#❛ psa‚ important information !

[kyra45]

How to spot a scam blog

A very simple guide to figuring out if the blog messaging you is a scam:

Was you sent an ask within some time of sharing a specific type of post such as a trending topic or subject? - Usually scam accounts target particular posts and will spam asks to everyone who shared it. The ask may relate to certain events going on or more. These asks are always sent to many users all at once so it’s suggested to tumblr search part of the ask and see if its been sent by other accounts labeled as a scam or accounts with similar style.

Is the account relatively new? - More often than not, the accounts sending the asks are about a week old or even newer. They haven’t been made too long ago and often send asks within hours of being made. If you have timestamps turned on, you’ll be able to see the date something was posted. A fresher account is usually not going to be one who’s finding you unless they are searching tags and saw your blog.

How many posts are on the account? - Scam accounts rarely have many posts on their blogs beyond the initial pinned post. All their posts, being very few are very little, are most often just posts from a trending topic they looked up or a popular tag they decided to look through. They will share only a few and then make no further posts. This is to pad out their blog to make it look used but it’s easy to see how new the blog is if you scroll to the end.

Are the shared posts fitting a theme? - Scam accounts try to share posts based on the scam they’re trying to run. This means they’ll share posts related to the topic of their choosing and then stop once they’ve shared a few. Most of these posts come from the OP themselves and not from someone the blog is following though in rare cases they’ll find a person to reblog from so they don’t look suspicious.

Are the reblog dates accurate? - If you use timestamps, find a post the blog shared and check ‘Other notes’ and see if the reblog date matches the date that is listed on the blog itself. Often, scammers will backdate posts to make them look much older then they really are in an attempt to deceive people into thinking they’ve used tumblr for months or years.

Is the url auto-generated? - Not always seen from a scam account, but scammers often just use auto-generated usernames because it’s quick and easy to do. But real accounts may have these too. It’s just a thing to keep in mind.

Is the url familiar or similar to one you’ve seen before? - Scammers often try to copy their older accounts by using usernames based around previous scam attempts. It becomes obvious after about a while and usually makes it easy to figure out the scammer is back again. This isn’t always from scam accounts as regular accounts may do this for reasons.

How often do you get asks? - If you barely get asks and suddenly keep getting mutual aid asks it’s very likely you’re just a scammers latest target and they’ll keep spamming asks. This means you’ll consistently get the same style of asks from a brand new account that shouldn’t know you unless they found you in tags. You will keep getting these asks on a daily basis. You will eventually always get these asks.

Did they request you to message them directly? - On rare occasions a scam account will want you to send them a direct message and then they’ll just ask you for thousands of dollars on the spot.

Does your bio say no mutual aid asks? - Scammers don’t read/don’t care they will ignore that and send you asks anyway that won’t stop them.

Short version: More often than not the blog asking you for money is a scam if you don’t usually get asks for money from brand new accounts.

[adragonofthings]

Scam blogs (and how to spot them)

Unfortunately, scams do exist on tumblr. That is why it’s key to always try to search around when someone’s sent you a request for mutual aid. Not every account is trying to scam you and for the most part there is legitimate blogs who need your help. Sadly there are also scammers who pretend to be needing mutual aid as well so here is a simple guide to figuring out scams.

How old is the account? The pinned post usually is a good way to tell if the account contacting you is new or old. If you scroll the posts, you should see if they were made around the same time as the account.

How many posts are on the account? Most blogs will have more than just a few posts here and there. After all, a well used blog has thousands of posts for you to look at.

Are there more original posts? Usually someone needing help will have multiple posts of their own instead of a single post that’s pinned. They will also post updates regularly regarding their situation and answer asks clarifying details when necessary.

What does the link on the pinned post say? If it’s a linktree claiming to be a GoFundMe link, that’s something to be suspicious of because it’s likely not. If the link is an actual GoFundMe link that isn’t a linktree link then that usually means the account is legitimate and may have shared posts verifying who they are if you scroll a little.

Is the ask being mass sent to users? While this is done by legitimate accounts too, it’s unfortunately also commonly done by scammers. If you search the ask you got you may find it was sent to multiple accounts across several months and from several different senders with no changes to the overall text itself. Even the formatting errors are not fixed.

Are there any warnings out for the username? Try searching the senders username to see if anyone’s made a post claiming the account is a scam. There should at least be one post about them. If not, it’s likely that they are too new to have been reported yet.

Are you a well known account? How likely is it someone would find you without searching specific tags or posts for users to contact? Think about it. How often does someone send you asks for money that is a relatively new account with only a few reblogs and only one original post? If it’s almost daily, then you should be wary of the asks.

What do you find if you search part of the pinned post in your preferred search engine? If a fundraiser pops up using the same text and doesn’t mention using another mutual aid method, it’s highly likely the blog sending you the ask is impersonating a real person who needs support.

Does the mutual aid post make sense? Some scammers don’t know how medicine works and may list some that don’t work like claimed. They’ll just use whatever sounds ‘right’ without further research. Someone who needs medication will always know what their medicine does they don’t guess because they’ll usually have a doctors paper they go by.

If you have properly recognized a scammer and have fully been able to confirm that their a scammer with enough evidence, please report scam accounts and alert anyone whose shared the scam post.

[codthefishgod]

To all the people who think aspec people aren't LGBTQIA+ because we aren't "discriminated against enough", here's a lovely list of reasons why you need to educate yourself:

- We suffer from dehumanisation, people actively devaluing or even erasing our humanity because of our identities (The voidpunk community is heavily supported by aspec people because of this)

- We suffer from self hatred due to feeling as if and being told we are broken, that no one can be happy unless they're in a romantic/sexual relationship, because of allonormativity and amatonormativity that actively damages our mental health

- Amatonormativity shapes laws that put us at an active disadvantage, such as giving married people financial and legal benefits

- Aspec people have been victims of conversion therapy, correctional rape, a lower quality of life, and other effects of being a marginalised and oppressed group

- We suffer from our identities being pathologised and deal with medical stigma because of this, causing many of us to feel unwelcome in and even avoid health care settings

- We suffer from our identities being erased, which can range from people completely denying our existence and people equating it to celibacy, to an almost complete absence of aspec representation in the media (It's been getting better lately, especially for alloaces and aroaces, but I have yet to ever see a canon aroallo character, and representation for those on the spectrum rather than in the extremes is often ignored)

- YOU are creating a hateful, exclusionary space in a community meant to be about inclusion. The same thing that happens to us happens to bisexual people, to polyamorous people, and other identities that are "disputed." In a community meant to be about rejecting the norm, YOU are shoving us out because we don't fit the norm of being LGBTQIA+. Because we're not enough like you.

These are only a few examples of aphobia that people like me deal with. Discrimination and oppression against aspec people stretches far beyond this.

But even if it didn't, it is disrespectful and harmful to everyone involved to gatekeep membership in the community based on oppression and discrimination.

We aren't LGBTQIA+ because we experience oppression. We are LGBTQIA+ because our existence alone goes against heteronormativity and other societal norms forced upon us.

[sylveon-and-velveon]

I am unable to find their Tumblr account, so they must've done something with it.

I originally found this alert here, while these two accounts [ here / here ] have all the proof/info needed.

REPORT/BLOCK THIS USER

REBLOG THIS FOR OTHERS TO BE ALERTED HERE

[blackphillipdarling]

Signs to tell if the person in your inbox, asking you to reblog a post with a link asking people to donate money for their sick pet or kid, is a scam

Before we start, a disclaimer that this is NOT a solid confirmation that this person must be a scammer. The intention of this is for you to be wary and always check before donating or rebloging this type of post.

Without further ado and from firsthand experience, here are the red flags:

The person in your inbox asking you to reblog a post with their donation link will always ask you NOT to publish the ask they sent you (but to only reblog their post), and their reasoning would always be something along the line of “I don’t want people to think I pressured you into doing it🥺”

But if you go to the person’s profile with their post asking for donation, 100% of the time, you’ll find that the account has only just been created days ago. — How can you tell this? Easy. You can literally scroll down to the first ever post of their blog in less than 10 seconds.

The thing these scammers have in common is that they will create a new blog and they WILL reblog some general posts, such as fandom posts, to make their blogs look legit. They will have legit profile pictures so they don’t look like bots. But it will always be a newly created blog with several reblogs (mostly about fandoms, because they know rebloging fandom posts will make them look more legit than if they were to reblog some suggestive photos of some women, since the latter will make them look like p0rn bots), and the only original post they made is that post asking for donation.

