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evelynpr · 3 months ago

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Might be a hot take as a bkdk and tgck truther here, but I find izuocha endlessly fascinating, beautiful, but also tearfully tragic.

I see their love for each other as something representative of their innocence and naivety when they only knew so little about who they were, and what was to come.

I think the main barrier of their relationship is that its rooted in how they see each other very idealistically, specifically that they're attached to the image of their Best Heroic Selves, and not the deeply selfish, destructive, freaky, and egotistical parts of them. To each other, they need to keep fulfilling that image or else that same person they looked up to would almost die in front of them, and that would be too cruel. Although that hero is still there, that same person they looked up to is not the same now because of...well...everything.

Izuku had barely even talked to girls when he first met her. She was Izuku's first ever real friend (Sorry Kats, everyone and him knows he was terrible), so he saved her in that entrance exam even if it was so dangerous. She gave a new meaning to his derogatory nickname just by being a friend that believed in him. After that, she saved him several more times (Blackwhip and Megaphone are the biggest samples iirc). It makes perfect sense that she is Deku's hero.

Ochako hardly knew what it meant to be a hero when she first got into UA. Just by reaching out to some kid tripping, she made a new friend who would then save her in that exam, then save him again in return. This boy then became someone who was always working so hard to save everyone in trouble, and she realized she wanted to be just like him too. "I want to save people"

But...Deku changes. The weight of One for All is on his shoulders and he needs someone to carry this burden with him. He continues to want to save other people at the expense of himself, still not letting his true selfishness and ego ever show- and it only grows more and more unbearable.

Then...Ochako fell in love with Himiko. Truly, relentlessly, selfishly and devotedly in love with a girl who then dies giving her blood to her- the greatest expression of love Himiko could ever give.

Not that they can't love each other because of this happening (and...so many other things oh god), I'm honestly not sure how to explain it- But them ending up together after losing that innocence and naivety? After Ochako will forever grieve the girl who showed her love in its most beautiful and ugly form? After Izuku changed so fundamentally as a person that the butterflies of a nice girl talking to you doesn't exist anymore? After that simple image of being a hero and being in love has completely changed for them both?

Even so, I believe they still love each other. There is no label I know of that can properly describe them though. They are each other's image of being a hero when it comes to saving people. Aside from Shoto, no one else can grasp the grief of the person you tried to save dying in your hands. They would no doubt try to cope with these losses together, and just try to get better together...but so much has changed. They've changed. The world changed. What are they now? Who are they now?

"What happened...to us?"

#I just think the tragedy of falling out of love for the person who represents who they Used to be is so...so painful #Kacchan isn't even here yet and it's already so complicated.#also. Izch healing together after all this would also be really nice #if u like them ending up together thats also perfectly fine too. im just a bkdk and tgck truther myself. thats kinda my whole thing #but izch forming a deep bond from their experiences and saving eachother #and maybe later on trying to date too...oh boy #and them being able to just...be more casual again. talk abt their lives and dreams together too just so they know they have each other #oh itd be so healing and beautiful #im so glad izuku talked to ochako on that cliff man oh man...#izuocha the underrated tragic love that they could've been if ppl werent so close minded abt them #only the real izch fans understand just how much these two actually mean to each other. god bless yall I swear even if I dont ship ship it #thank u to that person who wrote abt them being characters than run in parallel #that narrative structure for them is permanently in my brain. I love these two so much its no joke #my Extra hot take is that izch wouldve been treated better by the fandom if it was gay.#but we'd still agree on bkdk as the endgame after all that happened. maybe. idk this is a hypothetical.#if you switch ock and kats genders...this wouldve been a very different story and fandom. insane food for thought with this one.#ok thats my yap for the night oh god i have so many feelings about them...#evelynpr bnha #bnha #mha #my hero academia #izuocha #actually confidently putting this tag now. sorry for the angst you guys...and maybe being seen as a traitor #im a strong girl I could take on potential haters hahaha...#izuku midoriya #ochako uraraka

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kaleidoskuls · 2 months ago

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i really wanna read a fic where everyone in class 2 is hanging out & saint casually mentions he and shin are dating now expecting at least a little shock to which everyone responds with did you really expect us to be at all surprised

