#Moral Dysphoria
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Atypical Dysphoria Emoji Codes
[PT: Atypical Dysphoria Emoji Codes]
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Note! I plan to update this over time but for now these are the basic ones! If you have any I don’t have listed, please inform me! For more infomation check this out!
Term Codes
Dissomei : 🧠🚫🫀
Desirdae : 💫☁️ or 🌟🫙
Intusui : 👤💠
Atypical Dysphoria Codes
Atypical Dysphoria : 🧠🌀
Coping Atypical Dysphoria : 🧠🌀💚
Xenic Dysphoria : 🧠⭐️
BIID / Disability Dysphoria : 🧠🦽
Neurodiverse Dysphoria : 🧠🎭
Species Dysphoria : 🧠🐾
Age Dysphoria : 🧠🍼 or 🧠🥤or 🧠🍾
Time/Era Dysphoria : 🧠🕰️
Race Dysphoria : 🧠🖐️
Nationality Dysphoria : 🧠🏳️
Addiction Dysphoria : 🧠💊
Moral Dysphoria : 🧠⚖️
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@atypical-dysphoria , @desirdae-archive , @dissodic-archive , @intusui
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atypical-dysphoria · 2 months ago
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could we please have some tips for dealing with dysphoria over being evil ? [ feeling like we should be / are evil ]
thank you so much !1
Dealing with Dysphoria over being Evil
pt: Dealing with Dysphoria over being Evil
evil sona! or villian sona!
writing in the sonas POV!
writing in ur own POV but, evil
drawing art of yourself/sona/oc doing things you get dysphoria over not being able to
^ or writing about it!
playing evil routes in video games
doing "evil" things in video games in general
daydreaming
Roleplaying!
playing an evil character in d&d
reading and writing fanfiction
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theshadowrealmitself · 1 year ago
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Trans masc Peter who wore a hoodie over his hero costume at the start of his career for a bit because of dysphoria, trying to drop hints to Miles that he knows what he’s going through and he’s there for support
Miles being confused because he’s just wearing a jacket with his costume because it looks cool
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magpiethepunkfairy · 11 months ago
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Just a reminder because I know I needed it
Your friends don't hate you!!!!!
They don't hate you, their not ignoring you, they don't secretly wish you'd fall off the face of the earth
Their probably just busy, they've got work or therapy or family stuff
They might be in a really strong hyper fixation, or got caught up in a special interest
Their not wishing you'd stop existing, or mad at you, they don't think you're evil and horrible
They just forget to reach out sometimes, maybe they also feel like you might hate them
Maybe their having a flare up, or going through an episode, or dealing with a hundred other things
But they do Not hate you
I don't hate you
Take a shower, eat some food, maybe drink some water, maybe take a nap
Open a window, take a walk, go for a drive
If you're feeling really brave?
Text them, call them, send a voice message
I believe in you, I believe in us
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thepoisonroom · 8 months ago
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'I flirted with the idea that instead of being trans that I was just a cross-dresser (a quirk, I thought, that could be quietly folded into an otherwise average life) and that my dysphoria was sexual in nature, and sexual only. And if my feelings were only sexual, then, I wondered, perhaps I wasn’t actually trans.
I had read about a book called The Man Who Would Be Queen, by a Northwestern University professor who believed that transwomen who were attracted to women were really confused fetishists, they wanted to be women to satisfy an autogynephilia. And though I first read about this book in the context of its debunkment and disparagement, I thought about the electricity of slipping on those tights, zipping up those boots, and a stream of guilt followed. Maybe this professor was right, and maybe I was only a fetishist. Not trans, just a misguided boy.
About a year later, on the Internet, I come across a transwoman who added a unique message to the crowd refuting this professor. Oh, I wish I remember who this woman was, and I wish even more that I could do better than paraphrase her, but I remember her saying something like this: “Well, of course I feel sexy putting on women’s clothing and having a woman’s body. If you feel comfortable in your body for the first time, won’t that probably mean it’ll be the first time you feel comfortable, too, with delighting in your body as a sexual thing?”'