Move on to the information they provided about their sick pet or kid. They will provide thorough and detailed information to make it look legit. But the thing is that they could just take that from google or steal that information from someone who actually needed the donation. There is never a way to tell if your money will go directly to help save the pet or the kid. My advice is to google the patient’s name and see how old the case is, if the case of this patient with this name and this information has been used to ask for donation by other people before, etc.

The photo of the patient they gave can also help you determine if it’s legit. Save that photo and then use google image search to see if it’s an original photo or if it’s a stolen one that has been used before.

Bonus: the thing these scammers can’t do is provide updates about how the patient’s doing. So it’s only just one post with the link asking you for your money. If it is legit, you should be able to see consistent updates of how this patient is doing or if there’s any change, etc. (I’m not saying it’s a requirement for those whose loved one is in critical care to post updates on social media all the time, I’m simply pointing out that scammers tend to fail to provide any update because they can’t.)

I’ll always encourage donating and helping spread the posts of those who actually are in need, though it’s just so unfortunate that, while there are people who are genuinely struggling, there are a lot of scammers out there looking for an opportunity to take advantage of people’s kindness and using sick pet or kid as a way to scam people and making it more difficult for people who really need help to be taken seriously.

Last but not least, fuck those scammers. Stay safe y’all.

[misfitdollies]

Hi everyone, I just wanted to make a little PSA that if you buy the Ardana Girl bootleg Monster High dolls to make sure you test them for lead in their paint before you handle them! Someone on r/MonsterHigh bought one of their bootleg Freak Du Chic Jinafire dolls and she tested positive for having lead in her paint. You can buy lead testing kits online and it doesn’t take long to test with them. The Ardana Girl bootlegs are very pretty, but you always want to be safe when handling your ghouls and if you’re anything like me, lead possibly being a risk in their paint never even occurred to me until I seen that post, so I figured making a little PSA would be helpful! 🩷

Not my photos, taken from Google

[the-fire-within0]

Spiritual Psychosis

Spiritual psychosis, also known as spiritual emergency, is a term used to describe a spiritual or mystical experience that is so intense, it can lead to a breakdown or a psychotic episode. These experiences can be profound and transformative, often involving a deep sense of connection to the divine or the universe. However, the intensity of such experiences can be overwhelming and difficult to integrate into everyday life, leading to a state of psychological crisis or mental health challenges. This phenomenon was first introduced by psychologist Stanislav Grof in the 1970s.

Spiritual psychosis is not associated with a positive spiritual experience; rather, it causes distress. It instills fear and leads a person to spread or believe misinformation, preventing a healthy relationship with their own spirituality. This conflates the idea that one should only rely on their connection with a higher being or energy, rather than trusting themselves and understanding reality. This intense fear can make someone paranoid and question others' intentions because they believe God or a higher energy has told them that certain people in their lives are "evil spirits" sent to teach them a lesson. Consequently, it fosters distrust in others and in one's own perception of what is truly happening.

Spiritual psychosis is not recognized as an official mental health diagnosis in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5). However, it is a recognized concept in the field of transpersonal psychology.

Another aspect to consider is that spiritual psychosis can lead individuals to believe they are more enlightened than their peers who aren't undergoing a similar "spiritual awakening." They may think they possess greater knowledge and understand the secrets of the universe, which can inflate their ego. This inflated sense of self can result in shaming others or blaming them for not being spiritual enough. They might even become paranoid, thinking that the government is targeting them due to their perceived special knowledge. This can evolve into "spiritual narcissism," where they see themselves as superior and deserving of a position of authority. In extreme cases, this can lead to the formation of a cult or their acceptance into one.

Spiritual psychosis can lead a person to spiritual bypass, where they use spiritual ideas or practices to avoid facing unresolved emotional issues, trauma, and unfinished developmental tasks that require self-reflection and healing. For example, when someone's family member passes away, they might say, “Well, it’s just part of the spiritual experience. Try meditating more. It was meant to be.” This attitude can make a person insensitive to others' trauma, grief, and emotions, and even to their own wounds. These ideas and practices become ways to avoid deeper self-exploration, shadow work, and receiving appropriate help. People might use spiritual bypassing to avoid dealing with physical ailments. They may assert that they healed their cancer or kidney issues through their mind or spiritual practices alone. However, it's important to remember that spirituality should not replace actual medical treatment.

Now, to get into the signs of spiritual psychosis

𖤓 Intensely vivid spiritual visions or experiences (this can mean visions or hallucinations of spiritual beings or realms, hearing the voice of God, seeing angels in a 3D/physical realm)

𖤓 Feelings of unity or oneness with the universe

𖤓 Believing that the universe doesn’t make sense (when individuals undergo "enlightenment" or receive a sudden "download" of universal knowledge, it can be overwhelming and difficult to comprehend)

𖤓 Altered perception of time and space

𖤓 Disconnection from reality (anything they say or do lacks a practical foundation, logic, or facts. Instead, it's all based on conspiracy theories and a complete disconnect from reality)

𖤓 Increased anxiety or fear

𖤓 Difficulty distinguishing between spiritual experiences and reality (similar to someone who struggles to distinguish dreams from reality)

𖤓 Grandiosity or delusions of spiritual significance (seeing “angel numbers,” seeing a coin dropped on the ground, perhaps not understanding that it is not associated with anything spiritual)

𖤓 Disorientation and confusion

𖤓 Inflated sense of ego (spiritual narcissism involves believing one is superior to others, considering oneself special and important. Some even claim to have been Jesus in a past life and assert they should be worshipped again)

𖤓 Out-of-body experiences (depersonalization can definitely occur when someone believes that their “soul” detached from your physical body, or they may think they’re a stranger or an alien in their own life)

𖤓 Using substances or engaging in practices that alter consciousness (sometimes leading into a drug-induced psychosis)

𖤓 Experiences of rebirth or past-life memories (in my experience, this often indicates that past life experiences are making someone paranoid about history repeating itself. They may feel haunted by their past, believing it's influencing their present and feeling the need to purge themselves of it)

𖤓 Relying on a higher being (or beings) to control everything without taking any action yourself

Why it happens and who is vulnerable to spiritual psychosis

𖤓 Intensive spiritual practices, such as meditation or yoga, that lead to rapid spiritual growth (while meditation indeed offers scientific benefits, it's possible for individuals to attribute profound awakenings to meditation, even though they may have harboured those beliefs prior to starting their practice)

𖤓 Traumatic experiences or major life changes that trigger a spiritual crisis (often, this is typical for individuals experiencing spiritual psychosis without adequate support or treatment to manage their trauma in a healthy manner)

𖤓 Mental health conditions, like schizophrenia or bipolar disorder, that can increase vulnerability

𖤓 Substance abuse or psychedelic use that alters perception and reality testing

𖤓 Personality traits like absorption (intense focus) and transliminality (thin boundaries between states of consciousness)

𖤓 Individuals with intense spiritual aspirations or expectations

Why it should not be encouraged

𖤓 Spiritual psychosis can lead to a breakdown in reality testing and daily functioning

𖤓 It can be distressing and disorienting, causing significant distress

𖤓 Without proper support, it can lead to long-term mental health issues

𖤓 If it is continuously encouraged, it might cause a person to stop taking their prescribed medication.

𖤓 It might lead a person into a path of self-sabotage rather than personal healing and development

This post isn't meant to shame anyone or bring anyone down. I believe it's important for anyone in a spiritual community to be aware of these things and to encourage self-care and personal development.

Just a reminder: I'm not a professional psychologist or therapist. I do my best to research psychology to understand myself and others, but it's always much better and wiser to consult an actual professional.

This post does not mean that everyone who is spiritual is crazy. You can certainly have a healthy relationship with spirituality, meditation, or your practice, as long as it isn't negatively affecting you or those around you. As a person that struggles with their own mental health, I’ve definitely had my highs and lows in my spiritual journey, but it has improved significantly.

I hope this helps! Let me know if you have any further questions or concerns.

[erosmutt]

!! READ !!

This is a serious post.

So, I'm sure we're aware it took me tagging Tumblr Support on here for them to review the appeal I issued last month. I was falsely flagged, and my blog was marked as explicit for a picture I uploaded to accompany my 'Straight To Video' Sam Monroe fic.

Now, it's all over with, and I'm glad, but I want to bring attention to the problem I brought up in my appeal - the disgusting thing that is allowed on Tumblr.

I'll begin this post with talking about Twitter (will refer to it as 'X' for convenience). About 2 years ago, there was a major issue on X which I'll refer to as 'The MAP Movement (TMM).'

