic origins than endogenic ones but they are still here. We have little to no empathy for people we are not close to. We don't use tonetags and we don't want them to be used on us. We will use tone clarificators and that is what we ask you to use on us.

Under the cut, you will see information about us. (Headmates who will use this account the most will have a separate introduction).

System introduction:

We are only "out" on Tumbrl and Discord. We won't give any other social of ours.

System name: The M16 System Collective names: بوماني, James, Муудсан, Собака and 007 Collective titles: It who is rotten, The rotting God, بوماني who bites and Муудсан/He who is an agent Collective pronouns: it/he/rot/dog/paw/h3/they/spy/Q/hi

Nationality/origins: Slavic, Mongolian, Egyptian Genders: intersex, transmasc, (noviaeus)[https://pin.it/51DxwF2RD], (rotboy)[https://www.tumblr.com/lovesse/723358810895433728/gifts-from-the-angels-above-me-%E3%85%A4?source=share], (dog intersex)[https://pin.it/2Lw3KHCop] Sexuality: Achillean, demi-romantic Terms: non human, dog + masc ones preferred

Disorders: auADHD, (NPD-ish)[https://pin.it/5AiPi2rq0], hypersexal, photophobic Plural terms: we don't care, just don't use parts, personalities or pwDID Genic labels:

Traumagenic ones;

(Apagenic)[https://pluralpedia.org/w/Apagenic], (cultgenic)[https://pluralpedia.org/w/Cultgenic], ,(edugenic)[https://pluralpedia.org/w/Edugenic], (mentagenic)[https://pluralpedia.org/w/Mentagenic],

Endogenic ones:

(Luckgenic)[https://pluralpedia.org/w/Luckgenic], (autigenic)[https://pluralpedia.org/w/Autigenic]

Not sharing body age, just if you are 19+ don't DM us and everyone keep all interaction SFW.

Just a short DNI list:

Radqueers, along with transIDs supporters Transmeds People who don't translate typing quirks People who demonize disorders Fake-claimers Ableists Com/pro/darkshipper/fic. Basic DNIs criteria ig

[aplatonic-culture-is]

So, I just found out about the demiplatonic label through one of your posts.

Kinda a long rant here but, I mean, I remember when in middle school I first met a kid and we hung out for a bit, and she seemed cool until she just started announcing me to other people as her friend and... I was just kinda turned off by that? It's not like I disliked her, but I barely knew her. After that being around her felt awkward for some time before we eventually got back to hanging out a bit. But would that make me deniplatonic or was I just put into a weird position? I mean, all of the people I've ever wanted to be friends with are people I've had to hangout with for a few times before I became attached. Crap, I didn't even know aplatonic was apparently a spectrum, the only mention I've seen of one prior to today was a sort of answer to an example question that went along the lines of "I'm not aplatonic but my platonic attraction is exclusive to (xyz)" which the response was along the lines of "Don't even start. If you're going to use a label, use alloplatonic," so I just straight up thought it was an offensive thing towards aplatonic people to suggest.

You very well could be demiplatonic, it's up to you and how you decide to identify :)

And it's not offensive at all, aplatonic is a broad label and similar to other aspec identities, is absolutely a spectrum and is soley determined by the user of the label for themselves. Those who only experience platonic attraction to certain genders are absolutely apl-spec (if they so choose to use this label) and nobody else gets to make that call.

Additionally, those who actually support aplatonic individuals would not try to draw all these rigid lines around us. Much like with other queer labels, we will have complicated and varying experiences with the same concept, and identify ourselves with labels in a way that make sense to us.

On that note, this blog supports m-spec monos, gaybians, straightbians and turihets, lesboys and turigirls, and other queer identities which are often deemed controversial. Being queer has never been about these rigid lines that are enforced by other people. I would trust an allocishet who is trying their best to be an ally (and sometimes gets it wrong) way more than another queer person that decides to police the labels of other queer people for the sake of purity or whatever they want to call it.

