#Same goes for platonic relationships
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they're your friends, your family, people you meet just once and never see again, people you see so many times but never utter a word to each other, your pets, your house, your favorite blanket, ect.
I think soulmates are real but they r made not found and also they are your friends
#I soully believe that soulmates are the things and people that you need the most#At any given moment#Like#I needed to talk to that person in Walmart#It made my day#We were meant to talk to each other#I was meant to stop walking and pet that cat#That cat was there for me to pet in that moment#Does this make sense#Yeah soulmates can be romantic#But you don'y just have one(1) soulmate#You can have a bunch of partners and still know that you needed each of them#Each of them could have been a super important chapter in your life that was necessary#Therefore they were your soulmates#Your soul needed to meet them and mingle in a certain way#Same goes for platonic relationships#Since I'm demiaro#You can have a bunch of best friends or just friends that pass along as you live your life#Just because you're no longer friends doesn't mean they're not your soulmate#Just means the thing that your souls were created to do together had ended#And I would go farther and say that everyone is your soulmate#But it's just the things and people that really stick with you#That you're always going to remember#Or forget but still feel in your chest#Idk I've had thoughts about this for years now
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The fact that Tsubomi didnt end up as Mob's gf and became her friend is so important, it strenghtes the entire friendship motif of the series have and breaks the trope of there having to be romance between a boy and a girl, the friendzone isnt bad its just that ppl have been conditioned to think that it is, for Mob and Tsubomi could be one of the best things that happened in their lives. Im sure she wanted to have a friend that she could open up to without being judged and without having the risk of her being seen as just a love interest by them. I have the feeling that Tsubomi would enjoy being silly once in a while, leave the "school idol" status she has and I think Mob also likes to be silly! Based on the cake prank on reigen at the epilogue and Mob telling Dimple he didnt remember him during the Mogami Arc, Id love to see them being silly together as besties, laughing together loudly at dumb shit or messing with their other friends. Maybe at some point he invites her to hang out with the rest of his friends, going shopping w Teru, hanging out w the telepathy club, or just anything really, she deserves more true friends. And since tsubomi isnt impressed by anything psychic/supernatural related, Mob can tell her about his little shenanigans at spirits n such without being weirded out or anything, she'll just listen and its the same for Mob's side, he's good at understanding and giving a safe place to speak, I know I said it already but she really needs true friends that wouldnt wish bad things upon her or see her as a prize.
#ami chat#mob psycho 100#mob text#shigeo kageyama#tsubomi takane#this also goes w aroace mob and tsubomi hc#they are made for each other but in a platonic way#they do kinda are two sides of the same coin of wanting true friendships and relationships while being true to themselves#and being seen as an actual person and not a tool or unreachable or a monster or anything#also mob n teru get tsubomi into that one brand that made the ugly ass monkey shirt#or maybe she already secretly likes it lmao#i wanted to say more but my thoughts are all scrambled#anyways tsubomi is underrated#mob psycho spoilers
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If there's a chance to ship a woman of color with a beloved & gatekept male lead because there's amazing chemistry between the two, I'm gonna ship it... even if everyone hates me.
#i said what i needed to say#women of color are just as desirable#is this a little bias? yes#same thing goes for interracial relationships w/o a white character#gwen x arthur#carmy x sydney#sydcarmy#namor x shuri#bonnie x damon#bamon#namori#drukkari#poc love stories need to be celebrated#woc need to be loved#why are they always the platonic friend#sarah x bucky#fleur de louve#sarahbucky#oshamir
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Robin gives Steve so much shit for how gooey and lovesick he gets when in a relationship
That is until she gets a girlfriend and gets the exact same way
#stobin is the same person#robin 100% goes heart eyed when shes in a relationship#theyre planing a joint wedding 3 days into it#steve harrington#stranger things#robin buckley#platonic stobin#platonic soulmates stobin
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Pedro Pascal Characters: *Just Existing.*
Me and my kid ocs : That’s our dad.