#“you were following him around like a sad puppy for a looong time”#“there was that homoerotic swordfight thing you guys had”#“saint is always publicly declaring his love for you i mean weve all heard it”#lmaoooo 💀💀#“one time i was leaving school and i saw you two just staring at eachother under an umbrella like you were about to kiss”#“now youre cool again youre literally Always with eachother”#someones just like “hold on they werent dating already ? i thought it was a rekindled love situation”#which ofc it is #not that they ever stopped loving eachother lmao #saintshin #high school frenemy #🍗

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sejarcus-archive · 3 months ago

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Dorothea modern Sejarcus au, in which they were childhood best friends but they fell out of touch, and now Sejanus is a famous dancer traveling across the country, and Marcus watches his success grow from afar, wishing they could still be part of each other’s lives

#dancer sejanus my new obsession? likelier than you think #marcus is in love with him and avidly follows all news regarding him #they meet again after many years since they last saw each other when sejanus finally performs near him #marcus decides to try to meet him after the show even though he’s very anxious at the idea #and he brings him a huge bouquet of flowers like the ones people usually gift to dancers #all nervousness fades away when sejanus lights up and seems to relax at the sight of him #but that same night marcus finds out sejanus has a boyfriend of two years or so #and his heart shatters even though he already thought he didn’t have a chance with him #the boyfriend is obviously shitty cause sejanus just cannot date a decent man #marcus please save him #i have many more thoughts about this but i’ll stop here #sejarcus #marcus tbosas #sejanus plinth

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epickiya722 · 2 months ago

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Honestly, once more I feel some of the fandom really only cared about the shipping and not the actual characters.

Like, seeing people go "Katsuki is going to be pining and alone forever" actually makes me feel insulted on his behalf.

Was Katsuki only an appealing character to some of you because of "pining"? Who said that he was going to be alone forever?

I see people saying so much I'm starting to think it's being secretly manifested because it's what some of you want. I know some folks like that Katsuki angst. Don't you want him happy?

Sooo.... his development wasn't important? Was he only important to you if he and Izuku were together? Am I the only one who is happy that they at least are on talking terms?

Seeing Izuku talking to Ochako isn't enough for me to go "Katsuki is heartbroken forever", I'm sorry. The duo (Izuku and Ochako) are not standing in wedding clothes and exchanging vows.

Was it forgotten that MHA is a popular Shonen? The target audience is geared towards a young male audience, so yeah, we weren't going to get canon BakuDeku and instead Izuku talking with Uraraka.

Which was it is. Talking. Just talking.

Was they not allowed to do that???

Shoot, I needed everyone to talk because they haven't been able to do it!

Who know what's crazy? If Katsuki was the one to advise Izuku to talk to Ochako, that makes me realize that at some point, Izuku and Katsuki did have the talk they needed to get to the point that they're comfortable enough to give the other advice and be close again.

Like "hey, we talked it out, so now it's time you talk it out with her... man, we all need to get it together".

I thought making amends is a present idea in the story. Some of these characters need(ed) to do that. Katsuki and Izuku wasn't the only pair now.

Personally, given the target audience, it would be so funny if Horikoshi was sitting there sketching like "I'm gonna give these two the most 'dap me up' handhold ever". This feels like him going "Fine, I'll give what is wanted but not everything".

Something tells me he didn't even want to have an epilogue.

#horikoshi probably didn't even show that talk because he knows this fandom doesn't deserve it #no no some of you make not being in a fandom fun at all because you just jump to the worst #i get having a criticism like if the development seems off or pacing is a bit rushed #stuff like that #but come on this extreme behavior is wild #for all we know katsuki and izuku are freaking roommates #how can katsuki lose when he pretty much already won?#meanwhile ochako over here is still thinking about another girl and twinning bangs with tsuyu #that talk is probably ochako and izuku going 'oh we're messes but you know what we can clean up let's get to work'#probably won't even have time to even date IZUKU HAS TWO JOBS NOW FOR CRYING OUT LOUD #boom they're all single how about that!#just kiya's thoughts #bnha #mha #boku no hero academia #my hero academia #bnha spoilers #bnha manga spoilers #bakudeku #bnha epilogue #mha epilogue #midoriya izuku #bakugou katsuki

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shorlinesorrows · 10 months ago

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qpr jean and neil. that's all i'm gonna say.

do you see my vision?

