asexualone

[asexualone]

none of these words are in the bible

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So pretty 🥺

abstract flower garden pride wallpapers

lesbian | gay

bi | trans

lgbtq | pan

ace | aro

aroace | nonbinary

please rb if saving <3

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Am I really to blame for mistaking my asexuality for bisexuality once??

How do I explain this? I find most people mediocre, but in an attractive way, you feel?

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guys... my friend told me she imagines what her life would look like with every guy she meets, no matter how briefly

Is this for real? What sort of allo culture-????

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we've done it. we have won today 👌😚

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alloaro actually means hot as hell thx for asking <3

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The thing about lack of sexual attraction is that you'll have friends who say things like, "Omg did you see that person's *assets*?"

and you'll stand there like, "....was I supposed to?"

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As a child, I never understood why anime characters got a nosebleed when they saw someone attractive.

.....I still don't. Allosexuals explain

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At first I was like, "Why is the rainbow our symbol? That sounds stolen, can't the community come up with something original?" Now it's just, "H̴̟͛e̴͍̽͝h̶̹̺̔é̷̡̳h̷̫̔͝ȇ̷̖̋h̷̖̚e̵̻͑̆ḧ̶̛̻́ê̸̡͈̑h̸̢̙͊̎e̷̛̺h̶͚͒̚ 🌈rainbows are gæ✨💅 die mad haters"

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reblog to give a lesbian a sword, a bi girl a dagger, and a trans girl a cool gun

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why do so many animated hugs look like the coldest, most uncomfortable embraces ever?

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There's a lot to unpack here

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((The ability to appreciate and evaluate human aesthetic is not determined by your sexuality))

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Heheheheheheh, The LGBTles

lgbt was coined by the beatles as an acronym for their names

Lennom George harrison ford Ball “is life” mccartney The drummer

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y'all, how do you deal with aphobic people?

I just went through the most exhausting debate online. It was my fault, I should've just blocked all of them from the beginning.

I swear if I get one more reply, I'm deleting that comment altogether.

Long story short, someone replied to a comment of mine with "maybe they have seggs every night". (You don't need the context, just that.)

To which I replied with, "every night? yikes"

Now a person replied to that with, "why yikes?"

And I said, "well that's gotta hurt, right? give you rashes or smth?"

And they were like, "nope. what kind of seggs have you had that gave you a rash?"

Naturally, I responded with, "oh no, I'm asexual so no smex for me, I was just making an assumption that sounds logical to me"

And this as*hole of a person says, "plenty of asexuals have seggs, don't use that excuse"

Which bewildered me to no bounds. I said, "huh? Yeah I already know that some asexuals have seggs? That's not the point here"

After that, it was basically me and them going back and forth the same bullsh¡t, other people joining in.

That first person kept saying that I shouldn't say "I'm sex-repulsed because I'm ace", when I never said that. And even if I did, so what? I would've probably had seggs if I hadn't found out I'm asexual so there's definitely a correlation there.

Was I in the wrong? Is it illegal for me to say that seggs is overrated and gross to me? Should I just keep my mouth shut and only talk freely in our safe spaces instead?

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Yea I went through something similar.

My crush on that one girl faded over the holidays and when I realized, I was baffled for a moment. That had never happened before.

But looking back at my "feelings", I realized I was right every time I said it wasn't a crush. It truly wasn't.

I just admire that girl A LOT, I still do. But those weren't romantic feelings nor seggsual attraction. It was just me "forcing" myself to put those unnamed emotions into a perfectly labeled box, as per usual.

Plus, I have a history of always having someone to "obsess over" in order to excuse myself for not paying attention in class or to procrastinate stuff I'm supposed to be doing.

Truth is, I'm way happier when I'm "crush-free" and not thinking of someone at all. I wish I could uninstall this need to have "an object of affection" when I just don't want to have it.

OP is right. It's okay to think that you've finally found the labels that suit you and later to realize that they don't fit as well as you thought. It's okay to skim through multiple labels until you find the right one(s). Or not. Deciding to stay sans-label isn't a bad thing either.

Good thing queer exists, I use it for more often than you think 😂

I was remembering how earlier this year I was using the labels "homoromantic asexual" or "ace lesbian" to describe myself. For a few months, those labels helped me understand the lesbian experience and how I related to it and ultimately to know if I was really a lesbian or not. I knew I was asexual and I was sure of that part of me, but... romantic attraction was always more complicated to understand bc I didn't know if I had felt it or not.

I was sure that I didn't feel attracted to men at all (romantically or sexually) but women... it had me wondering; aesthetic attraction and all haha. Hence, why the lesbian label helped me understand that. I came to understand that I do experience platonic and emotional attraction very strongly towards women/female aligned people but it has never been romantic in nature. Eventually, I learned I'm an aromantic asexual person. I've never experienced romantic attraction and I had mistook it for platonic attraction towards my similar gender all along. I had never desired a romantic partner either, it was more of the idea of one. But I've never felt that desire directed at someone specific, regardless of gender.

I guess I'm writing this for anyone out there that needs it: it's okay to be confused, it's okay to be wrong and think you're x when you're actually z. It's okay to try on different labels and find the ones that describe your experience better, the ones that you're comfortable with. It's okay. I promise 🤍

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yea

fellas, is romance overrated? yes or yes: