#Self-reflection techniques

[cyber-soul-smartz]

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[unique-and-amazing-001]

Finding a soulmate is a deeply personal and subjective experience, and it can be different for everyone. While there is no foolproof method for finding a soulmate, here are five approaches you can consider:

Self-Reflection and Personal Growth: Before seeking a soulmate, it's important to have a clear understanding of yourself, your values, and your goals in life. Engage in self-reflection, explore your passions, and work on personal growth. When you know yourself well, you are more likely to attract someone who aligns with your true self.

Socialize and Expand Your Circle: Put yourself out there and engage in activities that interest you. Attend social events, join clubs, or take up new hobbies where you can meet like-minded individuals. By expanding your social circle, you increase the chances of connecting with someone who shares your interests and values.

Open Communication and Authenticity: When you meet someone new, strive for open and honest communication. Be authentic and genuine in your interactions. Share your thoughts, dreams, and vulnerabilities. This openness fosters deeper connections and allows you to find someone who appreciates you for who you truly are.

Patience and Intuition: Finding a soulmate often requires patience. Allow the relationship to unfold naturally and avoid rushing into commitments. Listen to your intuition and pay attention to how you feel when you're with someone. Trust your instincts and seek a connection that feels right and harmonious.

Compatibility and Shared Values: Look for compatibility and shared values when getting to know someone. While differences can be enriching, a strong foundation of common values can help build a lasting and fulfilling relationship. Consider qualities such as trust, respect, kindness, empathy, and shared life goals.

Remember, finding a soulmate is a journey that may take time, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach. Stay open-minded, enjoy the process, and focus on building a strong connection based on love, trust, and understanding.

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[pangyham]

been thinking about the liyue gang and how id draw their physical builds so here are some thoughts i had for xy cy and gm in particular

- xingqiu, unsurprisingly, would be quite lanky. i like to think he has broad-ish shoulders, like a thin athlete's build? hes a long boy to me haha, long face, neck, limbs, fingers etc, so naturally hes stands (comparatively) tall at 5'6" or 5'7"

i like to think hes most physically attractive one and has that handsome princely and boyish charm to him because it adds a lot to his fuckass duality LOL

- chongyun is a lot like xiao imo! short stature but with muscular arms. he seems nimble and flexible because of his normal attack animations (which bears a lot of similarities to xiao's actually! this + the fact that chongyun's normal attacks create gusts of wind further reinforces my hc that xiao trains him). sometimes i watch high energy choreography vids on youtube and some dancers look incredibly light on their feet, almost like their body is inherently bouncy? and i imagine chongyun to have that agility to him. chongyun has a delicate face and aura and i let that bleed into my hcs for his fighting style and physical capabilities hahaha. hes kind of like a cat who's deceptively strong. as for height.. just a few inches taller than xiao, so perceptibly short at 5'4"

- ga ming my new beloved. pretty much similar to chongyun but more muscular and stronger just because he wields his claymore with ease. theres a noticeable weight different between cy and his claymore the way he lugs it up after he swings (or even other claymore users like razor who, on his last hit, bounces from impact). meanwhile ga ming literally slams his to the ground LOL. i love his movements though hes very swift and expressive and radiant.. if cy has delicate movements then ga ming's is fierce and (charmingly!) assertive

ga ming is wonderfully charismatic though, i know hes not well known in liyue harbor yet, but he seems like the type to gain a reputation from his friendliness. how could no one adore him hahaha. 5'5" for height! just between xy and xq

[praiseinchains]

Gratitude Journal Entry (8/6/24)

Today I'm Grateful For:

*When I woke up this morning, I had an email from the publishing company who I did the poetry challenge with and they said that they see a lot of potential in it, so that made me happy :-) I just have to go through and sign off on the rough draft and the cover and then it'll be one step closer to getting the paperback version published.

*I had my therapy session today and while I was dreading it all week, I'm glad I didn't cancel. I was honest with my therapist and told her how I didn't feel like the tapping was doing much for me. When I do the tapping on my own -- just for keeping myself grounded or thinking of my happy place to help me stay calm or whatever -- it's different, but I haven't gotten much use out of it in our sessions. She understood and agreed to try something else called Flashing. It's a variation of EMDR and oh my gosh, I loved it so much! Just having one session of it I could tell it made a difference. I do occasionally get teary during our sessions, but nothing I'm not able to take control of. I actually cried a bit today and afterward I just basically had like a mini breakdown. It felt so freeing, and it was definitely needed, and I can't wait to do more of it. It will definitely be part of my nightly routine. It's not something I want to do in the morning or even the afternoon because I'm processing so much emotionally that it leaves me absolutely drained.

*Just for the day I had. It was quite productive (for ME, anyway) and enjoyable.

Something I'm Proud Of:

I'm proud of myself for speaking up and being honest with my therapist. I'm not one who likes to do that sort of thing. I was never taught to speak up for myself for anything, so it's always really hard and scary and I'm always afraid I'll look like a complete idiot or something, but I'm very proud of myself for taking that leap because it led to something new and something I can tell will definitely help me on the path to healing.

Tomorrow I'm Looking Forward To:

I'm finishing my next book by Simone St. James, The Book of Cold Cases. I'm just a little over halfway through, so I'll be doing a lot of reading tomorrow, but I love the author so much that I know it'll be enjoyable.

Daily Affirmation:

I embrace my progress and celebrate the strength and joy that guide me forward.

[tayfabe75]

"It's slightly reflective - the record. I think at times, I'm obviously not there. I'm kind of, you know, it's like the… it's like the um, the analysis of like, a Polaroid, you know? The kind of faded splendor of a memory. Something that I'm trying to carry through to the next record, really."

August 5, 2014: Matty compares the reflective nature of The 1975's debut album to a Polaroid picture. (source)

[athenavalor]

Stoicism Stops Overthinking

Stoicism to the Rescue: How Ancient Wisdom Can Quiet Your Mind Hello, fellow thinker! Ever find yourself caught in the whirlwind of your thoughts? You know, those nights when your brain decides to run a marathon at 3 AM? Well, guess what? There’s a way to quiet that mental noise, and it comes from a bunch of folks in ancient times who were surprisingly calm and collected: the Stoics. Let’s dive…

[myinnerzen]

I came across a FREE mindfulness training course that I found to be extremely helpful and inspirational, By sharing this core training I hope it will be as helpful to others as it has become for myself.

It is called **The Unified Mindfulness CORE Training** and it is an interactive online program that teaches you how to use meditation and skills for mindfulness¹. It is based on the system developed by Shinzen Young, a renowned meditation teacher and neuroscientist¹. The course consists of **10 video-based lessons**, each with its own self-paced quiz designed to test and reinforce what you’ve learned in each video¹³. It is suitable for both beginners and experienced meditators who want to explore the Unified Mindfulness system.

[ignorantsackofeyeballs]

Yes I have a STEM degree and also I’m an astrology bitch now. Nothing has made more sense to me than my moon sign being Gemini.

[syntonylife]

The Unfolding of a Thought

Ok, I decided to start writing this post even though I have very little time, and I really have a million things to do. More than a post, perhaps this will be a booster post: short, intense and energetic. I need to really gather all my energy for this. All the positive and negative energies that I have inside me, as they are all needed! Maybe I can’t explain everything exactly, but I’m sure I…

[gatewayofhealing92]

The Art of Self-Discovery: 5 Tips to Uncover Your True Self

Explore the art of self-discovery with these 5 essential tips to uncover your true self. In a world filled with distractions, it's vital to pause and reflect on who you are, what you want, and your purpose in life. Self-discovery involves delving deep into your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs, gaining a profound understanding of your strengths, weaknesses, passions, and purpose.

[selfhelp4all]

From Skeptic to Believer: My Journey with the Devotion System - A Review

By : devotionsystem.com

REVIEW OF "THE DEVOTION SYSTEM" BY AMY NORTH

OVERALL: 9.7 / 10 EFFECTIVENESS: 9.9 / 10 FORMAT: 9.4 / 10 VALUE: 9.7 / 10

SUMMARY:

The Devotion System by Amy North is a welcome addition to the online world of relationship advice. A professional relationship coach by trade, Ms. North offers up her own comprehensive advice on how to find, keep, and nurture a loving relationship to women everywhere in this info-packed first ebook. It's easily the best program of its kind, and is guaranteed to be very helpful for any woman struggling to find and keep a quality man.

FULL REVIEW:

It’s hard to imagine a better, more comprehensive guide to finding and keeping a soulmate than Amy North's new program called "The Devotion System". Simply put, the innovative techniques and little-known tricks included in The Devotion System program give any woman the tools necessary to find her soulmate and build a loving relationship with him.

The Devotion System contains advice on arguably every aspect of dating for women; from getting a guy’s number and sending the first text to how to bring up the ‘M word’ (yes, the dreaded marriage talk); from keeping things sexy after children to preventing infidelity long-term. This book has advice for every woman at any stage in her quest to find love.

Maybe it’s me, but there don’t seem to be many women in the dating advice business.... or at least, there aren't many that actually offer any new advice or techniques outside of what you can already find in Cosmo magazine. That’s one reason why I found The Devotion System so refreshing. Amy North is a woman’s woman– smart, insightful and straightforward, she tells it like it is, and she cares about her clients. That fact is clear from the very beginning.

The book is divided into 3 parts, and the first is devoted completely to the importance of self-love and letting go of hang-ups and unhealthy behaviors in order to successfully find a loving relationship that lasts. North goes into great depth about the problems previous “relationship hangovers” can cause– both to one’s present happiness and future relationships– and the advice she provides in this section alone is of major value. Reading advice from a woman concerned with empowering women and helping them get what they want is a great place to start.

Add to that parts 2 and 3 (on understanding men and achieving love and commitment respectively), and you have yourself an insightful collection of advice and information that you can use over and over at different stages of your life and relationship(s).

As a relationship and dating coach, Amy North also enjoys insight from the men she works with, so there are several sections that provide information on male psychology, too. From common male fears and insecurities to their true sexual and intimacy-related desires, she offers readers a wealth of knowledge on the men they could be dating – including profiles on typical “types” and what to expect from them.

Add to that actionable psychology- and science-based tips on texting, flirting, reading him, seducing him, satisfying him and more, and you have a book that will prove useful to its owner again and again. This stuff actually works, too -- the new strategies Amy covers in The Devotion System were very effective when put to use in the real world.

If there’s a flaw to this book, it’s that there’s no physical version available yet. Currently, The Devotion System is only available in online e-book format, so if you want a paper copy for now you’ll have to print it yourself. That said, this also means that buyers get access to the program within a minute or two of completing the registration process, even if it's 3am and you're lying in bed.

The program itself is nicely divided into bite-size sections organized across The Devotion System’s private and personalized client-accessed website, making chapters easy to locate and revisit. Overall, even though the format of the program was the area given the lowest score (9.4 out of 10) in our ratings, it is still the among the best out there in terms of ease-of-use and overall presentation.

Not only that, but the book currently comes with technical and customer support included and several other bonuses, including a 13-part video training series and 3 bonus ebooks including Cheat-Proofing Your Relationship in the package.

For a limited time, The Devotion System is also being sold at a heavily-discounted introductory price of $48.25, which is a steal by any standards. Amy North also offers an unconditional 60 day money back guarantee with every copy of the program, so there's no risk to trying it out for yourself.... which means that, when you add it all up, this book is a must-have and easily the best women's dating guide available.

[theambitiouswoman]

How To Become A Brand New Person ✨✨

Self Reflect:

Journal daily.

Think about past decisions and how they impacted your life.

Meditate regularly.

Create a vision board to visualize your goals.

Review your strengths and weaknesses.

Identify your core values and beliefs.

Figure out your passions and interests.

Think about your childhood dreams and aspirations.

Evaluate your current state of happiness and fulfillment.

