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[mienar]

good morning bakery 🍞🥖

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[sciderman]

How did your meeting go with the surgeons?

it was memorable

[canonkiller]

here's the thing: you've just gotta stay alive. and you're not doing much living if you're boxing yourself into your coffin the whole time

[demigods-posts]

i was sitting in my room thinking of how convenient it is that the books in the pjo series takes places before or after the school year. then i remembered that ttc happened during winter break. and that percy and annabeth likely returned for their second semester after that quest. what a tragedy.

[ofironandivory]

Something incredibly beautiful that the proselfship community has taught me is that there's always someone out there willing to love somebody!

Every fictional character, no matter their appearance, personality, morality or plot relevance, is someone's favorite and just thinking about them brightens up their day

And I know for a fact that your F/O feels the exact same way about you

Every insecurity or "flaw" that you find within yourself is just another reason for them to adore you, like each detail was sculpted and placed to create everything that their heart has ever desired

And this isn't strictly tied to romantic feelings either! All your F/Os love you for who you are, as you are. Yesterday, today and tomorrow, the person that you are blossoming into will always be their favorite version of yourself

Your romantic F/Os couldn't dream of a more perfect partner, you are everything they've ever yearned for and craved

Your familial F/Os are so proud to have you as a member of their family, every single achievement of yours is something to be celebrated and cherished by them

Your platonic F/Os are thankful to have a friend like you, sometimes they feel like you're the only person who really gets them, like you've known each other for many lifetimes

Your pet F/Os are overjoyed to have an owner like you, they know that things can be rough but they'll always appreciate your kindness, patience and care

Your F/Os love you just as much as you love them! You've met for a reason and even if you can't figure out what brought you together, you deserve to allow yourself to be loved

[sorensolsikke]

here's some punk diy tips and ideas

[other than crusty pants and battle jacket, although we still love those greatly.]

why should you diy, when you can just find decorated items everywhere, you can ask. what if you are clumsy at painting or anything?

firstly, good questions. we diy so we don't give credit to the big companies who rule the world. we diy to get more independent from the system we dislike. we diy so to save money. to express uniqueness, recognize eachother and be recognized. and especially to have fun and feel cool. diy is not only about clothing, but anything you can set your mind on. of course, one cannot make EVERYTHING for themselves, there isn't enough time and energy. but making at least small steps are already a statement and more than nothing. also, helping small artists by buying their products is also pretty punk.

that being said, i provide you with some tips of mine, all gained from experience:

anything you drew/painted on, you will WANT TO protect. acrylic paint/markers + acrylic paint varnish/transparent nail polish/textile medium are your best friends. read after anything that's new to you.

i highly recommend working with old clothing or thrift shop finds when it comes to textiles, as it is environmentally friendly and you will stay in budget. Anyways, always make sure that the material you use isn't gonna be problematic. for example, if you want to do some patchwork, the material shouldn't decay easily (if it does, it will come off so quickly.). if you want to paint on it, it shouldn't be rugged.

you can not only draw/paint on your canvas shoes, but can also sew, embroidery (just make sure to use a thimble, plus floss instead of thread could make your work more durable), and add beads and trinkets to your shoelaces. in the case of shoes, never use glue (neither hot nor instant glue) – it will come off quickly. for some inspiration, i'll show you my shoes!

(the fake moss is literally unstoppable from falling off or getting dirty. risky idea.)

it's good to carry around water and food!! you don't even have to pay for decorative water bottles and food boxes, as you can draw on glass and plastic just fine with acrylic markers. just don't forget to paint transparent nail polish all over your drawing. in at least two layers. don't be lazy or laid-back. even posca comes off while washing the dishes. and you WANT TO save your reference pictures/final designs, as the case of emergency is likely. but after all, my water bottle is exactly fine after six months, with no accuring problem.

if your current best option to get stickers from is aliexpress or overpriced decor stores, search for local artists and shops on instagram and tiktok, as it may be their most efficent way of getting you to know them. if it seems like you have no chance, you may can still find a print shop with the option of printing on self-adhesive sheets (at least in hungary, those are pretty cheap). and if you want drawings to print out as stickers, you may use your own or –ONLY IF YOU GET PERMISSION– other artist's work. not only good for decorations for like, headphones, but for vandalism too. WAIT WAIT who said that. who said it. not me. no never

(in case that's also impossible, you can create stickers by printing out/drawing a picture, cover it up in transparent adhesive tape, and then put some two-sided adhesive tape on the white side of the pic. it won't be that durable, but it functions.)

if you want to bleach-paint clothing, get some plastic brushes!! any other brush dissolves. draw your design first with chalk!! never forget to put cardboard inside the clothing, and to wash the finished work in a washing machine before you'd put it on. prepare to be patient with the process. and it's not dangerous to touch 5%-9% household bleach, just wash your hands soon after.

if you want your crusty pants to last veryyy long, wax them. look up on youtube jeans waxing.

some more things i made for myself so to give you some inspiration: totebag with pockets, a small crystal holder cabinet, badges, and i decorated some t-shirts, button-ups, an id card case, phonecase, laptop.

theoretically speaking, there is nothing that an individual would be unable to learn how to make, when it comes to diy. you can't imagine how easy it is to bake bread at home. consuming-focused media makes people believe that it's hard to make anything. of course, everyone has to decide about their own priorities, i don't want to convince or change anyone in here. and if you have any questions, send an ask!! i hope i had been helpful.