#i might add onto this later but right now I'm too busy crying #“misplaced forever partner” ARE YOU KIDDING ME THAT DESTROYED ME #neil ordering a hit to keep jean safe changed my brain chemistry #i need them to be friends #i need them to call each other and gossip and send each other stupid memes that only they understand #i need them to slowly grow closer as they heal until one day they can finish each other's sentences #and they ocassionally make super dark jokes about their trauma out of the blue (they bet on how people will react competitively)#i need them to call each other derogatory names but get Super Upset whenever anyone else talks shit about the other and offer to kill them #and i would love them to reclaim the spots next to each other that riko set #and make them their own #they're not partners on the court but they sure as hell are partners in life #the mcs ever #at one point andrew and jeremy are just looking at each other across a table at a restaurant as these two bicker #and realize they have somehow both become the Third Wheel despite the fact that 1) there's four of them and 2) jean and neil aren't dating #the amount of queer platonic pining i could fit in these traumatized people #the: “i'm lowkey obsessed with you but I Really don't like you romantically and I don't know what to do with it”#and the: “oh thank hell me too i thought i was even weirder than i already am. wanna go harass the fbi with me?"#jeremy and andrew watch this trainwreck both exasperatedly and proudly you can't convince me otherwise #cannot convince me that these four won't somehow end up living in each others pockets even if they live 1000 miles away #kevin pops in frequently as his usual wonderful diva self #anyway i'm going insane how yall doing #neil josten #jean moreau #all for the game #the sunshine court

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nychthemeron-rants · 1 year ago

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I am so close to making a Hazbin AU where Angel is Niffty's dad because making this post and THIS vvvv

Fucking image made the idea go from "huh, funny coincidence" to full on brainrot.

#Angel is Niffty's dad now #im sorry for already going off the deep end #but its happened #I know it has zero canonical backing besides the speculated birth/death dates of these two #but it would be cute #and kinda sad #but cute!#Angel Husk Niffty and fat nuggets forming a little family unit #eventually getting redeemed and getting to meet aunt Molly #for angst you could have Alastor using this to manipulate Angel similarly to how he fucked with Lucifer #except Alastor actually has been more present for Niffty than Angel #and the fucked up extra edge of him owning Niffty's soul #not to mention that Angel 100% has no fucking clue he ever had a kid #like he's gay #and died in the 1940's #sure he's slept with women a few times for various reasons #but that was rare since again he's got no interest in women #so the chance of him having an illegitimate child was never even a thought #besides sex education in the '30's and '40's wasn’t exactly stellar #finding out he's a dad would be a complete shock and probably cause him a whole breakdown #meanwhile Niffty would either not care or just be excited to finally meet her dad #hazbin angel dust #angel dust hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel angel dust #hazbin niffty #niffty hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel niffty

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icewindandboringhorror · 7 months ago

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Everytime I face a new character limit on a website that didn't have them before/used to have really long ones... AUGHHhhh the modern social media world was not made for people like me (lovers of details, rambling, elaboration, thorough explanation, and nuance)