Set Clear Goals:

Define specific career goals, like "Get promoted within two years."

Set health goals, like "Lose 20 pounds in six months."

Create financial goals such as "Save $10,000 for a vacation."

Establish personal development goals, like "Read 24 books in a year."

Set relationship goals, such as "Improve communication with my partner."

Define education goals, like "Complete a master's degree in three years."

Set travel goals, like "Visit five new countries in the next two years."

Create hobbies and interests goals, such as "Learn to play a musical instrument."

Set community or volunteer goals, like "Volunteer 100 hours this year."

Establish mindfulness or self-care goals, such as "Practice meditation daily."

Self Care:

Exercise for at least 30 minutes a day.

Follow a balanced diet with plenty of fruits and vegetables.

Prioritize getting 7-9 hours of quality sleep each night.

Practice in relaxation techniques like deep breathing or yoga.

Take regular breaks at work to avoid burnout.

Schedule "me time" for activities you enjoy.

Limit exposure to stressors and toxic people.

Practice regular skincare and grooming routines.

Seek regular medical check-ups and screenings.

Stay hydrated by drinking enough water daily.

Personal Development:

Read a book every month from various genres.

Attend workshops or seminars on topics of interest.

Learn a new language or musical instrument.

Take online courses to acquire new skills.

Set aside time for daily reflection and self improvement.

Seek a mentor in your field for guidance.

Attend conferences and networking events.

Start a side project or hobby to expand your abilities.

Practice public speaking or communication skills.

Do creative activities like painting, writing, or photography.

Create a Support System:

Build a close knit group of friends who uplift and inspire you.

Join clubs or organizations aligned with your interests.

Connect with a mentor or life coach.

Attend family gatherings to maintain bonds.

Be open and honest in your communication with loved ones.

Seek advice from trusted colleagues or supervisors.

Attend support groups for specific challenges (e.g., addiction recovery).

Cultivate online connections through social media.

Find a therapist or counselor for emotional support.

Participate in community or volunteer activities to meet like minded people.

Change Habits:

Cut back on sugary or processed foods.

Reduce screen time and increase physical activity.

Practice gratitude by keeping a daily journal.

Manage stress through mindfulness meditation.

Limit procrastination by setting specific deadlines.

Reduce negative self-talk by practicing self-compassion.

Establish a regular exercise routine.

Create a budget and stick to it.

Develop a morning and evening routine for consistency.

Overcome Fear and Self Doubt:

Face a specific fear head-on (example: public speaking).

Challenge your negative thoughts with positive affirmations.

Seek therapy to address underlying fears or traumas.

Take small, calculated risks to build confidence.

Visualize success in challenging situations.

Surround yourself with supportive and encouraging people.

Journal about your fears and doubts to gain clarity.

Celebrate your accomplishments, no matter how small.

Focus on your strengths and accomplishments.

Embrace failure as a valuable learning experience.

Embrace Change:

Relocate to a new city or country.

Switch careers or industries to pursue your passion.

Take on leadership roles in your workplace.

Volunteer for projects outside your comfort zone.

Embrace new technologies and digital tools.

Travel to unfamiliar destinations.

Start a new hobby or creative endeavor.

Change your daily routine to add variety.

Adjust your mindset to see change as an opportunity.

Seek out diverse perspectives and viewpoints.

Practice Gratitude:

Write down three things you're grateful for each day.

Express gratitude to loved ones regularly.

Create a gratitude jar and add notes of appreciation.

Reflect on the positive aspects of challenging situations.

Show gratitude by volunteering or helping others in need.

Send thank-you notes or messages to people who've helped you.

Keep a gratitude journal and review it regularly.

Share your gratitude openly during family meals or gatherings.

Focus on the present moment and appreciate the little things.

Practice gratitude even in times of adversity.

Be Patient:

Set realistic expectations for your progress.

Accept that personal growth takes time.

Focus on the journey rather than the destination.

Learn from setbacks and view them as opportunities to improve.

Celebrate small milestones along the way.

