#Compassion too
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There is information that exists about the lore..... But just in my mind....
#okay i'm gonna yap but here in the tags#mostly about Valentine's clothes#is very on the nose tbh but ah! thoughts!#Valentine's main outfit being the one with his black coat (its actually his mom's) referencing his mourning and grief#his white scarf in more association with “innocence”#innocence as “inocent” as#a victim#i like to think about the white and black as lack of openess#achromatism#(does that word exist? idc)#hes not open to clive and he doesnt know him he can only see him as this man who killed his mother and thats it. thats what clive is.#as well as clive seeing valentine as one more person who hates his guts and wants him death#nothing new.#Under Valentine's coat hes using a pink shirt. Pink (as white) can symbolize innocence too. Is a bright color. Love is the most accepted#definition#Compassion too#Thats what Valentine shows Clive as their story goes on. Valentine later stops using his scarf too#ahhh well. i didnt describe it too much on the fic i wrote where they kiss#but that day was quite hot#Valentine's clothes were mostly white#old white shirt with short sleeves with paint stains#white as this innocent feeling that its stained#maybe with sentiments of confusion. fear. excitement. hope?.#short sleeves#hes showing himself to clive#this is as closer they got#(besides the kiss)#Clive dresses the same during all the story#whatever that means....! haha! (go listen to two birds by regina spektor)#well thats all for now
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#self care#self care is not selfish#self care is not an indulgence#rest#give yourself permission#give yourself permission to rest#make yourself a priority#you can't take care of others if you don't take care of yourself#for caregivers#boundaries#people pleasing#fawning#codependency#self compassion#self love#self respect#mental health#be good to yourself too#self and others#relationships
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I interrupt my zelda posting with caitvi because Arcane changed my brain chemistry
(ight, now i go back on hiatus! If you want to see my sketchbook which I WILL be posting until the day I wither, check out patreon! Now excuse me as i crawl back into my warm little den)
((Im also currently significantly more active on my instagram posting commission work, if you wanna see it :0))
Edit: ah dang it the hyperfixation’s set in.
#critdraws#arcane#caitvi#sketchbook#these lesbians will be the death of me#lesbians#caitlyn kiramman#violet arcane#vi arcane#garden of ozymandius#arcane vi#arcane caitlyn#arcane caitvi#domestic#i wanna write a fanfic post canon s2 where ekko recruits vi to help plant trees in zaun as caitlyn struggles with the energy crisis with th#e dissolution of hextech#i think that would fix me actually#but im busy with coms! alas!#is anybody gonna talk to me about HOW COOL CAITLYN AND SILCO ARE FOILS#big coats. machinations. life partners that serve as their moral compasses#loss of an eye from somebody they were close to#anyways i like s2 a lot#i recognize theres a myriad of stuff wrong with it too but i REALLY like s2 aah#arcane spoilers#language tw
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everybody was very nice on my last post(s) so !!! more cole and manfred be upon you :D
#my arts#dragon age#dragon age veilguard#dragon age the veilguard#dav#datv#da4#dragon age 4#veilguard#the veilguard#manfred dragon age#cole dragon age#dragon age manfred#dragon age cole#manfred the skeleton#cole the spirit of compassion#dragon age veilguard spoilers#emmrich volkarin#dorian pavus#EHHHH TECHNICALLY#not tagging solas or the iron bull tho. that feels cheaty#im still not very good at drawing skeletons (can you tell i was experimenting w his head lol) so take that as u will#but i loooooove doodling cole esp his hair <3 wet cat core. he used to be on so many of my school notes back in the day :]#i think i am going to draw them w some weird friends next (basically. sandal and kieran. cryptic boys my beloveds) but we will see !#also maybe something w varric bc uhhh. yeah >_>;;;#its crazy bc i know like 10 things that happen in veilguard and thats it. but fck it we ball >:3c#oh i also had an AU idea too UGH i have so much i wanna draw but ill stop#thanks for looking at my art and also i love you <33
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i, too, am defined by absence. i am a child, and anything could be taken from me at any moment.
