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You don't wish your disability was worse or more visible, you wish your disability was taken seriously. Please stop confusing the two, I guarantee you would not get the support you need JUST by being more severe or more visible. Please listen to visibly disabled people when we tell you it isn't better on our side
#m/cc#mine#I tried extremely hard to word this nicely because I KNOW people don't mean bad and often even know there are unique challenges#and believe me I know the challenges of invisible disability too!!#I have invisible disabilities!#but as someone who has also been at least visibly 'off' since they were 10 I am SO SICK of invisible disabilities being hailed as like#a unique extra oppression that us lucky visibly disabled people don't have to deal with#there are challenges to invisible disabilities that visibly disabled people DON'T have to deal with!#but you need to understand that *the reverse is also true*#there are MASSIVE benefits to being able to lie about your disability for example#or not dealing with the overt ableism that comes with your disability being obvious to everyone#*I do not have the option to pretend I'm not disabled.* that is never an option I have#I walk weirdly. I use a mobility aid now. my speech and face are 'off.' I lean to one side#for a long time I wore sunglasses 24/7 and often didn't make sense. I sometimes can't speak or won't react to others#for the most part people will always know that at the very least something is wrong with me#and more obviously I have people telling me they'll pray for me; telling me I can't do things I'm already in the process of doing;#wanting to shake my hand to tell me I'm an inspiration for not killing myself; giving me dirty looks for existing in public#and yes. I'm aware that this is very much an in-community issue. I know the average abled person doesn't know invisible disabilities exist#that's why there's so much awareness happening for it#but as a visibly disabled person I get SO TIRED of constantly hearing 'I wish my disability was visible :'('#it's just 'I wish I had your disability!' but from other disabled people
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Visit from Great Uncle Danny
Riddler was gleefully smiling as he watched in triumph that Batman was currently stumped in his trap after replicated decoy rooms he had set up to trick robin into thinking he was in a certain trap room worked.
"Now that I have your attention, Batman. You have only mere hours away until-" Riddler, stop speaking for a moment, glancing back to something, playing a jingle in the background, sounding like phantom phantom.
Batman saw Riddler's face went white as paste as he scrambled to grab an odd riddler theme phone before cursing something.
"Well, Batman, I believe we'll have to raincheck our fun time, Robin is in the private hidden room between the 6-7 door behind a locked mechanism behind the wallpaper. the word code is OFTEN." Riddler closed the coms as he was undressing his riddler costume a bit frantically, but before the screen went black.
A glowing green portal emerge out of thin air with a white glow hand coming out.
Edd nervously held his hands together as his great Uncle Danny came to visit him. It was game time with the grandkids Saturday, and it completely slipped his mind today.
He just barely made it to clean the Fenton made washable black dye from his orange curly hair just now as Danny fully emerged from the portal.
He hasn't yet told great Uncle Danny about his side hobby/job as a villain, though he thought Nana would break it down for him last visit.
Apparently, not after his baby cousin pretty much told the whole family that she accidentally made some sort of assassin cult because she saved from dude in Egypt during a mission from clockwork that got too intertwined in the timeline.
He know Great Uncle Danny has some sort of issue with his own dark side, Dan but he is reform and is better now.
Edd already calculated most of the probability on what if he gone rogue fully, but Clockwork and Nana on his side to held him back considering Nana will break him down in one disappointed glance and drag him back to therapy with Cujo again.
Part 2 -> here
#dpxdc#danny phantom#dc x dp#dp x dc#dp x dc crossover#dcxdp#dc x dp prompt#danny is the ghost king#riddler is Jazz's grandson#who is in his rebellious ghostling#Riddler's obsession is puzzle and escape rooms#he haven't told the whole family that he is a villain#nana know because jazz always knows what up with her grandbabies#aka blackmailing clockwork with a every inch of his core#riddler worries that great uncle danny might soup him for this#he wayy more concerned batman finding out bout his family#riddler lives in the dc universe as a side job as a villain#clockwork help him out with the background issue but Edd forgets about his annual family time just one time#batman and the robins has a conspiracy about what riddler up too that was so important#the riddler is a fenton
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And on that day, Garrus learned two things: to shut up and let Shepard fight the losing battle against gravity, and a whole lotta new human swear words
Comic Masterpost
Also, while I didn't end up being able to match the vibe of the rough for this panel, I like it so much that I must share it with the world
#Shep came out a lil scuffed but I don't feel like redrawing that one panel a third time#drawing her with a new hairstyle is always a bit of a crapshoot on the first attempt so oh well ¯\_(ツ)_/¯#but while my shep did her best to turn into an unidentifiable blob?#Garrus gave me pretty much zero issues. only had to redraw him once#we see who the more loved child is in this family#mass effect#femshep#garrus vakarian#mass effect comic#shakarian#femshep x garrus#garrus x femshep#cw: swearing#sharky shepard#sharky art
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Tim Drake who was raised to not be allowed to ask questions at home and so he just assumes that he’s not allowed to anywhere.
