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all the tme intersex people i used to know suddenly jumping on the newest transmisogynistic bandwagon and immediately spewing all the same “ur just overreacting, you call everything transmisogyny, stop being hysterical!!!” bullshit really puts into perspective how the intersex community on here gained any traction to begin with, y’all are not immune to pulling the same bullshit perisex people do and you’re calling the intersex transfems arguing against you perisex??? just to let afabs pretend to be us so you have that idealized quiet trans woman again, like i’m sorry but this is a strawman on par with “white trans woman” nothing has changed and at some point you need to realize that your conception of what these terms mean just doesn’t reflect their actual rhetorical use in real conversations about queerness
#it’s just so fucking gross to get called perisex by someone i used to think i was in community with#the moment i was outspoken as a transfem#they hide me in one of their boxes and tell me i talk about transmisogyny too much#and like i don’t want pity i shouldn’t have trusted tme people further than i can throw them but like#i didn’t get the confidence and pride to put intersex in my url from nowhere#and yeah i had their same misconceptions at some point i understand how you get there#but i just can’t feel anything but devastatingly sad about yet another community turning on us just cuz a few transmisogynists#made an argument that flattered their egos#intersex transfems never mattered to these people#cuz the only intersex transfems they like are the afab ones that steal our culture and history and strip it of any of its meaning#and then stay quiet so they can be pointed to as ‘proof’#as if dressing up your friend as a made up animal makes it real as long as the costume stays on
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my favorite thing about aftg is that wymack is just a good person tryna help some troubled kids then all the sudden he starts housing mafia escapees
#he was being very real about his pay grade being too low#what do you even do in that situation 😭😭#‘yeah im ur son and i escaped from the yakuza. this is Neil he did too. oh and renee just broke jean out so can he stay awhile?’#it shouldn’t be this funny but it is#aftg#all for the game#the foxhole court#tfc#neil josten#tkm#trk#david wymack#kevin day#jean moreau
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… :/
#i wish people would stop making well-intentioned positivity posts to support stone bottoms/pillow princesses that are just scolding ppl#for ‘not respecting our boundaries.’ like yeah it’s partly about boundaries but it’s way more about how sex and topping is viewed as labor#and therefore must be reciprocal to be moral. shit talking pillow princesses is so common in the queer community bc it is perceived to be#the MORAL stance. scolding ppl as if this is a purely interpersonal matter of ‘respecting boundaries’ is not shifting anything babes#sex is only labor when it’s sex work. if you think topping is a chore you shouldn’t be doing it. this is what we need to be saying to ppl#but anyways. i know these posts come from a good place but goddamn. why does the way i like to have sex need to be a ‘boundary’#shit like this makes me never wanna have sex again bc i genuinely don’t wanna hook up w someone who’s just trying to ‘respect my boundary’#i want to hook up with someone who actually wants to have sex with me!! the way i like to have sex!!! the fuck!!!!#delete later#ugh sorry im. in a mood 😣
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Star Wars au set in the 70s where Luke is in a not so fulfilling job as a law clerk, he starts writing as a hobby and ends up writing a very vague version of the original Star Wars trilogy. It does very well and Luke’s pretty proud of himself for the original idea until Leia reads it and has some notes
Leia:….you’re aware this is just your life in space right?
Luke: huh? What are you talking about?
Leia: well let’s see, a young farm boy named Mark Starkiller raised by his aunt and uncle.
Luke: well that’s just coincidence
Leia: he teams up with a sarcastic outlaw and his hairy alien friend, this is obviously Han and Chewie
Luke: wha- no it’s not-
Leia: and let me guess, the princess is his long lost sister?
Luke:…
Leia:…
Luke:…oh my god-
Leia: not to mention this stoic ‘mandalorian’ character who is a misunderstood father to a little alien baby and has undeniable sexual tension with the main character
Luke: oh mY GOD!
