#/ vent

[t3nso]

It's hard to believe sometimes I get it, but try to remember this, everyone. ^^ be kind to yourself, or else we will fight!

just in case you need to hear this today:

you are not a failure

you are not a waste of space

you are loved

you are wanted

I believe in you

you can do it!!!!

[skeletons-eat]

I need more fanfics where Cody and Obi-Wan are not normal about each other, and I don't mean that in a Anakin and Padme way alright?

I want them both to be completely aware of their feelings for each other, they are adults (tm) and know how to deal with their emotions in a professional settings okay? They're not normal about each other in every other way tho, which means that they are both in desperate need for enrichment and provide it for one another by for example challenging or simply insulting each other in increasingly ridiculous ways. They hold hands, they break each other's noses, they are both so very neurodivergent and see the most bizarre things as a way to show affection or delight.

Obi-Wan is delighted by Cody simply ignoring his dramatics (almost like a cat would be), and is increasing his ridiculousness by the hour to get a reaction. Prime feral time and enrichment for him.

Cody in turn gets a kick out of ignoring or straight up insulting him. Almost a power dynamic swap and yet none of them ever seems to really care about it. Cody also likes the closeness Obi-Wan very casually gifts him (especially holding hands). It's almost like two Cats getting to know and love each other only both cats think that they are the one who is actually the human person in this relationship lol.

[shyjusticewarrior]

Seen some Cass fans complain about this panel.

But ya know what? Cass fans are constantly twisting Jason into someone unrecognizable to uplift Cass in their idea of what their canon dynamic should be. So they can fucking handle Cass saying a non-hateful statement about Jason.

[victorzhuzhakin]

it took a long time to realize [vent comic]

Afterword: I am glad to see how many children and teenagers are now exploring themselves, their identity and trying to understand who they are as soon as possible. In my time there were very few reliable sources and people around me did not talk about it so that I could recognize myself in them. There were always so many signs, but I didn't understand how to interpret them. It made me feel wrong. But one day I managed to put it all together and understand who I am and who I have been all my life. The wrong things became explainable to me. I know 17 isn't that late and sometimes people find themselves at a later age, but I feel like realizing it sooner would have calmed me down sooner. But now it’s interesting to remember all these moments and put them together like a puzzle, when before they were just incomprehensible pieces of my life.

[duskanddaydreams]

This 'Lifetime' is all that there is!

bitch this is all you’re gonna get. this life, this face, this body. you better not ‘maybe in another universe’ your way out of everything. sit your ass down and face this. go make tea and have a picnic and read a goddamn book. kiss your loved ones, send that damn text, and hug your siblings. this is all you’re gonna get.

[steemyart]

some personal art

[foxlungz]

I’ll forever only matter to people when they need me for something then once they are done with me I’ll get tossed to the side like the filth I am

[officeobject]

Me a lot of the times - or at least if not given my emotional support desk-job-worker:

[historicalshroe]

Bitch.

"If you log off the problem is gone tbh" Well the problem is homophobia and trabsohobia, so It would indeed not be gone, it would be worse.

And the way this bitch is acting so comedic about it? "You say that to everyone who critiques you" I've only said that to people who said that Ana is a vulnerable person that I shouldn't critique, even though I'm also an autistic teen and have problems in my real life.

"I just sent you that for shits and giggles"

This might sound overly dramatic of me, but this was the cherry on top, it made me cry, I'm still crying, do people seriously think so low of other people's mental health that they would just hate on them for shits and giggles?

[gray-ace-space]

one day i will find and kill every single person who's ever posted hard kink with no upfront content warnings in ace positivity tags. i'm not even sex repulsed typically and i feel like i'm gonna have a panic attack

[aychama]

Cutting people off is not an easy thing to do.

Even if you dont tell them, you give them so many passes, so many benefit of the doubts and think that you just might be wrong.

It gets to a point where you just cant unsee certain things anymore and that makes you uncomfortable even seeing their face or name.

Cutting off is not easy but sometimes it is necessary.

Of course it is not impossible to recover and heal these relationships but if it is a core thing that you disagree upon, a core thing that makes that person themselves, then would you rather disregard your own boundaries and let them walk all over it just to stay with them or would you rather leave and have a piece of mind?

Just because you walk away and leave doesnt mean they will leave you alone, I know that. And it can also be that the other person is in spaces that you have to be in as well, making it impossible to get away from them.

But would you rather act like you are still close to them because you cant get away from them or keep your interactions to a minimum so that you can stay safe?

Would it mean that you are putting yourself in danger because of your morals or the person with no decent morals is to be blamed?

[officeobject]

I now have a squish on whoever wrote that.

(And yeah I'd walk the whole thing for them even though I hate walking SO much)!

[galactic-rhea]

I forgot how maddening interacting with certain type of classmates sometimes, like fuck you, m'guy, good thing this is just a group chat, i would be trying hard to hit you with a chair, you damned ignorant imbecile

[neuroticboyfriend]

you ever feel like the weight of your entire life is resting on your shoulders and can't see the way out

no idea what i'm waiting for but i sure am waiting for something to happen. something to change

[copperweevil]

Update: One of the assholes behind the anon asks showed their face in my ask box. I reported them immediately, according to the ask it's a blank account just to send those asks, but I don't give a shit.

They tried to be like "well now you won't write minor x adult" and accused me of lying about my trauma, and then went on to further accuse me of still being a creep. They also told me to take my life. I won't say their blog name, as I don't want them to be harassed. Just know that I did report and block them, and hopefully they get the memo and choose to leave me the fuck alone.

Their blog was blank, so I don't think I can figure out what their main is, so I'm going on the assumption that it's one of the well known antis who harass people, as I still need to get my block list back to what it used to be on main.