TMM was a time where MAPs ("minor attracted persons," which are just pedophiles) were trying to weasel their way into the LGBT community, wanting to say that being a 'MAP' was a sexuality, a lifestyle. While TMM was going on, there was a flood of minors on X that called themselves 'AAMs' - "adult attracted minors." MAPs and AAMs went hand in hand, because they were feeding into each other's deplorable fantasies. Obviously, there is a difference between being a minor and having a crush on someone who happens to be an adult, and a minor who is self-aware and ENABLES pedophiles.

This is where Tumblr comes in.

When Twitter was rebranded to X and bought by Elon Musk, TMM, MAPs, and AAMs were wiped off the platform. A couple years ago, I would be spending most of my day reporting and blocking these disgusting people. Since they were run off X, they have since come to Tumblr.

Just as they did on X, they use "creative" tags such as the following, which is a list of terms for you to block.

— l0l1t4, l0l1t, l0l1, m4p, m4ppr1d3, m4pr1d3, pr0m4p, prom4p, 44m, aam, pr044m, pro44m, p3d0b41t, p3do, p3d0, p3d0p1l, p3d0ph1l3, pr0p3d0, j41lb41t — and any other combos of the letters and numbers that apply to MAPs, pedophiles, and AAMs.

I'm bringing attention to this because, obviously, it's disgusting and harmful. Under these tags, there is child pornography, young of age girls playing into the 'jailbait' stereotype (young, stupid, and impressionable), and nasty old men AND women preying on young girls and boys.

Tumblr has a general issue when it comes to NSFW content. Their guidelines (last updated Feb 1, 2024) state as follows:

"Harm to Minors. Don't post or solicit content that features the abuse of a minor, that includes suggestive or sexual content involving a minor or anyone that appears to be a minor, or that facilitates or promotes child sexual abuse. "Content" may include photos of real individuals, illustrations, animation, or text. Posting or reblogging child sexual abuse material is a serious crime for which we have no tolerance. We report all such instances to child protection organizations and law enforcement around the world, including the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children."

Despite this guideline, people get around this (and the ones regarding self-harm, gore, and mutilation, as well as promotion of eating disorders as EDs fall under self-harm) quite easily. Shift some numbers and letters around, and bam, you have an evasion.

I want Tumblr to hold these accounts responsible for the horrible shit they encourage, promote, and glorify.

[sn0id]

In honor of Spooky Season, this is yet another PSA that McKamey Manor is a scam and a cult. The so-called "scariest haunted house in America" is not a haunted house, it is a janky yard to which the sadistic creep known as Russ McKamey lures victims with the potential of a cash prize, assaults these people to the point of hospitalization and disability, and will do anything to ensure he never has to pay the prize money.

Do check out the youtube channel Reckless Ben, where they are currently in the process of exposing this scam. They are far from the first to try, but have gotten close enough that they are currently being sued by Russ. Unfortunately, shady business has youtube suppressing this content so it hasn't blown up as it should have. I won't go into specifics here because there's too much history, but it is a wild ride and an issue that is in desperate need of more recognition. So please look this up and reblog. Whether you're in it for the entertainment or because it's an important cause that's way overdue, I really don't care, the word just needs to get out.

[deedi-hh]

Y'all I'm scared

I'm not an adult, I am a minor. I can't vote, and my word practically means nothing. Please, if you're a young adult, don't vote for Trump. For starters, Trump will strip people of their careers, leaving many, many people without jobs, or he would change people's jobs to a 'better job' in his eyes (at least that's what i got from the article). Secondly, he's going to make the people that investigate the president work *for him*, and that federal employees have to pass a new civil service test he made (prove their loyalty? I dont know, i didnt see the test). He's going to make a travel ban on Muslim-majority countries to "keep out the terrorists", which not only is racism but if someone has family members in one of those countries, and those family members want to move to them, that'd be *impossible*. He's practically going to brain-wash immigrants to be all-good Americans, to not hate him, to basically call him the best. He's going to end birthright citizenship, so people born of illegal immigrants can not get a citizenship from federal agencies. He's going to end transgender rights, so no more surgeries, transferal hormones or hormone blockers. He's going to make project 2025 continue in it's tracks if he wins, and if that happens, civil servants will be sacked, giving Trump even more power, dismantling the Department of Education. I'm genuinely on the verge of tears right now. I wont lie to you, I'm really young. And that dismantling of the DE means that Trump is going to change the curriculum however he likes, which in turn means kids won't learn about important stuff, they're going to have to pay for their food, (which a lot of families, like mine, can't really afford). He's going to make abortion illegal in every state, and the women/people with female anatomy that have been S/A'd or R-worded won't be able to get rid of the outcome of that traumatizing, terrible situation. It's not good too, since nearly 70 PERCENT of those cases are against CHILDREN 17 AND UNDER. A CHILD BEING FORCED TO GIVE BIRTH COULD KILL THE CHILD. It's so horrible, it's vile. I am sure a whole group of you is nonplussed, and I am too, but I can tell that voting for trump obviously isn't going to end well. He's going to send MILITARY workers out on *PEACEFUL* Protests, which weren't endangering anybody. He said he LIKED WATERBOARDING (I'm assuming he's going to do that to secret agents, stuff like that) and thought that it *wasnt tough enough*, so he likes torture. He's going to make birth control so hard to get a hold of, which sometimes is used to help women with terrible periods that leave them bedridden, and he's wanting to end Planned Parenthood, which speaks for itself, since its not good at all.