#luke: i already sent this out to be published!!#leia: yeah you shouldn’t have done that#I like this idea a lot#Luke’s so worried about din reading it#star wars#luke skywalker#dinluke#din djarin#the mandalorian#leia organa#Han solo#chewbacca
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something I think is interesting is in the pilot dev said Winn was so cool hazel shouldn’t even try to be friends with them. but later we see that winn is actually really chill and down to earth. boy are you sure you’re not projecting a little bit
#yeah this person is so cool you can’t be friends with them 😎 you shouldn’t even try 😎 it’s impossible actually 😎#-the guy with no social skills whatsoever#joey says some sh#fop#fop a new wish#fopanw#fairly oddparents a new wish#dev dimmadome#fop dev#fop winn#winn harper
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I’ve been doing some stream of consciousness thoughts re: Akechi and I think my final opinion on that whole situation is just… it sucks.
Like I’m not going to say “woe is he” or anything because boy, what are you doing. What the hell are you doing. You doomed yourself!!! Because of your own stupid pride!!! Akechi.
But I’m not going to say “cool motive still murder” either because. Can you imagine. Being that lonely and that hungry for anything resembling affection and pride in your person that you’d shatter yourself into pieces just to find a shard that they like best because you’ve grown up being told again and again that you are unwanted and unloveable as you are. Fundamentally. And all you have is this singular drive that makes you feel worse and worse about who you actually are inside so you double down on your fake image because at least fickle fame is better than nothing and it’s all you’re going to get at this point, but at the same time this drive is also the one thing you feel you’ve had any power to determine or enact, and you did it all yourself when the world expected nothing of value from you, so yeah, of course you’d pursue it harder to the point of violently self-destructing - only for that all to get wrenched away with “you never fooled me and I was just puppeteering you all along and I never needed you”, pulling the rug out from under your vengeful purpose, your autonomous image, and your starved core desire, all at once. And then your asshole dad’s twisted headspace image of you shoots you point blank.
He dooms himself because he thought he was already doomed. Caught up in a cycle of cruelty to both himself and others, that he saw no point in trying to escape from, and didn’t want to, because it would mean relinquishing the (it turns out) quite fragile image he’d painstakingly built up. He’s a product of his environment, which led to him making god-awful choices, which in turn trapped him in a worse environment. How many people have died here or become grievously injured as a result of it all.
What do I even do with this. It just all around sucks.
#storyrambles#yeah sorry I’m probably not going to shut up about akechi for awhile.#p5 writers really said here’s a scene in which so many things will happen all at once. anyways. moving on#and I’m still here like WAITWAITWAIT just hold on a minute!!!#tbh I think they shouldn’t have dropped it all at once… things were foreshadowed nicely but I just kind of wish everything to do with#akechi wasn’t just in like. two scenes. I think he should’ve been more of a presence in shido’s palace#would’ve made the ‘yeah I don’t actually need you’ so much worse#or maybe set things up with his cognitive self somehow? idk. just wish it wasn’t dumped on us all at once#though I guess it kind of made the audience feel like the thieves and joker would’ve.#confused on how to feel. upset and shocked. frustrated. etc.#story plays persona 5#p5r#goro akechi
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I think the funniest thing about scogan to me is that if you try to imagine it in practice it actually ends up much more compellingly fulfilling some of the tropes that the comics have seemingly always been trying to push with Jean/Logan. Which is just. Hilarious. Like the supposed (very old, tired, romance novel ass) dynamic they’ve often tried to push w Jean/Logan (esp in the new xmen era) is that of Logan representing some sort of… wildness or freedom to Jean’s restraint. That her “giving in” (yuck) to him is also her embracing… idk? Some sort of more natural, unrestrained version of herself and her power.
But it falls really flat with Jean not just bc of the misogyny inherent in the trope but also bc. She’s literally already done that. Like several times in fact. It’s sort of her whole thing. She doesn’t need to fuck Logan to step into her unrestrained power. She already, as a character, is supposed to be a vibrant, impossible, wild manifestation of pure creative/destructive will. (And really it’s kind of everyone else— and the writers’ latent misogyny— that keep fucking that up for her).