Practice self-compassion during challenging times.

Stay committed to your goals, even when progress is slow.

Keep a journal to track your personal growth.

Recognize that patience is a valuable skill in personal transformation.

Celebrate Small Wins:

Treat yourself to your favorite meal or dessert.

Reward yourself with a spa day or self-care activity.

Share your achievements with friends and loved ones.

Create a vision board to visualize your successes.

Acknowledge and congratulate yourself in a journal.

Give yourself permission to take a break and relax.

Display reminders of your accomplishments in your workspace.

Take a day off to celebrate a major milestone.

Host a small gathering to mark your achievements.

Set aside time to reflect on how far you've come.

Maintain Balance:

Set clear boundaries in your personal and work life.

Prioritize self care activities in your daily routine.

Schedule regular breaks and downtime.

Learn to say "no" when necessary to avoid overcommitment.

Evaluate your work life balance regularly.

Seek support from friends and family to avoid burnout.

Be kind to yourself and accept imperfections.

Practice mindfulness to stay present and grounded.

Revisit your priorities and adjust them as needed.

Embrace self love and self acceptance as part of your daily life.

[abundancemanifestation]

Using Visualization for Setting and Achieving Goals

Using Visualization for Setting and Achieving Goals Visualization is a powerful tool that can greatly contribute to goal setting and achievement. By harnessing the power of imagination, visualization allows individuals to create a mental picture of their desired outcomes and experiences. Whether it’s reaching a personal milestone, achieving professional success, or realizing a lifelong dream,…

[livingwellnessblog]

Breaking the Manifestation Desperation Cycle: A Down-to-Earth, Heart-Centered Perspective

: Breaking the Manifestation Desperation Cycle: A Down-to-Earth Heart Centered Perspective

Breaking the Manifestation Desperation Cycle: A Down-to-Earth, Heart-Centered Perspective In the world of self-improvement and personal development, the concept of manifestation has gained significant popularity. Many people are drawn to the idea of manifesting their dreams and desires, believing that they can have whatever they want. However, this pursuit of manifestation often leads to a cycle…

[praiseinchains]

Embracing Both Sides

I know I've been a bit MIA over the past couple of weeks, and I apologize, but I've been going through a lot emotionally. Also, I've just been feeling unwell due to my sinus infection (thankfully it's getting better!)

When I first discovered the poetry challenge, I was filled with such excitement and hope because I had wanted a chance to share my story with others. I had originally thought of writing a book about it, but it just wasn’t coming together. When I came across the poetry challenge, it just felt like it was meant to be. I already had most of the front of the book done (dedication, acknowledgments, and all that) and the stuff I didn’t have done came together so quickly.

I had this horrible misconception that, because I’d been writing for about 16 years and loved writing so much, that it would be like really easy to pop out 21 poems. it would take maybe an hour or an hour and a half tops. I was quickly corrected of that misconception. What I thought would be so easy took me nearly all day, meaning I was forced to confront and think about everything that had happened in my life and all the emotions I had experienced. It wasn’t as difficult as I thought. It was fun and meaningful because all I thought about was that someone might find inspiration in my journey. When I finally finished it, I felt so liberated and that I had accomplished something incredible and meaningful.

I rode on those feelings for a few days before I started noticing a shift. I felt more depressed and angrier, and I didn’t know why. Yes, going through all that was hard, but the thing that made me the angriest was thinking about how my poetry (which will soon be published into a book) has the incredible potential to change my life and make it something even better than I’ve ever experienced. I had no idea why I felt like that, and my confusion only made me feel worse.

In my therapy session today, my therapist helped me navigate those feelings and once she told me that the anger I was feeling (which has been more prominent in the past couple of weeks – not helped by my sinus infection) is always a secondary emotion to something else, things started making sense. I didn’t know that about anger and she had me pinpoint what my primary emotion was, and I realized it was sadness. The reason I know this is because once I pinpointed that emotion, I just started crying, and I’m not a crier. Once we discovered that, it all started falling into place.