#pedro pascal characters#pedro pascal#din djarin#joel miller#dave york#max phillips#pero tovar#ezra prospect#agent whiskey#jack daniels#javier peña#frankie morales#oberyn martell#daddy issues#platonic#I actually love my real dad#it’s just that our relationship is kinda complicated#the same goes for my mum and my siblings#actually I tolerate my siblings#now I’m just rambling sorry
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2024 reads / storygraph
The Loudest Silence
YA contemporary
a newly Deaf-Hard of hearing girl moves across the country and starts a new school, struggling with navigating her disability and love for singing and lost friendships - determined to not make any new friends for the year she’s in Florida
and a boy struggling with family expectations and anxiety, after being made the fútbal captain even though he secretly ways to be on broadway, who quickly befriends her
bi & aroace-coded MCs
#The Loudest Silence#aroaessidhe 2024 reads#hm this was okay! it’s a sweet and light YA contemporary focusing on friendship and disability.#It’s a little cheesy; and I liked the immediate easy friendship (well; after a few false starts) and how welcoming Hayden's#friend group/family were. I like how they all jumped to learning/practicing ASL.#I liked how Casey was dealing with her newfound Deafness with a lot of positivity - the main frustrations being how other people treat her#but there’s also the underlying isolation and grief. At the same time it didn't go as deep as it could have with that?#The friendship is central to the story - but honestly I feel like Casey and Hayden’s relationship doesn’t develop past ‘they’re friends now#[continues other subplots] - it ends up being a bit telling not showing their friendship. And then she gets a love interest.#I feel like if you’re centering your book on being a platonic love story - rare in YA! - giving one a love interest kinda goes against#what’s supposed to be unique about it? Like it wasn’t overwhelming and I thought it was sweet actually; I just didn’t come here for that.#I always find it a little odd when YA contemporary books don’t explicitly name their aroace characters as aroace -#obviously I prefer an exploration of experiences to just using the word and nothing else; but in this genre; why not both?#considering various other identity labels are used and discussed there were various points where it felt like it was walking circles#around where it would be obvious to say “no I’m aroace” lmao?#And there’s a point where Casey mentions seeing an ace sticker on his guitar - the only reason it wasn’t an aroace sticker is bc#that would have ruined the minor subplot of her assuming he’s gay/dating his other friend. It felt like a slightly odd way to mention it?#but also I guess I appreciate it being evident throughout but also being a non-issue plot wise - while there’s a couple of moments#of people making romantic assumptions about them;for the most part it’s just treated normally for a boy & girl to be friends (as it should!#It does get points for mentioning people watching by conan grey LMAO (not that it really explores him feeling that way specifically;#but I mean same lol)#Overall plot-wise - there were kind of a lot of things going on and it petered out a bit? I wanted some more depth in some areas.#Also I feel like some of the references seemed out of date for current teens haha.#i do love the love for unusual pets (hairless cat and iguana)#aroace books#bisexual books
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Garak seeing Palandine again, with her daughter, is fucking agonizing but this especially-
“Watching Palandine and her daughter defy gravity with their dance of love destroyed all my definitions, and my carefully maintained boundaries began to give way, for the first time since Bamarren, to the magic of limitless possibility. I knew at that moment that I’d never be satisfied again. Even my beloved orchids looked like weeds.”
has me in shambles
#star trek: ds9#a stitch in time#elim garak#fuuuuuck me dude this is painful#and my god does it fucking track with what we know of Garak from the show#Garak knows he is never going to be satisfied#he knows there's no point in wanting or longing#but he's not strong enough to stop himself from wanting#from longing#from craving#and it will be the same later in life#when he knows he doesnt deserve the soft things#the nice things#he still won't be able to deny himself those things#he just isnt strong enough to not go for what he wants#whether or not it will satisfy him#whether or not he deserves it#we see it in his conversations with Julian throughout this book#Garak fully says that their relationship is over- he believes that Julian ended it#but he still goes to him when Julian asks him to#because he wants Julian- and you can take that in any context you want#platonically romantically sexually#he wants Julian#so even though he believes their relationship is over#he still goes#because he wants him#and he cant stop himself from going after what he wants#even if he thinks its futile
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ship purists are so funny to me because i am the most unserious person when it comes to shipping.
canon? we are acquaintances. we greet each other politely and continue about our days.
i don't care about normal healthy relationships. i don't even care if they make it to romantic status. or if they even should. i read platonic fics just as much if not more than romantic ones. whatever messy nonsense two characters got going on is always so much more entertaining to me than them actually making sense as a pairing. im not here because i want them to kiss. i just want to lock some characters in a room and watch them interact and then repeat that over and over again.
any maybe if they kiss too that's cool i guess.
everyone can be shipped as many times as i decide it. sure they may have two hands and they might use them. but sometimes i just want my blorbo to try on new partners like a fashio show. i care not for shipping monogamy. who cares if they never met or spoke one time? their vibes are interest and i will add them to the list of rare pairs to froth at the mouth over.
half the time i head canon the characters as aroace like me. sure i might also ship them with another character, but thats just because it's interesting. most characters i think its silly to ship them with anyone in the first place because really? you think That One would be in a romantic relationship? but i also respect the delulu that i too also share
i don't actually think my ships are canon and i dont want them to be because in the text it wouldnt make sense. shipping is a world of concepts and loose ideas given more shape, free from the shackles of worrying about plot holes. im not here to be official. im here to be delusional, lovingly. as a shipper should be
#i avoided mentioning ships but i'll do it in the tags#i ship xiaoxue and i dont even try to pretend like its a nontoxic ship#its intriguing and thrilling and so deliciously messy i love it#you think i ship winteriron because i think they would actually get together?#no.#i just like all the baggage between them. that dynamic is interesting as hell#romantically or platonically#also i ship tony with everyone and also nobody because i like the aro tony headcanon#who doesnt love an aroallo character?#same goes for danny in the danny phantom fandom.#i have read danny get adopted by all the dc characters and be their blood sibling AND also be in a relationship with them#shipping purity is a joke
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transfem furries hornyposting online about the relatively niche/"out there" things they're into have inadvertently helped me accept myself more than the body positivity movement of the 2010s ever did
#this will not be rebloggable because i don't want people to get transmisogynistic in the notes#it's just something i've been thinking about lately#i hope i'm not like out of line for saying this please let me know if i say anything disrespectful#i just have a lot of love in my heart for transfems; especially those who log on to this website to be gay on my dash and do their thing#trans wlw being proud of their identities helped me come to terms with my own in a way. idk how to properly explain it but#idk. our experiences are very different - you have to fight to be seen as a woman and i have to fight not to#(though that is part of my identity in most cases people would use it to negate the rest)#(and of course none of us should Have to fight that but. i hope it's clear what i mean lol)#and idk like. womanhood is not achieved painlessly for you and yet so many of you embrace it so beautifully and in so many ways#it makes me want to accept that part of myself i thought i had to kill for so long#i am not entirely a woman but i love being a woman and loving other women-#platonically romantically sexually it doesn't matter#i'm so grateful i get to share a community with you all and read/hear/watch your thoughts and experiences and such#which goes beyond sex stuff but sex stuff is a particular personal struggle of mine and it's something i've been trying to cultivate a more#healthy relationship to lately. and i also know that unfortunately transfems get treated even worse than everyone else when it comes to#kinks or whatever. i don't mean to imply that everyone has to be open about that stuff. i just mean that i'm grateful for those who bravely#and proudly are. anyway i'm losing my train of thought bc i'm packing for a trip and i'm a little scattered atm but the point is#transfem wlw i love you dearly thank you for existing#[oh also this post isn't meant to bash body positivity stuff and i know it's not all the same. it just often felt too sanitized and forced#for me to relate to. ok bye]#finielspeaks
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Dustin and Lucas are the only characters that have had an incredible relationship and insane chemistry with every character they've interacted. I said what I said.
#just take any dustin dynamic (platonic or romantic)#steve & dustin? top tier comedy fraternal relationship#eddie and dustin? same tbh. nerdy pals#dustin & erica? sassy little bffs#dustin & robin? the bane of steve's very existence <3#and the list goes on#same with lucas#he can be shipped with anyone cuz he has such great chemistry with every character!!!#lucas sinclair#dustin henderson#this has been rotting in my drafts since june#it's time for it to see daylight
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//Btw I’m a person that adores AU’s of AU’s. Want to change the projection of a timeline that already exists? Hit me up!! I am a hoe for all timeline explorations xD RP world is fun and creativity has no bounds 👏
#(it doesn’t have to be on tumblr only. if you want to plot and rp on discord too im down)#(same goes for relationships of all kinds)#(want enemies to be lovers? a platonic exploration instead of romantic? Familial? I’m down for it all)#(I’ve done timelines with shipped muses in one verse but they aren’t in the other AU timeline)#ooc: alakazam#rp rules
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WHAT IS YOUR PRIMARY FEELING IN LONGING?
frustration
In longing, you feel frustration. You feel that you've almost reached your desire one too many times and you don't understand why you keep getting denied. You feel the universe is taunting you, playing just beyond your reach and leaving you on the brink of breaking every time it dances away. When you let yourself feel your yearning, you bury your face in your hands and turn to look at the sky, not expecting an answer, but pleading for relief. There's a burn in your heart that you just can't explain in words but it's deep, you can feel it in your throat and just under your chest. You take a deep breath and exhale heavily. It settles you enough to continue on as you were. You see others living your desire and you don't feel jealous per se, but the burn raises in intensity and you just wish ... something. You want change from your current situation, at this point you don't really care what it is, just ... something. Have courage, my dear, you can brave the fires of this world if you so wish.
TAGGED: @klaeus ( i love u !! ) TAGGING: @silencedrage ( shauna ), @deceptivemorals, @icerots, @rippeah, @wailshe, @witchfirst & u <3 !!
#[ headcanons ft. klaus mikaelson ]#[ dash games ]#oh man#this plays right in with klaus' tendency to believe himself the victim#' you don't understand why you keep being denied '#'you feel like the universe is taunting you playing just beyond your reach and leaving you on the brink of breaking every time it dances#away '#this relates in with his desire to break his curse and how katerina slipped away and even when he broke it everything went wrong#because he still couldn't create his hybrids#and then his hybrids betrayed him#this was his own fault mind you but he doesn't see it that way#and this is also the same with relationships because every time he thinks he's getting somewhere they 'betray' him#this goes for all his bonds whether they be romantic platonic or familial#' there's a burn in your heart that you just can't explain in words but its deep '#like klaus struggles so much with expressing his true emotions but they are SO THERE#the intensity in him the fire the burning hot rage and passion and love and lust and possessiveness and all those fiery emotions are just#RIGHT THERE BURNING AWAY#the only part i don't agree with is 'you don't feel jealous per se' because he ABSOLUTELY FEELS JEALOUSY OF EVERYBODY WHO HAS HIS DESIRES
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6 n 8 for the fic ask game ‼️‼️
ty ty for the ask taku <3
6. Is there any fic that makes you super embarrassed to reread and remember you wrote that?
pfahahaha oml yeah. i’m over my cringy warrior cats fanfictions fron 5 years ago but i am NOT over my ayathoma smut fic from september 2021. seriously the only reason it’s still under my name is so i can flex with my 14k hits and 570 kudos adhkgsfjgd 😭 god i am begging all of you to ignore and forget that it exists. thanks 😭😭