It wasn’t like he was told he couldn’t, it was just that he was often ignored when he did or made to feel like a burden or even straight up stupid when he did. They were too busy to answer questions that could be easily answered if he just thought about it.
It doesn’t help that he’s a naturally curious child and can rattle off a dozen questions in a single minute.
So, when he starts being around and eventually living in the manner he sort of just assumes he’s not allowed to and naturally, this leaves him with a lot of internal turmoil. He does ask questions, but not things that are either able for him to figure by himself or something that he thinks could be a bother for others, things like how to use the new tech that came into the ace or where the fresh linen was.
Bruce at first is impressed by the way Tim adjusted to things so independently and with so little need for guidance, but even when he’s at his lowest he’s able to see how strange it is that Tim seems to put so much stress on himself for things he can get others to do. He assumes Tim is like him and just wants to figure things out himself, determined to solve things on his own.
It comes to a head one day when he watches Tim storm up the stairs while a confused Dick is standing below looking utterly bewildered.
Upon questioning him, Dick explains that he had just been asking Tim if he needed any assistance with his ongoing case as it seemed to be bothering him only for Tim to instantly snap at him about hypocrisy and double standards.
Bruce tells Dick to just give him some space to calm down and instead goes to see Tim himself.
His ongoing my theories since he started to get a clearly head and had talks with Dinah.
Standing next to the door to very clearly show that Tim can leave the conversation whenever he wants, he doesn’t bother trying to hide what he’s doing because no matter how he does it Tim will notice, instead he just stands there a moment until Tim looks up from where he is angrily rearranging his clothes… on the floor… to other parts of the floor.
Bruce holds back a sigh and instead speaks in as steady of a voice as he can, “Ducky, I want us to have a talk, not just about you. Can we please try?”
Maybe it’s the earnest wording and the way he’s invoking himself in the discussion, or the old nickname that Bruce hasn’t actually used for a while, or perhaps both, but Tim deflates like a balloon and goes to sit down on his bed and gives a single nod.
Bruce smiles and something it is so clearly Bruce the person, the parent, the guy whose just trying and not Batman or Brucie.
Bruce sits as well, parallel to him and with as reflex posture he can have with such a tense body, “Tim, why do you feel you can ask for help?”
It’s such an open ended question and Tim can’t help but scoff, his own internal perception making him feel angry at the question and so he snaps, “Because I can’t! You guys never offer help and even when I want to it doesn’t matter because it’s always about what Damian wants for dinner and what times are better for Dick for lunch or- or work! It’s only me doing Wayne Enterprise stuff and I also have to do Drake Industries stuff now and none of you guys help me because I have to do everything on my own-“
Bruce doesn’t want to cut him off but this confirms some things and if so, he needs to do fix some things quickly.
“Ducky, why do you have to do everything on your own? I don’t mean as Robin or Red Robin, but as you, as Tim.”
Bruce can only hope he’s doing this right and that he isn’t pushing in a way that’s going to hurt Tim.
Nothing can stop the way Bruce startles when Tim lets out a guttural scream of pure frustration, standing up and looking so genuinely past it as he shouts, “BECAUSE I ALWAYS HAVE TO! IF I ASK FOR HELP I’LL JUST BE IGNORED OR TOLD IM STUPID OR- OR-“
Tim starts to huff, choking on air as he lets out several years of frustration out only to collapse under Joe helpless he feels.
Staying as still as he can, not showing his concern or his growing heart ache, Bruce leaves a hand palm out out for Tim to take and asks as carefully as he can, “By who, Ducky?”
And Tim, he looks so angry at first and yet when he opens his mouth he sputters and hesitates, trying to say something before thinking better of it a couple times and then… then he just looks defeated as he can’t bring himself to give an example of this because in reality, it hasn’t really happened. Sure there have been times when people have had to deny him, but how rare has that been?
And when has he actually been denied for no reason?