#heartstopperedit#heartstopper#tao xu#taoelle#elle argent#isaac henderson#charlie spring#mine#quote by Rayne Fisher-Quann#if u hate on tao xu you r wrong#i have such compassion for him. he's trying his best!#he's just. he just pre-emptively grieves the loss of his friends and his girlfriend! and holds on too tightly! bc it's not needed
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I just found your Itty Bitty Au and I have to say, I love how you've written Perry and the other fairies to be... just a bit selfish? How Perry won't consider turning Dev into a Fairy- not because he doesn't really care about him or thinks there's a moral issue with it, but because if he turns Dev into a fairy it'll negatively effect HIM. Also, super excited to see more of Timmy (both)!
Fairies are not like humans in that they have “Good or Bad” morals. Fairies, by nature, are extremely selfish. They don’t care for human conflicts, human goodness, or human morale.
A fairy’s first priority is doing their job right for their court, and their second priority is doing what they want most. Selfishness is innate for Fairies as Compassion is innate for Humans.
Cosmo and Wanda are outliers in that they care about their godchildren to an emotional degree. It’s what made them the best fairies to be godparents!! Peri… doesn’t understand that quite yet.
Bitties Series: [Start] > [Previous] > [Next]
#fairly oddparents#fop#fop a new wish#fop peri#fop dev dimmadome#fop dev#peri#dev dimmadome#asks#itty bitties fop au#FAIRIES ARE INHERENTLY SELFISH. IT THEIR MOST BASIC TRAIT#COMPASSION IS SOMETHING THEY MUST LEARN#cosmo and wanda loves timmy turner!! but their love is entirely selfish!!!! peri wants to be a godparent!! for selfish reasons!#another reason timmy fits so well as a fairy is because their selfish ways of living doesnt bother him. he's JUST as selfish as they are.#hazel could never become a fairy she's too kind too empathetic too too human.#peri likes being dev's godparent! he wants to make his kid happier!! but its not for the same reasons a human caretaker would have#not to worry though. peri will slowly learn how to be compassionate as the story goes on!!! prolonged exposure to humans will do that to hi#(also if ur confused about the gold floating around dev)#(thats the wishes dev has inside of him. that he's not verbalizing out loud)#(aka: uncollected fairy food)
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Day 9
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#ofmd#our flag means death#ed teach#inking things#artober#fountain pen ink on canson ink paper#if you need to take your ego down a bit I highly recommend doing a mucha pastiche freehanded with no underdrawing or like compass#frankly too much of a coward to try coloring in this on paper#i was constantly like#one sneeze or fleck of drink away from ruining this as it was lol
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one of the things that continues to strike me on reread is how much the character of Darcy, and Austen through him, finds Mr. Bennet dead. And how much Elizabeth, in growing and changing and discarding her past blindness, has to move past her way of seeing her father and thus of seeing reality, because the two are connected! Darcy’s letter exposes her father’s flaws to Elizabeth in a way she’d never been able to see before. Most especially the way his laziness and neglect of his own gifts have hurt his family and that ultimately he doesn’t. care. Not enough to change. It literally says that she comes home from Hunsford and tries to laugh at her sisters’ and mother’s folly (the way she used to; the way her father has taught her to by example for her whole life) and she can’t anymore! It sticks in her throat. She is grieved by the failures that she sees in him, all the more so because she IS his favorite and she loves him! And the thing about Mr. Bennet is he never changes. The Lydia/wickham situation exposes to him sharply his own conduct and the consequences and he feels it! Because he is neither stupid nor unfeeling. But he, like everyone, has free will. And he chooses not to change when the opportunity presents itself. He even jokes about how quickly his feeling bad will pass and how soon everything will go back to normal, to his laziness and his selfishness. He is set in his ways and he serves as a contrast to Elizabeth’s personal journey because he embodies a version of a person she could have become and was in danger of becoming if her only goal at all times was to laugh at and judge people from the sidelines.