8. What’s the oldest (longest since last update) fic you most want to continue (unfinished or no)?
ohh okay i actually have two answers for this bc i’m not entirely sure abt the older one. but that would be an entire warrior cats fan arc, even with some special adventures and a short adventure. i started working on it in 2019 and to date i’ve only written three chapters, plus i’d have to revamp it all, but something kinda tempts me about it... (this one is actually published lol but i am not gonna tell you where)
the other one is the first tokrev fic i ever started writing, that was back in december 2021. so old... okay. the fic is in hanma’s pov. basically kisaki survives getting hit by a truck but is in a coma for months (close to a year?), and when he finally wakes up he’s lost most of his memory, including everything he used to know about hanma. hanma is devasted but tries to befriend kisaki again, but kisaki doesn’t want to have anything to do with delinquents now because he can’t remember hina and thus doesn’t have any reason to. meanwhile hanma is still hopelessly in love with him, but kisaki doesn’t even know that... they try to become friends some more, until kisaki eventually tells hanma that this won’t ever work and hanma confesses in despair. kisaki tells him that he’s sorry, but that he doesn’t at all feel the same (perhaps anymore, since he doesn’t remember what he used to feel) and hanma finally accepts that kisaki simply doesn’t like him at all now. that’s it lol tho uhm. tbh i kinda wanna revamp it now... with a happy ending... and focus on kisaki still having all of his feelings/emotions from before but taking a while to figure out that the person he misses so much bc he’s in love with them is hanma because he can’t remember hanma, only his feelings for him? like. amnesia fics where they fall in love again are cool and all but like. what if neither of them ever fall out of love. what if the only problem is kisaki is so fucking dense he doesn’t know who he’s in love with even though he sees hanma every day. because kisaki can’t piece the longing ache in his heart together with the guy who visits him every day bc apparently they were best friends or smth before he lost his memory even tho he feels weirdly warm n comfy around him and gets those familiar comfy feelings when he’s with him and also hanma looks very nice and makes kisaki feel safe and happy and all giddy inside. but even then kisaki longs bc they’re friends and not boyfriends, and kisaki just can’t piece together that the longing is for hanma even if they’re close bc he longs for romantic love when they’re only platonic and he is fucking STUPID and oblivious when it comes to himself
ask game link
#☆—`ask#elys n taku rambles#help the rambling in the 2nd answer... oops#but hhh now i wanna write this. and make it happy. and kisaki focused.#gah#but srsly it would make sm sense bc i think kisaki is the most stupidest person on earth when it comes to realising his own romantic+#feelings bc he’s so obsessed with the idea of being in love with hina that he subconsciously prevents himself from realising/admitting+#anything else to himself. so he would NOT notice that he’s in love with hanma bc he still has the same subconsciousness and the longing is+#always persistent too bc like i said he longs for a romantic relationship with someone he’s platonic with 😭😭#fucking dumbass /loving#he’d finally realise when hanma confesses and kisaki’s first thought is ‘‘omg he likes me back <3’’ and then he goes ‘‘wait wait wait+#i LOVE him??? that’s what this longing was about ????’’ like an idiot#i love him thank you
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being aro and a fictive of a character who's not aro at all is one hell of an experience and frankly i don't wish the hellish parts on anyone else
because in my experience having heard nothing but "oh yeah those two SURE are just friends", "[insert source name] is so fucking gay (for x)", "because of course people who are just friends kiss and share the same bed" and stuff of similar nature about my source self is. the worst lmao
like there's already the whole "can we stop using that the 'more than friends' language please it's genuinely frustrating" thing but also. um it's even more uncomfortable when you're a fictive and all of this stuff is being said about source you and relationships you had that were very much not romantic in your exomemories <2 like i get that people are gonna say whatever the hell they want but also i'm allowed to be uncomfortable by it and i can't exactly filter it well with my situation so "just avoid it" isn't advice lmfao
but anyways being aro and a fictive sure is an experience i wish alloros and singlets were less weird about both (this can apply to non-fictive headmates too but. i'm mainly referring to singlets because it's usually singlets who've been the weirdest about it)
#cy.txt#aro#aromantic#fictive#oc fictive#i say this as someone who's aplatonic. implying platonic relationships are inherently lesser than romantic ones is shitty#they can mean more or less to someone but inherently they shouldn't be treated as any better or worse in an objective sense#and the same goes for romantic ones. stop implying they're just the next step of a friendship#being a fictive just makes this feeling even more alienating honestly#like. holy shit some of you seriously need to examine how you talk about relationships even if it's about fictional characters#because honestly i don't trust you to be normal about relationships people have irl when you keep going 'yeah sure just friends lol'
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Something something...sometimes you have to teach other people how to love you. It's more important that someone is willing to learn to love you, then holding them to a standard that they should just inherently know exactly what you want. Likewise, you'll have to learn to love them.
That's life, learning. Always.
#This isn't about exclusively romantic love either#The same principal applies to friends#and it's just as important there#don't take my musings as a way to diminish the importance of platonic relationships#something something the mortifying ordeal of being known#or however that goes.
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what is it about me that makes men lose their mind not even in the lustful way that takes 0 effort. they genuinely fall in love with me its crazy asf
#i like to think i have the same effect on women but they simply prefer to categorize it as platonic friendship bc heteronormativity#every meeting i have i imagine it goes. ok shes fine. ok shes kinda blunt. mh well shes mean => something i cant understand yet starts here#=> i want her#a#my issue is not that i dont understand when someone is signaling me is that im scared of a relationship 👍🏻
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