She helped me realize that the sadness I was experiencing co-existed with the happiness of the poetry challenge. While the thought of a new chapter in my life filled me with happiness, it also forced me to remember the last 10-11 years in which I had been trapped by my invisible disease, and also the last 4.5 years in which I’ve been unemployed because of that same disease. Remembering all that just filled me with anger. But she also helped me understand that I didn’t have to choose just one emotion to focus on. I could have both happiness and sadness co-exist at the same time and once I realized that I felt more at peace.

I am so glad I went ahead and kept my appointment today. I don’t know if it’s common, when navigating all these complex emotions brought forth in therapy, to feel like you don’t want to go anymore. Most of the time, just the thought of having to attend therapy makes me annoyed, but nearly all the time I find myself happy that I forced myself to go. It was hands-down the most emotional session I’ve had. My nose was running like a faucet and the tears just streamed continuously. Since I do this via Zoom, it’s easier to hide those emotions. I know she wouldn’t care, but I just don’t like being emotional in front of people. I could have used Kleenex or wiped my face with my hands, but if she didn’t happen to see it (she didn’t say either way) I didn’t want to draw her attention to it, so I just let the tears fall and my nose run until it dried.

We did more tapping today, and I have to admit that when she told me what we were going to do, I was annoyed. I don’t really like the tapping because she always asks me these questions and it’s hard (not emotionally) to come up with what to say. I enjoy the flashing a lot more. But I think the tapping is just what I needed today, and it was incredibly beneficial. It’s somewhat dark in my room and I had my Harvest Pumpkin candle lit, so it just brought a new ambience to our sessions, which made it cozier. Even though it’s hard working through all these emotions and it’s hard forcing myself to go to therapy most of the time, I look forward to the continual healing it brings, and I can’t wait to see how my life with change as I continue to work through my past.

[etherealkissed88]

5 GAME CHANGERS OF THE LAW ★

loass things i think you should know that makes things easier

“DARE TO ASSUME” + JUST HAVE FAITH: just accept/assume what you want as easily as you effortlessly assume negative things. just do it. most of the time people are thinking about the 'perfect way' to imagine or manifest. they look for the 'perfect technique' when theres no such thing. just dare to assume it is yours now! when it is assumed, have faith in that assumption. just decide its done no matter what you see. whatever you assume and persist in will harden into a fact right? once youve assumed it true, go about your 3d life having faith in imagination. know that your desires exist already since creation is finished so theres no way that it's "impossible to manifest". just surrender yourself to faith. just trust the law. you have been applying the law since you were born without knowing. now that you understand the law, just allow yourself to have faith in it. it cannot fail. you assume something to be true and continue being that version of you in imagination aka persisting = manifestation. thats the law. if fears, anxiety, or negative thoughts come, "dare to assume" they have no affect on you, because by default they dont either way. "dare to assume its yours because you are always the operant power who choses how life goes. it gets to a point when youre tired of going back and forth with “i have it” to “no i dont”. it all comes down to faith. you should have faith in yourself and the law especially since the five senses you use to interact with the 3d are all limited and you cant see everything that goes on in the 3d. thats why it makes sense to assume something and stick with it regardless of the 3d. when will you realize that a version of you who has your desires already exists, so just surrender to the version of you who has it already in imagination. stop limiting yourself because of “fears” and just say yes to imagination.

so, i dont give a fuck about what negative thoughts or anxiety you have, just assume its done. its too easy but you overcomplicate it. once assumed, have faith and persist because this is called the law of assumption after all.