Tim sputters again and this time he actually speaks and says, “But mum-“
Bruce has to hold everything in him back from giving the most heartbroken look because it will definitely be misinterpreted as pity.
Never has Tim look more like a kid even though he’s almost eighteen, he looks like he’s lost in a supermarket and the front counter has called for his parents several times and still he’s alone.
He gives an encouraging nod when Tim goes to speak again and stops, still holding out his hand even as his arm beg isn’t to ache.
Tim manages to say, “If I ask for help then-then I’m being childish.”, right before falling into a ball of himself while also reaching a hand out to grasp Bruce’s.
Bruce himself brings himself to the floor and squeezes Tim’s hand, getting as close as he dares without checking in first but Tim just falls into him.
He can’t deny it’s a bit awkward at first, but eventually he just does what feels natural and cradles Tim to his chest.
A moment passes before either speaks again and it’s Bruce, “Ducky, I want you to know this isn’t your fault. I shouldn’t have just let you take on so much by yourself and assumed you were okay, I shouldn’t have offered help and shown you that you can ask for it.”
Tim goes to speak and Bruce gives a small squeeze to ask him to wait, luckily Tim understands and lets him continue, “I don’t know everything, I have an idea but I think assuming things is what’s put us in this position in the first place. What I do know is that some things need to change, including how much pressure has been put on you and at the same time, I need you to do something for me. It’s not going to be easy but I know you can do it, Ducky.”
With a sniffle, Tim pulls away from him and looks at him with red eyes, “What is it?”
Bruce smiles, “I want you to try to not assume how we’re going to react to things. More specifically, I want you to do your best to give us a chance to respond to you better or even just differently to how your parents would.”
Tim look ashamed for a second and Bruce knows that expression, it’s the one Tim gets what he feels confused or stupid and so Bruce pulls him close again and says, “You haven’t done anything wrong, Tim. You haven’t made a mistake, it just… you were raised in different way to how we do things, right or wrong. Because Tim, and I’m saying this as clearly and plainly as I can,”
This time he nods along to his words and prays he’s doing the right thing and says, “You are allowed to ask questions.”
Tim starts to sniffle again and Bruce knows he’s done right, “you can ask anything, Ducky, even something small and pointless or something huge and personal or even just something without a definite answer. We’re here to help you, not hinder you.”
This time Tim cries and by all definitions it’s a wail, a heartbreaking and tragic wail of pure emotion as he sobs into his father’s arms.
“I’m sorry, I’m sorry, I thought- god I was so angry and it was all my fault and I-I’ll
Bruce shuts that down immediately, “no it wasn’t, we should have done better to show you it was okay before hand. Yes, you did put more power to this than you should have but by all accounts it makes sense, and at the same time-“ because two truths are possible and important, win for Dialectic Behavioural Therapy “-we had a duty to you to notice and act on it. I knew something was up and I didn’t do anything even though I’m a detective and your carer, and that is on me. I admit that.”
Tim just cried harder and tries to shake his head no but then Bruce holds him tighter and he can’t.
He does feel stupid, like he made a big deal out of something small, but it was so big to him growing up and he wanted better but just… couldn’t take the chance.
But Bruce seems to want to understand and in a lot of ways already does, so…
“Okay. Okay, I believe you.”
Bruce smiles and kisses his head, “Thank you, Ducky.”
Dick and Alfred, standing by the doorway, both give each other a nod and start working out how to explain this to the Damian ‘Change Is My Worst Enemy’ Wayne.
#batfam#dc comics#tim drake#bat family#dc universe#batfamily#dc#tim drake is red robin#tim drake headcanon#tim drake centric#tim drake angst#tim drake has issues#janet and jack drake#dick grayson#he’s trying his best#but somehow always gets bad timing#dad bruce wayne#good dad bruce wayne#he’s trying too#and actually doing well this time#dialectic Behavioural Therpay#DBT for the win#dinah lance#she’s mentioned#alfred pennyworth#damian wayne#Tim ‘ducky’ drake
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i'm still trying to piece together the truth of it. when you left, you said: feel free to spin this narrative however you want. i have no idea if you were being cruel or if you just genuinely don't remember what you've done to me.
it's hard because i'd done so much of the work for you. i had seen the parts that flaked off, the rust underneath. i started separating you into two people - the one i loved, and the one who hurt me. i had this fantasy version of you - my partner - and then i had this stranger, a third person who would show up randomly to shatter me. i am deliriously glad i'm no longer with "the stranger". i miss the gentle (unreal?) "other" you terribly.