[aggressivelybicaptainamerica]

I am in a terrible flare today and thinking about chronic pain!JGY

We know because of his weak cultivation that he doesn't heal the way other cultivators do and unless it happened off screen I don't think he got any substantial medical care. I don't know if we get an exact list of injuries he received, but being pushed all the way down 72 stairs is going to REALLY fuck someone up, especially because he had a head wound. There's no way he's not going to be in chronic pain after an attack like that. Even with non magical medical care that would leave permanent damage.

So imagine JGY with TBI triggered migraines that steal his memory and his ability to do anything but lie in the dark. Bones that never set quite right that flare and ache during every storm and every time the seasons change. A shoulder that is too weak to hold a true sword due to ligament damage causing the joint to sit incorrectly.

Every time he hurts he remembers how unworthy he is, that his now broken body is just another failure he has to figure out how to overcome with cunning and guile because at the end of the day he's a useless, broken son of a whore. There is no escape when even his own body reminds him of what he truly is.

[tagarilaghost]

Any thoughts to Dusknoir getting "advice" from Darkrai in the future (while hunting Grovyle & Hero)?

[snowyleopardess]

If Lu Guang doesn't have a sobbing breakdown at some point this season I'm going to

...do it for him

[silversoulstardust]

can't stop thinking about this scene

[mienar]

from us it begins

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[abearinthewoods]

Toxic masculinity looks like a video of women explaining they dont date guys who drive teslas

Its also the 50 thousand people who upvoted it on reddit, the thousands of comments agreeing with video or joining in to mock such guys, as well as any man whos decisions or self worth are influence by it.

But most importantly: its the 12 year boy who just saw that video and all the comments and upvotes and just internalized the message that his self worth is based upon what women think of him. Something he'll subconsciously express when his first rejection feels like a personal attack.

So when i say toxic masculinity is enforced by men and women alike, this is what i mean.

[shootingstarrfish]

ah 2024, the year of obey me and changing my art style every month as i please

[ofironandivory]

For my fellow proselfshippers who have been victims of abuse:

💜 Your F/O believes you. They're there whenever you need someone to confide on and they know how much those experiences have hurt and changed you. They'll always be your biggest supporter and caretaker

⭐ Your F/O doesn't judge your triggers or boundaries. They'll always do everything in their power to make your life as comfortable and safe as possible. They want their presence to be an entirely safe and loving space for you

💜 Your F/O will do everything in their power to take good care of you. They'll make sure to keep an eye on you and bring you some water or food when you haven't had any in a while. They'll ask you to help them out with something if they notice you're starting to overthinking or if you just need to keep your hands busy

⭐ Your F/O knows your trauma doesn't make you broken or lesser than. They'll never see you as weak for everything you've survived and pushed through, even if it has changed how your mind functions, they know you're a strong and brave person!

💜 Your F/O will always choose you. No matter who was behind the hurtful things/actions you've had to deal with, you will always be their love and their priority. Any ties to the folks who've wronged you are immediately gone, like they never existed in the first place, that way you and your F/O will go through your healing journey peacefully

⭐ Your F/O supports you and your coping mechanisms. Of course, they won't let things get to the point where you're hurting or neglecting yourself... However, they'll always cheer you on when you show them the things that make you smile, no matter how small or "silly" you may think it is

💜 Your F/O knows it wasn't your fault. They're happy to remind you that you did the best you could in the situation you were in, and that they're proud of you for surviving it. They'll never hold such hurtful things against you or use it as a way to make you upset. They care about you more than they could ever put into words

⭐ Your F/O loves you. They're proud of everything you accomplish every single day; from getting out of bed to tackling a project you've been scared to face, all of it is important and meaningful in its own way! You can always count on them, through every step of the way

[nightingaletrash]

[pushing500]

We're repurposing our toxic-wastepack-dumping transport pods for a vaguely more noble endeavor...

... We can't leave Sparks without a mechanitor, after all!

Don't argue about this, Mr "Swing-First-And-Ask-Questions-Later"! We shot you once, we'll damn well do it again! (we won't)

*muffled sounds of angry shushing and hissed profanities as four identical Jones boys scramble away from the room without waking the mechanoids*

Uh-oh

I think "why do I have to go first" is going to be Lansa's catchphrase.

After defeating the lone scyther (Lansa did the heavy lifting), our group decided to defeat the other mechanoids in the complex before cracking open the mechanitor's cryptosleep casket.

Lansa is lucky that Tokori specialises in medicine.

Either that uranium mace is more op than I gave it credit for, or Jut's level 20 melee skill isn't actually that impressive, seeing as Randy Random seems to enjoy letting my colonists beat scary enemies super fast.

We're not here to pay respects, Tokori. We're here grave robbing, so get to it.

I swear that name was randomly generated. I laughed too hard to reroll, so newly-made Mechanitor Tokori now has a robot named Dr Eggman, I guess.

In the meantime, here's a look at what the others have been up to before we wrap up:

I bet Ivy thinks she's hilarious whenever she says "excuse my French" after cussing something out with everything Jut taught her to say. She does have the comedian trait, though, and everyone knows dad jokes are the best kind.

XiaoLiang might not be going with Mechi and Kwahu for the next leg of their journey, but that's alright. He still has Tokori and Lansa to crush on, and he's already testing the waters to see if they'd be open to dinner dates (they are not open to dinner dates).

Ah, facial hair. That reminds me...

I promised my brother I'd draw his favourite colonist looking majestic before the end of Season 1. So, here you go, brother mine. Maybe one day you'll see Flapjack and his beautiful beard again. We can only hope.

Anyway, that's all for our final wrap-up update. Next time we'll have a colony tour, and then it's time for Season 2!!

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