Scott on the other hand. Well. He kind of is the high powered female romantic lead obsessed with her job who gets sent on a work trip to a rural town where she’s forced to loosen up a little. Like for better or worse that’s kind of exactly him. He would fit alarmingly well in that sort of push and pull storyline. Which is so… good to me. That Scott, of all people, makes more sense on the cover of a Johanna Lindsey novel than Jean does. That him having that kind of dynamic with Logan actually feels way more interesting bc Scott is restrained to a fault, he is an insufferable, neurotic little headcase who would rather die than tell a waiter they got his order wrong. And yet he’s also the guy who’s admitted to actively enjoying riling Logan up bc part of him just wants to see what will happen. Which I’m pretty sure is called chemistry
#something to be said for scott’s relationships w jean and emma and how they affect his feelings about power/agency as well!#I feel like w jean his instinct is just to bask in her sunlight to the point of living in shadow. which she doesn’t WANT but its. scott.#and as the boundaries blur between them her power is also sort of his but also it still isn’t just enough that he doesn’t have to feel#scared of Having it#and meanwhile emma is like ok sweetie what if I just Made You embrace your own agency. that’s how it works right. and scotts like yeah ur#so right it definitely does. this is such a healthy relationship.#and then w logan its like. this guy is literally just gonna keep bothering him until scott has no choice but to act about it.#god. he sucks so bad ❤️#both of them. jean shouldn’t have to deal w any of them we should send her on vacation w ororo#wait no remembered ororo has also had an insane gay rivalry. damn nobody’s safe huh 💔#jean grey#scott summers#logan howlett#scogan#comics
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Waterpark AU scenario
You and the Tikis’ start jamming out to Abba and you notice Sun and Moon are nearby, but their kinda frozen…
Water starts leaking out of their faceplate and you realize what song is playing
“Our Last Summer”
#I would say the boys rarely express/allow themself to feel emotions of sadness because they have built up some pretty sturdy walls over#the years#but yeah hearing this song would get them#in an industry where you shouldn’t allow yourself to get attached the reality of that fact hits you like a ton of bricks#waterpark au#Waterspark au#Waterspark bay#dca au#first time I heard this song again after creating this au I knew it would bring out some emotions
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i try not to let dumbass fandom disk horse take up any space in my mind but now on behalf of the percico side of the fandom that had to deal with that entitled negativity i wanna write a percico drabble
actually the smuttier and more offensive the better
#i’m gonna open up the inbox for just tonight for the smallest of drabble ideas. just a small thing. also i’m gonna rant in these tags rq#full stop i’m like. done with Minors Online#not like the 16-17 year olds that follow me & are chill & mind their business but the 13-14 year olds who debatably shouldn’t even be here#who just plow through all fandom/online safety & etiquette & don’t just behave like a Dumb Kid Online#but instead the worst breed of entitled inconsiderate leech to fandom spaces imaginable#just screaming ‘i’m a Minor xyz character’s a Minor i can leave anon hate i can shit on artists i can do whatever i want I’m a Minor’#like where are your parents and do they neglect you because you’re insufferable 🧍#okay damn that was harsh i apologize. i do wanna be the bigger person as an adult who like. works & goes to school & stuff#i don’t even care when these people bother me because it’s like…okay? but when they bother other creators that bothers me more#anyways yeah i’ll leave this rant in the tags and fandom tag it fuck it#percico#pjo
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I hate men because today after years of my brother mocking me whenever I talk about something I’m well informed on by saying I did no research I finally told him how much it upsets me. So straight after he brought up my male assault statistics and called them fake before leaving.