at first, i was so strict about my boundaries. i remember telling you to get the fuck out of my house if you were going to talk to me like that. by the end: i would justify your behavior for you, accepting even your mistreatment as "my fault" in the grand scheme. i look back on the person i was before you - smart, independent, confident - and i feel a strange sense of detachment. i don't even recognize me.
even in one of our last conversations, you said: if you want a partner that always talks warmly to you, find someone else. there was a time that a comment like that would have made me leave. and instead, somehow, i just placidly accepted that kind of thing. you were literally telling me that i wasn't allowed to have a reaction to your cruelty - and i just took it, because you'd so fully turned things around on me.
when people are faced with irrationality, a rational brain tries to make sense of it. this is the trap. they're lovely in the morning, gentle and blue-eyed and sweet. like nothing even happened, they breeze around the house and kiss you on the mouth. but at night; who is that? they snap almost randomly; flying into an impotent rage about just-about-anything. it just doesn't make sense. so the problem must be me, and my brain, and how i think.
the traumatized brain just wants peace. so maybe i'm misremembering. maybe you were just having a bad day. maybe it's actually me.
you eventually would fully turn on me and start implying that i am the bad actor in our relationship. that's what happens, right? that's literally in the playbook. you went to therapy for all of a month, told her a half-truth, co-opted therapyspeak. you figured out how to reframe your actions as "seeking peace." any time i stood my ground, i was "gaslighting." when i asked you to be more gentle, you said i was "tone policing." you said, randomly, i had emotionally manipulated you - i still have no idea what that's even specifically referring to. maybe my consistent requests for calmness and empathy?
and while i literally know better, and i'm sitting here, trained by you, thinking: wait, fuck. was i actually the person you made me out to be?
and the thing that scares me is that i literally do not know if you ever actually saw what you were doing to me. when you'd tell me how you remember arguments, you'd always summarize them in a way where you come off as gentle and easy: "i was trying to set an important boundary." what had actually happened was 15 minutes of you shouting at me i know you did something shady, just admit it already. eventually you'd say my reaction to your shouting (when i finally reacted, which usually happened around hour three) was inevitably "disappointing" and "another way i'm silencing your feelings."
how many times did i ask you - beg you - to just take accountability? looking back, i don't think i ever heard you say: you're right. the way i talked to you was wrong of me.
i am trying to tie together the two people into a full version of you in my head. yes, you made my coffee and made me laugh and spent hours on the phone with me. and yes - you would scream at me until i had to run away and hide behind something.
i wish i did have a narrative i could pull out and shape to my whim. i wish i did have some semblance of reality. instead i just stand here, strange and vibrating, wondering: what the fuck just happened?
#spilled ink#warm up#tbh more of a diary than a poem#i need to write this stuff down bc my ptsd likes to forget trauma pretty much WHILE it's happening#and any time i find myself making it ''my fault'' again i have to walk myself through the grounding steps#it's so hard to describe emotional abuse. bc it's so fucking easy to get sucked into#like. you're an empathetic person. so when ur partner comes to you after a nasty fight and is like#“i really was trying to get my feelings heard and you didn't hear me last night” you're like - okay you know what#i'll do the right thing. this is my fault. let me take accountability and try to empathize and talk things out.#with the assumption that later - it'll be ''your turn'' right. you'll be able to bring up the screaming and talk about how#you BOTH need to make a safe space for each other. that you can't listen if your partner is literally shouting at you.#since YOU reflect and grow and try to be a better partner. you assume SHE will be doing the same thing.#but it is never your turn. she will never bring up the screaming. you cannot tell if she LEGIT just doesn't feel culpable.#and when u bring it up. she says ''so i deserved you talking to me badly? <- this doesn't go well.#she says you're blaming her. she doesn't understand that arguments are ''two sides and the truth''. it's that 1 person is right and 1 isn't#so u try to talk it out. get both perspectives heard. but over time it just becomes easier to let her get her rant out and shut up about u#until one day you wake up and despite months of treating you terribly - and admitting it 3 weeks ago!!! - she's now saying...#you were always terrible . you were always the issue. she never got her feelings heard.#meanwhile you remember literally MONTHS of supporting her and listening to her and silencing yourself.#and bc she TRAINED you to accept fault ... you just say sorry. you feel insane. you feel incredibly unhinged.#meanwhile. i fully am the kind of person that will reflect. come back after a fight. apologize before you ask. say things like#“i see your side now and i was wrong about this/that/the other thing.” ...... this is EMOTIONAL MATURITY.#she literally started calling it ''mindgames'' and ''flip flopping." ........#AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH#<- girl who def was emotionally abused but also doesn't really understand that yet#anyway love u get OUT OF THERE IF YOU RELATE BYE!!!!
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hide me there, under the leaves
#hard times#ethel cain#preachers daughter#hayden anhedönia#willoughby tucker i’ll always love you#southern goth aesthetic#southern gothic#daddy issues#girl interrupted#sick girl#girl interrupted syndrome#grunge#female hysteria
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Inspired by the latest Batgirl issue
#telespeak#Cassandra Cain#Stephanie Brown#soooooo the latest issue broke my heart#into so many pieces#and look. objectively babs would've been a better choice#but any take on her that would've connected to their relationship in Batgirl 2000 would have needed her to be the Oracle of that time#and that was never going to happen#and like. there is something deeply compelling to me about the fact that every time Cass is out of options she thinks of Steph#Steph is not a purely joyful presence in Cass's life! If Brombal writes an arc with steph I'd want to see that pre-52 tension back!#but I do think Cass in some ways conceptualizes her as that. joyful.#and so when she needs comfort. it'll be her#always her#we are up to a hat trick fellas#What they have is the good stuff
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Something I think people are sleeping on Hua Cheng and his shapeshifting. I’m re reading and it’s really clear to me that Hua Cheng (who yes has self esteem issues) also does his disguises for fun. Like one of the things we first hear about him in this:
“The name Hua Cheng was very obviously fake, and his appearance was most likely fake too. In the rumors, he was sometimes a twisted boy given to capricious mood changes, sometimes a gentle and mannered handsome young man, sometimes a gorgeous seductress with a venomous heart, anything goes!”
Then later he appears in one of these forms. Like if you read the scenes of Xie Lian checking his disguise he is both giggling and twirling his hair at how smart his Gege is and how good his disguise is. He enjoys looking like a young pretty boy master with boyish charm. He literally changes shape just to play with his clothes. He switches forms I think at least 10 times in the novels possibly more (I’m rereading so I can’t actually remember) but like he has fun with it.
Like yes he does have self esteem issues creating the disguises would definitely be a part of that, but far too often I’ve seen the idea floated around that that’s the only reason he changes forms. Or if he does change forms it’s for self consciousness and for strategic purposes and Xie Lian helps him get over that. Like it seems to me a lot of people think when Hualian get married he never wears one when he’s only around Xie Lian and I just don’t think that’s the case.
Like yeah he does mostly take his true form with Xie Lian but I think that’s mostly because they are getting to know each other and he’s probably tired of masks being between them.
Genuinely he never stops changing forms completely once the reveal of his true form has happened.
Even when he’s forced to be shaped like a child he chooses a full fancy baby outfit and styled hair. He plays with his outfits and hair styles frequently and you’re trying to tell me that man is going to live out most of his married life in just one body type. You think he’s going to completely ignore woman’s clothing because I don’t. A female form is mentioned and I know there’s no way he doesn’t have a thousand outfits for her as well.
And while yes I do love the gender fuckery of it for my own headcannons I can also see him putting on his disguises like drag or to put on a persona to act. I think he just likes playing around and switching shapes because like everything Hua Cheng does he doesn’t go in for half measures. He doesn’t seem like some effort into learning how to shapeshift so perfectly it confuses even XL just because he’s self conscious of his own looks. Like that doesn’t really fit his personality.
Basically what I’m trying to say is my guy is fashionista playing dress up with himself as his own Barbie doll. Let him have fun! Stop making him using his disguises as an obstacle he has to overcome. Not everything has to be that serious.
#tgcf#tian guan ci fu#hua cheng#xie lian#heaven official's blessing#hualian#t4t hualian#I always believe in you#genderqueer Hua Cheng#gender fluid Hua Cheng#zees meta#I love angst I love angst headcannons but I love fun and genderqueer Hua Cheng more#I think some people miss the fact he’s had 800 years to work on his self worth and image issues he also just also wants XL to think hes hot#HC is not a man who does things for one reason it’s usually 18 stacked in a bejewelled trench coat#that’s not to say I hate these fics but I rarely ever see his disguises being playful they are always a coping mechanism#like there’s a time for angst and deep heart to hearts but not every fic needs to address HC thinks he’s ugly
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I assume you got a few asks about the TWST news already but: congrats on 7.5 story, they really said you are not leaving your green kids behind just yet LMAOOO also Overblotters solo songs now too! Overblotting animations added to the game! Overblot Idia card (finally!!) CATER EVENT WITH CHIP AND DALE AND HE ALSO HAS FRECKLES?????? I hope we see him on rollerblades like those waiters in diners that'd be so cool!!
me skimming the stream announcement: "MVs"...oh that's probably just more Blazing Jewel stuff, I don't need to catch it, I'll wait for reuploads :)
Twst: :)
you'd think I would've learned by now, APPARENTLY NOT
man. I don't know if they went into any more detail on the stream, but the absolute lack of any explanation on 7.5 in particular is destroying me. this is the entirety of the in-game notice:
"*Main Story Part 7.5: Main Story part 7.5 will be released."
?!?!?!?!
Twst team back on their usual trick of busting in through the wall, tossing a live grenade of one-sentence info with absolutely zero context, and then peacing out to watch everyone explode. what do you mean 7.5. is this the epilogue/hook to 8 that we didn't get with 7 proper. is it something totally different. what does it mean. WHAT DOES IT MEAN
(and if this doesn't kill me, Catermunk might actually with how frikkin adorable he looks. 🐿 shoot. heck. is this gonna be a whole event with other chipmunk diner boys because I may have to seriously consider how many keys I wanna save versus throwing in for OB!Idia. auuugh you'd THINK I would have LEARNED by now --)
#twisted wonderland#twisted wonderland spoilers#spoilers for what? who knows!#twst talking about upcoming releases: it is a mystery 👻#i think those five pixels of chipmunk cater is all they showed on stream as well?#so i don't know if there actually is any more info on...anything. or if twst really is just torturing everyone right now#as is their way#and while i loved the resolution to 7 i was really surprised that there was no hook! so like...#between the deliberate coinciding of the 5th anniversary + the way they were breaking down the earlier subchapters#i do wonder if there was supposed to be one and it just came down to scheduling/time issues#ergo 7.5#idk maybe it's unfair of me to assume it wasn't intentional! i just always tend to assume there were Time Issues#(any time you find yourself wondering 'why was this odd production choice made' the answer is 99% of the time Time Issues)#(there are always Time Issues)#but yeah WHO KNOWS because I sure don't!#the in-game notice for chipmunk cater is also just 'there will be an event with character(s) in new outfits :)'#fine then twst. keep your secrets.#maybe there will be more info in the july schedule...?#i'm not complaining i'm just a bit perplexed as to why they've chosen to give us these teasers#iirc the blazing jewel live is in a couple of weeks so maybe that's something to do with it#in the meantime i'm just gonna really enjoy that idia's character song is called GGWP
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When entering any place of business, such as a store or restaurant, if a staff member greets you, then acknowledge them and greet them back.
Although for many jobs it's a required part of their job to greet you, especially retail workers, receptionists, and restaurant workers to name a few, that doesn't make it feel any less dehumanizing to say "Hello!" to another human being only for them to ignore you. Acknowledging staff members and greeting them back is important for acknowledging their humanity, they are, after all, a human being, and not an automated machine.
This is also important when going to check out at a store. If you approach the cash register, and the cashier greets you, you should acknowledge them and greet them back. Cashiers already have to deal with being dehumanized enough. The least you can do is help humanize them by acknowledging them when they greet you and speak to you.
#story time#when I worked retail I had several co-workers#who if someone approached the register and didn't say 'góðan daginn' back#my co-workers would just repeat themselves and refuse to start scanning their stuff until they said góðan daginn back#I did do that myself once or twice#but only to customers who I recognized and had spoken to before (and were speaking to someone else as they were approaching the register)#so I knew it wasn't an issue of being non-verbal or unable to speak that particular day#but otherwise I tried not to make a habit of it#especially with customers I didn't recognize and hadn't heard speaking to anyone else#since you never knew who was non-verbal or was disassociating ect.#I've also been in foreign countries where I was young and scared and afraid to respond to the cashier and give away that I was a foreigner#so anyway I tried to be understanding#but at the same time it did always feel dehumanizing to greet people all day and just get ignored#manners#good manners#courtesy#etiquette#politeness
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Look, buddy, you either come to the Neath because you're trans, or you live long enough in the Neath you become trans. There ain't any other way.
#transgender of course but also transhuman is included. and also. both#fallen london#of my ocs birdie heard of the neath and flocked to it for trans reasons. london fell and enoch ran off to reinvent self as a man. grietje...#grietje was born here and honestly her identity issues are so wrapped up in cultural and illness concerns she hasnt had time to think on it#i think she'd land on being cis but has stuff to unpack about gender and Society#oh enoch is more transhuman than he is transgender funnily enough. like the bigger issue was always far more societal than gender
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@pkaykim i'm so happy i got to be your secret santa this year wow... your art is like a balm on my soul but also makes me crazy every time i see it cannot stress this enough big fan. anyways until i learn how to write fanfic please take this missing moment in comic form! class 2-4 i pray for you...
@oofurixmas thank you for all your hard work organizing this event! the dedication and love of oofuri fans is always so amazing to see!!
#oofurixmas2024#oofuri#abemiha#halfway thru making this i was like wait i dont know how to make comics HELPPPPP#but i lived.#i always make fun of abe for those moments hes so clearly seeing mihashi thru abe vision HD 4K 2160p esp when he smiles so#now we make fun of mihashi#and i reiterate. once abe starts thinking all the weird things abt mihashi are cute ITS OVEEERRRR#and once mihashi starts seeing all the once scary things about abe (loud voice loud laugh) as cute DOUBLE OVERRRRRRR#i hope u can see the vision.....#theres one more thing but i ran out of time so ill post later Lol.#i am not strong enough for all the abmh ideas in my jellybean brain#edit: pls ignore me if i keep editing/rendering the art btw i have issues<3
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lol arthur realizes with the other knights after watching merlin flirt and being hit with a wave of deja vu: holy shit you asked me out
merlin and the rest of the knights around a campfire after leaving a village bc lancelot and leon somehow started a brawl in the tavern: ???
arthur points at merlin: after valiant! you asked me to buy you a drink! you were asking me out!
merlin is busy cooking dinner and confused out of his fucking mind: what???…..valiant….oh the knight with the snakes.
gwaine who was slightly tipsy now stone cold sober and sitting up straight against a tree: wait. explain. what do you mean merlin asked you out??
arthur snaps his fingers as he recalls the memory: i apologized for sacking you and you said that if i bought you a drink we’d be even.
merlin now remembering how he had stumbled into camelot, picked a fight with a pigheaded bully which quickly turned homoerotic and flirtatious, and continued their teasing-flirting for days before merlin shot his shot and asked the prince out only to be rejected: oh yeah, i forgot i did that…..wait, you mean you didnt realize what i was asking?
arthur: no?? we argued everyday, how was i supposed to realize you were asking me out??
merlin now abandoning the dinner and staring across the camp at arthur while the rest of the knights watch their back and forth like a game of tennis: to you we were arguing, to me that was very much flirting. i thought you were flirting back so i decided to ask you. then you rejected me
arthur, mentally beating his past self up for fucking up their chance: i didn’t reject you!!! i just didn’t realize what you were asking me. how was i meant to? we fought every chance we got
leon, nudging elyan, glee and excitement riling through him: its happening!!! its finally happening!!! seven long, grueling years is finally paying off!!!
merlin, realizing the misunderstanding and acknowledging the fact that he wasn’t rejected, his flirtations just weren’t noticed - realizing he still has a chance: oh…oh i see. arthur, my dear, our fights were extremely flirtatious. need i remind you of what you said? “do you know how to walk on your knees? would you like me to teach you?” or “i could take you apart with one blow”
arthur, mental capabilities at an all time low: m…my dear….?????????
merlin grinning devilishly as he realizes that his flirtatious persona he had hidden away after falling head over heels for arthur can make a come back: that is what i called you. should i call you something else? say…mine?
percival gags in elyan’s ear: cheesy
elyan hides a laugh: at least they’re finally getting somewhere. better than the hopeless pining
arthur, flushed from head to toe: ah uh no um im uh
merlin thoroughly enjoying himself: oh come now, your majesty. use your words.