THE 3D FOLLOWS, IT DOES NOT PRECEDE: the 3d does not have a mind of its own. its only job is to reflect imagination so who ever you are being imagination, it copies. im sure youve heard the phrase “signs follow, they do not precede” which means signs do not come before your manifestation. they are there (if your limited senses can see it) because that is who you are assuming to be in imagination so it follows that (signs arent important either way so dont spend time searching for them and focusing on them when you should be focused on already being at your end goal which is already having ur desire). similarly with the 3d, the 3d literally only follows you so for it to change or show you something you want, you have to change self/imagination. the 3d literally obeys imagination so expecting it to change without changing self doesnt make sense. if you find yourself getting angry w the 3d, remind yourself “the 3d follows, it does not precede”. it cannot move on its own without your permission because you are the operant power. knowing this should send you straight into being the change you want to see and depend on limitless imagination only.

this also helps with accepting you are the only source of power and helps stop yourself from validating and depending on the 3d. when you know the 3d depends on you to change, you no depend on the 3d to show you your desire. you no longer crave seeing change from it, rather you be the change.

YOU WANT THE FEELING: im not even gonna say you dont want it in the 3d because of course your human self wants the physical experience. but you have to know that the feeling (the knowing, not emotions), dictate how you feel about it in the 3d. for example, read this and realize that even if you physically manifest your desire, if you dont feel / know that it is truly yours (aka if you arent fulfilled), it can lead you to get insecure and assume negative. an example is when someone manifests their sp but they still assume that their sp will get tired of them and wouldnt love them for long. this person was not feeling fulfilled (knowing) that they were in a committed and loving relationship which is why even with physical proof of the relationship, they still felt that it wouldnt last. you want the feeling of being loved, of having financial freedom, of feeling confident in your body, and then the physical manifestation of it is a cherry on top. you see how that if you lack the knowing (feeling) of your desire, you can allow bad assumptions to overconsume you and even ruin the fun experience of physically experiencing it in the 3d because you arent even sure of really having it (another example of how who you are in imagination = everything else).

focus on that inner fulfillment next time you imagine something. are you satisfying yourself and returning to the state to the point where you can accept it and know its truly done?

ENJOY YOURSELF: actually imagine to enjoy yourself. what do you want to experience? forget about trying to manifest that sp or money, what do you actually want to experience with that desire? whatever you truly want, imagine it for your own enjoyment and once imagined, it is experienced. manifesting is literally supposed to be fun so imagine for fun, do your techniques for fun and by law, it will reflect either way. realize that imagination can take you anywhere at anytime. you can imagine anything you want so imagine to the point where you dont desire that thing anymore because you know it is yours in limitless imagination. this is fulfillment: you realize you are experiencing it now as limitless self and you are doing it for your own enjoyment. thats leaving the 3d alone and not depending on it for validation and thats the best part of satisfying yourself in imagination.

i say this because ive realized that when i used to imagine something and do techniques, it would feel like im forcing myself to do it and then i dont even actually enjoy myself and enjoy whatever i imagine. figure out specifically what it is you want and imagine it any way you want. chase that satisfaction.

YOU EXPERIENCE IT INSTANTLY: when you imagine something, you experience it right away. it is experienced in the present always! if i imagine myself holding $1000, i really am holding $1000 in that moment. this is because you are consciousness simply being aware of whatever. once you are aware of something in imagination, it really has been experienced already. once imagined, it really happened! if you think this is not true its because you limit yourself to the dead, neutral 3d and think that the 3d is the only 'real' thing. this is not true especially since the 3d is a reflection of who you are being or who you assume to be in imagination, meaning that imagination is everywhere and is the 3d. as the operant power, you have full control over everything (over what manifests or not, etc). so even though you really experienced something in imagination instantly, you can assume it is true or not. you are the only source of power that can choose to identify with what you wants and has full control over whether or not something will be true in your reality. stop waiting for the 3d to change in order to “accept” it. stop being a slave to the 3d when you are the one who controls it in the first place. you can experience it instantly right now so why wait for the 3d to do that?

literally imagination is the source, yes? its the source because it always is molding the 3d (since they are connected) so hearing that once you imagine something, you experienced it instantly, should give you the confidence to know you really do have your desire already since it has already been experienced in imagination. nothing in the 3d can change until you change self (imagination) so imagination/self is powerful which is why you are powerful because you = imagination/self. thats literally why you have the ability to manifest in the first place. all there is to do is persist by living 3d life knowing/assuming/identifying as that version of you who has it already.

kisses, jani ☆