#like wdym you think 80% of violent crimes being committed by men is a ‘fake statistic’ how would that be fake it’s based on the imprisonment#ratios!!! Males will always feign ignorance to defend their kind no matter how ‘kind’ and ‘good’ they are#justice to my youngest bro tho (I’m raising him w feminist beliefs as best I can so he can be as close to a real good man as possible) who#chased after him and started asking him if he heard they were fake on Reddit (moid bros fave place to say I get my facts from)#my youngest bro is still a moid and he has his misogynistic moments (mostly interrupting me/he’ll swim underwater when I talk as a norm)#but he’s NOWHERE near as bad as my other bro in how often and rudely he does this (my other bro also does other worse things whereas this is#all the lil guy does [I like to believe I can teach him to be a proper good guy even tho I probs cant])#but yeah fuck all men they’re all misogynists#some are better than others and maybe we can ‘fix’ them (but we shouldn’t have to- I only do this w my lil bro cuz I’m stuck with him NEVER#try this with a friend or bf who you can end the relationship with at any point)#but they’re all misogynistic in some way or another#sunni posts#radblr#radical feminism#radical feminist safe#radical feminists do interact#radical feminists please touch#radical feminists do touch#radical feminists please interact#radical feminist community#trans exclusionary radical feminism
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The amount of issues I face for treating men like normal people boggles my mind for real. I cannot tell you how many times a guy has assumed I’m into him just bc I’m a nice, bubbly person and I don’t allow my personality to discriminate between genders. It has either caused guys to make unwanted advances or the dynamic to get super awkward if they think I want to pursue something. And it’s just like no. That’s who I am. That’s how I exist
#to top it off all my female friends are like#yeah you shouldn’t treat both them the same#and it’s like I get WHY but I also hate abridging who I am just for fear that a guy might think I like him
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People are so fucking brain dead I swear, if I see one more hateful thing in the FUCKING MAIN TAGS IM GONNA HUNT THEM DOWN, like dude, people with at least 26 years old posting hate on the main tags of a character, have you learned NOTHING from being on here? Not only on the main tags BUT ALSO WITHOUT *anti blah blah *anti this, *pessimist what god makes me wanna rip someone’s nails off
Did you wash your brain in the washing machine and it came out velvet smooth? Where the fuck are the basic codes, tags work so that people can CREATE and choose their own environment. So they can feel SAFE, in an environment of their own choosing, at ease with the content they receive but NO these brainrotted doofuses just refuse to keep it in their tags
If you don’t like what you see on a tag or it upsets you for some reason or trauma or ANYTHING IS VALID, you BLOCK IT OUT OF SIGHT OUT OF MIND, it’s gone never even existed, BUT IF THESE PEOPLE KEEP CROSSTAGGIN SHIT AND KEEP POSTING ON THE MAIN TAGS ITS QUITE A HARD THING TO DO AINT IT? You damn sicko, you are upsetting people and also risking you yourself GETTING HATE ON YOUR DMs ON YOUR ASKS AND DAMN RIGHT YOU SHOULD
#yeah this is about all the hate I’ve been seeing on arcane tags#arcane#fandom history#jayvik#caitvi#timebomb#arcane s2#if you can’t keep your mouth shut in places you shouldn’t be talking then sew it up#arcane caitlyn#arcane jinx#arcane vi#arcane Viktor#arcane ekko#arcane Jayce
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got in my bed, feeling really good bc I did a bunch of little tasks on the laptop. like, hell yes? productive queen? put my water reflect light on, thought I’d just stare at the ceiling for a little while and enjoy the patterns. what do I see right as I put my head on my pillow?
a spider.
lowering itself right towards my face. absolutely shat myself, jumped out of bed, thinking?? glad I just shut my laptop down, two more minutes and that think would’ve landed on my hair??!! stood for 15 minutes trying not to cry, immobilised and unable to do anything but stare at it so I know exactly where it is.
remembered I have spider spray in the bathroom.
sprayed the cunt. he froze and fell on my bed. bed forever contaminated now. then he UNFROZE and ran down the back of the bed??? what the fuck was I supposed to do then? he ran back up the bed, just to taunt me. he was laughing at me. I froze the little twat again. was building up the courage to put my hand near it and crush it. then it started twitching. I panicked again and sprayed it more and it rolled off the bed down the back. couldn’t see it for a while, had the bright idea to lie on the floor and look. he had defrosted ONCE AGAIN and was back on his feet. like ok fucking flame on I guess, what are you, a miniature spider furnace? fuck off. I am very close to crying by this stage. so I freeze the fuck out of him for the third? fourth? time, but he’s in the back corner by the wall near the dresser like how the fuck am I supposed to reach my hand in there and crush it with some paper?