[our-lesboy-experience]

do you know if lesboy/turigirl, m-spec monos, gaybian ect go under any specific group name? or is it just contradictory labels / good faith labels identities?

people normally just group them together under "contradictory" labels or "good faith identities", mostly since discussions around them are so similar (though I don't particularly care for it)

[polygamousfistingchaos]

M spec Turigirl flags

[plain text: multi spectrum turian girl flags]

m spec | bi | pan | poly | omni | abro

[pet-shop-of-horror-fan]

Love how some non-binaries are called homophobic for wanting to date mono-gay people while others are called homophobic for not wanting to date mono-gay people.

Also love that everyone will gut you for using the term mono.

I just love this so much for us.

(Note: This post is sarcastic.)

[ryanyflags]

Multi-spec (m-spec) mono-spec related masterpost

I realised I've made a lot of different m-spec mono-spec flags, so here's a list of them all in one place.

They are listed as m-spec here, but most of the links include multi-spec/m-spec, bi, ply (poly), omni, pan, and abro specific variants. (I also include abro here, though abro isn't necessarily m-spec, just fluid orientation, because it can include m-spec.)

m-spec equaric

m-spec achillean

m-spec achilligirl

m-spec sapphic

m-spec sapphboy

m-spec sapphillean

m-spec cenelian

m-spec celarsian

m-spec duaric

m-spec jeularian

m-spec straightgay

m-spec straightrian/straightdian (straight turian/veldian)

m-spec straightbian (straight lesbian)

m-spec straightlian/straightcelian (straight cenelian)

m-spec straightlaurian (straight velaurian)

quasic (mspec cenelian) (from the astral alignments system)

[vocalux]

SlothQueer - ( 🦥🌈 / 🌈🦥 / 🦥🌳 )SlothQueer is a Queer Stance related to being too lazy to enter into discussions or caring about how others will label themselves !

SlothQueer ;;

Pro-xeno(gender)(ids)(sonas)

Pro-para(anti-contact)

Pro-ship

Pro-trans(id)

Pro-alterhumans

Pro-MUD coining

Pro-self-diagnosis(with study, obviously)

Pro-contraditory labels(m-spec mono, for exemple)

Pro-neopronouns

Respect all ethnicities, races, labels, women, etc

Just let people live they life

Don't like, block/don't see n continue living

Thinks people shouldn't hide themselves, no matter how they identify

And we FUCKING HATE MATH/hj

Anti-nazi

Anti-harass

Anti-bigotry of any kind

Anti-anti-xeno

Anti-using label to spread hate

Anti-bad faith identities/labes made to spread hate, exclude or mock othersㅤ

ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ• • •

SlothQueer people often shy away from discussions, pretend to agree with other people's opinions, or don't say anything just to avoid having to get into an argument !

ㅤ• • •

There probably already exists a label like this, but I wanted to make my own.. /⁠ᐠ⁠｡⁠ꞈ⁠｡⁠ᐟ���\

and sorry if you're confused, I'm terrible with these things

@blankqueer Reposted ✅

[cannicullistic]

Guidelines to Blog & Related

Hey there! Welcome to the blog.

To start things off; my name is Calix, I'm 22 years old, and this is an 18+ SPACE AND BLOG. This account/blog is NOT safe for minors, and I advise heavily that any minors finding my blog should not interact with me or my media and posts. I will block you if I figure out you followed me and are a minor individual.

small edit: seems people dont understand, but i block minors who reblog/like/follow me and my posts. cause i dont fuck with that, ty.

Without further ado, below is the (long lmao) list of what this blog supports and doesn't. Please mind them, and block me if you got a problem. If you come to my blog expecting SFW content.. you're in for a ride lmao Good Luck.

THIS BLOG SUPPORTS:

endogenic systems, plural systems & medians

disordered, non-disordered, and more systems

self diagnosis and self exploration

weed use in moderation, same for alcohol

non-humans, therians, alterhumanity, furries and related

mogai, lgbtqia+ & queer community/individuals

bipoc individuals & system members

disabled bodies and their experience/s

ramcoa survivors

xeno, neo, and more identities/pronouns of GOOD faith

neutral-contact with (fellow) paraphiliacs (no big 3!)

m-spec lesbians, mono's & identities

overlapping and/or contradictory labels (of good faith)

freedom of fiction (comship) [educate yourself before interacting]

dark/horrific/mature/explicit content

mcyt fans/alters (NOTE: we will not post mcyt content, but we understand not EVERYONE in the mcyt fanbase is horrible. HOWEVER, we ask that dsmp fans kindly dni. that one we dont touch for Good Reason. Got a problem with this? Block our blog!)