#pride and prejudice#I’ve always loved his character because he IS funny and he is iconic!!! and his love for Lizzy is touching!#he’s not faking it.#but he is so flawed. a man of taste a man of ability a man of judgment.#a man who could and SHOULD have set a different tone for his children and chose not to!#and they SUFFER FOR IT#their house is a divided one. and every child feels the pain of living in a house where the parents neither respect each other#nor are on the same team#there is a crack running through their house for this reason and it’s how Lydia (and Kitty) came to be so neglected!#who is going to discipline them or guide them? certainly not Mr. Bennet!#he’s so important to teach too. because the boys LOVE HIM. of course!#and are always very struck by his failures and laziness once I point it out#and yeah Darcy one of the only people who can expose him. because Darcy is putting in the work a man should be doing#Darcy’s house IS in order. his love is active and protective. he is fulfilling his role!#Mr. Bennet’s gifts are so extraordinary—the wit. the insight into human nature. honestly the capacity for wisdom#but he likes his library. he likes enjoying himself more than he likes doing his duty#as either a father or a husband#he does fail Mrs. Bennet! I have compassion for her there#anyway I love to think about this: something no version I have ever seen has ever fully explored#but man is it on the page#yeah yeah sorry for all the words. teacher off duty etc.
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if you listen closely, you can hear the faint sound of me screeching
#have some compassion#PLEASE#ANNABETH REALLY IS HER FAVORITE DAUGHTER IN LAW FOR A REASON#THATS BABYGIRL#percabeth#THE FACT THAT IT WAS UNPROMPTED TOO???#IT WASNT EVEN WHAT HE WAS GONNA SAY#percy jackson#annabeth chase#percy jackson the lightning thief#percy jackon and the olympians#pjo#pjo tv#pjo tv show#percy series#pjo hoo toa#walker scobell#leah sava jeffries#leah jeffries
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Animals! Brutal! They deserve no mercy. Strike them down! Follow them to their base and kill them, all of them!🔺I did not realize similarity was required for the exercise of compassion. They are afraid. We wish only to do what we can.
minvember prompt 3: crowd
#babylon 5#minvember 2023#minvember#delenn#lennier#minbari#i was gonna write a whole spiel in the tags about how delenn's compassion connects to her past mistakes and her desire to atone#but anyway delenn is a fascinating character flawed desperate to do good but carrying this terrible weight with her everywhere she goes#the fact that she often just gets reduced to 'awesome lady doing awesome things' is actually criminal#the original concept for this was much more brutal and was going to include ordinary civilians and the like#and more markab figures too#but i was like... im tired and this is taking forever#and i wanted to get it done before minvember started up again
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sometimes someone will tell you an incredibly judgmental opinion on you or on your life and it will be completely invalidating and it will be based only on their ignorance on whatever they are talking about and as hurtful as that invalidation is you should not assume that everyone will think the same way, even if they are sure they are telling an absolute truth. that is a weird thing to do in the first place and you don’t have to prove yourself to someone who believes they have constant moral or intellectual superiority. they’re an exception, not the rule. no one is judging you so hard and it’s okay if you don’t want to hang around someone who constantly puts you down or makes you feel like you don’t belong. just don’t assume everyone else agrees with them without ever giving other people a chance.
most often people are just dealing with their own problems and they are not scrutinizing every little thing you do, and you don’t have to act like someone else’s opinion of you is the whole truth just because they want that you to, especially when it’s based of no knowledge or experience and it carries so much prejudice. if you can walk away from those types of discussions, please do. don’t justify everything you do to someone who is committed to judging you based on their misconceptions and it’s not willing to see things from another perspective. I just promise you not everyone will be like them
#some people are awful in their judgments#but don’t generalize it and self isolate out in fear of never meeting someone who likes you#give yourself a chance and give new people a chance too#you’re not worthless#you’re enough as you are to build new friendships#self-worth#self-acceptance#reminder#original writing#self-compassion#important
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#self care#self care is not selfish#self care is not an indulgence#you matter#make yourself a priority#self compassion#be good to yourself too#people pleasing#fawning#codependency#self and others#compassion fatigue#activism fatigue
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not gonna lie, motivation is so hard to muster lately when I feel like interactions are so low.
This is more a personal thought than anything — but I have so, so many asks in my inbox right now asking for various teasers and snippets, and when I do share them (or, certain ones), they rack up interactions. Sure, they’re more easily digestible/there’s less commitment involved with scanning a few hundred words, but those always prompt an additional wave of asks questioning about timelines for updates. Awesome! It lifts my spirit up! People want to read!
Except, when I finally do post an update, there’s few to no interactions with it. Almost no reblogs/comments. What makes me feel worse is that the full chapter itself ends up having far fewer likes even than the 200 word porn teaser from the same fic.