anyways I somehow managed to build up the inner strength. I survive. eight-legged cunt did not. bed is forever ruined. water lamp ruined. happiness of accomplishment destroyed. and for what
#one thing about me is I have arachnophobia#like proper arachnophobia not “haha yeah I’m scared of spiders teehee’ arachnophobia#and I don’t wanna hear even a single ‘you shouldn’t kill spiders comment’#I don’t give a fuck#If it comes in my house it dies I literally do not fucking care
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it just really breaks my heart that most of the discourse has to focus on dying children in order to humanize palestinians as if fully grown adult human beings don’t also deserve your attention, empathy, respect, and care
#it’s kind of always been the case as i’ve seen so many post across social media focus on women and children#but like i feel like since the rafah massacre with so many ppl changing the tide and showing more support towards palestine#so many of them are saying like ‘think of the children’#and like ‘my humanity won’t let me stand by and see children get hurt no matter what side’#and it’s like ok yeah but there are innocent teens and adult men and women and older men and women who are also suffering and dying#is your humanity saying fuck you to them or?????#like it’s just so sad that these dying children have to also be the ‘poster child’ for the war#they’ve suffered enough they’re pain shouldn’t have to be displayed in order for you to care#free palestine
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Do you have any SDV hot takes?
Boy do I ever Anon! Thank you for giving me the chance to get on my soapbox about this.
Shane doesn't relapse when he is happily married to the Farmer. The popular "relapse" interpretation is based on faulty assumptions about what substance abuse recovery is supposed to look like and flat-out misreadings of the text of the game.
Shane doesn't "start" drinking again: he never stops, just reduces the amount he drinks. (Unless we are supposed to interpret the phrase "cut back" in the 7 Heart Event as meaning "quit” or "gave up” for some reason. Or if we ignore the new 1.6 dialogue about him drinking less after his 6 Heart event.)
Shane's mess is not a consequence of uncontrolled drinking, but a consequence of his depression and possible under-managed ADHD. His room at Marnie's remains exactly as messy when he's in recovery as it is when he's spiraling, so the drinking has no effect on his cleanliness.
”Okay,” you might say, “but he still shouldn’t drink, and he should pick up his room.” And sure, yeah. Ideally we should all do the same. But that’s not always a fair or realistic expectation for everyone. Not everyone can quit their addictions or bad habits cold turkey. Not everyone is going to be the model citizen. That doesn’t mean they can’t live happy lives. That doesn’t mean they don’t have value. That doesn’t mean Shane doesn’t have value.
So instead of complaining about the ways that Shane fails to measure up to typical adult standards, it may be more productive to ask: is he happy? Is he doing okay?
By any reasonable measure, a married Shane is living his best possible life. He‘s surprised and delighted to be your trophy husband. He doesn’t have to worry about taking a soul-sucking job or struggling with unemployment. His drinking isn’t causing him any problems, and if he can’t keep his personal space clean, at least he doesn’t let his mess spread to the rest of the house. He has his own little coop for Charlie and it’s just adorable to watch him bounce her up and down. He actually makes time for Jas. I am not requiring everyone to love Shane the way he is written, or to make space in their farmhouse for him. But please, have realistic expectations for the character that exists. And do make friends with him. He gives you an OP recipe and access to blue chickens!
#My other hot take is that people shouldn’t install mods that “fix” NPC character flaws#Yeah it bothers me too when Penny pushes George’s wheelchair without consent or when Clint gets on his “Nice Guy” hobbyhorse#But CA gave these characters flaws for a reason#Flaws add interest and depth to characters#Instead of knee jerk rejecting my discomfort with the character’s bad behavior#I can sit with it and reflect on my own behavior and values#And I can recognize the worth even in characters who don’t share my values#Or who don’t change and grow in the “right” way#After all I’m not gonna share all your values#Or always change and grow the way I ought to#But we all gotta live together and give each other a little grace#Anywho those are my hot takes#Thank you for your time#shane stardew valley#stardew valley#media analysis#media criticism#media literacy
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Kusuo “I’m not easily to manage” Saiki vs. Aren “I don’t have to” Kuboyasu
#Kusuo thinking he’s an inconvience not even in a self-hating way. just as a fact of life#and it drives Aren absolutely crazy#‘I don’t MANAGE you. I take care of you. I WANT to take care of you. let me take care of you.’#and for a while Kusuo just flat out doesn’t understand#yeah he gets taken care of—but he shouldn’t have to be#kubosai#saiki k#fluffy cooks a headcanon
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