#twitter and other short form shit and everything being a Phone App On Small Screen instead of a Proper #Computer Website i feel like has just ruined the format of literally everything for me. Thoughts just keep getting more and more condensed #with detail and nuance taken away. everything over simplified into only the basics. blah blah blah. I've already probably rambled about thi #all before but it's just SO frustrating. I literally just CAN NOT talk that way!!! even if I try!!! I took multiple advanced placement #english & language arts classes in school and I literally never made below an A on any assignment EVER except for ESSAYS #where I would legit get almost failing grades just because I cannt express myself concisely. I took an english placement test thats made to #like evaluate your competency in a subject and out of the 102 multiple choice questions I only missed TWO of them. almost a perfect #score. But for the 5 open response questions (about articulating thoughts succinctly) I did not get a single one of them lol #I only got partial credit on 3. It's like I OBVIOUSLY understand the material and I know how Words Work and how to analyze and interpret #meaning and etc. etc. But it's just when I have to express myself CLEANLY I can't. It's always ''well you have very good points and you #get around to the idea eventually and I think it's very insightful - but it just needs to be shorter/the side tangent needs to be removed/#etc.'' I've always wondered if it has something to do with being on the schizophrenia spectrum and how that can cause disorganized #speech sometimes hmm..ANYWAY.. But I just naturally express myself in a very particular way which is lengthy and I can't rea #ly seem to control it. So it's basically like just.. being gradually pushed out of every place that won't accomodate people with different #ways of like perceiving and expressing or etc. Everything cannot ALWAYS be 100% 'Short and Snappy and To The Point' or a quippy one #liner or the Bare Minimum of information being provided or etc. Some peoples brains just do not work like that!!!!! Sorry I operate #in detail and elaboration lol. ANYWAY.. I still sometimes use random ''dating sites'' like OKCupid to look for platonic friends since #I never leave the house so it's hard for me to just meet friends naturally. And I just realized today that they added a RIDICULOUSLY small #character limit to their messaging system (2000 words?? augh). And also took away answer explanations (when you answer a compatibility #question you used to have a space to give detail and explain why you answered the way you did) and removed a few other features and it's ju #t like.. how the fuck is any of this actually helpful in terms of judging compatibility? take away ALL nuance and anyting that actually #is meant to tell you anything about a person? Bumble's character limits for your profile description are even more fucking insane and so #is every other disgustingly minimalistic place I've seen like.. OKC used to be superior BECAUSE it allowed for a TON of detail. like back i #2016 or something there was SO much data you could look at. long form question answers. personality trait summaries. etc. Now you have #SOO little to judge off of when evaluating compatibiility it's like. You'd have better luck just throwing a dart in a crowded street and #talking to whoever it hits. Why are people so fucking allergic to reading anything longer than 3 words and providing DETAILS!! It just seem #harder and harder to find any place to meet platonic friends where you have any amount of actual data to go off of and it isnt basically #just random 'speed dating' set up shit. AARGH. &I know 'oh just join a club& meet ppl irl' 1. erm..covid. 2.I mostly want to meet ppl #in places I'd like to move so I already know ppl when I get there. You kind of HAVE to do that online. bc I am not there yet.. WISHING for #Complexity.Com where ppl can upload full 900 page psychological files of themselves. MINIMUM profile character limit 30k words lol

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supersecretnerd · 8 months ago

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Ok so these designs are cute as hell, the Internet is just mean

I have too many thoughts about a game I still need to watch

#goodbye volcano high #i dont have the money to buy it but god i need to watch a playthrough when i have time it's so interesting to me #like; the theme of 'yeah we're going die but that doesn't mean we can enjoy what time we have left' sounds amazing to me love that #its so funny i was actually watching a review of it that was basically 'this game sucks and here's why'#and then it just started listing off shit like- 'the characters designs are pastel they're nonbinary you die no matter what'#and then my neurons just went off and went '👁️👁️ oh! sounds amazing i want to see more'#fuck yeah pastel nonbinary dinosaurs lets go #well i think its just fang thats nonbinary and then two other trans characters #i saw a cutscene! and it was about the experiences of being an apart of a family as sec-gen immigrant and trans-#and i thought that was cool as hell dont recall ever seeing that in any of thr arts ive seen before (but there's lots of art out there!)#heard it got some glitches tho (havent looked in depth of what those glitches are) hopefully it got patched out #also im so fucking pissed i saw the gator game before i saw this 😮‍💨 (context; apparently made by people who made a fangame where they #the mc of this game a datable side character and they only have a happy ending if they detransition? which fucking yikes😬)#i saw people say 'oh but they did it empathetically' like how the fuck is taking a canon nb character and making them only happy through #detransitioning empathetic that sounds super fucking shitty and gross #i think a character that detransitions can be done and would be interesting to see- but this just reeks of people being transphobic for real #oh also purple dino has a slug or worm or something apparently! seems cute! just a lil thing #apparently its a rhythm game; listened to some of the songs and it sounded good! sadly i suck at rhythm games #but apparently failing doesn't affect the story? kinda wish it would but honestly better for me lol-#pink one and fang end up dating i believe- from what i saw pink is like- soft spoken artist? dunno if accurate but she's cute #all the characters are cute just look at them!!! awesome #also they have to just continue school like normal before they die and honestly thats so real #also saw people dislike the fact you dont see the characters actual die or the meteor #which is ??? dunno i just think some things are better left implied than shown-#anyways man i keep trying to find neat stuff about the game and all i see is people bitchin about it or praising the shit fan on instead 😔#man if i had two nickles for a time i grew to become obsessed with a media only for loads of people to hate id have two nickles #first nickle is kat elliot she's such a cool character Internet wasn't ready for her #also yes i saw obsessed i can just tell this is something ill go bonkers for #i mean god look how much text is in my tags for this already! and i still need to see the game in it's fullness!#im sure there's other cool shit