-Casey Plett, Consciousness
#this quote always moves me almost to tears when i remember it#i'm not a trans woman and i don't share the author's specific experiences with transition#but it really moves me that she frame transition as joyfully giving yourself permission to approach your body#not as something that has to be disciplined and deprived and made small in all these various ways#but as a means for experiencing pleasure and joy and delight and for insisting that our feelings and desires are worth#valuing and exploring and treasuring#i always used to think of prioritizing those things for myself as selfish and irresponsible#but who does it harm to want to experience pleasure in your own body?#it's such a beautifully simple and powerful switch to have flip in your head#and equally why are we forced to deny our own pleasure in transition and anything else related to our bodies in the name of moral rectitude#this is why i get so confused and pissed off when other trans people are fatphobic for example#like why are you so invested in politics of shame and disgust that never had any purpose other than#violently disciplining people as if they've violated moral codes by existing in a body#to say nothing of white people being racist in gay and trans communities#like again this system of violence is foundational to homophobia and transphobia#so why are you acting like it has nothing to do with you#even if you are unmoved by the urgency of other people's suffering which btw you should be moved by#what do you hope to gain by acting a collaborator and handmaiden to those systems#Casey Plett#she really is one of my favorite authors i wish more non-canadians read her#this quote is from a series of columns she did ont transition and every single one is a banger#i love when she talks about the people-pleasing elements of dysphoria and transition denial#she's so sharp about noting how many of us deny our own dysphoria on the grounds that others like and validate our bodies#that's how i always felt during my cis conventionally feminine era#it pleased other people so much and also that reception felt so hollow and joyless to me because i hated it#i get less of that positive feedback but that feels so unimportant next to the joy and pleasure i get to experience#said with the understanding that i'm very privileged in being able to prioritize those things without fear. but it was a switch flip#personal nonsense
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threepoint14art · 2 months ago
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redraw of the crane wives' album "the fool in her wedding gown" cover art with owynn,,,,
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He has Tongues & Teeth in his playlist and I like to kill him
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uncanny-tranny · 2 years ago
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I think abandoning diet culture and favouring the function of my body versus the ~aesthetic~ of my body has really opened my eyes and given me a new chance to be one with myself.
It is hard to get through this, but I honestly think it's worth the investment it takes to unlearn the idea that your body must serve others and must be out of the way, and must only take up so much space to be valued and for you to be loved.
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commonsensecommentary · 1 year ago
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“When you get to the point where ostensibly responsible adults are arguing that castrating confused little boys and lopping the breasts off barely pubescent girls is a good idea, it’s time for an uncompromising look in the mirror.”
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high-voltage-rat · 2 years ago
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Vyvanse is such a silly little drug. I get up at 11, take it at noon, what's a normal sleep phase I don't know her.
The first hour passes and I'm like "dude nothings happening except me getting sweaty and my heart's going a bit faster" and then I blink and it's another 2 hours later and I've just blitzed doing every chore available to me, organized all my shit for the day, read through 500 tumblr posts, watched some random-ass YouTube clips, and made myself food I don't want to eat because my appetite is suppressed but I know food consumption is a task. It's like all of my ADHD bullshit for the entire day happens at light speed over a few hours.
Then I sit down and can do The Big Task of the day for 5 hours or more and, unlike with a hyperfocus, can remain focused on it even after taking breaks to go do other stuff.
Then the end of the day hits and I'm tired and need to go to sleep but I still feel the Productivity Need so for some reason I watch 50 more "Educational" YouTube videos until it subsides and then finally fall asleep at 2am.
Like. Does it cure my ADHD? Absolutely not. Does it make me less chaotic? No. But does it allow me to consistently channel my ADHD energy productively? Oh, yeah. I'm not 100% sure that's what my doctors were going for when they prescribed it, but I gotta be honest I kinda love it.