#meanwhile leon is praying his thanks to every god and goddess above for their mercy#his pain and suffering is so over#merlin is going IN on arthur who is red as fuck#gwaine is enjoying himself immensely#lancelot pulls out popcorn to watch the two idiots finally get their acts together#flirty merlin x flustered arthur#i think yes#listen. merlin lived in ealdor. a small village of maybe thirty people - four or five being his own age#he was thrilled to be in camelot and have new faces and people to meet#he was definitely the village tease or flirt or whatever#he was gonna be a rake in camelot but unfortunately managed to fall hopelessly in love with the prince of camelot#he burned his dreams of being a rake in exchange for arthur#the issue? arthur rejected his advances. next issue? merlin’s feelings remained and grew#so merlin is a lovesick puppy for a prince who doesnt feel the same and he cant find it in himself to look at anyone else bar a few cases#he and lancelot def slept together at least once. him and gwaine tumbled into bed a few times together#but his heart always belonged to arthur he just never imagined hed get a chance to let his affection be known#now that he knows arthur never knew of his intentions in the first place and was quick to deny he rejected him#merlin is more than happy to let that part of his personality come back and terrorize arthur is a way he hadnt been able to before#hes living his best life rn#bbc merlin#merlin emrys#arthur pendragon#merthur#knights of the round table#fanfiction ideas#prompts#headcanon
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He has, in fact, not had his coffee yet.
#ffxiv#sketch#zenos yae galvus#adventurer zenos#I like to write that Zenos has stayed away from most vices (sees no point in smoking and has tried to get drunk numerous times but can't)#all that and so on- he is however still at the whims of his family's coffee addiction#(from both sides- because I also write Carosa as a field medic)#the issue for his companions is that he goes on a run first thing every morning#...admittedly nothing really changes other than that he's moodier in the morning without it#it just gives him the strength to sit through small talk without zoning it out#thancred got him that mug as a joke not realizing zenos religiously makes sure the warning is always facing outwards#behold my goofy ass writing mundane scenarios of one of the most dangerous characters#I simply champion the idea that out of combat/military scenarios/certain parts of his anhedonia#that he is -weirdly- normal. like. unnervingly so. like the scions realize a normal day with him is just finding him#reading in the kitchen while he's cooking eggs and sausage and not having to deal with him constantly rushing meteor down kind of normal#its also just cause I like the thought that he's finally in a comfortable place#he'll be chilling and the others might take his calmness as hes planning something#but no he's just enjoying having his head be blissfully empty for once while he's relaxed LOL#local man trained from youth to be a weapon and a tool finally gets a space to just be some dude#(dont mind me just enjoying the thought of the scions realizing just how weird meteor is in comparison on the daily)#the voidscarred combat-manic prince being just a guy and the warrior of light- helper of millions... is a whole ass -entity-#the through line for both of them is neither of them can stay still (anymore) for longer than a half a day
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jared padalecki and jensen ackles boston con 2025 - gold panel (src1 & src2)
uncle jared mode activated -> and his (not so) magical menagerie
+bonus jared making jensen laugh
#j2#j2 cons#boscon#boscon 2025#jared padalecki#jensen ackles#j2gifs#mygifs#i appreciated that jared double-checked with him before telling a family story#jensen seemed happy to jump into telling the story and proud of jared in uncle mode- and proud of arrow for seeing through the trick LOL#very cute very sweet#i also have always been the skeptic in the family :p feel ya arrow#i had to go looking on the internet to confirm danneel's and the kids' names and nicknames and whew#so i took that spelling+punctuation of j-bird directly from jensen's insta so that's my story and i'm stickin to it#i redid these so many times and i have the virus that shall not be named so apologies if there's any issues i missed 🥴
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I really hope the spinoff can nail this poor guys style and keep it good looking and consistent, seeming as I dont think his model looked the best in show for about...? 60% of the episodes he has been in. For me personally anyways. He has such a good design that can so go south if you dont nail it. In my honest opinion his design quality and expressive animation style peaked in Horror Club, and then we never got that same level of quality again!
Images more to the left: Yes! I hope we get his model to look this good in the show!
Images more to the right: I think I get secondhand embarrassment from looking at these, deadass.
I like how his hair got more fluffy after the Pinkening but even then, they dont draw it consistently fluffy! This also made me realize how I really didnt like the way he looked in Little Graduation. And just look at how inconsistent he looked in that episode too from the three images on the very right! PLEASE can the spinoff keep his model more consistent.. I am on my hands and knees
#steven universe#lars of the stars#lars posting#lars barriga#just LOOK at the three images on the very right#all little graduation#they all look like different levels of shit to me#like actually how is that the same episode#same with the movie where they just cant decide what his hair looks like I dont think#granted I am aware su has always had this issue especially with characters shrinking with time but man#I think its especially noticeable on lars STYLE wise#he changes style every shot#so frequently#and often to the point where I dont think I can stare at his ugly face without... with lack of a better term... cringing
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