That's not even all of it. (Read: https://apnews.com/article/trump-policies-agenda-election-2024-second-term-d656d8f08629a8da14a65c4075545e0f) Please, if this man wins he's going to make America terrible. A living hell for all of us, and he needs to lose. I'm scared; I can't do anything, basically, but I can say this. Don't vote for him, I beg you. He's not going to make America great, he's going to make it a borderline dictatorship. If you think these aren't enough reasons, that's because I didn't cover them all. You can watch videos on youtube, tiktok, anywhere, I think, and there are going to be so many reasons. From an American to another (if you are one or just live in the country), do not vote for trump. I live in a red state, and I am ashamed. I hope some of you will vote for the right person, AKA anybody but Trump.

[kyra45]

As of 2/18/2024, here a masterlist of all the removed accounts belonging to a scammer who is taking information off Palestine fundraisers/pretending to be in Palestine. If any of the accounts contacted you and you donated, please be aware it was a scam and the funds weren’t going to someone in Palestine. It’s unknown which country this scammer is in since their PayPal links aren’t to a direct account.

greatpuppytyphoon | chack-teol | abudallah | joyfulfacegalaxydilta | khalilhani | nour-samr |khalilhan | jovialsuitdonutai | perfectlyminiatureface | khaliilhan | optimisticalpacalady | omarkhalini | numberonegoateeeagle | nour-samr0 | jovialgoateeobservation | cutieciphera | cutecipheriehahala| gazapalestinedrianjaphah| androgynousfacemakermaria | weepingpersondestiny | stickytreephilosopher | rescueplease | marylinfwaznassar | marylinefwaznasarr | marylinefwaznassarr | iammarinassaa | iammarinassaass

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As of 2/20/2024, these are removed accounts

miniaturepostkingjaiur | may2aa

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As of 2/21/2024, these are removed accounts

matutkaluchy I alwaysgreattigermier I boldlyweepingeloud | ma22ya | aminaomarkl I aminakumar | may2a | muhhamedmartinkakudj | shadowytalepeace

This scammer has been at this since the start of February and hasn’t shown any signs of stopping. If they messaged you via DMs, please share (with public info redacted) what they said if you had asked them anything.

[poorlittleyaoyao]

A thing about trying to plot out QS canon-divergence fixit where the marriage is averted is that the obvious solution to “she was already pregnant before they knew the truth” is, well, end the pregnancy. The wider world doesn’t seem to know that she’d conceived prior to marriage, so can’t be more than a month or so along as of the wedding for it to be plausible. People have been inducing abortion in dire circumstances despite physical risk and moral stigma throughout history. QS has magic at her disposal and the means to remove herself from society unnoticed during the recovery period, and even if it’s taboo, is it more taboo than incest?

[autistic-wolf-pack]

Little disclaimer about endo “syscourse”. Mild TW!for brief mentions of $H and Su1cid3

Okay, as an anti-endo system one thing we feel the need to address about “syscourse” is that when people say they’re anti endo or try to educate someone, that is not anyone trying to invalidate anyone’s experience. It’s just when you claim a trauma disorder can form without trauma and then go around spreading misinformation it creates a stigma around the disorder that impacts so many people with dissociative disorders, even if they’re not part of a system. Your lived experience ARE valid, HOWEVER, there are other explanations for what you’re experiencing, a lot of which don’t require trauma. It’s okay to be wrong but it’s not okay to create a stigma around already heavily stigmatized disorders and mental health conditions. Even when it comes to things like IFS therapy, there’s an important distinction that it’s not the same as an actual system, yes the parts are valid and real, but nowhere near the same, and in all honesty just because the s stands for systems, doesn’t mean using that terminology and other terms created for/by systems doesn’t do genuine harm.

The first people to popularize the concept of having this disorder without trauma were not professionals, one of which had the disorder but denied it and refused to take any treatments, and the other didn’t have it but claimed he did because he had some dissociative symptoms, even though you can dissociate without trauma and have some other dissociative disorders without trauma(some require trauma, some don’t, but for all o them it’s more likely to be developed with it). Both of these people created very dangerous stereotypes about systemhood, both encouraging the stereotypes we are dangerous, and just spreading a lot of misinformation and even encouraging su1cid3 and $H. Additionally, tulpamancy and religious beliefs are not the same as being a system. The DSM (and I believe the ICD as well) specifies that. So please stop using system terminology or claiming to be one without trauma, your experiences are valid, but that doesn’t automatically make you a system. Please do some research.

With that said, any repeated or prolonged trauma is “enough” to form the disorder, and it doesn’t need to be super severe on the brink of death abuse or anything like that. Medical trauma is a valid, emotional abuse/neglect is valid, sibling trauma is valid, your trauma is valid even if it “wasn’t that bad”. It does need to be during formative years to form a system, but what you went through, no matter how old you were is still valid, and no one is trying to say it isn’t. It IS possible you don’t remember your trauma, but dont force yourself to remember it without professional help, and don’t claim to have a trauma based disorder until you’re sure you have trauma.Thank you for your time reading this.

also this is the one post we’re not putting anti endo tags, outside of this post and conversations that may stem from this Endos please DNI.

[reallyrandomtj]

RULES Have been updated! MUSE List has been updated!

Muses being removed:

Genshin - Shenhe & Dainsleif Honkai Star Rail - Black Swan Others - Sorano Aguria, Yukino Aguria and Crowley Eusford.

Muses that will likely be added SOON:

Genshin - Natlan Characters ( TBA. Perhaps another Harbinger? :3c ) Honkai Star Rail - Gepard, Moze and/or Jiaoqiu ... IDRILA? Others - TBA

Will be putting this in a queue ( a few reblogs ) to take time differences into consideration.

[claraameliapond]

Ayman Safadi of Jordan to the ICJ : "The occupation is unlawful. It is inhumane. It must end.

Yet Israel has been systematically consolidating the occupation that is blatantly denying the Palestinians' right to self determination.

It's illegal unilateral measures are creating new facts on the ground that are killing all prospects for peace.

Settlements, illegal under international law, are growing in numbers and are spreading farther in occupied Palestinian land.

The number of settlers has grown from 280,000 in 1993 when the Oslo accords were signed, to over 700,000 today. Nearly a 150% increase.

Settler terrorism is a growing evil, it's victims , the innocent Palestinians, their homes and their livelihoods. "

Decolonise Palestine

[wizofwaterdeep]

alright everyone time for a little heart-to-heart and some well-deserved vulnerability.

i know my drop in activity has been obvious and to be honest, i have been feeling so unbelievably overwhelmed with this blog. the imposter syndrome has really been getting to me, and just how unruly my drafts and inbox have become. i find myself logging on to write, getting frustrated or insecure, and immediately logging back off because i'm too irritated with myself to focus. i ADORE writing gale and this is not how i want to feel about this blog.

for the sake of preserving this blog, i have decided i will be doing a complete wipe of my inbox and will be dropping quite a few threads. i need to get back on a more solid foundation before it's too late to recover and i really do not want to abandon this blog. i love gale and i love this community! i will not be dropping all of my threads of course and if there is a thread of ours that you do not want me to drop (especially if we have communicated/plotted out of character before) please please reach out to me!!

going forward i am going to focus more on plotted interactions rather than memes. that is not to say i will never reblog or answer memes again, i absolutely will, but i find my muse is most excited when i get the chance to connect with you guys out of character too. any of my mutuals are more than welcome to still send me memes, and i will send them to mutuals as well, but it may just take me a little bit longer to get to answering them.

as always you are welcome to reach out to me and i really appreciate everyone who has stuck with me! writing gale has been such a joy for me and that is why i care so much to keep trying. thanks for reading and allowing me a space to be open and vulnerable for a minute. :')