#cuz the only intersex transfems they like are the afab ones that steal our culture and history and strip it of any of its meaning | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

dreamyintersexouppy · 5 months ago

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all the tme intersex people i used to know suddenly jumping on the newest transmisogynistic bandwagon and immediately spewing all the same “ur just overreacting, you call everything transmisogyny, stop being hysterical!!!” bullshit really puts into perspective how the intersex community on here gained any traction to begin with, y’all are not immune to pulling the same bullshit perisex people do and you’re calling the intersex transfems arguing against you perisex??? just to let afabs pretend to be us so you have that idealized quiet trans woman again, like i’m sorry but this is a strawman on par with “white trans woman” nothing has changed and at some point you need to realize that your conception of what these terms mean just doesn’t reflect their actual rhetorical use in real conversations about queerness

#it’s just so fucking gross to get called perisex by someone i used to think i was in community with #the moment i was outspoken as a transfem #they hide me in one of their boxes and tell me i talk about transmisogyny too much #and like i don’t want pity i shouldn’t have trusted tme people further than i can throw them but like #i didn’t get the confidence and pride to put intersex in my url from nowhere #and yeah i had their same misconceptions at some point i understand how you get there #but i just can’t feel anything but devastatingly sad about yet another community turning on us just cuz a few transmisogynists #made an argument that flattered their egos #intersex transfems never mattered to these people #cuz the only intersex transfems they like are the afab ones that steal our culture and history and strip it of any of its meaning #and then stay quiet so they can be pointed to as ‘proof’#as if dressing up your friend as a made up animal makes it real as long as the costume stays on

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