THIS BLOG DOES NOT SUPPORT:

transid's that are contradictory labels that (tend to) de-value the actuality of others identity [i.e 'transdisorder' where an individual says they have BPD by choice.. this would ultimately de-value the experience of others like us, who have BPD, and make it seem like those with BPD had a choice in the beginning to 'act on' having the mental condition or not. BPD like other disorders are not something you just want, or can choose for yourself, unlike actual identifying factors like gender, pronouns, and attraction labels.] (transdisorder, transautism, transadhd, transpsychosis, transabled, transage, transrace, transharm, possibly others..)

the big 3 paraphilias (pedo/necro/zoo)

those who push their ideas/identities onto others and/or those who try to manipulate others to believe/do what they do

ramcoa programmers/enablers/abusers

sysmedicalists/syscourse debaters and related

do not use or misuse tone tags on purpose to manipulate

anti-growth or anti-betterment for those with disorders or experience ramcoa and related

manipulaters, guilt trippers, 'want-a-reaction' baiters, ill faith/intent apologizers/appropriating people

ill faith identities, and ill intent individuals

anti's of most to all extent (anti-xeno, anti-neo, anti-plural, anti-lgbtqia+, generally just bigots in general (those who want to invalidate others experiences typically in the wrong way))

maps, aams, ableist, sexist, racist, terf/swerf, truscum, ill faith identities/ill intent people, witch hunters, anti-posic+ and objectum, anti-comship, anti-mspec, anti-self diagnosis, negative impacting religious people (hardcore christians), highly political individuals or those that force the topic, anti-"sex work is real work", cultists, anti-spiritualism, anti-furry and anti-therian/alterhumanity individuals

People who read the list in full are free to interact & ask. Otherwise we ask assholes and ill-faith people to DNI.

Thank you for checking me out; This blog will likely just be a catch-all for me and my system. We may make art, post fiction, or updates to worldbuilds/paracosms ect.. We welcome you to our blog, just mind the list above!

[profoundlyconfusedbeing]

I would love to see more “not as much represented or less common m-spec identities” as headcanons for characters.

Like pan, onmi, poly? I love these headcanons so much, but they aren’t that common. (Not mentioned microlabels are obviously included here as well! Microlabel headcanons are very cool!) Or things like “this character is totally queer, but they would rather die than decide on a label. They are just unlabeled. And they love it”

I love bi headcanons. Bi headcanons for characters are cool and dandy and everything. Don’t get me wrong. It’s just a lot of the times it’s peoples go to headcanon when characters are implied to be m-spec in the source material, but there is not a specific label put onto them, and then it gets treated like it’s canon. When it’s not.

Anyway, give me more m-spec headcanons that aren’t bi. Or give me more interconnected ones. Like aspec identities with m-spec identities combined.

This is not to say there is a right way to have queer headcanons. Obviously! And it is 100% fine to headcanon characters as bi. There are no rules to queer headcanons. (Maybe except for erasing a canon queer identity. Like headcanoning canonly m-spec characters as mono. That doesn’t apply to making the identity more complex. Ex. Saying they identify with multiple labels.)

[vlada-slavik]

Hey! I just wanted to ask you something cause in your dni/byf you say this:

And I was wondering if that's an error? Because m-spec means multisexual spectrum, so bisexuality, pansexuality, etc.

And I assume you mean 'm-spec mono', like bisexual lesbians? :) (monosexual means sexual attraction to only one gender)

/info /genuine question

OH YEAH, I didn't notice that I said just m-spec without mono 😭😭 I also feel like changing it to just supporting because it's not even as confusing as other identities,,, and yeah, I meant stuff like bi lesbians and other ones (either fluid sexualities/romantic attraction or those who use split attraction system)!!

Thanks for noticing!!!! /pos