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cosmogyros · 1 month ago

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#ohhhhhh my fucking god. omg. omg #i really need to learn to trust my own instincts about people #there's this dude - let's call him biff - who lives in my city #he's always been very consistent about staying in touch with me over the years even though we don't really have any shared interests #i met him when he was dating this girl i was friends with. then they broke up & he wanted to hang out with me #then he started dating someone else & they got married and had a kid #and after a while he stopped messaging me (fine by me)... UNTIL #i posted on fb the other day that i was starting the process of quitting everything Meta #and that people should comment if they wanted my contact info elsewhere #after making this post i thought 'hmmm maybe i should have restricted the audience to the only people i actually WANT to stay in touch with'#but it was too late. biff had already messaged me and asked for my number #stupidly i gave it to him. he (a german) joked 'still no german number i see?'#(it is clearly a german number. also i live in fckn germany. and have done so for 7 years. how the hell would i not have a german number?)#then he realized that & added me on whatsapp (kinda silly bc i explicitly said i'm going to quit the whole metaverse eventually but oh well)#first message: 'how u doing?' this man is in his 40s and has still never learned to type properly #second message: he said that he (singular) had recently moved to a new apartment and was not doing great #which makes me think that maybe he's gotten divorced and that's why he's suddenly so eager to reach out to me again #and he added apropos nothing 'but the good thing is that now i'll finally get to see the harry potter movies!'#ummm... great? fuck that transphobe but have fun i guess? what a weird thing to mention #third message was - just fucking WAIT FOR IT - 'what do u think about what's going on in the US recently? are you planning on going back?'#if y'all know me by now you know that this kind of question drives me bonkers #so i replied 'no i'm never going back. i live in germany. kinda sick of people asking me that. I LIVE HERE'#and i just... godddd my intuition is so depressingly good sometimes.#the moment his name popped up in my messages i had this sinking feeling of 'why did i give him my contact info'#and then what do you know... in his next two messages alone there were at least three minor red flags #NOTE TO SELF: TRUST YOUR FUCKING INSTINCT #why haven't i learned this yet? i do not need a 'valid reason' to softly let someone slip out of my life #cosmo gyres #personal #tag rant

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calyptramoths · 2 months ago

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having a lot of thoughts about aromanticism and how that interacts with my idea of friendship vs romance

#the line between the two is so thin that it barely exists for me #i am (for lack of a better term) 'in love' with all of my friends #the traditional idea of dating is generally uncomfortable for me for reasons i cant coherently explain #but the feeling i get around my friends is similar to that of what i assume people get when theyre around their partner or crush #and i feel that way without the drive to pursue a 'deeper relationship' with them #because why would i? i already have that. we're already friends #it gets a little complicated once you introduce sex into the mix because i am by no means asexual #but to keep it concise - the answer would probably be yes lmao #talk #aromanticism #aromantic #thoughts after posting: i wonder if i would call this hyper-romanticism as opposed to aromanticism?#idk if that term already has a meaning im just talking out of my ass here lol #but there IS a difference between the platonic relationships i have with my friends vs my family #with my friendships being considerably more romantic than my familial relationships (at risk of stating the obvious lol)#so i feel strange using the term platonic to describe both since there are completely different feelings associated with both of them #so idk. maybe that means i Do have feelings of romance #but id still consider it aromantic bc its outside of the traditional definition of romance.#because as stated before: all of my friends are my 'partners' in some way #maybe thats weird to say though lol

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girlivealwaysbean · 3 months ago

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sometimes my boobs hurt so much i think they're gonna bleed surely this is normal right