#not video games#late nights with ali#nd blogging#actuallyADHD#I'm pretty sure my docs were intending for a bit more... how you say... stability?#but a lot of my ADHD traits don't go away. just the most important one- activation-based executive dysfunction#And honestly without that I think I like the way I function with the rest? usually anyway#If I'm in control of it. I love my hyperfocus. I love my bouncing around chaotically. I love being impulsively spontaneous#don't get me wrong. there are days where I do hate my adhd. when the emotional regulation problems kick in it's hell.#rejection sensitive dysphoria is a bitch. I can forget self care in lieu of 'more important' things. my working memory can fuck me over.#but in comparison to how I lived before medication? it's amazing. and I've learned to be fond of aspects of my disorder#and to live with the ones that are inconvenient. it's so nice honestly#I could do without the sweating and appetite suppression. but it is SO worth it to like my own mind again.#before I was diagnosed I knew I had it. so my only options were self medicating with caffiene and developing an anxiety disorder.#the thing that bypasses the dopamine-based activation is adrenaline-based activation#so I literally just. got so anxious about stuff I needed to do that it would trigger the adrenaline activation where dopamine failed me#I don't think I actually 100% KNEW that's what I was doing per se. but I do think some of my anxiety came from intentional doom spiralling#anyway moral of the story. Vyvanse helps with ADHD is some truly strange ways but at the end of the day it's a fucking miracle#New River Pharmaceuticals developers of lisdexamfetamine I am kissing you on the mouth
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mephostophilis · 2 years ago
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wouldn't it be nice if 2023 was the year we all stopped making fun of people for their height
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catboyclarity · 2 years ago
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you can talk about trans joy and emphasize the importance of just letting folks transition if it makes them happy without framing the experience of physical dysphoria as a shameful failing and transitioning to alleviate dysphoria as inherently pathetic or sadder. i get that there are some physically dysphoric trans people who decided to be shitty about it but like. dude a lot of just have experienced or are experiencing pain and don't need to be shamed by our own community for that.
i was in a lot of pain all the time for about a decade of my life and i transitioned to get rid of that pain, and that's not sadder or worse than someone transitioning bc they just wanted to choose joy. the gift of telling myself that my pain was real and i didn't deserve to be in it anymore, that i could live a life free of it (like i am doing now) isn't sad, or bad optics, or evidence i transitioned for the wrong reasons. it's fucking beautiful and i am beautiful for it.
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magpiethepunkfairy · 10 months ago
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What's the overlap and differences between like, rsd, morality ocd, and social anxiety or phobia (and the differences between those two things honestly)
I'm assuming there's got to be like different criteria even if they might feel similar sometimes, how do you know which one your feeling/dealing with?
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zapsoda · 1 year ago
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i do not understand how entirely divorcing presentation from interpretation of gender is beneficial. there is a difference between enforcing those ideals so that nobody deviates and those ideas simply existing.
isnt there a large portion of gnc people who actively enjoy bending those expectations for that very reason? tf is the point
im biased though because i would like to be read as the gender im presenting as because being seen as anything else is distressing to me.
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milimeters-morales · 2 years ago
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Hobie, trying to comfort Miles: you know what would be funny?
Miles: what
Hobie: what if you said “going girl” like danny phantom says “going ghost”
Miles:
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bi-gray · 2 months ago
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snekdood · 4 months ago
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idk why ppl think you wanting a different body, or in this case specifically, weight, somehow has something to do with them or you judging them? like i've worked through the fatphobia i grew up with and was used against me, idgaf what other people do and im also not repelled by or somehow grossed out by fat people given i tend to date fat people (not seeking them out, it just happens)-- if this is the case, how can you say that im somehow demanding you change in someway because I want to change myself? maybe stop seeing other people as extensions of you and this wouldnt be an issue..?
#unfortunately im never going to be satisfied with my body being a certain level of chubby. i can accept it but it wont satisfy me.#i'll always be longing for something else as much as i try to ignore it or deny it or whatever#trust me. i've tried. i've even fallen in love with my body type its... just.... not *me*#which is why i often draw it on my other non-self insert ocs bc i still love my body type its just. not me. thats just not me man idk🤷#an entirely different person as far as im concerned. when i look like that i look like a stranger to myself.#also like. idk why me still deciding i want to look different in spite of working through the fatphobia means i 'didnt actually work throug#it'. like im sorry babe but my dysphoria is heavily linked to my weight given my body fat loves to distribute in *ways* i dont like.#ive literally TRIED to be fine with it but i cant. im sorry. idk what to tell you. theres nothing that can be done. sue me.#me wanting to look different bc of the way my body fat distributes isnt me saying 'you have to look a certain way to pass'#its me going 'i will never feel like myself so long as im shaped like this'#it quite frankly has nothing to do with you so stop inserting yourself into my situation#if anything it seems like my desire to change my weight is more or less a trigger for you and thats not reason enough to try to change#my behavior. simply walk away. look somewhere else. dont interact with me if you cant handle that. i get it but like. its not#gonna change over here bud#some people you're not meant to always get along with and be friends with and thats okay. doesnt mean we try to come up with#'moral' reasons to justify our dislike.#bc to me you're doing nothing different from trans people who shame you for wanting to look more cis. thats always going to be the#case for me. im ALWAYS going to wish i was born a cis guy.
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