And then the cycle repeats. I post one small snippet and then a flurry of asks about the timeline for the next release, (better) interactions on extremely short (and usually, smutty) teasers, and then next to nothing by comparison when I actually post an update. Idk, so much about writing on here has changed since I joined last summer. Maybe I just need to give up the creative fic stuff and focus on doing exclusively requests and smut and keeping everything below 1-2k words.
TL;dr. It’s hard when the majority of your interactions are asking for updates because, when you do put them out, you only get more of the same questions.
#anyways that’s why Netherwood is taking so long#and compass too#it’s just hard to put this much effort into something only to be treated like a machine#delete later
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i loved the part of the book where piranesi resolves to take better care of himself while he's rediscovering his own history. he just has so much compassion for himself! the journal upsets him so he takes a week off and does things he enjoys and then he settles into a safe place when he wants to tackle the subject again. and he doesn't believe The Other when he's told about his amnesia! he values his own insights and his own knowledge of the House even when fucking ketterley is actively trying to undermine his sense of self. piranesi's gentle treatment of himself and the person he used to be is genuinely so moving.
#piranesi#i could go on about his recounting of the times he let himself go hungry and made stupid decisions#but there's nothing in the way of self-recrimination#he just says:#i didn't know then what i know know and i would do things differently#he stands up for himself when he's talking to raphael too even though he likes her#obvs he's got oodles of compassion for other people too#he takes care of the dead. he gives nesting material to the albatrosses. he leaves the herring gulls alone before retrieving the paper#he enters the scary room for The Other. he warns sixteen about the flood. he blesses the prophet#(who does not fucking deserve it)#he writes directions to the statue#even when he comes back he goes and finds poor james ritter#but it's the self compassion that touches me the most
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ep 43 had me tearing up in a fucking shopping centre ‼️‼️
b+w alt version that I truly couldn't decide if I liked it more . Also I included a lot of thoughts in the tags but they're somewhat incoherent<3
#i dont know what i expected but i was waiting for a friend and too excited to wait until later#malevolent podcast#john doe#john doe malevolent#john malevolent#malevolent fanart#grimm art#ep 43#ep 43 left me with a lot of thoughts ... i didnt quite like how much of a recap it felt like at times but that might#be because ive been relistening and like yeah everyone knows that john 🙄 but that's not the case for everyone and with monthly uploads#things get forgotten easily#i find the discussion of “humanity” so interesting because John has shown that without someone that he has forcibly grown to value as an#equal... something he cannot do as the king of yellow as he is superior to all of his realm and presumably stays out of other elder god's#anyway. without that equality and enviroment to grow he fails to reach his goal of compassion and falls onto old ways.#John. The King in Yellow. shown by both times each has found themselves in human form do not just crave power and influence!!!#THEY CRAVE COMMUNITY!!! an endrich being not born or raised with nothing but power and ego#CRAVES COMMUNITY.#His goal of “humanity” is not a selfless goal like John projects - it is ultimately somewhat selfish as he does not want to be alone!!#which makes this desire so much more human#i don't know maybe this is just me spelling out whats already there but the way john and the witch argued about humanity frustrated me#it felt like they were missing the point or that perhaps the “good/evil” “black/white” retoric was already realised by me and john needed#realise it himself . which is fair !!!#i dont know!!!!#the witch was talking about how bad everyone was and how humanity is cruel and john was talking about Lily (#who also frustrates me how shes used in the plot somewhat she was literally just a nurse doing her job bro#) but to John - yes internally he is struggling with his moral greyness and im so proud of him for growing being himself SO PROUD#JUST.!!! he wants community. he needs community. he loves his friend. 'humanity' at its core does not matter as long as you try to be bette#and i think thats awesome and i really enjoyed the episode#guhh im rambling enjoy my tag rambling i dont know i want john to have more friends :(#yorrick can be another friend godd i love you yorrick so silly
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hear me out for like 3 seconds guys
#original segment?????#(my excuse to finally draw a segment oc)#ngl i feel like the original would be chill but also lack a basic moral compass#‘sorry my experiment left you paraplegic dawg want some coffee or smthn?’#i shop at goodwill too i actually saw him there the other day#zandik rights#dottore#it’s my gap year i’ll draw if i want to
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