#i think im pmsing.. but im not sure #like the dates aligned but also they've been super irregular hence the whole pcod etc #like im already wearing a size 38 bra because of all this fucking weight gain #and even that feels tight?? like the next size available was free size😭😭#but like it feels normal good even everyday just from the past two days it's been hurting like hell #and fucking worst festivsl of the year so i can't even stay in my room bra off all day #but oh god why do they pain so much it's never been like this before ive been having periods since i was 11 and im 21 now #maybe another pcod uhh idk side effect? symptom? whatever it's called #and i definitely have that pms wali feeling #i mean i haven't broken down yet but #you know that feeling when you WANT something but you don't know what and you try everything but nothing works #like i ate pasta i ate ice cream i studied and accomplished my targets i slept a lot i watched comfort show #i even washed my hair and danced to so many songs today morning while booping #but then it keeps crashing #and it's not enough #don't ask me what's it because even i do not know #i think i want. a hug. i guess #but from my bestfriend #because me and my sister keep fighting and i don't think she's really understanding me rn #but i think she's (bsf) avoiding talking to me because she's getting back together with her shitty boyfriend #i want to call and whine and say fuck that i don't care just talk to me but #i can't #the thought of asking for help needing people is. wow it's genuinely making me puke #i hate hate HATE being pathetic and needy #sometimes i wish #i mean obviously i would prefer it if i was perfectly healthy qnd normal and fine #but sometimes i wish someone just looked at me and said #oh honey how are you carrying so much sadness inside you and hiding it so well?? how are you even functioning???? how are you not #on the floor wailing and crying and unable to get up?#like you need [insert idk pills or whatever the cure is] BADLY

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buttercup-art · 4 months ago

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So I was looking through some 'Ugly Betty' clips last night, and couldn't help but imagine these as Hugo and Noa:

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also a bonus (this one is from the show 'Desperate Housewives', but it really reminded me of Noa! I can totally see her saying and doing stuff like this lol):

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#about those first two videos #i really enjoy imagining them working together to get out of an awkward situation they don't want to be in #and both of their thought processes #like i love the “you can't set the boat on fire...Explosives work better. We didn't plan ahead!” line #and i can totally see Hugo lying about his height in general for dating services. or just bumping it up to be in the 6ft range #when he's actually like around 5'11 with shoes on (at least that's just my headcanon. it's kinda hard to tell his exact height in canon)#and he just assumes whoever he matches up with is shorter than him and won't notice lol #i mean most people are. he's already a pretty big guy #also i love the idea of Hugo misreading signals between them and kissing her at the wrong time #like they're stuck in an elevator together and Noa is mostly focusing on figuring out a way to get out #but he just sees it as the perfect opportunity to get closer to her #which obviously backfires on him (no matter how good of an idea he thought it was at the time)#because even if she *does* want to make out with him in that elevator (and she totally does) she won't let herself #and she'd probably feel awful about it afterwards #like she always does whenever she accidentally ends up pushing him away and hurting his feelings #even though she'd try to convince herself that she shouldn't regret doing that to him. that it was the smart choice #but of course that doesn't work #anyway i just wanted to share my thoughts on these!#s/i: noa simmons #hugo vasquez #otp: golden shot

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meownotgood · 2 years ago

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it's kinda cute how much game aki had in the manga. he really had a chick in love with him and three devils after his attention. that guy from division 2 was lowkey flirting with him also

#'oh really now? 😏 come back to division 2 aki 😏 I'm gonna do everything to make you come back 😏'#just ask him on a date already #you can't tell me future wasn't aggressively flirting with him too #they had a thing going on and I will not elaborate #other two devils are angel (obvious) and fox (thought aki was handsome)#he's canonically so seggsy...#aki <3

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always-a-slut-4-ghouls · 7 months ago

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You ever dated someone for a bit without realizing you were dating until years after you broke up?

Anyway, communication is key

#emma posts #this actually happened to me and i only realized it several years later #when someone who knew us both pointed it out #in my defense they never said those were dates and they had rejected me when I first asked!#I assumed we were just hanging out alone without our other friends!#so if you think your fictional blorbos are unrealistic for not knowing they’re dating… well. it might not be #to be fair it was only like. two or three dates and he never said anything #plus we had already been part of the same friend group for a few years #and I had hung out with just one of the friends before and those weren’t dates #so i just thought that’s what was happening??? I had told him I had feelings for him but he said no #so why would I assume we were hanging out as anything besides friends???#tell people if it’s a date man like damn #ESPECIALLY after saying no to that person before #how was i supposed to know #realized this years later which was relatively recently #never got 100% confirmation from him but our mutual aquatinces said those were dates

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im-still-watching-anime · 1 year ago

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whyyy do some people flirt by treating you like a child

#what do you MEAN you were flirting when you said that to me #it was condescending babe!!!#hello naruto blog im here to complain about Dating™️#i hate it and no one should do it #i KNOW a lot of flirting is being really nice to each other or sweet etc #but i just REALLY hate when people go too hard and verge into the babying territory #like i KNOW what you’re going for and i’m TRYING to be understanding and patient #but girl please CHILL #and treat me like an actual human adult for two seconds because good lord #i thought i already made it clear i wasn’t interested too but!! she keeps going!!#like why!!#pls leave me alone!!!#ughhhhhh #sorry #i am just Very Tired of this #and people being condescending or babying me just really gets on my nerves even when it’s not with bad intentions #flirting BAD sometimes #life junk #venting

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tommygotwrittenoff · 6 months ago

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i need eddie to get another guy friend in season 8, and buck loses his shit about it (again), so he breaks up with t because he's convinced that the weird feeling he gets when he sees them together is because he is Really attracted to the new guy.

#like things with t are fine cuz he likes exploring this new side of himself even if t doesnt always match his energy but whatever its fun #and maybe at work chim is the one who brings up eddies new friend and he is immediately just. what new friend?#chim laughs and says. tbf last time eddie got a new friend you attacked him so you could date his friend. hes probably keeping it to himsel #and bucks like. dude what. that was. yeah it was shitty of me but it was a one time thing. i wont do it again...#and when eddie shows up for shift buck immediately asks about his new friend and eddie tells him about the guy without hesitation #after shift tho buck is like. why didnt you tell me about him? after t i get why you dont want to but im just. you dont have to worry man.#buck. i know. im not worried. anyway he and i are gonna head to a bar to catch the game. you want to come with? you can bring t if hes free #oh. thats. thatd be okay? i dont want to idk ruin the vibe by bringing a date #nah man. itll be fine #and so he and t go to the bar and eddies already inside with the new friend and its Fine. its Great actually because t gets along with eddi #and the new guy and the new guy makes eddie laugh and doesnt miss a beat and knows more about the teams record this season than buck and #buck is doing Fine. this guys smile is big and his eyes are bright and when he laughs he sorta leans into eddies space alittle and its Fine #the night ends and buck and t go back to his apartment and buck cant stop thinking about that guys hand when it clapped down on eddies #shoulder or the look on his face as he teased eddie about the beer he drinks (cuz its kinda bad but only buck can say that) and buck Cant.#he wants that guy. he wants his hands and grin and teasing voice all to himself and not on eddie.#so he breaks up with t and ts confused af cuz i thought things were going good?#yeah. i just. i want to explore my options yk now that ive uh figured out i like men.#and its a clean break. not dramatic or messy. t tells him to call if he every changes his mind. buck wont.#bucks trying to not pry about eddies new friend and he doesnt grill eddie or anyone and just waits and listens to all the new info he gains #and eventually eddie invites him out to watch another game because whatever team they were watching made it to the playoffs #and when he gets there eddies like. no t tonight?#nah we. uh. we broke up.#eddie says sorry man that sucks. and the new guy is like. honestly he didnt even seem that into you which what an idiot. youre great.#and its good because the new guy splits his attention between the two of them now. eddie isnt the only one getting hands and grins and eyes #and the third time theyre at the bar the guy follows him to bathroom and kisses him hard against the door before pulling back with a #panicked sorry and leaving and when buck finds eddie after hes like. what happened? new guy ran out of here without even saying goodbye #he kissed me in the bathroom. i think uh. i think he was kinda freaking out about it and thats why he left.#and eddie just blinks at him before being like. buck. buck you said you werent going to do this again.#i didnt mean to! and buck means it. he just saw the way that guy made eddie laugh and put his hands on eddie and had eddies attention and #oh.

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